Between me and my wife relations are too weak, she don't love me, how can I resolve this dispute.
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Expectations about love and display of the same can vary from person to person. You may consider a certain behaviour as love, your wife may act in ways that according to her could be love. If she has said she does not love you then its another matter. But if you are assuming that she does not love you, then there seems to be a communication gap between the two of you. Take some time out with only her and and explore things that she likes/dislikes. Share what you like/dislike. Talk to each other about your feelings and expectations etc. In doing so do keep respect towards each others preferences and arrive at activities you both enjoy together or do not mind doing together. Have fun and do not be too serious or judgemental. Be flexible. Increase your horizon of acceptance towards each other. Remember both of you are from different family systems with different views of everything, you can use this as a mode of self growth and in doing so both will grow as individuals and as a couple increasing your bond and understanding. If you still find difficulty in bonding then go for couple counselling and with help of the counsellor, find your life together. All the best!
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