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V Care Polyclinic

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Psychologist Clinic

204, V Care Polyclinic, La Magasin, Above Roop Kala S.V.Road, Santacruz West Mumbai
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V Care Polyclinic   4.5  (239 ratings) Psychologist Clinic 204, V Care Polyclinic, La Magasin, Above Roop Kala S.V.Road, Santacruz West Mumbai
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Our goal is to offer our patients, and all our community the most affordable, trustworthy and professional service to ensure your best mental health....more
Our goal is to offer our patients, and all our community the most affordable, trustworthy and professional service to ensure your best mental health.
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V Care Polyclinic is known for housing experienced Psychologists. Ms. Dipal Mehta, a well-reputed Psychologist, practices in Mumbai. Visit this medical health centre for Psychologists recommended by 87 patients.

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MA - Clinical Psychology, P.G. Diploma in Guidance and Counseling, BA In Psychology
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Stress and anxiety problem. Head keeps on aching. Some times heart beats increases. Sleeping problem.

MA - Clinical Psychology, P.G. Diploma in Guidance and Counseling, BA In Psychology
Psychologist, Mumbai
Stress and anxiety problem. Head keeps on aching. Some times heart beats increases. Sleeping problem.
All this is due to anxiety only. To overcome that please seek counselling or therapies that will help you. Start meditation and start walks in fresh air. Need to find what kind of anxiety you are facing. Consult professional.
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I have lots of anger and very big ego. When I am talking I Sweating. And I always think negatively. I want to think positive but could not. It is happening from 13 years. I am 21. I can't concentrate in work. When I am working I thinking flash back in my brain. I always think past and future. Please help me. Should I go to psychologist. Should I need therapy. What is my problem.

MA - Clinical Psychology, P.G. Diploma in Guidance and Counseling, BA In Psychology
Psychologist, Mumbai
Yes you should go to consult Psychologist. Sweating can be due to anxiety. Regarding your past problems metaphor therapy works very good. For further assistance please book appointment online here or opt for appointments at clinic. Dipal Mehta counsellor Psychologist Metaphor Therapist Consciousness healer.
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Dyslexia - 9 Signs That Your Kid is Suffering from it!

MA - Clinical Psychology, P.G. Diploma in Guidance and Counseling, BA In Psychology
Psychologist, Mumbai
Dyslexia - 9 Signs That Your Kid is Suffering from it!

Raising a child with dyslexia can stir up a lot of emotions. You may look ahead and wonder if this learning issue will affect your child's future. But dyslexia is not a prediction of failure. Dyslexia is quite common, and many successful individuals have dyslexia.

Research has proven that there are different ways of teaching that can help people with dyslexia succeed. There's a lot you can do as a parent too.


 

What are the symptoms of dyslexia?

Because dyslexia affects some people more severely than others, your child's symptoms may look different from those in another child. Some kids with dyslexia have trouble with reading and spelling. Others may struggle to write or to tell left from right.

Dyslexia can also make it difficult for people to express themselves clearly. It can be hard for them to structure their thoughts during conversation. They may have trouble finding the right words to say.

Others struggle to understand what they're hearing. This is especially true when someone uses nonliteral language such as jokes and sarcasm.

The signs you see may also look different at various ages. Some of the warning signs for dyslexia, such as a speech delay, appear before a child reaches kindergarten. More often, though, dyslexia is identified in grade school. As schoolwork gets more demanding, trouble processing language becomes more apparent.


 

Here are some signs to look out for:

  1. Warning Signs in Preschool or Kindergarten

  2. Has trouble recognizing the letters of the alphabet

  3. Struggles to match letters to sounds, such as not knowing what sounds b or h make

  4. Has difficulty blending sounds into words, such as connecting C-H-A-T to the word chat

  5. Struggles to pronounce words correctly, such as saying 'mawn lower' instead of 'lawn mower'

  6. Has difficulty learning new words

  7. Has a smaller vocabulary than other kids the same age

  8. Has trouble learning to count or say the days of the week and other common word sequences

  9. Has trouble rhyming


 

