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Dr. Deepak Gupta

Doploma In Child And Adolescent

Psychiatrist, Delhi

12 Years Experience
Dr. Deepak Gupta Doploma In Child And Adolescent Psychiatrist, Delhi
12 Years Experience
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Hello and thank you for visiting my Lybrate profile! I want to let you know that here at my office my staff and I will do our best to make you comfortable. I strongly believe in ethics; a......more
Hello and thank you for visiting my Lybrate profile! I want to let you know that here at my office my staff and I will do our best to make you comfortable. I strongly believe in ethics; as a health provider being ethical is not just a remembered value, but a strongly observed one.
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Dr. Deepak Gupta is a renowned Psychiatrist in Greater Kailash, Delhi. He has over 12 years of experience as a Psychiatrist. He has completed Doploma In Child And Adolescent . You can meet Dr. Deepak Gupta personally at Centre For Child & Adolescent Wellbeing in Greater Kailash, Delhi. Book an appointment online with Dr. Deepak Gupta and consult privately on Lybrate.com.

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Hello Doctor, recently two of my relatives have gone through divorce due to which even my elder sister is sceptical to get married. What are the possible reasons behind failure of marriages in recent times and how to work on them? Please suggest in detail. Thanks, in advance.

M.S. Counselling and Psychotherapy
Psychologist, Bangalore
Dear lybrate user, I understand your concern. A couple has the most intimate relationship. When two people get married, they are not aware that the other person is coming from a completely different background and a different family and hence is likely to have a different perception about everything in life. Unfortunately, both - the husband and the wife, think that their own perceptions, values and beliefs is" the correct" way and the other person is having wrong perception and values etc. They both need to understand each other's perceptions and also should be able to communicate to each other. Unfortunately, again, none of our academic courses teach us effective communication. Because of this, both the partners fail to communicate their needs, expectations, likes-dislikes, views etc to their spouse in assertive way. Many times both think that the spouse should" understand" their feelings, which does not happen. Now a days most of girls are working and they don't want shoulder the additional responsibility of being a mother and a cook, sweeper, cleaner etc at home. The times have changed but our society's outlook towards women has not changed. Our society still expects a wife to be very submissive and not to have her own rights or likes. Unless our society changes its views towards women, we will have problems in keeping the marriages intact. One more major reason for failed marriages in our country, is, undue interference by the parents (both sides). The parents need to respect the couple's privacy and they need to be within their boundaries. Because of our traditional upbringing even the husband/wife think that they still need to listen to their parents in every respect, which aggrivates the matter. To solve this problem" pre-marital" counselling is the best solution. A counsellor can help both (husband-wife), to understand their own personalities, their respective needs, values and expectations. Even the in-laws should have pre=marital counselling so that they also know their respective roles and responsibilities. Actually every boy and girl in our country needs to have pre-marital counselling even before they decide to marry a particular person. This will help them to find a suitable match for themselves and thus reducing future problems.
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Hi I am 24yrs. I m having problems of anxiety and deppression for last two months. Please help

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear, you must be able to distinguish between mental disease and mental disorder. Your problem is a mental disorder. Not a mental disease. These mental disorders are usually treated with a combination of medicines and other means like awareness, meditation, psychotherapy techniques, life style changes etc. I think two or three counseling sessions and psycho therapy techniques should solve your problem. Let me know if you are willing to undergo counseling sessions and tailor made psycho therapy through mobile. Take care.
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If a man in late 50s could not quit his smoking (which for last 15 years had been between 3-5 cig a day, what care he should take in his diet to minimize the damage or some regular not so harsh oral medicine can be taken? What are the minimum costing tests which one can undergo half yearly to know if some new damage development is taking place. By Divine Grace, no bad symptoms so far.

PG Dip(psycosexual diseases), MBBS
Sexologist, Delhi
U r lucky till now but u never know when ur luck turn back from u.If u want leave ciggreette then dont plan leave it now,do excercise,eat homely food ,take nicotine or nicotine laced gums for 21 days. But formost u shud have willpower to leave the ciggerretes.
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Hi I am 24 years old male and my memory is low. So I want to increase my memory power. Should I do?

