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My favorite part of being a doctor is the opportunity to directly improve the health and wellbeing of my patients and to develop professional and personal relationships with them....more
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I had sex on the 9 th of July. The condom broke and took plan b 3 hours later. Period expected on the 3rd of august Still did not come and it is the 13th Am I pregnant? Or just paranoid So worried!

I had sex on the 9 th of July. The condom broke and took plan b 3 hours later. Period expected on the 3rd of august S...
If your periods are regular then you should check with urine pregnancy kit available in medical shop. If it shows positive with two red lines then you will be clear with your results of pregnancy.
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Recently, since 3-4 days I am having pain sometimes in my left testicle. Kindly, give me your feedback. I am a 20yr old male student pursuing engineering.

MBBS
General Physician, Cuttack
It may be orchitis.Take paracetamol1 tablet 2-3 times daily after food.give hot fomentation locally and take rest. If there is swelling consult doctor
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Severe Pain During Sex - Know the Reasons Behind it

MBBS, DPM, DNB (Psychiatry)
Sexologist, Mumbai
Severe Pain During Sex - Know the Reasons Behind it

Severe pain during intercourse causes difficulty in a relationship in both partners. Sometimes a sustained occurrence of pain might be an indication of some serious medical dysfunction. As such, consult a doctor as soon as the pain arises. Contrary to popular beliefs, sexual pain can occur in both male and female.

In female, the reasons behind the painful sexual intercourse might be:

  1. Vaginismus, a condition when the vaginal muscles tighten up mainly due to anxiety or fear and causes significant pain with a tearing sensation.

  2. The pain can arise due to vaginal infection due to yeast or any form of sexually transmitted disease or pelvic inflammatory diseases.

  3. A severe injury in the vagina during childbirth or any other accident and psychological stress can also cause severe pain during sex.

  4. Sometimes, uterine or menopause problems (formation of fibroids in the uterus) can also cause pain.

  5. Cyst formation in the ovary or endometriosis (when the inner tissue lining of the uterus tends to grow outside) can also cause severe pain during intercourse.

Among men:

  1. Some men can experience pain during intercourse because of allergy to the fluids of the vagina or the chemical content of certain contraceptives.

  2. You can experience pain because of undiagnosed sexually transmitted diseases like herpes or gonorrhea

  3. The pain might also occur due to urinary tract infections or side effects from certain medications.

  4. Severe pain just a few moments before ejaculation can be a result of inflammation of the prostate glands and should be immediately diagnosed as it might be a signal of prostate cancer.

For treating pain during sex in female, you should opt for the following procedures

  1. If the pain is caused due to vaginal dryness after menopause, you should consider the application of prescribed lubricants or jellies to reduce the pain.

  2. If the pain occurs due to severe anxiety or stress, sex therapy can help you improve physical intimacy.

  3. If there are other symptoms like severe bleeding or irregular periods in addition to the pain, a visit to the physician is recommended.

Quite similarly in men

  1. If the pain occurs due to severe anxiety or stress, sex therapy can help you improve physical intimacy.

  2. If the pain results from side effects of certain medications, you should try changing your prescribed medication after doctor’s suggestion.

  3. In extreme cases, the doctors might suggest hormone replacement surgery.

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Iam 28 years old. Working in bangalore. My problem is related to sperm. For me sperm is releasing more before the love starts. Iam trying to control but its squeezing more. I need to control and to have long sex what should I do?

BAMS, MD Ayurveda
Sexologist, Lonavala
Iam 28 years old. Working in bangalore. My problem is related to sperm. For me sperm is releasing more before the lov...
as per your concern i would suggest you to do following remedy Natural home remedy using almonds, cow's milk, ginger powder, cardamom and saffron: Saffron is a mild aphrodisiac 1. Soak 10 almonds in water overnight 2. Peel off the skin and crush them the next morning 3. Take 1 cup hot cow's milk 4. Add the crushed almonds 5. Add a pinch of ginger powder 6. Add a pinch of cardamom powder 7. Add a pinch of saffron 8. Mix well 9. Drink this every morning if it dosent work then you must consult ayurveda doctor, They will surely help you.
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My pennis is too small and thin and night fall which type of treatment to use. Any Ayurveda pills to use this problem please tell me sir and daily once handpump 8 years my age 22 years. No drink and smoke only cool drinks.

