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Dr. Ms.Shreya Tandon

Psychiatrist, Delhi

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Dr. Ms.Shreya Tandon is a popular Psychiatrist in Greater Kailash, Delhi. You can meet Dr. Ms.Shreya Tandon personally at Centre For Child and Adolescent Well Being in Greater Kailash, Delhi. Save your time and book an appointment online with Dr. Ms.Shreya Tandon on Lybrate.com.

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I am very bad listener and I get distracted to random thoughts while listening to desirable topics. How I can overcome this habit of not to think of random thoughts while listening to some important topics?

BHMS
Homeopath, Faridabad
I am very bad listener and I get distracted to random thoughts while listening to desirable topics. How I can overcom...
Hello, take Bacopa monnn.1x, 2 tabs twice daily. Do meditation for half an hour in the morning daily. revert me after 1 month.
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My boyfriend cheated me very badly I was with him since past 7 years. And now I am totally lost. I feel shattered what shout I do to get over this.

Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surgery (BAMS)
Ayurveda, Navi Mumbai
Hi you should keep calm and focus on your work. Work is the only way to get over this and some remedies I suggest you that also help you. 1. Sarswatarishta 4 tsp after lunch and dinner.
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I'm not getting sleep as I'm thinking something else and whole night is going waste. During the day I'm unable to concentrate because lack of sleep. Pls help in getting sleep during night.

PG Diploma in Emergency Medicine Services (PGDEMS), Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surgery (BAMS), MD - Alternate Medicine
Ayurveda, Ghaziabad
I'm not getting sleep as I'm thinking something else and whole night is going waste. During the day I'm unable to con...
Hi 1-1 drop of cow ghee in both nostrils at night time before sleep....take sarpgandha vati 1-1 tab twice a day....take pranacharya no tens capsule 1-1 twice a day...avoid spicy food...junk food...fermented food.....tea...coffee...do pranayama early in the morning....
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I'm over thinking a lot and I hate when someone shouts. I'm feeling lonely too and there is shortness of breath many times in a day. I feel like some kind of demon has overtook me. There is a feeling of something hammering into the skin too. What is it?

MS - Counselling and Psychotherapy, Master of Arts in Clinical Psychology, Bachelor of Arts - Psychology and English Literature
Psychologist, Coimbatore
I'm over thinking a lot and I hate when someone shouts. I'm feeling lonely too and there is shortness of breath many ...
Hi lybrate-user! Do not worry, it happens at this age you are still young and not that strong enough and I believe something has affected you to the extent that you are over thinking a lot. When one is preoccupied with some thought for a long time your mental and physical health deteriorates. You need to analyse a particular if it is worth thinking or not, even if you think you should set your limits to think box you need to understand that life is short and fast, you have many important things to achieve in life. You have your loved ones whosoever your affectionate mum who created you, your dad, siblings and all your wellwishers, so you have the responsibility to at least let them live peacefully so you should always think present and future. Thinking shld be in action and not thinking too much and making yourself complicated with headache, tired and depression. If you need to consult with me online definitely you can, feel free to contact me either through text chat or call me when you find difficulty to manage. With regards, Psy
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I lost my girl friend last year and since then I feel very depressed and prefer keeping to myself alone all the time please help me.

B H M S, MD
Homeopath, Thrissur
I lost my girl friend last year and since then I feel very depressed and prefer keeping to myself alone all the time ...
Dear lybrate-user loosing a girl friend is really sad. And it has to be experienced totally. Experiencing means feeling and expressing your emotions, but keeping this sadness for ever will make your life uncreative and destructive. So its your option to experinece it so that it will fade away or to keep it for ever and suffer.
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Hi. I am addicted to smoking, I have picked it up since last 3 years and till now continuing. I know its not good for heart as well as lungs. Please give your opinion about how do I quit this habit?

