I want my penis to get erect instantly after I make my wife nude. But it didn't happens. It takes too much time to get erect. & after erecting it get loosen while inserting in vagina. My age is 25. And I am not smoker and drinker. And I do not have any health issue.
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This happens with most of men. You have to learn to get excited and getting her excited too by foreplay like kissing, licking, hugging, touching, caressing, fondling etc. To keep you you erected while inserting, you should be kept being stimulated by your wife, so she also needs to learn to stimulate you while you insert her. You may also get loose after inserting if you don't get stimulation inside and feel pressure of her vagina tightening around your penis. She has to voluntarily tighten her vagina around your penis, so that both of you feel each others intimate touch inside. It would not only stimulate your penis to keep you hard but also block your penile veins so that blood does not drain out of it and it remains rock hard. She also do pelvic exercises (Kagel exercises) several times daily in her relaxing time to make her vagina tight. She may even do while sitting in chair in office for relaxation for 15 minutes. You may also do erecting and holding exercise while taking a bath by rubbing your penis after applying oil or liquid paraffin and try to hold from being ejaculated. It may increase your holding and performance time to about 30 minutes and you would also learn to get erected on touching of your penis even if you are not mentally stimulated. There are medications also that you may take to enhance your erections and prolong your performance time. Sidenafil, tadalafil, vernafil and many more to increase erections. Depoxetine, Fluoxetine, Sertaline, prazocin and many more to increase performance time. You also need to to remove your performance anxiety and inhibitory psychological influences by psychological counseling and training.
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It can be due to over excitement. Try to relax yourself. .concentrate on foreplay and forget all stress..
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