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Dr. Bindu Menon

Post Graduation in Psychology

Psychologist, Hyderabad

Dr. Bindu Menon Post Graduation in Psychology Psychologist, Hyderabad
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Dr. Bindu Menon is a trusted Psychologist in Banjara Hills, Hyderabad. She has done Post Graduation in Psychology . You can consult Dr. Bindu Menon at Reva Health And Skin in Banjara Hills, Hyderabad. Book an appointment online with Dr. Bindu Menon on Lybrate.com.

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Wife suffers from mood swings, turns abusive and even violent at times. She is 45 years and has ben diagnosed with menorragia.

Fellow Observership, Certificate in Forensic Psychology, MD-Psychiatry, MBBS
Psychiatrist, Akola
hello Dear friend, thanks for the query. Are these abusive behaviors & mood swings present always or occur in episodes? Since how many months or years is this problem present? I think its a psychiatric illness. Do get back with information I asked. Regards
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I have a lot of anger management issues. Any suggestions? Can my diet affect it too?

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
Diet may have some effect but not much. At your age, this development is quite significant because during this time there will be a spurt in the production of the male sex hormone, testosterone, which has a duration of two years. Due to this chemical alone, there are three identified features that present itself over which you will have poor control: you will be sexually active, aggressive and rebellious, and you will have acne and pimple problems. Then if you have unresolved childhood issues, they will compound the situation and fuel uncontrolled behavior. Please remember that you may not be aware of all this. Your anger is probably related to some deep rooted anger that you are carrying from your childhood. It is probably being provoked further by a spurt in the production of the male hormone testosterone, mentioned earlier. After that, it will subside and stabilize. Discuss with your parents whether they are aware of anything that might have provoked this anger from your childhood. Then either by yourself or along with your parents do meet with a counselor and discuss the same. The counselor will educate you about emotions and help you develop skills to express your anger in appropriate ways. You need anger management classes but you also need to know of its origins. Exercise is a very good way to expend the energy of anger so that it is under some control. But it still needs to be expressed. With regard to expression, it is better if you just spoke about it and gave it vent. No physical action of violence is acceptable and definitely, you should not treat your parents to any kind of aggression. Even if your anger is justified, violence is not the way. Finally, if you are a spiritual person, it is possible to hand over your anger to God to deal with it for you: it works really well.
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Hello doctor, I'm very much attracted to girls but I'm really afraid to talk to them. Even a very casual touch makes me go crazy about them. I feel extremely excited even when they stand near me. How to overcome this? Is this a kind of social phobia? Help me. Thank you.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear. I understand your concerns. I went through the details. You are correct. Afraid to talk to ladies, feeling crazy with even a casual touch, excitement while standing near to girls etc are symptoms of social phobia which happens during adolescent period. You should also understand this type fo social phobia is normal, common and can be treated 100% with the help of counseling and psychotherapy. I request you to consult a psychologist for the above. As an interim measure, you should stop worrying about this. I hope this answer satisfies you. I am available for further clarifications. Take care.
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What happens if I drink alcohol continuously for a week ?will there be side effect of this

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear lybrate user. I can understand. Alcohol is poison. A single drop of alcohol even damages liver cells. Please quit smoking. Take care.
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I get nervous soon. I can not even approach to a girl properly. I start sweating. Dats d reason I think I have less friends. I am scared to show my best. I keep on hiding myself. I am sick and tired. I always think of doing great things. Which I am capable of. But my laziness pulls me back. I presently stay alone away from home and I am doing my vfx course. I feel helpless, alone and depressed. I need help to built up myself.

psychologist
Psychologist, Delhi
Dear Lybrate user No one is perfect in this world Everyone get nervous at some point of life ,some get nervous during Exam, Some get nervous during fights, Some get nervous in front of teachers it only depends on our approach, so its natural phenomenon But it does't mean that it cannot be change ,as I mentioned earlier it depends on your approach only. Think anyone as, as human whether boy or girl. When you approach to any girl think that she is also like you don't give extra importance to this topic, its time to focus on your career ,when you will be good in your career then you will get confidence automatically, practice to talk with yourself in front of mirror it will increase your confidence, motivate yourself, set some topics for everyday and try to complete your topic in the given time it will boost your confidence as well as will help to complete your course. You can take help of any counsellor regarding this ,if you need my help you can contact me .good luck.
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Due to stressed I am not able to sleep and not even memorised any thing properly. Is there any way to stable memory power coz I am prepare for civil service exams. I'll try many things already but didn't get any positive results yet. What is proper way to keep myself free from stressed.

