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Hi, I’m a 26 years old woman, married for the last three months. I have had a love marriage and my husband and I love each other immensely. (Though just immediately post marriage we have had some adjustment issues and I had suffered an emotional turmoil, which is now almost gone). Nevertheless, what I wanted to share is that right from the time of my wedding till today I’m mostly averse to physical intimacy. I have just pretended to be aroused and enjoying (in most of the cases) during our physical interactions and we have not have penetration or intercourse, as yet. (We have tried to but as I had experienced excruciating pain, we have not been successful, as yet. To add here, I have never had intercourse, ever in my life). To add on, most of the time I feel lethargic and sleepy and at the same time I’m also having mood swings. I get angry and irritated at the drop of a hat, Additionally, I’m also experiencing hair fall at an alarming rate, and if this continues I will soon become bald. I used to have lustrous, thick mane previously. This is also to inform you that before marriage I was never averse to physical closeness, and this been a recent development. Please help!

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Hello lybrate-user first of all do not stress yourself much. Discuss with your partner about your feeling, discuss with him about the pain, I am sure he ll understand you. Tell him what you like n what you dislike, indulge in foreplay mainly, that way you ll feel aroused n can have pleasurable time with your partner. If you feel pain use jelly or some aroma oil. Check your thyroid n haemoglobin levels for your mood swings, lethargy n hair fall. For hair fall use minotress solution 5% two times per day hair 4 you shampoo regular basis tab ener c 1000 mg, dissolve in a glass of water n hv early morning tab nutricap-s once a day after food. Do 45 min exercise daily, mainly yoga or brisk walk. Hv lots of green vegetables n fresh fruits n juices, include protein rich food in. Your diet. Develop some hobby, n spend your free time in it with your partner to develop emotional bond together. Be happy n enjoy your life thanx.
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