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Dr. Mirja Pande is a popular Psychologist in West Marredpally, Hyderabad. You can consult Dr. Mirja Pande at Hmj Psycho Astro And Legal Counselling in West Marredpally, Hyderabad. Book an appointment online with Dr. Mirja Pande on Lybrate.com.

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Is there any food which can be included in daily meals to cure and avoid depression and keep family away from any such bad incidence of depression I mean work as detterant to depression for entire family for lifetime.

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
Is there any food which can be included in daily meals to cure and avoid depression and keep family away from any suc...
Good foods for this are Fatty fish (anchovy, mackerel, salmon, sardines, shad, and tuna) Flaxseed. Canola and soybean oils. Nuts, especially walnuts. Dark green, leafy vegetables.
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I am very depress, my college about to end and I will lot my one friend, I always thing about it, I am very sad, I can not do anything without her what should I do for remove my depression.

DHMS (Diploma in Homeopathic Medicine and Surgery)
Homeopath, Ludhiana
I am very depress, my college about to end and I will lot my one friend, I always thing about it, I am very sad, I ca...
How can you say that you will lose her.She might also be feeling same .Just talk to her regarding your concern and try to excel in your carrier.Thiss is the time to be serious regarding your carrier and achieve heights that will urely boost your confidence andd your gf will always think high about you.Make depression your power and dont wate your timeandenergy on such useless issues.This is your time for implementation of your goal in life rather thn to sit and feel depressed.Always put one thing in your mind that everybody ssalutes ariing star and no body cares for a loser and Harshita is not a loser.
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I am very tense and depression. I want to marry with my love but family not agree because I have 2 room in my house and I am trying to get a better job. I don't want to live without her.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
I am very tense and depression. I want to marry with my love but family not agree because I have 2 room in my house a...
If you want to live with her, then get a better job and accommodation. That is a very reasonable ask, really. Anyway, you are way too young to think of marriage and even if you do so now, you must make proper plans. Ideally, you must get everyone's support too. By the time you grow up some, you may change your mind about a lot of things. If after a few years of working,earning, saving, getting better accommodation you can decide if this is your true love. Talk to the girl and if she agrees with what I am saying, I am sure you will do the sensible thing. Both of you must be on the same page about your future. With time even your family members may change their mind. So, be patient and in the meantime get things done.
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Hi I wanna know 1 thing and that is if any good people always get angry on small things (matters) and due to this he or she sometimes also abuse to his elders then is this signifies that he or she is not good people?

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear Lybrate user. I can understand. Anger and aggression are emotions and it is quite normal everyone get angry. The person should make sure that he should not get overwhelmed by his anger and abuse others. Take care.
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Don't Like Studying Maths - Can Your Child Be Suffering From Dyscalculia?

Diploma in Psychological Medicine, Doing Post Diploma MD, MBBS
Psychiatrist, Ludhiana
Don't Like Studying Maths - Can Your Child Be Suffering From Dyscalculia?

At a young age, it is fairly common to be afraid of math. The rational nature of numbers, multiplication tables, addition, subtraction and all that in between can admittedly be a tough thing to get on with at a tender age. But in most of the cases, this difficulty tends to improve as one attains maturity. This can be attributed to a growing familiarity with the subject and a subsequent change in the way of understanding certain things. But if your child suffers from a problem with understanding math even at a grown age, chances are he/she might be suffering from Dyscalculia- a special type of learning disorder that is characterized by a person’s inability to grasp the concepts of math or the very concept of numbers itself.

Dyscalculia generally occurs due to genetic factors. However, it is also possible to encounter this disorder if your child had suffered from significant brain injury in the past or have problems with remembering things. It is also possible to have this disorder, if your child is already suffering from Dyslexia ( a learning disorder which makes your child unable to read or understand written words).

The symptoms of Dyscalculia are as follows:

  1. Inability to recognize numbers and significant trouble while counting.
  2. Significant problems while performing basic additions, subtractions or divisions.
  3. Facing problems with how to use money or telling time.
  4. The problem with memorizing mathematical formulae or tables.
  5. Your child might be unable to discern exactly how to approach a math problem.
  6. Your child will be increasingly reluctant to go to a math class or feel tensed before math examinations.
  7. Inability to understand the basic functionality of numbers.

