Dr. Tejal Kanwar

5 Ways to Make Your Lovemaking Session More Fun

Sex is an act that is supposed to leave you satisfied and happy, but sometimes that’s not the case. This can be due pain or discomfort, stress or low confidence levels. However, by adopting a few simple ways you can enjoy a healthier and a much more satisfying love-making session.

1. Talk between the sheets: This is very important. Your partner wouldn’t know what you’re in the mood of until and unless you tell them. Nobody can read minds. Know each other erogenous zones to know what turns your partner on. When your partner does something you like, or does something you don’t like, you should let them know in order to derive maximum pleasure during sex.

2. Make use of the correct lubricant: This is applicable for women: just as wetness is a part of sex, so is dryness no matter if you’re in the mood or not. Women hardly ever get the 20 minutes of foreplay they need to be properly lubricated before sex. Sometimes factors like childbirth, breastfeeding or menopause can aggravate this situation. So in such cases it is best to use a liquid lubricant that doesn’t cause allergy to you and your partner, and can make sex a smooth and pleasurable activity. Avoid baby oil or body lotions if you’re using a latex condom.

3. Check with your doctor for itching/ burning sensations: If you’re suffering from itching or burning sensations in your privates, then chances are you might be suffering from an infection. If it causes problem in your sex life, then a doctor should be immediately consulted. Sometimes it may just be an allergy to latex or a lubricant. In such cases try switching to a different type of condom and/or lubricant.

4. Explore different things together: A shift in position or a new sex activity can make sex highly enjoyable and exciting, adding that zing that was missing in your sex life. Indulge in role playing, sex toys or even light bondage if you like to spice things up in the bed. Also, keep shifting left, right, up and down in the same sex position to heighten pleasure.

5. Get enough sleep: Getting your fix of 8 hours of sleep is very important for a healthy love making session. Lack of sleep can leave you tired and not in the mood of any sort of sexual activity. It can even lower libido in men and in extreme cases it can lead to sexual dysfunction as well. So rest well to enjoy your private time with your partner.

If negative do not worry. Preferably do this 10 days after your expected date of periods please wait for her periods date for coming month. Do 1 urine pregnancy test for confirmation.

You need some blood tests and for proper advice a detailed history is essential. If you can contact me, we can discuss and treatment can be initiated.

Very rare but wait till you get your next menses n do urine pregnancy test for confirmation of pregnancy if menses don't.come.

It may be bartholin's cyst, visit a gynaecologist for diagnosis, by proper homoeopathic treatment it can be cured.

Precum is rightly called pre-ejaculate or cowper’s fluid ( as it is secreted from cowper’s gland or bulbourethral gland ). It is clear fluid which is discharged during sexual intercourse , foreplay , masturbation. It main function is as lubricant and as acid neutilizer ie. deposition of pre-ejaculate into vagina neutrilizes the vaginal acid environment ( as acid environment is hostile for sperms). Sperm quantity of pre-ejaculate is highly variable but lower than that of semen. Sperms are lower in numbers or can even absent in pre-ejaculate. So chanaes of pregnancy are much lower than that with semen. Thankyou !

Menses usually lasts for 4-5 days, if you had an intercourse at the time of menses there will be no chance of pregnancy. Still if you doubt get a upt kit from chemist and do a test. It will say about the pregnancy.

Ivf baby are healthy babies and also normal genetically. But these foetus also need to undergo screening tests like any other foetus. If the ivf was done because of male factor infertility, and if the male partner had any genetic problem like microdeletion it can occur in the male foetus foetus..

U can try using a lubricant like vaseline or some coconut oil. Still working if problem persists, it might be dyspaurenia due to vaginitis (vaginal infection).

Dear lybrate user if you restrict yourself to oral sex only repeat oral sex only, definitely there is no chance of pregnancy.