DHMS (Diploma in Homeopathic Medicine and Surgery)
Homeopath, Ludhiana
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Hello, im married 32 years of age with 2 kids. Last 2 years im facing financial constraints due to loss in business. I know im in a serious depression state which has created a gap between me.

MSc, PGDGC
Psychologist, Chennai
Dear we can understand that your problem, financial loss or difficulty is inevitable. Depression due to that is also inevitable. Think how to solve that financial issue logically. Try some relaxation techies. Speak to some psychologist for better relief. Be positive and believe that you get better soon. Regards,
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Doctor please advise my wife Age 28 is suffering from migraine headache with photophobia n phonophobia past many years does it lead to depression n suicidal intention ? I'm concerned .

MD - Psychiatry, MBBS
Psychiatrist, Delhi
Yes. Most of the untreated or undertreated migranous headache lead to anxiety and depression. U should get it treated and maintain a headache diary.
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Dear Sir, I have been to Gulf countries before and when ever I go and join a new company I am going into depression and feeling very fear in my mind and heart and due to that BP is also rising and I feel like immediately return back to India and I did couple of times like that and now I have an new opportunity back to Gulf and I am very much in Dilema whether to go or not If I am going please advise me how to fight that fear and be relaxed and haapy working there Regards,

MBBS, MD Psychiatry, DNB Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Nagpur
You probably face a problem in adjusting to you job and expectations out of you whenever you join a new job, that makes you anxious and depressed and vulnerable, especially when you are alone and devoid of help from family and friends. If you still anticipate a similar problem now then it is advisable that you start some form of treatment to deal with your stress and anxiety so that you remain prepared to face your fears efficiently.
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I have been having this constant recurring negative thoughts since couple of months. I cannot focus at anything. I have developed a habit of being at comfort zone. Likewise my interactive skills are vastly deteriorating and my mind goes blank while talking with people. I am even afraid to do basic things like going out for shopping, utility bill payment, etc. I also feel that someone is watching. Nd if someone laughs at their own matter I feel like they are laughing at me. Last year I was diagnosed with chronic depression and went through cbt and felt okay for around 4-5 months but all of a sudden I started having panic attacks and so on as I described above. Please tell me am I going mad?

L L. B..,, M.Sc psychy,, N L P, P.G.D.G.C, M.S psychotherapy,, M.A child care, M A, clinical psy, M.A,social psychiatry,, M.Phil., psychology., Ph.D .,psychology
Psychologist, Vijayawada
You are very sensitive. Negative thoughts come to everyone but no one give priority. But you are giving high priority. I think you are in alone thinking all things excessively that may be reason to develop this type of thoughts. Cognitive behavior therapy should not be done in proper for that reason you may developed again. You are nearest to my place please consult me.
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Hello everyone. My question is to psychiatrist. Umm may be you am suffering from phobia. My frnd discussed that he had a chapter of phobia in school days nd I observed that the same kind of problem is there with me and it's name is phobia. So can anyone tell mi how to get out from this.