Warning Signs in Grade School or Middle School

  1. Struggles with reading and spelling

  2. Confuses the order of letters, such as writing 'left' instead of 'felt'

  3. Has trouble remembering facts and numbers

  4. Has difficulty gripping a pencil

  5. Has difficulty using proper grammar

  6. Has trouble learning new skills and relies heavily on memorization

  7. Gets tripped up by word problems in math

  8. Has a tough time sounding out unfamiliar words

  9. Has trouble following a sequence of directions


 

Warning Signs in High School

  1. Struggles with reading out loud

  2. Doesn't read at the expected grade level

  3. Has trouble understanding jokes or idioms

  4. Has difficulty organizing and managing time

  5. Struggles to summarize a story

  6. Has difficulty learning a foreign language


 

Skills that are affected by Dyslexia:

Dyslexia doesn't just affect reading and writing. Here are some everyday skills and activities your child may be struggling with because of this learning issue:


 

General:

  1. Appears bright, highly intelligent, and articulate but unable to read, write, or spell at grade level.

  2. Labelled lazy, dumb, careless, immature, "not trying hard enough," or "behavior problem."

  3. Isn't "behind enough" or "bad enough" to be helped in the school setting.

  4. High in IQ, yet may not test well academically; tests well orally, but not written.

  5. Feels dumb; has poor self-esteem; hides or covers up weaknesses with ingenious compensatory strategies; easily frustrated and emotional about school reading or testing.

  6. Talented in art, drama, music, sports, mechanics, story-telling, sales, business, designing, building, or engineering.

  7. Seems to "Zone out" or daydream often; gets lost easily or loses track of time.

  8. Difficulty sustaining attention; seems "hyper" or "daydreamer."

  9. Learns best through hands-on experience, demonstrations, experimentation, observation, and visual aids.


 

Vision, Reading, and Spelling Skills:

  1. Complains of dizziness, headaches or stomach aches while reading.

  2. Confused by letters, numbers, words, sequences, or verbal explanations.

  3. Reading or writing shows repetitions, additions, transpositions, omissions, substitutions, and reversals in letters, numbers and/or words.

  4. Complains of feeling or seeing non-existent movement while reading, writing, or copying.

  5. Seems to have difficulty with vision, yet eye exams don't reveal a problem.

  6. Extremely keen sighted and observant, or lacks depth perception and peripheral vision.


 

Reads and rereads with little comprehension:

  1. Spells phonetically and inconsistently.

  2. Hearing and Speech Skills

  3. Has extended hearing; hears things not said or apparent to others; easily distracted by sounds.

  4. Difficulty putting thoughts into words; speaks in halting phrases; leaves sentences incomplete; stutters under stress; mispronounces long words, or transposes phrases, words, and syllables when speaking.


 

Writing and Motor Skills:

  1. Trouble with writing or copying; pencil grip is unusual; handwriting varies or is illegible.

  2. Clumsy, uncoordinated, poor at ball or team sports; difficulties with fine and/or gross motor skills and tasks; prone to motion-sickness.

  3. Can be ambidextrous, and often confuses left/right, over/under.

  4. Math and Time Management Skills

  5. Has difficulty telling time, managing time, learning sequenced information or tasks, or being on time.

  6. Computing math shows dependence on finger counting and other tricks; knows answers, but can't do it on paper.

  7. Can count, but has difficulty counting objects and dealing with money.

  8. Can do arithmetic, but fails word problems; cannot grasp algebra or higher math.


 

Memory and Cognition:

  1. Excellent long-term memory for experiences, locations, and faces.

  2. Poor memory for sequences, facts and information that has not been experienced.

  3. Thinks primarily with images and feeling, not sounds or words (little internal dialogue).

  4. Behavior, Health, Development and Personality

  5. Extremely disorderly or compulsively orderly.

  6. Can be class clown, trouble-maker, or too quiet.

  7. Had unusually early or late developmental stages (talking, crawling, walking, tying shoes).

  8. Prone to ear infections; sensitive to foods, additives, and chemical products.

  9. Can be an extra deep or light sleeper; bedwetting beyond appropriate age.

  10. Unusually high or low tolerance for pain.

  11. Strong sense of justice; emotionally sensitive; strives for perfection.


 

What can be done at home for dyslexia?

