I am 27 years old. I actracted by male. But I do not want that. I want share my sex life with my wife. How to avoid that situation please help me. My cock was not stong oftr seeing girls. I am healthy. Cock size every thing is normal. Some times I sexed with males. How to avoid that please help me.

Dr. Saul PereiraPsychologist47yrs exp

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Something may have gone wrong developmentally to bring about this orientation because you desperately seem to desire sexual relations with your wife without the attraction to males. In that case this can be ideally worked out with a therapist who will see the need to explore your developmental history to source the origins. In the meantime, it is very prudent to understand that sex has many more dimensions than the mere act of physical copulation. There is, besides the physical aspect, the emotional, intellectual, social and even the spiritual dimension to sex. In this context we refer to it as sexuality which has to it femininity and masculinity. In fact all of us have both these aspects to our sexuality, and if a male has developed more of the femininity in him, he is likely to display effeminate traits and may even favor female companions and relations. So a good education of these different aspects and dimensions of sex and sexuality will play a significant role in helping you to determine your orientation and favor the one that is most desirable to you. A sex educationist can help you a lot; and your wish to remain loyal and true to your wife will be happily fulfilled. 

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