Master Of Science In Counseling & Psychotherapy
Psychologist, Bangalore
Hi lybrate-user, please don't come to self diagnosis of any disorder without a professional counseling from a counselor or psychiatrist. Take the help of professional counselor to identify the issue and necessary steps to overcome that. Take an online counseling session so that I can help you out. Take care.
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I have pressure on my mind due to tension of exams preparation then how I can relax my mind to do better work.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
I suspect that the adolescent issues with regard to hormones may be affecting your ability to concentrate and remember. When the hormones play up, it lasts for a period of close to two years and during that time you could be influenced by three signs directly impacted by the chemical: you will tend to become aggressive and rebellious, you will become sexually active, and you will have acne and pimple problems. The hormonal imbalances may not only impact your memory because of the chemical but also bring some distractions that come with it. But you may work on the following even if the hormones kick in: Daily exercise of at least half an hour is a must. Even if you go to a gym, ask for aerobic and/or callisthenic exercises with whatever else you are doing. A healthy body harbors a healthy mind. With regard to memory, it is very important that your brain and body is ideally rested to be able to recall whatever is required, rather comfortably. Puzzles pose problems to the brain that help it to use new pathways and neurons, which give the brain considerable exercise. It taxes the left brain to use logic to solve the myriad possibilities which other activities do not stimulate. Crosswords are excellent for vocabulary learning and use. Jigsaws and Rubik cube stimulate different permutations to finally settle on the most likely one. Picture completion and anagrams help approach problem-solving from several angles. Do Sudoku, and memory co-relation activities and skills. Have a good night’s sleep, have a good breakfast of more proteins, meditate often, remain free of stress, eat a lot of fiber (whole grains, fruits and vegetables), nuts, avocado, eat dark chocolate, consume less of fat and use olive oil instead, do Yoga meditation exercises, etc. You need to check out if you are stronger visual or auditory. The visual is a better mode than the auditory. However, if you combine the two modes, you will get the best concentration. Have a special place of learning, which should be well lit, with soft painted walls, well-ventilated, with no distractions. When you get bored, study by writing. If you repeat learning, at least, five to seven times, you will apparently remember for a longer time. Sit comfortably but do not slouch. The reading material should be of a fairly large print. Study at small intervals of about 40 minutes and then take a break or change the subject. Short-term memory is a faculty of the left brain, and long-term memory is a feature of the right brain. When people are stressed, they tend to favor the right brain and abandon the left brain, where short-term memory resides. So, it is really very simple: deal with the stress and activate left brain functions. Here are a few suggestions to activate left brain function: shut your left nostril and breathe, move your eyes from right to left and vice versa for at least half a minute at a time, and do callisthenic exercises with some form of counting, regularly. There is a new exercise called Super Brain Yoga, which is done by holding the right earlobe with your left thumb and index finger, and the left earlobe with your right hand’s thumb and index finger. In this position, you must squat down and rise up and do this for five minutes every day. There is some memory enhancing techniques and study methods that your teacher will be able to guide you with. If your home life is full of distractions and stress, it is likely to affect your memory, adversely. In that case, I suggest that the family goes for counseling too. The following foods do help too: Blueberries, walnuts, turmeric, Spinach, tomatoes, broccoli, acorn squash, green tea, oily fish, boiled egg, turkey, apples, oatmeal, leafy greens, lentils, pumpkin seeds, avocado, cinnamon, thyme, sunflower seeds, and red wine. Avoid sugar and junk food.
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Sir, I sai krishna completed my b. Tech before 4 years. From past 13 years 1 problem troubles me before that that is occurred in some situations only, but now I am in total fell in that problem.  I. E-suppose if have that problem when I remembers my mind will struck and doesn't works-example-1) when I am bike driving I have to remember step by step gear process and all it takes too much time and it may lead to accidents, 2 )when I am talking to some body I have to think many times then only I will talk to any body regarding any thing it disturbs my professional life when meetings and in front of my office seniors i. E automatic process of my mind is stopped and I running it manually. 3) when I am calculating any thing even small additions and substractions also I can not do that means too much time taking. Due to that things I can not doing any thing in front of people and my family they are thinking I am foolish and not wise  person. actually when I forgot that problem I had,  I am normal and active and very fast also thats why some people says I am wise and some says waste. But it is gradually occurring in all my day to day activities I am facing lot of problems and I thought I am waste to live. And I consult several doctors every body said treatment is very costly but nobody couldn't hear what the actual problem is. Please help me sir.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
There seems to be an emotional problem with anger and fear. The anger is leading to a slowdown and the fear is making you obsess about things. As a result, you have become self-conscious and therefore a little dysfunctional socially. You must meet with a counselor and get some emotional therapy and education as to how to deal with those feelings. These emotions may have come up sometime in childhood and your parents may be helpful in identifying the cause. Do take them with you for the counseling. You must do a lot of vigorous exercise every day. It will help to a personality development course, conversational skills course, personal grooming course and public speaking course to build your self-image, self-esteem, and self-confidence.
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Dear sir/mam, I am male 40 my wife at 33 married since 15 years having two children she at 14 and son is at 7.this is my short and sweet family. We were happy but serious problem arise just before one year. Actually since past 4 year when one another family made entry between us as her friends up to 3 years of their friendship I ignored many mental distresses from her friends but from last one year this friendship turned into disruption of our relationship and it cured me a very largely mentally, physically and economically. So I took decisions to restrict relationship with her friends since last 6 months. This causes untrust between us husband and wife. She is not cooperating me. She is fighting with me. I tried a lot to make understand my wife with love and trust. I always used to get fight but she always produce cause to fight. Now I'm thinking what things I could not provide them to make my family happy. I did all best. She forget everything even my soul attachment to her my love to her. She kept remember one thing only her friends. Im not so important to her .she is crying ,I'm crying since 6 months but she is not ready to leave them. She is ready to leave me my children and my home. She is warning me to do suicide for these people. This lead me broken heart, untrust,losing everything. Feeling a defeated man. Im feel high great anxiety. Almost crying day night. Im not able to do everyday task normally. My soul is filled with darkness. Pls advise me. What should I do.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
You should immediately visit a marriage counselor and sort this matter out. While it was not a good decision to make her abandon her friends, it may have been necessary for various reasons that you have mentioned. However, you will be quite subjective in your judgement and so it is advisable to get a professional opinion on the basis of facts as narrated to that person. Friends can have both good and bad influences but it depends a lot on perception too. It is likely that your wife does not have enough social life and she may be extrovertive in nature which will make her want company a lot. If she is not working, then that craving for company will be even more. These matters may be discussed opening with her but if you are insistent of your way only, then you will need a third person's intervention. Do not delay this any further because of the talk of suicide and also these may develop to a point of no return. Then it will be too late. Counseling should continue as an ongoing process until the matter is resolved completely.
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Hypnotherapist, DCS, BSIC, Advanced Trainee of Transactional Analysis, Advanced Skills in Counselling
Psychologist,
NEGATIVE THINKING? DON'T DESPAIR, IT CAN BE CHANGED
When a person has been through difficult times like abuse, anger, fear, anxiety, alcoholism etc. In their lives, Often their mind starts having frequent negative thoughts and images which might say that “this the way life is and i cannot ever succeed in life and be happy”. The truth is that everyone has positive and negative thoughts as its normal. But some people tend to believe them as the universal truth and don’t see beyond the limiting nature of these thoughts. Such people will be fearful to make any changes in their life and often feel stuck in situations. They may experience an overwhelming amount of confusion and anxiety, which can be very detrimental in their wish to lead a satisfying and meaningful life.
For the person with social anxiety disorder (SAD), a social or performance situation may elicit thoughts such as "everyone can see how anxious I am" or "everyone is judging me". These thoughts often occur so automatically that the person is not aware of his pessimistic thinking.
People who are clinically depressed may experience bad thoughts more intensely, and view them as evidence that they are worthless or sinful people. The suicidal thoughts that are common in depression must be distinguished from negative thoughts, because suicidal thoughts can be dangerous.People who are depressed typically think in a biased, negative way. They have negative views of themselves (e.g. `I'm no good'), the world (e.g. `Life has no meaning') and the future (e.g. `I will always feel this way')