PhD SEXUAL MEDICINE, DGO, MBBS
Sexologist, Ahmedabad
My pennis is too small and thin and night fall which type of treatment to use. Any Ayurveda pills to use this problem...
Nightfall is normal. Size of penis does not matter, function matters. You need to focus on healthy life Style, healthy food, regular exercise and positive thinking. Relax. Do not worry. More then 5 CMs size of penis is enough to satisfy a female. Do not compare your penis with porn star.
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I used to masturbate a lot during my school days and even today once a week due to which my sperm comes out quickly within 1 minutes and sometimes while watching porn my sperm comes out automatically without masturbating. My penis size is also small. So pls suggest me measure so that I can improve my sperm holding capacity and also increase my penis size.

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
I used to masturbate a lot during my school days and even today once a week due to which my sperm comes out quickly w...
You are asking about premature ejacaulation Ejaculation of semen during sexual intercourse before or immediately after penetration. Premature ejaculation occurs when a man ejaculates sooner during sexual intercourse than he or his partner would like. Premature ejaculation is a common sexual complaint. Estimates vary, but as many as 1 out of 3 men say they experience this problem at some time. As long as it happens infrequently, it's not cause for concern. The primary symptom of premature ejaculation is the inability to delay ejaculation for more than one minute after penetration. However, the problem may occur in all sexual situations, even during masturbation. Premature ejaculation can be classified as lifelong (primary) or acquired (secondary). Lifelong premature ejaculation occurs all or nearly all of the time beginning with your first sexual encounters. Acquired premature ejaculation has the same symptoms but develops after you've had previous sexual experiences without ejaculatory problems. Many men feel that they have symptoms of premature ejaculation, but the symptoms do not meet the diagnostic criteria for premature ejaculation. Instead these may have natural variable premature ejaculation, which is characterized by periods of rapid ejaculation as well as periods of normal ejaculation. Psychological causes Some doctors believe that early sexual experiences may establish a pattern that can be difficult to change later in life, such as: •Situations in which you may have hurried to reach climax in order to avoid being discovered •Guilty feelings that increase your tendency to rush through sexual encounters Other factors that can play a role in causing premature ejaculation include: •Erectile dysfunction. Men who are anxious about obtaining or maintaining an erection during sexual intercourse may form a pattern of rushing to ejaculate, which can be difficult to change. •Anxiety. Many men with premature ejaculation also have problems with anxiety — either specifically about sexual performance or related to other issues. •Relationship problems. If you have had satisfying sexual relationships with other partners in which premature ejaculation happened infrequently or not at all, it's possible that interpersonal issues between you and your current partner are contributing to the problem. Biological causes A number of biological factors may contribute to premature ejaculation, including: •Abnormal hormone levels •Abnormal levels of brain chemicals called neurotransmitters •Abnormal reflex activity of the ejaculatory system •Certain thyroid problems •Inflammation and infection of the prostate or urethra •Inherited traits •Nerve damage from surgery or trauma (rare) Common treatment options for premature ejaculation include behavioural techniques, topical anaesthetics, oral medications and counselling. Keep in mind that it may take a little time to find the treatment or combination of treatments that will work for you. Behavioural techniques In some cases, therapy for premature ejaculation may involve taking simple steps, such as masturbating an hour or two before intercourse so that you're able to delay ejaculation during sex. You may try avoiding intercourse for a period of time and focusing on other types of sexual play so that pressure is removed from your sexual encounters. You can also try diverting your mind before ejaculation is ready to come and proceeding after a brief break, thereby prolonging duration of intercourse / action The pause-squeeze technique You and your partner can use of a method called the pause-squeeze technique. This method works as follows: 1.Begin sexual activity as usual, including stimulation of the penis, until you feel almost ready to ejaculate. 2.Have your partner squeeze the end of your penis, at the point where the head (glans) joins the shaft, and maintain the squeeze for several seconds, until the urge to ejaculate passes. 3.After the squeeze is released, wait for about 30 seconds, then go back to foreplay. You may notice that squeezing the penis causes it to become less erect, but when sexual stimulation is resumed, it soon regains full erection. 4.If you again feel you're about to ejaculate, have your partner repeat the squeeze process. By repeating this as many times as necessary, you can reach the point of entering your partner without ejaculating. After a few practice sessions, the feeling of knowing how to delay ejaculation may become a habit that no longer requires the pause-squeeze technique. Topical anaesthetics Anaesthetic creams and sprays that contain a numbing agent, such as lidocaine or procaine, are sometimes used to treat premature ejaculation. These products are applied to the penis a short time before sex to reduce sensation and thus help delay ejaculation. A lidocaine spray for premature ejaculation is available Although topical anaesthetic agents are effective and well-tolerated, they have potential side effects. For example, some men report temporary loss of sensitivity and decreased sexual pleasure. In some cases, female partners also have reported these effects. In rare cases, lidocaine or procaine can cause an allergic reaction. Oral medications Many medications may delay orgasm. Although none of these drugs is specifically worthwhile as people believe, approved medications may be prescribed for either on-demand or daily use, and may be prescribed alone or in combination with other treatments to treat premature ejaculation, some are used for this purpose, including antidepressants, analgesics and phosphodiesterase-5 inhibitors, like Sildenafil or Tadalafil You can consult me on this site if you want prescription for these tablets with your full health details.
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There's a very dominating problem by which I am suffering from. I don't know why but when I talk to girls a fluid comes out from my private part. It has been going from approx. 5-7 days. What should I do?

