I have been sexually active for 7 years now. But I feel my sexual life is quite weird. For years I have been enjoying stimulating my butt hole and insert objects in it. I have gone as far as inserting bottles and my fist. I don't think this is normal but the extreme sexual feelings keep me involved in such acts. I even crossed the limit by asking one of my male friends to have sexual intercourse with me and eventually we did it. I even sucked his sexual parts. I know it sounds weird but such instances have made me question my sexual orientation. Are these symptoms of being gay?

Dr. Surbhi AgrawalGeneral Physician12yrs exp

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Sexual orientation cannot be change and as this is not a disorder, so do not worry about its treatment. But it is commonly associated with anxiety, depression, adjustment disorder, self harm and isolation because of social complication as you must have been facing. As it is not a disorder according to medical science, no treatment available to change orientation. So stop accepting it as an illness and accept yourself as you are naturally. Also be aware of sexually transmitted disease and AIDS as it is very common with homosexuality because of unprotected relations. Final message to you: Do not worry about god given orientation, work on acceptance of your natural sexual orientation and counseling from psychologist in much distress. I hope this information has been both informative and helpful for you. Wish you good health.  

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