Ms. Chitrangi Sanghvi

Hi lybrate-user. This showed you are dependent personality. Or you may be empty from inside. Craving for some one .need to take counseling for this.

Some of the" typical" responses to frustration include anger, quitting (burn out or giving up), loss of self-esteem and self-confidence, stress and depression. Anger management: 10 tips to tame your temper anger: there is a saying" frustration begets anger and anger begets aggression. Direct anger, is expressed toward the object perceived as the cause of the frustration. If a machine does not work, you might hit it or kick it. If someone gets in your way, you could verbally threaten them or push them aside. If the source of the frustration is too powerful or threatening for direct aggression, displaced aggression is often used. The aggression is redirected toward a less threatening and more available object. An angry person often acts without thinking. The person has given in to the frustration and they have given up restraint. Anger can be a healthy response if it motivates us to positive action but all too often the actions we engage in when angry are destructive. Indeed, if we could see a videotape of ourselves getting angry, the humiliation might well help cure us of anger. When you feel frustration building, you have to practice learned responses that lead to healthy actions instead of destructive ones. Giving up: giving up on a goal can be productive if the goal is truly out of reach. However, more often giving up (quitting or being apathetic) is another form of giving in to frustration. When repeatedly frustrated, people can drop out of school, quit jobs, or move away. Apathy is giving up all of your goals, so you cannot be frustrated by trying to reach them. We live in difficult time and we have to be persistent in order to accomplish. Consider how many projects you began, and then gave up, because you became frustrated and lost patience. Make a list of things you started and quit because they seemed too difficult. Now calculate the disappointment and loss you suffered by not dealing with the frustration in a more healthy way. Try to remember that quitters never win, and winners never quit. Losing your temper means you're a quitter. Loss of confidence: is a terrible frequent side effect of giving up and not fulfilling your goal. A loss of self-confidence and self-esteem, means that if we quit once, then the next time we plan a goal, we may not be able to accurately assess our ability to carry it out and we stop trusting ourselves and our own abilities. This became a self-fulfilling and self-destructive attitude. You need to be able to learn that when the going gets tough, you say to yourself" it is worth it! and by following through, it not only gets the job done, but it builds self-confidence. Stress: is the" wear and tear" our body and mind experiences as we adjust to the frustrations our continually changing environment. Too frequently, extreme, or prolonged frustration and stress strains us and generates distress signals. Our body experiences distress signals in a variety of ways, often in the form of: irritability, anger, fatigue anxiety, headache, depression, stomach aches, hypertension, migraines, ulcers, heart attacks, or colitis. Depression: depression can affect almost every aspect of your life. It affects people of all ages, income, race, and cultures. Depression can affect the way you eat and sleep the way you feel about yourself, the way one think about things, and the way you interact with others. While we all feel depression at various appropriate times in our lives, excess or inappropriate depression cannot be easily dismissed or wished away. Other reactions: abuse of drugs & alcohol is self-destructive and usually futile attempt at dealing with frustration, as are many eating and weight problems and addictions whenever the immediate effects of the addictive behaviour wear off, users find themselves back in the same, or even worse, frustrating situation. Learning to deal with frustration it is unrealistic to believe you can rid yourself of frustration forever, but you can learn to do things to minimize your frustrations and to make sure you do not engage in unhealthy responses to frustration. You will need to learn to distinguish between what you hope will happen, what will probably happen, and what actually happened. Life inevitably has its ups and downs -- its moments of relaxation and times of tension. When you learn to truly accept this reality, you come one step closer to being able to deal with frustration in a healthy way. There are several types of problems that we encounter in everyday living: those which you know can be solved, those which you are not sure if they can be solved or not, those you know are totally out of your control, and those you are so confused about that you do not even know what the problem is. You need to be able to accurately assess your abilities to alter situations that prevent you from solving your problems and reaching your goal. Then you will be able to assess which of the types of problems you have encountered, and you will then be able to develop a realistic plan. Learning to take things in stride will also help you to be more content and happy which, in turn, will help you to more easily overcome anger and frustration. If you are upset, sad, anxious, or depressed you will have less patience and tolerance for everything and everybody.

Dear, negative and obsessive thinking about such important occasions in life will definitely present you disastrous results. Naturally you will feel stressed, anxious and insomniac. I suggest cognitive behavior therapy and anxiety education for cure. You can always ask for my help. Take care.

Hello, agar aapko lagta hai ki aapki galti se ye break-up hua hai to sabse peheli baat - aapko apne feelings ka izhaar apni girlfriend se sahi samay pe karna chahiye, aap use'sorry' tab hi boliye jab aap apne ego aur attitude ko wapis apne relationship mein nahi leke aayenge. Medication: take homoeopathic medicines - natrum mur. 30/ 3 times a day daily for 2 weeks. Revert.

Dear Lybrate user. At the age of 17, many students are like your son. Don't worry. He will be able to select his career if he know what are his skills and aptitude. I suggest career counseling and career selection tests. Take care.

Please start doing regular pranayam yoga and meditation suck mulathi pieces 3 to 4 times a day take saraswatarishta 15 ml twice daily with water.

C pram s is a selective serotonin re uptake inhibitor. It is a good anxiolytic. It has to be taken under the close observation and supervision of a psychiatrist until the desired response is achieved. D-shine 60k seems to be an oral vitamin d supplement to be taken once ina week. It is advisable to take it after doing your serum vitamin d levels.

Olanzepine is an antipsychotic medication . Generally not used for anxitety. Dithipin is an antidepressant that will take care of both anxiety and IBS. Not able to comment on the prescription as i need little elaborative history

Hi, Take Daphne indica 1X (DR wilmar shawbe ,German ) 4tabs to be chewed thrice a day for 30 days Smoking will definitely affect your lungs and may cause cirrhosis.Quit smoking as soon as possible as it may cause further breathing problem. Do pranayam,Suryanamaskar daily. Revert back

Selfie obsession: could be attributed to the neglect people face from family. It's a mechanism to gain attention from society.-apa.