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
Yes, it is very harmful for more than the damage to heart and lungs. You must quit your smoking completely and you must do it now, seriously. The tobacco tar in cigarette smoke lines your lung with huge patches that make that portion dysfunctional. Your oxygen carrying capacity is jeopardized, and breathing is impinged. But don’t be discouraged because it is not too late even now to reverse all the ill-effects of smoking. I don’t know what other organs could be damaged but do go for a thorough medical check up to assess the effects of your abuse. Regarding improving your lungs, do a lot of aerobic exercise breathing through your nostrils only. Then there are a lot of deep breathing exercises in Yoga which you can learn too. Deep breathing cleanses your system and lungs and restores it to good health. Deep breathing uses the 80% of the lungs which are not normally used in normal breathing and even when exerting yourself. The greatest effect is in the lungs because this substance is processed through the respiratory system directly through the lung surface. You should start vigorous exercises, gradually increasing it over a period of time. Do deep breathing exercises every time you feel like smoking (try Yoga), and replace the oral urge with some healthy food substitute to satiate the need. You may also take hard candy or chewing gum. If the urge is too strong, then use nicotine gums and nicotine patches, for a little while until the smoking drive reduces, substantially. You may also join Smokers Anonymous in your city where the support is really extraordinary for like-minded people who are also in the same situation. Keep yourself occupied or engaged with interesting activities during the times when it is most tempting. Keep the company of non-smokers for some time i.e. at least for the first 21 days. Above all announce it to everyone that you have quit smoking. Here’s a piece of very good advice: even if you accidentally/willfully take a cigarette, it is not the end of the world – you can start the cessation all over again. You must persevere with the best support until you defeat this addiction. Counseling is very useful in the initial stages and when temptations are at their highest. But don’t fool yourself any smoking is harmful, and you need to seriously get on with quitting it completely and immediately.
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Hypertension: 7 Best Ways to Control it

MBBS, DNB (General Medicine), Certified in Evidence Based Diabetes Management, MNAMS
Internal Medicine Specialist, Kolkata
Hypertension: 7 Best Ways to Control it

The number of people affected by hypertension is constantly on the rise. The most important concern with people developing hypertension is that it is not an isolated issue. It brings with it a host of problems, including higher chances of stroke, heart disease, diabetes, and kidney disease problem. While there is no definite cure for hypertension, it is definitely possible to control it using the following measures.

  1. Weight control: Greater the body mass index (BMI), higher is the chances of developing hypertension. Check with your doctor to know what the ideal weight is and try to maintain it. If overweight, losing even 10 pounds can make a big difference to your blood pressure.
  2. Diet management: Excessive salt, calories, fat, and sugar are to be avoided. Sodium is one of the main culprits for increasing blood pressure and should be avoided. Include fruits and vegetables that are rich in potassium and magnesium. Reducing salt is another major way to control blood pressure. Fish oils with omega-3 fatty acids are extremely good for the health of the heart and so consult your doctor to include the right amounts in your diet. 
  3. Exercise: A regular workout regimen can reduce the chances of developing blood pressure by up to 40% to 50%. This should not be misinterpreted as the need for vigorous workouts. Even small, regular physical activity daily goes a long way in controlling blood pressure.
  4. Alcohol: While quitting alcohol is the best thing to do, for those finding it difficult to do so, cutting down on it plays a big role in controlling blood pressure. No more than a drink per day for women, and no more than two per day for men are recommended.
  5. Stress management: Stress is one of the major causes for increasing blood pressure, and so managing stress is very important. Whether music or meditation, pick your stress buster and see your blood pressure lowered.
  6. Medications: If you are already on a medication regimen, strictly adhere to the schedule. Consult your doctor before adding herbal supplements or dietary supplements. Taken individually, they may be good for health, but there are good chances of them interacting with your regular medications.
  7. Monitor: Once you have been diagnosed with high blood pressure, have periodic check-ups with your doctor to ensure it is within the permissible limits. If beyond limits, immediately correct it.

