Dr. Nisha Gupta

Physical intimacy can be like ice-cream. What is Vanilla without the sprinkles and chocolate sauce? Just plain boring! While you may enjoy the occasional Vanilla in your relationship, however to make things more exciting, there is never any harm in incorporating some kinkiness to it. Erotic spanking is such an activity that is so omnipresent that you may have experienced it as well at some point of time. So why is spanking so exciting? Spanking brings in some degree of sensual pain in the ever-pleasurable activity called sex. This will give you a variation in the array of sensations that are presented to you. Also, spanking is probably the gateway to BDSM and all you need for it is your hand, a buttock and perfect aim. In addition to it, spanking is rather risk-free and harmless. No serious injury can possibly be inflicted by a little tap on the back.

The real reason why one may like it can differ from person to person. While some do it to feel dominant, others like being on the receiving end of it if they like being submissive. Some may enjoy the rush of blood to the muscles of the buttocks and the high from the simultaneous feeling of pain and pleasure. As fun and harmless as spanking may seem, there still exists a rule book that you must abide by.

Here is a set of proper spanking etiquettes

1. The spanks should focus on the parts of the buttocks that are meatier or the upper thighs.
2. To make it more exciting, rub the buttock and caress it like kneading dough before landing a spank on it. Make sure the spank is not hard enough to leave imprints on the buttock, unless you have the permission to do so.
3. Take off accessories like rings and bracelets before so that you don’t hurt someone seriously.
4. Decide on a safe-word that is absolutely unrelated to sex, like- peaches. Feel free to exercise it when you think you have had enough.
5. To bring forth the sensual aspect of it, start with light soft spanks so that you don’t jolt your partner up suddenly, and then test the waters with increasing intensity of the spanks.
6. Alternate between light tickles followed by rough spanking. The brain will get mixed signals that will probably blow one’s mind.

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Starting a family and being people who you can completely rely on is something that may be a dream that most people nurture and work towards. In the Indian culture, it is seen that children are supposed to serve as the backbone for the parents in their old age and when a couple is able to bear children, they may be able to lead more satisfied lives than at any other point in time. While most couples are blessed with happy families, there are a lot of those couples who may have to rely on medicines and treatments to be able to conceive a child.

With the changing lifestyle and the increasing amount of stress, a lot of couples are not able to conceive naturally. This is when they turn to medical help from professionals who may be able to suggest treatments and counselling. Even though the medications and treatments are sought very popularly, it is also a fact that couples have to go through painful procedures and unfruitful trials before they are able to get positive results, if at all that is possible. Not to mention the expensive treatment costs and the costly medicines that they have to invest in, apart from the mental and emotional trauma that is accompanied with it.

A safer alternative:
One of the safest alternatives to conventional medicine and treatments is to opt for homeopathy. This is a style of treatment that works on the body using natural means such as plants extracts and other natural derivatives, in combination with medicinal properties in healthy portions. With the use of such treatments and medicines, it may be possible for aspirant couples to be able to work on their body systems to make them healthier and more responsive to conceiving a child.

Some of the most important advantages of homeopathic treatment for infertility:

1. The medicines make sure that they do not put the others aspects of health at jeopardy for the users of homeopathic medicines which means that the medicines do not have highly destructive side effects.
2. The lack of side effects in the homeopathic medicines for infertility ensure that the couples remain mentally and emotionally strong enough to stick to the resolve of getting treated and that is something that may be helpful in the success of the treatment.
3. Since the medicines are all organic, most of them are not as expensive as the conventional medicines.
4. Choosing a safe stream of medication such as homeopathy may also help in ensuring that when the child is conceived, it does not get affected by the harmful medicines that may be administered to the couple.

When the future of your family and health is at stake, it is important that you take well thought out and wise decisions about what kind of treatments you should undergo.