It is extremely important to remember that having this disorder does not necessarily mean your child has a bad academic record on the whole. Since this disorder can cause significant problems in the future for your child in terms of dealing with things in the real world, you should be extremely sensitive regarding its treatment.

The treatment of Dyscalculia might include:

  1. You should encourage your child more and more if they tend to get immensely frustrated with their math problems. If possible, try to help your child with his/ her homework.
  2. Strike a healthy relationship with your child. Make him realize that not being able to grasp the concept of numbers is not the end of the world. Explore his other skills. That might boost his lost confidence and might encourage him to approach math in a more efficient manner.
  3. You should try to make your child learn how to tell time or use money with little home exercises. If possible, try to make him learn the basic of math with daily activities like counting the number of flowers while walking down the streets.
  4. You must consult a specialist who will make your child learn numbers by following different modes other than writing. For example, the specialist might read a math problem to your child in order to make him understand the problem. Consult an expert & get answers to your questions!
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Hello doctor, I am arrange married. I have a past love and we had sex with each other for many times. But due to some reasons we broke ourselves. I married another girl. Almost 10 months but still I coundnt able to forgot my ex and her memories esp the sex scenes we had in past. So that I can't able to involve myself completely to my wife. I am acting. Esp during intercourse, my tongue slips to spell my ex's name. I m struggling. I know past is the past we can't get back it. But I don't know how emote, hope you understood what am trying to say? Please show me some way. Please rescue me otherwise I may lose my wife and life.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
Hello doctor, I am arrange married. I have a past love and we had sex with each other for many times. But due to some...
If you treasure your wife that much that you don't want to lose her, then it is a good sign. You must first of all consciously get that girl out of your mind, especially during sex, and her memory will slowly atrophy. Then it is important to explore a variety of sexual poses and acts that will be new and different to make your experience with your wife rather unique and highly pleasureful. If you seek the guidance of a sexologist he may help you along the way with different approaches but the person may also help you with all he five factors involved with the act: physical, emotional, intellectual, social, and spiritual. This multi-dimensional approach will be wholesome and very gratifying and bring a lot of adventure into your sex life. Your history will fade away into oblivion, forever.
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Sir I have a sex problem ,I can not control my sex, eVen after seeing my mother, my sex is come in a huge, why sir please tell me I am very very upset.

B.Sc(Hons) Mumbai Univ., ND, MD - Alternate Medicine, Aroma Therap., Bach Flower Rem, Mental Health Cert.
Alternative Medicine Specialist, Mumbai
Sir I have a sex problem ,I can not control my sex, eVen after seeing my mother, my sex is come in a huge, why sir pl...
Hi I will prescribe some harmless but effective flower remedy available in homoeopathy shops. Try to buy original medicines. Mix 3 drops of olive + 3 drops of hornbeam + 3 drops of white chestnut mix these with 100 ml water and drink it every morning and night.(same dose) on empty stomach.
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Hello Doctor, I am 22 years old boy 1 years ago I faced a shock in my life that lead me to depression. Psychiatrist advised me some medicine. I took for 15 days but after 15 days a local doctor advised me to give up that medicine as I could be addicted to it. In starting it was very tough to cover up my muscle muscle pain but Now after 1 years my life is almost alright. But still some times I feel restless for 1-3 minutes that's also very minor. I think I have recovered 90% depression as my muscle pain is almost gone . Am I doing right.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
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I am 22 years old boy
1 years ago I faced a shock in my life that lead me to depression. Psychiatrist a...
The muscle pain may not have anything to do with the depression. Anyway since it has improved that is fine. With regards to the depression you must go and meet with a counselor immediately and if that person advises that you meet with a doctor you must do so and cooperate to your utmost. Please visit these professionals along with your parents. In the meantime please do the following sincerely because you could resolve the problem better with good cooperation: Have a good night’s sleep, have a good breakfast of more proteins, meditate often, remain free of stress, eat a lot of fiber, nuts, avocado, exercise regularly, eat dark chocolate, do Yoga meditation exercises, etc. I suggest you do the opposite of what this depression makes you feel like doing (actually, not doing): you will need to fight this condition. You must become active; stay upright during the daylight time; meet people; never sleep during the day, wake up by 6 am every day, play some active games, especially contact games, do physical exercises, talk to people and join some social clubs, attend Yoga classes etc. Watch sitcoms on TV or comedies and cheer yourself up. Go for excursions in groups, for outings, camps, conferences, and religious conventions. Get a pet dog and spend time training it, exercising it and relating to it. Expose yourself to some sunlight every day, at least, 30 minutes but not in the scorching heat. Whatever happens, please incorporate these three important adaptations in your life: always be responsible, be respectful, and be functional. If you did these three, lots of things will go well in life. Please pray and have faith in God to alleviate your sufferings. Don'€™t wait for others to help. Use your own motivation, which might be at its lowest, but persevere and win this battle. Above all to be really happy, you need to live in love and for love. Learn all about emotions and how to handle them and that will get you out of the depression rather easily and quickly. A counselor is there only to facilitate you, all the hard word must come from you, and your cooperation with that person is very critical for your success. Be positive every day and learn to be contented with what you have. Do some left brain exercises: it is the happy brain. Here are a few suggestions: shut your left nostril and breathe, move your eyes from right to left and vice versa for at least half a minute at a time, and do callisthenic exercises with some form of counting, regularly. Whatever happens please cooperate with the therapy and do not discontinue until the condition is completely resolved.
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I am a smoking person. For last 1 year. Is ma body affected well or not? How can I stop this tendency?