Helping your child with dyslexia can be a challenge, particularly if you're never been confident in your own reading and writing skills. But you don't have to be an expert to help work on certain skills or strengthen your child's self-esteem.

Keep in mind that kids (and families) are all different, so not all options will work for you. Don't panic if the first strategies you try aren't effective. You may need to try several approaches to find what works best for your child. Here are some things you can try at home:

  • Read out loud every day

  • Tap into your child's interests

  • Use audiobooks

  • Look for apps and other high-tech help

  • Focus on effort, not outcome

  • Make your home reader-friendly

  • Boost confidence


 

What can make the journey easier?

Dyslexia can present challenges for your child and for you. But with the proper support, almost all people with dyslexia can become accurate readers. Your involvement will help tremendously.

Wherever you are in your journey, whether you're just starting out or are well on your way, this site can help you find more ways to support your child. Here are a few things that can help make the journey easier:

  • Connect with other parents. Remember that you're not alone. Use our safe online community to find parents like you.

  • Get behavior advice. Parenting Coach offers expert-approved strategies on a variety of issues that can affect children with dyslexia, including trouble with time management, anxiety and fear, frustration and low self-esteem.

  • Build a support plan. Come up with a game plan and anticipate what lies ahead.

Understanding dyslexia and looking for ways to help your child is an important first step. There's a lot you can do just don't feel you have to do everything all at once. Pace yourself. If you try a bunch of strategies at the same time, it might be hard to figure out which ones are working. And do your best to stay positive. Your love and support can make a big difference in your child's life. If you wish to discuss about any specific problem, you can opt for appointments at clinic or online over here.

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I have a bf it has been 2 years of our relationship. I am a very open person I love to talk and little kiddish I love to pull his legs.In front of friends I teased him like You can't do anything in your life. Etc and many more things I said. You know as example - we went out with two mutual friends of us we were having food and I just whispered to him that why he is paying the total amount of food. TAnd he feel like I humiliated him, and drone his prestige. He says I I am only here to drone his prestige. Is it so? He told me he is wasting time to stay with me. I had faced lots of problems in my life which I have never expressed I feel guilty for all this. I feel very much alone. Crying while typing all this but I feel better after sharing can you please help me? Should I walk away from him so that he can live happily? What should I do?

MA - Clinical Psychology, P.G. Diploma in Guidance and Counseling, BA In Psychology
Psychologist, Mumbai
I have a bf it has been 2 years of our relationship. I am a very open person I love to talk and little kiddish I love...
Most importantly you need to understand that man has too much ego when you keep on insulting someone on regular basis they are going loose patience some time. May that was not your intention but you have done the harm. Think about it infct speak to him that is he really serious about what he told. And you make sure you will not make fun of anyone who is close to you in future also. For further assistance please book appointment online here.
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My homeopathy doctor examined and told me that I'm having health anxiety through which I get difficulty in my breath. Can somebody please tell me is it actually anxiety which is causing shortness of breath or any order lung disorder? About a year ago I had all tests but everything was normal. I'm afraid if it's asthma what can I do during breathing problem without a inhaler? Your help would be greatly appreciated. Thank you :)

MA - Clinical Psychology, P.G. Diploma in Guidance and Counseling, BA In Psychology
Psychologist, Mumbai
My homeopathy doctor examined and told me that I'm having health anxiety through which I get difficulty in my breath....
Yes anxiety can cause breathlessness. Your way of speaking shows your high level of anxiousness. Please consult counsellor or psychologist and seek help.
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Issues and Treatments Related to Mental Health

MA - Clinical Psychology, P.G. Diploma in Guidance and Counseling, BA In Psychology
Psychologist, Mumbai
Issues and Treatments Related to Mental Health

As most of the economies over the world become industrialized, the quality of life increases, but with it comes a plethora of mental health problems. Especially in a country like India, the rapid industrialization and the expansion of opportunities has seen a rise in the number of people afflicted by mental health disorders. Some of the common mental health issues and their treatment methods are discussed here-

Common Mental Health Issues

  1. Depression – Depression is a very serious issue that affects a significant part of the population. It is not only a public health concern but also a fast spreading problem in the world. Although depression related to stress is on the rise, it could happen due to chemical imbalances within the brain as well.