Negative thoughts like these have several characteristics. They are:
1. Automatic: they just pop into your head without any effort on your part;
2. Distorted: they do not fit all of the facts;
3. Unhelpful: they keep you depressed, make it difficult to change, and stop you from getting what you want out of life;
4. Plausible: you accept them as facts, and it does not occur to you to question them;
5. Involuntary: you do not choose to have them, and they can be very difficult to switch off.

Thoughts like these can trap you in a vicious circle. The more depressed you become, the more negative thoughts you have, and the more you believe them. The more negative thoughts you have, and the more you believe them, the more depressed you become. The main goal of cognitive therapy in counselling is to help you to break out of this vicious circle.

BECOMING AWARE OF YOUR NEGATIVE THOUGHTS
The first step in overcoming negative thinking is to become aware of your thoughts, and of their effects on you. Negative thoughts make you feel bad - anxious, sad, depressed, hopeless, guilty, angry. Instead of being overwhelmed by these feelings, you can learn to use them as a cue for action. Notice when your mood changes for the worse, and look back at what was running through your mind at that moment. Over the course of a few days, you will become more sensitive to changes in your feelings, and to the thoughts that spark them off. You may well find that the same thoughts occur again and again, because negative thoughts are repetitive in nature.

TYPES OF NEGATIVE THOUGHTS
1.MENTAL FILTER: When we notice only what the filter allows us to notice, and we dismiss anything that doesn’t ‘fit’. Like looking through dark glasses and saying that everything is dark and gloomy, not seeing that its actually sunny without the glasses on. Anything, which is more positive or realistic is sieved, ignored, dismissed or we make excuses for. Eg. A change in job means more problems.
2.MIND READING: We assume what the others are thinking about us and decide that they see us as a dumb and stupid person. Eg. My boss thinks that I am not capable
3.PREDICTION: believing that we know exactly what is going to happen in the future. Eg. I am going to fail this test.
4.COMPARE AND DESPAIR: We tend to see only the positive aspects of other people and in comparison, we see only the negative aspects of ourselves. Eg. My colleagues are so knowledgeable and skilled, whereas I have just started my career. Surely, the boss will favour them!
5.CRITICAL SELF: Putting ourselves down, blaming ourselves for situations and events that are not totally our responsibility. Eg. My son failed because I didn’t sit down with him to teach him.
6.SHOULDS AND MUSTS: Thinking or saying “I should”, “I must” puts a lot of undue pressure on us, setting us up for unrealistic expectations from self or others and may not be in touch with reality. Eg. I must always agree to what my father tells me to do.
7.CATASTROPHISING: Imagining that only the worst can ever happen if something doesn’t go our way. Eg. If I lose this job, then I will never get another good job.
8.EMOTIONAL REASONING: Sometimes, we tend to get swayed by our emotions and take decisions based on them, not realising that the emotional reaction is not in scale with the reality. Eg. If I am feeling bad, then it must be really bad. Or if I am feeling anxious, then I must be in danger.
9.MOUNTAINS AND MOLEHILLS: maximising the negatives or minimising the positives in any situation. Eg. The last time I went to the toilet, i slipped and fell... I will slip and fall every time I will go to any toilet.
10.JUDGEMENTS AND EVALUATIONS: Making judgements about events, ourselves, others, or the world, rather than describing what we actually see and have evidence for. Eg. My friends are always critical of the way I look and behave. They have never liked me for anything.
11. BLACK AND WHITE THINKING: believing that something or someone can only be good or bad, right or wrong rather than seeing anything in-between or “shades of gray”. Eg. My husband has never taken care of me and he’s always listening to his mother.
12.MEMORIES OF THE PAST: based on the experiences of the past, which were traumatic, we decide that we are in danger in the present, causing distress in the present. Eg. My boyfriend cheated on me, now I will never date again...all boys are like that.