Advanced Aesthetics
Ayurveda, Gulbarga
There's a very dominating problem by which I am suffering from. I don't know why but when I talk to girls a fluid com...
Nightfall is the uncontrolled ejaculation of semen during sleep. This is generally caused by sexual arousal and orgasm from dreams. Night fall or nocturnal emission is completely normal for males during teenage and early adult years. When boys enter puberty, there occur a lot of hormonal changes. These changes can result in spontaneous erections during sleep or, during the day and nocturnal emissions. These are simply a part of normal development. Causes of night fall discharge the exact cause of night discharge is not known. Some individual think that night discharges are the direct result of the stimulation caused by either dreams or memories of waking sexual activities. However, there has been little experimental evidence to support this theory, and many men claim to have had night discharge without e. Rotic dreams. Another common theory is that wet dreams are the way the body through away excess of semen, while scientifically it is not proved. Night discharge provides a kind of physiological safety valve for sexual tension. For treatment and any queries ask privately
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Which foods and medicines improves good quantity of semen at the age of 56 years old man.

BHMS
Homeopath, Sindhudurg
Which foods and medicines improves good quantity of semen at the age of 56 years old man.
Take in plenty of mineral zinc. It's associated with increased semen volume, sperm count, and testosterone levels. Take in about 11mg daily, which you can get by eating walnuts, beans, oysters, beef, and chicken . Take in amino acids, as supplements or in food. homoepathic treatment increase sperm count and quality. .
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My friend is 19 years old. But he hasn't masturbated yet. He watches porn. His penis erects. But never urges to masturbate. His nocturnal emissions occurs about once a week. Is this normal?

MBBS, DIiploma in Yoga and Ayurveda, Diploma In Dermatology And Venerology And Leprosy (DDVL), PGDPC
Sexologist, Pune
My friend is 19 years old. But he hasn't masturbated yet. He watches porn. His penis erects. But never urges to mastu...
It's normal wet dream or masturbation.Please avoid all excess or bad habits. Please cultivate good and natural habits
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I am 21 year old and I am loosing interest in sex completely what to do plzz tell?

MBBS
Sexologist, Panchkula
I am 21 year old and I am loosing interest in sex completely what to do plzz tell?
You are losing interest in sex. I advise you to take proper balanced vegetarian diet. Take plenty of water to detoxify body. Take fruits and vegetables in daily diet. Do meditation for mental strength daily. Follow this and give feedback.
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I am 42 year old male and I am known diabetic person and mostly my sugar very from 110 to 140 in fasting I have an erection problem since last 10 years pls suggest is this problem can be rectify or cure. Please suggest me what expected time frame and how it cure.