  2. Anxiety Disorder – While stress and anxiety tend to be a part of your daily life, over time, it could build up and end up being a disorder. Symptoms of frequent panics or anxiety could build up to become anxiety and panic disorders wherein you would be constantly under stress due to external situations such as social anxiety or have panic disorders.

  3. Schizophrenia – This problem is caused within the brain due to neurochemical issues and causes paranoia, hallucinations, frightfulness and distorted thought patterns. This is a major psychiatric disorder and requires extensive treatment.

  4. Eating Disorders – These disorders are marked by problems of eating which in turn affect your health adversely. These disorders are caused by mental issues and are primarily of three types; Binge eating disorder, anorexia (obsession over what one’s eats) and Bulimia (binge eating and then purging to avoid putting on weight).

  5. Bipolar Disorder – A very common mental disorder, this mental problem entails uncontrollable mood swings from happy (at times, euphoric) to sad in a short span of time or alternating phases of feeling ecstatic and often exhibiting reckless behavior to being severely depressed. This is a serious issue and can even result in suicidal tendencies.

  6. Substance Abuse and Addiction Problems – Another effect of stress is the increasing dependence on drugs and alcohol which in turn becomes a pattern and thus may cause problems in your life as you start using these substances to escape reality.

Common Mental Health Treatments-

Many people diagnosed with mental illness achieve strength and recovery through participating in individual or group treatment. There are many different treatment options available. There is no treatment that works for everyone – individuals can choose the treatment, or combination of treatments, that works best. Do consult a doctor before choosing one-

  1. Psychotherapy – The treatment of mental problems provided by a mental health counselor through dedicated sessions over a period of time is one of the most effective ways of countering problems. Psychotherapy explores thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, and seeks to improve an individual’s well-being. Psychotherapy paired with medication is the most effective way to promote recovery.  

  2. Medication – This is the most common form of therapy that aims to reduce the chemical imbalances within the brain, either through oral pills or through injections.

  3. Support Groups – This is especially good as getting to talk to similar people and sharing experiences with them help in reducing the isolation, thus helping them vent out repressed emotions and connect with like -minded people.

  4. Residential Treatments – Effective in cases of drug or other forms of addiction as well as problems which require conditioning, hospitals and other residential treatment facilities such as a rehab center are used extensively to treat these along with other problems.

  5. Treatment through stimulation of the brain – There are many newer treatments which are proving to be effective by stimulating the neurotransmitters that help correcting imbalances within the brain. If you wish to discuss about any specific problem, you can consult a psychologist and ask a free question.
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Excessive Use of Mobile Phones in Children

MA - Clinical Psychology, P.G. Diploma in Guidance and Counseling, BA In Psychology
Psychologist, Mumbai
Excessive Use of Mobile Phones in Children

The most advanced and effective communication device in this century is mobile phone. Mobile phone is not only being used by the corporate or highly qualified professional. People from all type of social group have mobile phone in their hands now. Usage of the mobile phone is not increased only with all social groups but also with people of all age groups. Children are the more noticeable group as they are using cell phones of all types. A recent research study shows that children are really capable of using any advanced type of mobile phones even without any proper guidance. Though mobile phones are the effective mode of communication, it is a well known fact that it also has adverse side effects if being over used. The mobile phones emit shockwave radioactive radiations that affect the body in various manners.