BHMS
Homeopath, Faridabad
Hello. Smoking causes about 9 out of 10 of all lung cancer deaths in men and women. -Smokers are more likely than nonsmokers to develop heart disease, stroke, and lung cancer. -Smoking can cause cancer almost anywhere in your body (Bladder, Blood (acute myeloid leukemia), Cervix, Colon and rectum (colorectal), Esophagus, Kidney and ureter, Larynx, Liver, Oropharynx (includes parts of the throat, tongue, soft palate, and the tonsils), Pancreas, Stomach, Trachea, bronchus, and lung. -Smoking can make it harder for a woman to become pregnant and can affect her baby's health before and after birth. -Smoking can also affect men's sperm, which can reduce fertility and also increase risks for birth defects and miscarriage. -Smoking can affect bone health. -Smoking affects the health of your teeth and gums and can cause tooth loss. -Smoking is a cause of type 2 diabetes mellitus and can make it harder to control. -Smoking causes general adverse effects on the body, including inflammation and decreased immune function. -Nicotine (which is present in cigarette) stimulates the release of dopamine, norepinephrine, serotonin, and acetylcholine, all of which have been linked to wakefulness, and blood nicotine levels of smokers are highest at bedtime. Thus, smokers spent more time in light sleep and less time in deep sleep. Medication: Take homoeopathic medicine which will help you to get rid of your habit of smoking and it’s side-effects. Schwabe's Daphne Indica/ thrice daily for 3 months. After a month, report back to me.
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Living life with depression

Masters of Philosphy, Master of Science, Bachelor of Sciences
Psychologist, Kolkata
Living life with depression
Develop supportive relationships

Isolation and loneliness make depression even worse, so maintaining your close relationships and social activities are important.

1. Turn to trusted friends and family members.

2. Try to keep up with social activities even if you don't like it.

3. Join a support group for depression.

Take care of yourself

In order to overcome depression, you have to take care of yourselfs. This includes-

1. Aim for 8 hours of sleep.
2. Expose yourself more to sunlight everyday.
3. Keep stress in check.
4. Practice relaxation techniques.

Challenge negative thinking

Negative thinking leads to dangerous consequences like self harm and low confidence. Ways to challenge negative thinking:

1. Think outside yourself.
2. Socialize with positive people.


Get regular exercise.

When you are depressed, exercising may be the last thing you feel like doing. But exercise us a powerful tool for dealing with depression:

1. Take the stairs rather the elevator.
2. Park your car in the farthest spot in the lot.
3. Do some gardening.
4. Pair up with an exercise partner.
5. Walk while you're talking on the phone.

Aim for a balanced diet of low fat protein, complex carbohydrates, fruits and vegetables.