Don't despair, if you find that you have many of these thinking patterns. Most of us have them. Remember, that these are just thoughts and they can be managed. By being observant, we can learn to challenge them and create more optimistic and helpful styles of thinking, which will elevate our mood and reduce stress and anxiety.
Counselling is a safe space where you can discover your negative thoughts, challenge them and modify them to suit your current needs and environment. This can help you to get more out of your life making you feel more in control, accomplished and satisfied.

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I am unable to concentrate on studies and lack of memory. Let me know the way how can I get rid of this problem.

BHMS, DEMS
Homeopath, Pune
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Pulmonologist, Faridabad
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Why some children are fear to go school? Is it rue. How to prevent it. Is this serious.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
Children grow from dependence to independence pretty early in life nowadays. In the olden days children were not allowed into school before 5 years of age. Now it is not the case. After having a lovely dependent relationship with mom, children are somewhat prepared to go to school but it is not the case in every child's home life. If the child has not been prepared early to meet other people and feel comfortable about it, they will have a problem going to school. Also to meet so many other children and adults in a school atmosphere is quite intimidating, even if you are prepared for the same. Even if they are afraid, they must overcome that fear by making them attend school. It is not a serious flaw when a child feels fear about joining school unless it is a never ending problem. Then there is a social development problem and some measures may be used to gently wean the child away from that fear by allowing the mother to stay around in school for a few days to give the child the confidence. The best thing to do is to prepare the child when she is at home by socializing with other families, friends, relatives etc. both by inviting them over and visiting them often: the child will get exposure to other people and slowly get familiar with mixing with others. Also the school atmosphere can be made more conducive to be child-friendly and offer a lot of playthings around to distract the child and make them more comfortable: today's schools are focusing on this aspect a lot. Small classes are better than large ones. This is a very important growth for children in their attempt to become independent. There is also the great affect of the 'fear of change', which we as adults suffer from also. So you can imagine a child making its first steps in that direction, and how difficult it can be. Just be an enabler if your child is going through a phase like this and make it easier. In time it will sort itself out.
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I am passing through a very hard time. Recently I broke up my 2.5 years relation with my girlfriend. Her mother refused me. I tried my level based to patch up the matter. And I was not in a position to escape her as both of us were determined to marry after compromise from both family. 1 month ago I talked last time with her and we both realized the situation. She tried to contact with me but every time I refused. But recently she is getting close with one of my friend with home I used to study during M. Sc. 5/6 years back. And the matter known to me via fb friend. After listening the matter from that day I am feeling weak to her and repeatedly remembering our sweet memories. I am trying to get rid of this. My sleeping habit also changed and became short. Last night I blocked that friend in fb. My family is searching a girl to marry recently. I am having financial problem too as I am repairing my home to look better for marriage purpose. I listen to music, view movies. But major problem is that I stay alone far from my home due to job. I have been trying to forget everything but when some of friend ask about her I became very emotional and helpless. please suggest me some way so that I can pass this hard time.

MBBS
Sexologist, Mumbai
Breakdown is a chance for break through. Read stories of great people. Inspiring stories catapult change. Some people work intensely so that their mind is engaged in something productive, meaningful and give a sense of fulfillment. Keep a sentry to watch your thoughts. Politely tell, "Go away" to unwanted thoughts. Reading good books, engaging in hobby helps tide over sour patches of life. Best,
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