Adverse effects of mobile phone usage:

Today's children are growing up in a radio-frequency environment that never existed in human history before. The radiation emitted by mobile phones and mobile phone masts can have adverse effects on children. Some include:

  1. Affects your Immunity Status: cell phones after a full day usage contains many germs on their display which are highly numbered than your toilet seats. These germs are easily transferred to your body as you touch frequently or use close to your face for talking. This increases the risk of exposure to the germs and reduces your immune strength as immune status are not fully developed for children.
  2. Increase Risk of Chronic Pains: prolonged use of mobile phones for playing games or texting requires continuous movement for your hands which may develop chronic pain in joints of your shoulders and hands.
  3. Vision Problem: children when concentrate much on playing games in mobile phone they even fail to blink frequently with the increased interest and attraction towards the game. This causes the dryness of the conjunctiva and also increases the ocular tension.
  4. Affects your emotions negatively and increases the stress level

Mobile Phone Safety For Kids:

As a parent, you must take preventive measures to minimize your child's exposure to the harmful effects of mobile phones. These include:

  • Do not give cell phone if your child is under 16 years. A child's brain is too sensitive to withstand the effects of mobile radiation.
  • Do not let your child hold a mobile phone directly up to his head. Use an air-tube headset instead.
  • Do not let your child make calls in buses, trains, cars, and elevators. The mobile phone works harder to get the signal out through the metal, which increases the power level.
  • Do not let your child use cell phone when the signal is weak. It will increase the power to the maximum, as the phone attempts to connect to a new relay antenna.
  • Limit the use of cell phone around children.
  • Make sure that there is no mobile phone mast or network tower near your home or your kid's school.
  • Do not let children take mobile phones to school.
  • Do not leave mobile phones in your children's bedroom at night.

If you wish to discuss about any specific problem, you can consult a doctor and ask a free question.

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I am 27 years old and female. I am very in depressed becas of my first love break up. I can't forget him. Becas of this I am feeling so lonely, depressed, sometime I thought to get suicide, I am very short tempered. Doing any wrong things with myself to relief from this pain. What should I do? I have a headache, body pain. And so much things giving so disturbed life. please help me.

MA - Clinical Psychology, P.G. Diploma in Guidance and Counseling, BA In Psychology
Psychologist, Mumbai
I am 27 years old and female. I am very in depressed becas of my first love break up. I can't forget him. Becas of th...
You are going through depressive state of mind because of separation. Remember this is not the end of the life. You hv lots to see in life. Try to motivate your self find the aim of life and work towards that. You are 27 rather then wasting your time behind unsuccessful relation invest your time and energy in something fruitful. Try to be social meet people.
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She is not thinking like which is right which is wrong, she has not capable of analyzing any one, if she feels happy no expression, and if sad do not expressed, there is no link body to mind. please suggest.

MA - Clinical Psychology, P.G. Diploma in Guidance and Counseling, BA In Psychology
Psychologist, Mumbai
She is not thinking like which is right which is wrong, she has not capable of analyzing any one, if she feels happy ...
You have not mentioned age or her status so difficult to answer. But she needs to get evaluated properly by Psychologist. So please seek help. For further assistance please book appointment online here.
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I need to understand why people always think and get depressed when they get downgraded Also want to understand how to over come.

MA - Clinical Psychology, P.G. Diploma in Guidance and Counseling, BA In Psychology
Psychologist, Mumbai
I need to understand why people always think and get depressed when they get downgraded Also want to understand how t...
Positive thinking and being optimistic is very important in life. With this one should have motive in their life. That will push person to starv for better tomorrow. One can lift themselves by starting meditation or counselling if not able to help ownselves. For further assistance please book appointment online here.
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I have always fight with my gf. So I am mostly depressed. What should I do to overcome from this?

MA - Clinical Psychology, P.G. Diploma in Guidance and Counseling, BA In Psychology
Psychologist, Mumbai
I have always fight with my gf. So I am mostly depressed. What should I do to overcome from this?
Need to find the reasons for fights. Improve on interpersonal relationship. Communication is best for expressing your feelings. Talk to her try to resolve issues between you both. Book online appointment here will be able to help you in better ways.
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I lost someone very special last year. I prefer to stay alone thereafter, please help me out.

MA - Clinical Psychology, P.G. Diploma in Guidance and Counseling, BA In Psychology
Psychologist, Mumbai
I lost someone very special last year.
I prefer to stay alone thereafter, please help me out.
Opt for counselling near you or book online appointment here. If it is hampering your self too much. Or then time is best healer give your self time. Don't stay aloof. Try and do things that you enjoy. Life is very beautiful do your best.
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Please suggest some ways to manage anger in teenagers. Who are otherwise sensible but speak very violently in rage.