1. Don't skip meals.
2. Minimize sugar and refined carbs.
3. Focus on complex carbohydrates like lentils, skimmed milk.
4. Boost your b vitamins like whole grains, potatoes, bananas, lentils.
5. Try super foods such as bananas.
6. Alcohol/ tobacco acts as a depressant on the brain. If you drink too much or too often, you are more likely to become depressed.
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BHARAT JYOTI, MRACGP, INCEPTOR, MD-PhD, MD - Psychiatry, FIPS, Fellow of Academy of General Education (FAGE), DPM, MBBS
Psychiatrist, Bangalore
The 5 Stages of Loss and Grief

The 5 Stages of Loss and Grief The stages of mourning and grief are universal and are experienced by people from all walks of life. Mourning occurs in response to an individual’s own terminal illness, the loss of a close relationship, or to the death of a valued being, human or animal.
In our bereavement, we spend different lengths of time working through each step and express each stage with different levels of intensity. The five stages do not necessarily occur in any specific order. We often move between stages before achieving a more peaceful acceptance of death. Many of us are not afforded the luxury of time required to achieve this final stage of grief.

The death of your loved one might inspire you to evaluate your own feelings of mortality. Throughout each stage, a common thread of hope emerges: As long as there is life, there is hope. As long as there is hope, there is life.

Many people do not experience the stages in the order listed below, which is okay. The key to understanding the stages is not to feel like you must go through every one of them, in precise order. Instead, it’s more helpful to look at them as guides in the grieving process — it helps you understand and put into context where you are.

All, keep in mind — all people grieve differently. Some people will wear their emotions on their sleeve and be outwardly emotional. Others will experience their grief more internally, and may not cry. You should try and not judge how a person experiences their grief, as each person will experience it differently.

1. Denial and Isolation

The first reaction to learning of terminal illness or death of a cherished loved one is to deny the reality of the situation. It is a normal reaction to rationalize overwhelming emotions. It is a defense mechanism that buffers the immediate shock. We block out the words and hide from the facts. This is a temporary response that carries us through the first wave of pain.


2. Anger

As the masking effects of denial and isolation begin to wear, reality and its pain re-emerge. We are not ready. The intense emotion is deflected from our vulnerable core, redirected and expressed instead as anger. The anger may be aimed at inanimate objects, complete strangers, friends or family. Anger may be directed at our dying or deceased loved one. Rationally, we know the person is not to be blamed. Emotionally, however, we may resent the person for causing us pain or for leaving us. We feel guilty for being angry, and this makes us more angry.

Remember, grieving is a personal process that has no time limit, nor one “right” way to do it.
The doctor who diagnosed the illness and was unable to cure the disease might become a convenient target. Health professionals deal with death and dying every day. That does not make them immune to the suffering of their patients or to those who grieve for them.

Do not hesitate to ask your doctor to give you extra time or to explain just once more the details of your loved one’s illness. Arrange a special appointment or ask that he telephone you at the end of his day. Ask for clear answers to your questions regarding medical diagnosis and treatment. Understand the options available to you. Take your time.

3. Bargaining

The normal reaction to feelings of helplessness and vulnerability is often a need to regain control–

If only we had sought medical attention sooner…
If only we got a second opinion from another doctor…
If only we had tried to be a better person toward them…
Secretly, we may make a deal with God or our higher power in an attempt to postpone the inevitable. This is a weaker line of defense to protect us from the painful reality.


4. Depression

Two types of depression are associated with mourning. The first one is a reaction to practical implications relating to the loss. Sadness and regret predominate this type of depression. We worry about the costs and burial. We worry that, in our grief, we have spent less time with others that depend on us. This phase may be eased by simple clarification and reassurance. We may need a bit of helpful cooperation and a few kind words. The second type of depression is more subtle and, in a sense, perhaps more private. It is our quiet preparation to separate and to bid our loved one farewell. Sometimes all we really need is a hug.


5. Acceptance

Reaching this stage of mourning is a gift not afforded to everyone. Death may be sudden and unexpected or we may never see beyond our anger or denial. It is not necessarily a mark of bravery to resist the inevitable and to deny ourselves the opportunity to make our peace. This phase is marked by withdrawal and calm. This is not a period of happiness and must be distinguished from depression.