As noted, hypertension is not an isolated issue and brings with it a whole lot of issues. Controlling it can help control the other issues that would follow and improve the quality of life.
 

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31 yrs. Old and my wife is 32 yrs old. She always show any physical problem and every time fought me and became very irritated. She is working lady she belives on other people not me.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
31 yrs. Old and my wife is 32 yrs old. She always show any physical problem and every time fought me and became very ...
Dear, I can understand. You should try to talk to your wife and make her understand the stress you are facing because of her behavior. I suggest you to post a detailed private question so that I can analyze your wife and provide you treatment. Take care.
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Relationship, how do you do?

MSc Psychotherapy -King's College- London, Pg diploma in counselling
Psychologist, Gurgaon
Relationship, how do you do?

The couples want to be happier, healthier and more connected even though the issues can be different - money, sex, infidelity, in-laws, children etc. Despite this any relationship is completely subjective and no clear cut rules can be executed on it, yet following certain guidelines may help proceeding happily in a relationship.

Suppose you are struggling in your relationship (and if you reading this article there is a big chance you are) you might find it helpful to follow some of these ideas:

1.Love yourself

You must love yourself before you love another. By accepting yourself and fully being what you are, your simple presence can make others happy. Accepting yourself fully as you are and showing yourself this same unconditional love will provide protection, healing, and confidence to work on your shortfalls.

2.Adopt a positive lifestyle

There are many different ways in which you can embrace a more positive lifestyle - practice affirmations, express gratitude, meditation, exercise, just find something that helps you unwind and enjoy life. And most importantly - keep doing these things.

3.Empathize with your partner

The ability to empathize is what inhibits us from just going through life doing whatever we want, without regard for others. It is what makes compromise in a relationship possible. If I realize that something I've done has hurt you (because I can empathize with your pain or unhappiness) I will hesitate to do that again.

4. Take responsibility: Don't try to figure out who's right

If your intention is to create a more positive world for yourself and those around you, it's up to you to have the thoughts, moods, and actions that will create that world.

5. Stay connected

When there is distress in the marriage or relationship, one or both usually feel some emotional disconnection. Frequently, sexual passion diminishes as well. (However, sometime one partner will try to increase frequency of sex in an effort to feel connected.). And often, people will busy themselves with work or kids instead, or do other things to either try to feel connected or to avoid being alone with the person with whom they feel the pain of disconnection

6. Express thoughts, feelings, and wishes

Resentment can be built when couples sweep things under the rug, so be vulnerable and don't bury negative feelings, but try to express them in a respectful way.

Opening up to your partner can make you feel vulnerable and exposed, but it is the most important part of an intimate relationship. Dr. Brene Brown defines vulnerability as uncertainty, risk, and emotional exposure. Given this definition, the act of loving someone and allowing them to love you may be the ultimate risk. Love is uncertain. It's risky because there are no guarantees and your partner could stop loving you. Exposing your true feelings may mean that you are at a greater risk for being hurt or criticized.

7. Try new things together

Boredom can be a major obstacle to lasting romantic or companionate love. Psychological research has suggested that couples who experience the most intense love are the ones who enjoy participating in new or challenging 'self-expanding' activities together.

8. Preserve your independence

Dr Perel, in her popular TED talk explains that neediness and caretaking in long-term partnerships -- which can easily result from looking to the partnership for safety, security and stability -- damper the erotic spark. But if couples can maintain independence and witness each other participating in individual activities at which they're skilled, they can continue to see their partner in an ever-new light.

If after trying the above you are still struggling with your relationship, make sure you go to see a couple therapist.

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I am suffering from palpitations due to anxiety n depression from last 5 years. I was in consultation by phycritist for about one and half year in apollo delhi and doctor says to meet me in every month or between two months. It costs much as I am not financially too strong. So I want some help as I am in confusion what to do currently I am taking homoeopathic medicines. So please give me your advice. Thanks.