MA - Clinical Psychology, P.G. Diploma in Guidance and Counseling, BA In Psychology
Psychologist, Mumbai
Please take teenager to counsellor before its gets worse. They explain things to him. Proper knowledge is important. And need to find the issues that make him angry.
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TENSION HEADACHES

MA - Clinical Psychology, P.G. Diploma in Guidance and Counseling, BA In Psychology
Psychologist, Mumbai
TENSION HEADACHES

Most people experience tension/ stress related headache.
Some experience migrane headache.
In headache most imp thing to do is relax and take some time out for your self.
Try to find the root source of it and get rid of it.

 

 

 

Dipal mehta
Counsellor,

Psychologist,

Metaphor therapist,

Consciousness healer
 

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Hi some time specially when im tensed or depressed I feel like I wanna to cry. And I dnt know the reason y im so sad. Is this kind of psychological disorder or it is normal And I dnt sleep properly I have too much of dreams specially sad ones What should I do to have sound sleep.

MA - Clinical Psychology, P.G. Diploma in Guidance and Counseling, BA In Psychology
Psychologist, Mumbai
Hi some time specially when im tensed or depressed I feel like I wanna to cry. And I dnt know the reason y im so sad....
Try voice notes for sound sleep. Start meditation. Avoid using cell phone before going to sleep atleast an hour before. Read books. Crying in not bad but without reason is worry some. Need to know more details about you so I can able to help you in better way.
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My mother is having treatment from a psychiatrist for last 2.5 months for depression. Now she is having burning sensation in mouth, chest hands back. Not sleeping at all. Lack of vision in eyes. She says she will not get well now.

MA - Clinical Psychology, P.G. Diploma in Guidance and Counseling, BA In Psychology
Psychologist, Mumbai
My mother is having treatment from a psychiatrist for last 2.5 months for depression. Now she is having burning sensa...
These can be side effects of medicines or she must not be drinking enough water. Keep hydrate. U have not specify why she started with medication no other details also provided by u. But if she will keep positive attitude she will be better soon. Along with medication please opt for counselling too that will help her to overcome faster.
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Why Children Get Bored At School.

MA - Clinical Psychology, P.G. Diploma in Guidance and Counseling, BA In Psychology
Psychologist, Mumbai

Why our children are so bored at school, cannot wait, get easily frustrated and have no real friends*

I am counsellor and psychologist with 14 years of experience working with children, parents, and teachers. I completely agree with this teacher's message that our children getting worse and worse in many aspects. I hear the same consistent message from every teacher I meet. Clearly, throughout my 14 years as counsellor, I have seen and continue to see a decline in kids' social, emotional, academic functioning, as well as a sharp increase in learning disabilities and other diagnoses.

Today's children come to school emotionally unavailable for learning and there are many factors in our modern lifestyle that contribute to this. As we know, the brain is malleable. Through environment we can make the brain stronger or make it weaker. I truly believe that with all our greatest intentions, we unfortunately remold our children's brains in the wrong direction. Here is why

1. Technology
free babysitting service the payment is waiting for you just around the corner. We pay with our kids' nervous system, with their attention, and ability for delayed gratification. Compared to virtual reality, everyday life is boring. When kids come to the classroom, they are exposed to human voices and adequate visual stimulation as opposed to being bombarded with graphic explosions and special effects that they are used to seeing on the screens. After hours of virtual reality, processing information in a classroom becomes increasingly challenging for our kids because their brains are getting used to the high levels of stimulation that video games provide. The inability to process lower levels of stimulation leaves kids vulnerable to academic challenges. Technology also disconnects us emotionally from our children and our families. Parental emotional availability is the main nutrient for child's brain. Unfortunately, we are gradually depriving our children from that nutrient.