BMS
Ayurveda,
I am 42 year old male and I am known diabetic person and mostly my sugar very from 110 to 140 in fasting I have an er...
hi rajesh we think diabeties means just increase in sugar level, that's it... no never wrong diabetes is one of danger illness facing many Indians today... over looking your age and weight, seems you have type one diabetes... diabetes can damage nerve and peripheral blood vessels and also damage microcellular functions... better you follow ayurvedic treatment...
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How I should take viagra? I should take it directly or should crush it & mix it in milk? How much time before having sex I should take viagra?

MB, BS. M.D
General Physician, Hyderabad
How I should take viagra?
I should take it directly or should crush it & mix it in milk?
How much time before having ...
Any time, better to take 1 hour before you want to have sex. Directly you can take it with water. Works for 24- 36 hours, it is always better in old people than a young chap like you.
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Can numerous fibroids and an enlarged uterus cause bladder prolapse? Why does my gynecologist think my bladder bulging into my vaginal canal is a fibroid even after I was sent to a urologist for stress incontinence issues?

BHMS PGCGO
Homeopath, Hubli-Dharwad
Can numerous fibroids and an enlarged uterus cause bladder prolapse? Why does my gynecologist think my bladder bulgin...
yes. bulky uterus may lead to cystocele which mean prolapse of bladder in vagina. due to age you may have this effect. do pelvic floor excessie to increase strength of it.
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Hello sir I am 33 years old male married person. My problem is sex. I have got small panis and my wife is not enjoy sex with me. I am doing sex for very short time and early discharge.

MD, Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surgery (BAMS)
Ayurveda, Pune
This is happening due to improper nutrition of penis and insufficiency of hormones. You need ayurvedic tablets to increase time and dimensions of penis so that sex will last for more time and it will be enjoyable to both of you. Just let me know your height and weight so as to arrive at perfect prescription.
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I am 25 years, male, Unmarried and bit worried about my pleasure life! Whether I'll B able to satisfy my would be or what else?

MBBS
General Physician, Jalgaon
I am 25 years, male, Unmarried and bit worried about my pleasure life! Whether I'll B able to satisfy my would be or ...
Please To increase your stamina and to strengthen penis.. Stop masturbation totally Wake up early go for jogging daily DO yogasanas and pranayam daily Do perineal exercises daily Take Damiaplant by W shwabe Homeopathic medicine 15 drops in 50 ml water twice a day for 3 months
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What should be the minimum foreplay and intercourse time for a man between 25 - 30 years of age?

MBBS, D.P.H
General Physician, Gurgaon
What should be the minimum foreplay and intercourse time for a man between 25 - 30 years of age?
It varies from individual to individual but in the majority spend 5 to 9 minutes on foreplay and 10 to 14 minutes on sex.
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I have a problem when I am talking with my wife little bit of romance (sex) in mobile. Something like water or gel is coming from my pennis. Is this is a problem. How can I cure this.

DHMS (Hons.)
Homeopath, Patna
I have a problem when I am talking with my wife little bit of romance (sex) in mobile. Something like water or gel is...
Hello, It shows that of sweet conjugal relationship with your wife and while talking with her ,U are preoccupied with affairs, u have enjoyed with your wife,being over excited, secretion of viscid fluid from your genital-part is established. Its, normal. take, care..
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At my age of 24 guys tend to masturbate a lot. Does masturbating twice or thrice a week may result in hair fall?

B.H.M.S
Homeopath, Lucknow
At my age of 24 guys tend to masturbate a lot. Does masturbating twice or thrice a week may result in hair fall?
Mr arpit u loose protien through semen so excessive loss may lead to hair fall dark circle around eyes .control ur self focus on ur carrier . Whereas masturbating once afotnight may not affect your health.
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My girlfriend is pregnant one month but she don't want a child. what can be done to solved this problem.

MD - Obstetrtics & Gynaecology
Gynaecologist, Mumbai
My girlfriend is pregnant one month but she don't want a child.
what can be done to solved this problem.
If pregnancy is within 7 weeks it can be aborted with medicines only. For which you need to consult a gynecologist who wil prescribe you with medicines for abortion. If it is beyond 7 weeks of pregnancy then it has to be aborted surgically, again with the gynecologist.
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