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Hello doctor. I'm 28years old woman. Well I got arranged marriage in 2011. It was ended up in divorce in 2012 due to parental interruption on both sides. Till now really don't have a clear clue why my life ended with divorce. Fine. It's all over now. I got second marriage in 2013 december. It was arranged marriage. Now the problem is there are so many misunderstandings between me and my husband. In one word I can he is not a understandable person. He always shouts at me even if I don't make mistakes. Ex: one day he asked me to go to my mom's home since he went out for office work. After he came back, he started shouting at me saying tat why did you go (using bad words. He beats me often without any reasons. He doesn't save money. He spends all his salary for restaurant food and going out (he says he doesn't like my cooking. He doesn't care for me anything. Abruptly he splits words. He hurts me a lot. Many times I had think tat I should have not accepted for divorce and my first husband is far better. Please suggest me how can I overcome this problems. I have talked to my husband many times privately for not to hurt me. No use though. No kids yet. Physically he involves with me good. No problems in sexual life.
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Dear thara, you are living your husband for two years and two years are not at all enough to understand each other. Differences arise because of lack of understanding. You already had spoken to your husband about this. You are doing everything you can to tackle the problem, but your husband is not relenting. I can understand. I need to know more about your husband so as to provide you some tips to manage and change his behavior. Please contact me and provide as many details as possible. I will help you. Don't worry. Take care.
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