Loved ones that are terminally ill or aging appear to go through a final period of withdrawal. This is by no means a suggestion that they are aware of their own impending death or such, only that physical decline may be sufficient to produce a similar response. Their behavior implies that it is natural to reach a stage at which social interaction is limited. The dignity and grace shown by our dying loved ones may well be their last gift to us.

Coping with loss is a ultimately a deeply personal and singular experience — nobody can help you go through it more easily or understand all the emotions that you’re going through. But others can be there for you and help comfort you through this process. The best thing you can do is to allow yourself to feel the grief as it comes over you. Resisting it only will prolon
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I know I overeat at meals, but I can't help it. If I limit my portions, I'm hungry an hour later. How can I avoid overeating and have better control of my appetite? My stomach aches, thought it becomes fine in a day, but still it pains regularly, what to do?

BHMS
Homeopath, Chennai
I know I overeat at meals, but I can't help it. If I limit my portions, I'm hungry an hour later. How can I avoid ove...
Hello take Homoeopathic medc Lycopodium 30 power 3-3 pills 4 times a day... Continue for 15 days Any queries pls ask thanks
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Sir, I am very very lack of intelligent, kindly suggest me how I develop my intelligent.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear, intelligence is your knowledge. Memory and mind power consists of understanding, storing and recollection of information you learn. Understanding depends on concentration. The more creative you are on doing tasks or reading, the more you understand. Storage and recollection depends on your understanding and how well you review what you have learned. Repetition and review of material learned and other tasks provides easy recollection. You can improve your concentration and total brain power with the help of green leafy vegetables, exercise, creative activities, number puzzles like sudoku etc. Hard work is the key to learning and recollection. Post a private question to me and I shall provide you more tips. Take care.
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I am 18 years old. I am not able to learn my syllabus or un able to study. please tell me some tips to help me to overcome this problem.

M. sc Psychology, BHMS
Homeopath, Hyderabad
Mr, now in this age, the reason for unable to focus on studies might be due to any deviations, attractions, which is common in this age, or any family issues, or any lack of interest in subjects, or not able to nderstand the concept. If you r aware of any of these, then, its in your hands, to avoid thinking abt those issues, taking any assistance from friends/lecturers who can help you better in explaining, or go to group studies. Practice pranayama/meditation daily morning/evening or night, to avoid stress, & to improve concentration over studies. If you feel that you r getting more strained by studying, try to take break, get engaged in any other your interested games/hobbies/activities like reading other books, listening sngs, chatting with friends, family members etc, t get relaxed & then again you go t study again. ** try to take brahmi lehyam[ayurveda-1 spoonful]] or, aswagandha mother tincture [homeo. 15-20 drops in 1/4th cup of luke or normal water]daily twice m/n to imrove memory.
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I am smoking since last 15 years, now I want quit smoking, kindly help how to quit smoking.

MD - Homeopathy, BHMS
Homeopath, Vadodara
Hi Subhash... You must know about the nicotine chewing gum... With that you can start homoeopathic treatment...... You may take Caladium 6C tds
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I have a stammering problem for a long time please consult me Any general solution please.

Master of Hospital Administration, Bachelor of Audiology & Speech Language Pathology (B.A.S.L.P)
Speech Therapist, Gurgaon
dear utkarsh , speech therapy(fluency therapy) z best management for stammering...so go for it as soon as possible....dont delay ....consult with me in private lybrate for a detailed evaluation of yo prblm
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I'm obsessed nowadays with one of the lady colleague working with me. Sometimes I feel I'm sexually attracted to her though we both r married n have a child. How do I overcome from this situation?

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
I'm obsessed nowadays with one of the lady colleague working with me. Sometimes I feel I'm sexually attracted to her ...
Sex thoughts, Sex addiction, masturbation addiction, porn films addiction etc comes under behavior addiction. Behavioral addiction is a form of addiction that involves a compulsion to engage in a rewarding non-drug-related behavior – sometimes called a natural reward – despite any negative consequences to the person's physical, mental, social or financial well-being. Behavior addiction needs to be curbed or controlled using your own self will power. Diverting your mind and body away from the circumstances which compels you for the addictive habit, with the help of physical exercises, games, entertainment etc can help you. Never sleep alone. Be always with your family even at night etc are some other tips. Willpower is the key always. Behavioral therapy also works well. Take care.
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