MD - Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Chennai
I am suffering from palpitations due to anxiety n depression from last 5 years. I was in consultation by phycritist f...
Usually when people have good improvement, I ask them to consult once in 3 months for follow up. There are psychiatrist who consult online and in person for 300 rupees, and there r medications which can maintain anxiety-depression for rs 1 or 2. Usually psychiatrist treat taking the financial situation of the patient. Rather than shifting to alternate medicine you try these alternatives. In government hospitals also effective medicines r there at very low cost at times free and the consultation is totally free. All the best.
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I am a male of 47 years and suffering from serious emotional eating disorders. At times, I just walk down the stairs leaving my work to find something to eat and take an aimless stroll. Am I going to depression? I am having serious differences with my children as I try to steer them clear of the hardship of lives. They think that I am over reactive, hotlar type and thus do not have any respect for me.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
I am a male of 47 years and suffering from serious emotional eating disorders. At times, I just walk down the stairs ...
First, let me address your emotional eating disorder. You need to identify the emotion that is behind the excessive eating: are you sad, angry, afraid or happy that you tend to want to eat every time? when you have done that it is as simple as addressing the feeling that feeds into the over-eating and you will cease to have a problem. This can be done with a counselor, ideally. Many of us over-eat when emotionally distraught. You are already over-weight and for some people weight gain is a side effect of the medication. Apart from that it is likely that your metabolism might have reduced considerably making you susceptible to gain weight even with small quantities of food. If you still want to eat (i mean healthy food of course), you can consume more, if you did some noteworthy exercise, after getting approval from your doctor. Exercise boosts your metabolic rate. Foods also boost metabolism: egg whites, lean meat, water, chili peppers, coffee, green tea, milk, whole grains, and lentils. Cucumber is a zero calorie food and takes long to digest and much metabolism too. If you have it before each meal and any amount too, it will curb the amount of consumption. Even so, the addictive aspect of eating involves the obsession and compulsion i. E. Your mind will be always thinking about food and then it will feed into a compulsion to consume something. So, if you occupy yourself, (not busy) then the mind will not think too much on food and therefore it will negate the compulsion. Now all these measures will have a positive effect on your bp. Regarding gaining the respect of your children, it is true that people who are losing control over their own habits, like in an addiction type of circumstance, tend to be too protective and restrictive towards their children. You need to trust your children by giving them more freedom. You can trust your children more by giving them the right values in childhood and then you can relax because it acts like a vaccination. Your role as a parent is to offer them good role models and to give them useful information to help them handle life. If they mess up, it is still okay, but the great advantage you have is to know that you had told them and now it is their responsibility, not yours.
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I am suffering from ocd last 15 years. My age 32/m marrried. Working in bloodbank as lab technician. Excessive hand wash, phobia blood product, always bad images in mind, I hate dirty people never want touch, I normal at work but when I came home (last 2 year) take bath half an hour and dettol handwash again and again. App. Half hour.

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Psychologist, Mohali
I am suffering from ocd last 15 years. My age 32/m marrried. Working in bloodbank as lab technician. Excessive hand w...
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Hi sir, I m very depressed for quite a long time. Due to marriage issues, it is affecting my overall health n m jobless right now, it seems from everywhere I m kind of trapped, don't know what to do where to go . What should i do for coping up with this low time and depressed? Thanks plz

Hypnotherapist, DCS, BSIC, Advanced Trainee of Transactional Analysis, Advanced Skills in Counselling
Psychologist,
That can be very tough if you are feeling trapped everywhere, Out of job is another issues that you mentioned. Job brings financial security and self respect along with satisfaction. Marriage also helps in feeling secure and desire of love and companionship gets taken care of. Bringing up children is yet another aspect which can be very satisfying for some people. Yet if you are not getting these expectations met, then it can be very disappointing and depressing for some people. I would suggest to you strongly that you approach a counsellor first who will also refer you to a psychiatrist if necessary, and if there is clinical depression, then you take meds from the psychiatrist.
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I am in depression since 12 years now I am reading and try to adopt may techniques to reduce my depression. Also I am having much sleeping disorder. I always feel sleepy drowsy or feeling ill most of time I just remove this by sleeping does any suggestion for me take over this problem more what I want?

