I'm 25 year old working women. My parents want me to get married and are working on it. I feel like I'm not ready yet. I feel like I need some more time. I tried telling this to my parents, but they say, "as per your age you r ready and once yu get married everything will b fine. Sometimes I feel my parents are correct and sometimes I feel if I listen to them I'm gonna spoil my life and even my partner's life. Due to immense pressure by my parents and over thinking. I've found myself being moody and irritated etc. I wanna control all this. Pls help
Dear lybrate-user ideally 25 is a right age for marriage. Late marriage is d most imp. Factor of pcos and infertility today.
I understand that todays generation and working women think differently. But you r mature enough. I am sure you will think upon it. Ayurvedic medicines and Shirodhara will reduce your irritation ,stress and even help you
in realising what and how is to be done. Kindly consult me personally fr dat.
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Its very common now a days neither your parents are wrong nor you are wrong ,its correct that 25 is the right age for marriage but if still you are not ready then its better that you wait for 1 year and during this time you can makeup your mind for this. Marriage is life time commitment so its decision should not be taken in hurry or in someone's pressure. You can also take help of any professional regarding this .And if still this condition continues then its better that you should avoid this, by thinking on this topic you will gain nothing ,only your frustration level will increase and it will adversely effect your working capacity .share all this with any good friend then you will feel relax. Take care.
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think logically if you feel you are not readfy take time from you parents
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