2. Kids get everything they want the moment they want
i am hungry! in a sec I will stop at drive thru i am thirsty! here is a vending machine. i am bored! use my phone! the ability to delay gratification is one of the key factors for future success. We have all the greatest intention in mind to make our children happy, but unfortunately, we make them happy at the moment but miserable in a long term. To be able to delay gratification means to be able to function under stress. Our children are gradually becoming less equipped to deal with even minor stressors which eventually become huge obstacles to their success in life.
The inability to delay gratification is often seen in classrooms, malls, restaurants, and toy stores the moment the child hears no because parents have taught theirchild's brain to get what it wants right away

3. Kids rule the world
my son doesn't like vegetables she doesn't like going to bed early he doesn't like to eat breakfast she doesn't like toys, but she is very good at her ipad he doesn't want to get dressed on his own she is too lazy to eat on her own. This is what I hear from parents all the time. Since when do children dictate to us how to parent them? if we leave it all up to them, all they are going to do is eat macaroni and cheese, bagel with cream cheese, watch tv, play on their tablets, and never go to bed. What good are we doing them by giving them what they want when we know that it is not good for them? without proper nutrition and a good night's sleep, our kids come to school irritable, anxious, and inattentive. In addition, we send them the wrong message. They learn they can do what they want and not do what they don't want. The concept of need to do' is absent. Unfortunately, in order to achieve our goals in our lives, we have to do what's necessary which may not always be what we want to do. For example, if a child wants to be an a student, he needs to study hard. If he wants to be a successful soccer player, he needs to practice every day. Our children know very well what they want but have very hard time to do what is necessary to achieve that goal. This results in unattainable goals and leaves the kids disappointed.

4. Endless fun
We created an artificial fun world for our children. There are no dull moments. The moment it becomes quiet, we run to entertain them again because otherwise we feel that we are not doing our parenting duty. We live in two separate worlds. They have their fun world and we have our work world. Why aren't children helping us in the kitchen or with laundry? why don't they tidy up their toys? this is basic monotonous work that trains the brain to be workable and function under boredom which is the same muscle that is required to be eventually teachable at school. When they come to school and it is time for printing, their answer is i can't. It is too hard. Too boring why? because the workable muscle is not getting trained through endless fun. It gets trained through work.

5. Limited social interaction
We are all busy, so we give our kids digital gadgets and make them busy too. Kids used to play outside, where in unstructured natural environments, they learned and practiced their social skills. Unfortunately, technology replaced the outdoor time. Also, technology made the parents less available to socially interact with their kids. Obviously, our kids fall behindthe babysitting gadget is not equipped for social skill development. Most successful people are the ones who have great social skills. This is the priority!

The brain is just like a muscle that is trainable and re-trainable. If you want your child to be able to bike, you teach him biking skills. If you want your child to be able to wait, you need to teach him patience. If you want your child to be able to socialize, you need to teach him social skills. The same applies to all the other skills. There is no difference!
You can make a difference though in your child's life by training your child's brain so that your child will successfully function on social, emotional, and academic levels. Here is how:

1. Limit technology, and instead re-connect with your kids emotionally
Surprise them with flowers, share a smile, tickle them, put a love note in backpack or under their pillow, surprise them by taking them out for lunch on a school day, play together, have eat together s, go biking,

2. Train delay gratification

Make them wait! it is ok to have i am bored  time  this is the first step to creativitygradually increase the waiting time between i want and i getavoid technology use in cars and restaurants, and instead teach them waiting while talking and playing gameslimit constant snacking

3. Don't be afraid to set the limits. Kids need limits to grow happy and healthy!
Make a schedule for meal times, sleep times, technology timethink of what is good for them- not what they want/don't want. They are going to thank you for that later on in life. Parenting is a hard job. You need to be creative to make them do what is good for them because most of the time that is the exact opposite of what they wantkids need breakfast and nutritious food. They need to spend time outdoor and go to bed at consistent time in order to come to school available for learning the next day! convert things that they don't like doing/trying into fun, emotionally stimulating games

4. Teach your child to do monotonous work from early years as it is the foundation for future workability

Folding laundry, tidying up toys, hanging clothes, unpacking groceries, setting the table, making lunch, unpacking their lunch box, making their bedbe creative. Initially make it stimulating and fun so that their brain associates it with something positive.