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
I am in depression since 12 years now I am reading and try to adopt may techniques to reduce my depression. Also I am...
You must go and meet with a counselor immediately and if that person advises that you meet with a doctor you must do so and cooperate to your utmost. Please visit these professionals along with your parents. In the meantime please do the following sincerely because you could resolve the problem better with good cooperation: Have a good night’s sleep, have a good breakfast of more proteins, meditate often, remain free of stress, eat a lot of fiber, nuts, avocado, exercise regularly, eat dark chocolate, do Yoga meditation exercises, etc. I suggest you do the opposite of what this depression makes you feel like doing (actually, not doing): you will need to fight this condition. You must become active; stay upright during the daylight time; meet people; never sleep during the day, wake up by 6 am every day, play some active games, especially contact games, do physical exercises, talk to people and join some social clubs, attend Yoga classes etc. Watch sitcoms on TV or comedies and cheer yourself up. Go for excursions in groups, for outings, camps, conferences, and religious conventions. Get a pet dog and spend time training it, exercising it and relating to it. Expose yourself to some sunlight every day, at least, 30 minutes but not in the scorching heat. Whatever happens, please incorporate these three important adaptations in your life: always be responsible, be respectful, and be functional. If you did these three, lots of things will go well in life. Please pray and have faith in God to alleviate your sufferings. Don’t wait for others to help. Use your own motivation, which might be at its lowest, but persevere and win this battle. Above all to be really happy, you need to live in love and for love. Learn all about emotions and how to handle them and that will get you out of the depression rather easily and quickly. A counselor is there only to facilitate you, all the hard word must come from you, and your cooperation with that person is very critical for your success. Be positive every day and learn to be contented with what you have. Do some left brain exercises: it is the happy brain. Here are a few suggestions: shut your left nostril and breathe, move your eyes from right to left and vice versa for at least half a minute at a time, and do callisthenic exercises with some form of counting, regularly. Whatever happens please cooperate with the therapy and do not discontinue until the condition is completely resolved.
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Hello doctor. I'm 21 years old and suffering from depression. Would you please suggest me a antidepressants drug suitable for my age?

L L. B..,, M.Sc psychy,, N L P, P.G.D.G.C, M.S psychotherapy,, M.A child care, M A, clinical psy, M.A,social psychiatry,, M.Phil., psychology., Ph.D .,psychology
Psychologist, Vijayawada
Hello doctor. I'm 21 years old and suffering from depression. Would you please suggest me a antidepressants drug suit...
Anti depression tablets using is not good for all the time. When we need the psychiatrist prescribe medicine. Every one every day depressive feelings. But all the time it is not advise to take medicine. At this stage you may addicted in future it has so many side effects. Better to attend psychological counselling sessions. It has no side effects. Based on the recommendations of the psychologist. Better to change your behaviour. Develop a very good friendly with others. Share your feelings and problems with your close friends and family members. Do not sit alone. Develop busy schedule concentrate on your career. Do not think I am depression I need any medication. Be feel always I am a very good person. I do not have any type of problems. Be happy all the time. Be create a very good environment in home and external stage also. Ok best of luck.
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I smoke cigarettes. I want to ask you that whether it will affect my gymming growth?

BDS, Certification in hypnotherapy, Certification in N.L.P, Certification in Gene and behavior, Psychology at Work
Psychologist, Gurgaon
Cigarettes do effect lung capacity, your oxygen carrying capacity and stamina in later run So it does effect your growth.
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Sir I am getting more temptation so that I cannot concentrate on my work what should I do.

DHB
Homeopath, Sagar
Dear lack of concentration on work may be due to anxiety. Go for a morning walk, get proper diet and sleep timely. It will help you a lot you can take homoeopathic medicines also if required.
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I am having mental depression. To avoid this I frequently masturbate and take pleasure. This has been a habit now. I masturbate regularly 3 to 4 times daily. I want to avoid this. But not being able to do so. My concentration is being disturbed. No focus. Please help.

Masters in Clinical Psychology
Psychologist, Lucknow
I am having mental depression. To avoid this I frequently masturbate and take pleasure. This has been a habit now. I ...
Hi lybrate-user, Its you and only you who can change the habit and lifestyle and for this you need to take necessary actions. It is important to get yourself busy in productive things and make a schedule to organize your life better. Apart from that I would like you to practice Mindful Breathing The primary goal of mindful breathing is simply a calm, nonjudging awareness, allowing thoughts and feelings to come and go without getting caught up in them. Sit comfortably, with your eyes closed and your spine reasonably straight. Bring your attention to your breathing. Imagine that you have a balloon in your tummy. Every time you breathe in, the balloon inflates. Each time you breathe out, the balloon deflates. Notice the sensations in your abdomen as the balloon inflates and deflates. Your abdomen rising with the in-breath, and falling with the out-breath. Thoughts will come into your mind, and that’s okay, because that’s just what the human mind does. Simply notice those thoughts, then bring your attention back to your breathing. Likewise, you can notice sounds, physical feelings, and emotions, and again, just bring your attention back to your breathing. You don’t have to follow those thoughts or feelings, don’t judge yourself for having them, or analyse them in any way. It’s okay for the thoughts to be there. Just notice those thoughts, and let them drift on by, bringing your attention back to your breathing. Whenever you notice that your attention has drifted off and is becoming caught up in thoughts or feelings, simply note that the attention has drifted, and then gently bring the attention back to your breathing. It's okay and natural for thoughts to enter into your awareness, and for your attention to follow them. No matter how many times this happens, just keep bringing your attention back to your breathing. Consult me for therapy.
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I have a girl friend but her parents and not happy with our relationship. So whenever we talk about it I feel my blood pressure is getting change suddenly I am getting angry faster because of that. Please advise,.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear lybrate-user. Welcome to lybrate. You are worried about the future. So you get angry. Are you going to marry today or tomorrow? you are just 19. You marry your girl friend after you get a good job. Don't jump. Wait for the time to come. Till then don't be apprehensive. Take care.
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When ever I see any girl who is attractive I feel like having sex with her and I always master bate more can you suggest any methods to control my thoughts.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
When ever I see any girl who is attractive I feel like having sex with her and I always master bate more can you sugg...
There is no need to be alarmed to this extent but you do need to develop some control over these desires because if left unattended and if you indulge in it, you may feed into impulses where you may one day lose control. Between the ages of 16 to 18 years, for a duration of almost exactly two years, all boys and girls will have a spurt in the production of the male sex hormone, testosterone. Due to this hormone there are three identified effects, all because of this chemical: you will become sexually active; you will become aggressive and rebellious; and you will all suffer acne and pimple problems. You have no choice because this is a body clock mechanism that gets activated and over the two years that it prevails, it will gradually subside and return to normal. But during this time you could (driven by the hormones) do something inadvertent that there may be no turning the clock back. So you need to exercise control and channelize this energy through games and sports and hobbies. Also, you would have developed secondary sexual characteristics and they seek to be used and seek fulfillment. Again this is not a problem but the drive can be very bad for those who do not have sufficiently well-developed value systems or a good conscience. These kids can lose control and become reckless. Most kids have a problem, like you do, around their sexual urges and may resort to acting out in the form of masturbation, pornography, and other sexual exploits. If you indulge in any of these you can get into a guilt trip or develop an addiction that may plague you for a long time. There is no threat to your mental well being. Your character will certainly be tested, and it will reflect your development in this regard. The best thing to do is to get a sex education from a counselor and ask all the questions you wish answered. Otherwise, you will want to experiment or seek information from your peers who are not adequately qualified to really do justice to your queries.
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