5. Teach social skills

 Teach them turn taking, sharing, losing/winning, compromising, complimenting others, using please and thank you
From my experience as counsellor, children change the moment parents change their perspective on parenting.

Dipal mehta 
Child counsellor 
Psychologist 
Metaphor therapist 
Bar and body process practitioner.

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I having sleeping problem I do not get enough sleep when ever I am sleeping I got very bad dreams. Dead peoples appear in my dream and I can not even sleep before 3-4 am I try my best that now I sleep even if I am tired also than also mujhe nind jldi nahi aati and aati bhi hai toh tut jati.

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Psychologist, Mumbai
I having sleeping problem I do not get enough sleep when ever I am sleeping I got very bad dreams. Dead peoples appea...
Please start meditation and do deep breathing excersise just before sleep. Hv lukewarm milk before sleep. Maintain schedule for your sleep. Avoid watching TV or using cell phone 1 hour before your sleep time. Read books or listen soft music before sleeping. It will sooth your mind. For further assistance please book appointment online. Or opt for appointments at clinic. Dipal Mehta counsellor Psychologist Metaphor Therapist Consciousness healer.
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Simple Tricks and Tips to Manage Anxiety and Insomnia

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Simple Tricks and Tips to Manage Anxiety and Insomnia

Insomnia or sleeplessness is quite difficult to cope with and for people suffering from anxiety, it is even tougher. People suffering from anxiety remain in a state of mental and physical distress. On top of this, if they cannot sleep well because of insomnia, life becomes quite hard. Insomnia causes anxiety and also is caused due to anxiety.

Here are some simple tips to manage anxiety and insomnia:

  1. Maintain a schedule: Try to go to bed at the same time every night and wake up at the same time every morning. Experiment with several different bedtimes and wake up times to find out which one works best for you.
  2. Turn off electronic devices: Switch off all electronic devices thirty minutes before you go to bed. Electronic devices stimulate your mind and the light from the devices does not make you feel that it is time to sleep. Keep the devices away from you while going to bed.
  3. Dim lights: Practice dimming all lights in your house before bedtime. Change light bulbs and replace them with low wattage lights. This will enable you to have lights, although they are dim. Low lighting will make your body produce melatonin to make you prepare for sleep.
  4. Keep away from alcohol and smoking: Consuming alcoholic drinks before bedtime reduces your quality of sleep and you may wake up within two hours. Do not consume alcohol before bedtime. Smoking should be restricted before sleeping, as the nicotine contained in cigarettes is a stimulant, which can take away your sleep.
  5. Ignore caffeinated drinks: Caffeine is a stimulant and consuming caffeinated drinks before going to bed can result in losing sleep. Do not drink coffee before sleeping.
  6. Exercise: Exercise is a perfect solution to reduce anxiety and results in improved sleep quality. Exercise regularly during the day or three to four hours before bedtime. Yoga and meditation performed just before going to sleep are effective.
  7. Make a pre-sleep ritual: Try to find ways, which would help you calm your mind just before going to sleep and practice it every day. This can be reading a book, taking a hot shower or listening to your favorite songs. Your mind will be relaxed, and you will get better sleep.
  8. Maintain a sleep journal: Keep a sleep journal and write about the time when you go to sleep and when you wake up. Also note down the time you require to fall asleep, the number of times your sleep breaks and how your sleep was. This will enable you to observe your sleep patterns and make adjustments.

For people suffering from anxiety, added insomnia results in enhanced difficulty. One should cope with the problems properly and try to improve upon them.

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I am feared in delivering speech in a group of people, meeting means specific crowd fobia. What is the medicine for get rid of the emotional disease?

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I am feared in delivering speech in a group of people, meeting means specific crowd fobia. What is the medicine for g...
Lybrate user why medicines? Counselling with cbt or imaginative technique will best in your kind of cases. Consult a counsellor near you. Or join public speaking classes that will help too. Dipal Mehta counsellor Psychologist Metaphor Therapist Consciousness healer.
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