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
There are three types of memmory. Sensory memory, short term memory and long term memory. Memory is based on perception and recollection. From the given info, there is nothing to worry about amnesia related problems. Better and effective learning methods improve your memory and recollection. I think two or more counseling sessions should be good for you. Please let me know if you are willing for telephone counseling sessions. Take care.
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I am from a decent family with good culture. I am in relation with a girl of 17 years from past 3 years. She used to cheat me and flirt with guys at the starting of relationship. I changed her and explained that it is not good. The problem is that whenever I see her with any guy talking or texting. I get the same feeling that she has started her old habit of flirting. I am so passive. I can't bear it. From this I can't concentrate on studies! feeling lonely always. She just want to enjoy her life with other guys more. She just escapes giving reasons that her mom is permitting and she is forcing to go with others. So please help me how to control myself and being sad and unsatisfying always. I just don't wanna be passive!

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
It is good that she is social with other boys but not that she is flirting with them. If you think she has genuinely changed then you must learn to trust her. You see you cannot forever keep a tab on your girl and live a life of suspicion and insecurity. On the other hand there is a saying that a ‘leopard cannot change its spots’. If you want this girl, you must accept her the way she is, otherwise give her up. If you have to control and keep an eye on her, life can become very miserable, like it has already become for you. It may be in her culture or her mother’s culture to be playful and mix around freely but quite innocently. If you think that that could be risky behavior and that some boys will mistake her for a fast girl, then you could caution her and if she does not heed your advice, then she is going to be difficult to reason with. If you are brave or free enough why don’t you talk to her mother and find out the scenario and her take on the matter. She may give you an explanation that you or I may not understand or know about! The other problem is that there may be insecurities in you that may be the problem and as soon as you work that out, it could be a different scene altogether. Whatever happens you must be able to trust the girl; and if that is not there because of her or you, the relationship is not meant to be, period.
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Taking allopathy medication for hypertension and diabetics. CAN U SUGGEST ALTERNATIVE MEDICINES.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
For hypertension and diabetics, always the safest choice is going for allopathic medicines. Tried and tested medicines are available in ayurveda and Homeopathy, but, in case of an emergency, you will be compelled to go to a allopathic hospital. Then you should not regret. Forget about its side effects. Millions of people are having it and if treated properly, they live healthy up to the age of 80. What else do you expect?
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I want to control my angriness what should I do please suggest simple methods to control.

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
Some of the "typical" responses to frustration include anger, quitting (burn out or giving up), loss of self-esteem and self-confidence, stress and depression. Anger management: 10 tips to tame your temper ANGER: There is a saying "Frustration begets anger and anger begets aggression." Direct anger, is expressed toward the object perceived as the cause of the frustration. If a machine does not work, you might hit it or kick it. If someone gets in your way, you could verbally threaten them or push them aside. If the source of the frustration is too powerful or threatening for direct aggression, displaced aggression is often used. The aggression is redirected toward a less threatening and more available object. An angry person often acts without thinking. The person has given in to the frustration and they have given up restraint. Anger can be a healthy response if it motivates us to positive action but all too often the actions we engage in when angry are destructive. Indeed, if we could see a videotape of ourselves getting angry, the humiliation might well help cure us of anger. When you feel frustration building, you have to practice learned responses that lead to healthy actions instead of destructive ones. GIVING UP: Giving up on a goal can be productive if the goal is truly out of reach. However, more often giving up (quitting or being apathetic) is another form of giving in to frustration. When repeatedly frustrated, people can drop out of school, quit jobs, or move away. Apathy is giving up all of your goals, so you cannot be frustrated by trying to reach them. We live in difficult time and we have to be persistent in order to accomplish. Consider how many projects you began, and then gave up, because you became frustrated and lost patience. Make a list of things you started and quit because they seemed too difficult. Now calculate the disappointment and loss you suffered by not dealing with the frustration in a more healthy way. Try to remember that quitters never win, and winners never quit. Losing your temper means you're a quitter. LOSS OF CONFIDENCE: is a terrible frequent side effect of giving up and not fulfilling your goal. A loss of self-confidence and self-esteem, means that If we quit once, then the next time we plan a goal, we may not be able to accurately assess our ability to carry it out and we stop trusting ourselves and our own abilities. This became a self-fulfilling and self-destructive attitude. You need to be able to learn that when the going gets tough, you say to yourself "It is worth it!" and by following through, it not only gets the job done, but it builds self-confidence. STRESS: is the "wear and tear" our body and mind experiences as we adjust to the frustrations our continually changing environment. Too frequently, extreme, or prolonged frustration and stress strains us and generates distress signals. Our body experiences distress signals in a variety of ways, often in the form of: irritability, anger, fatigue anxiety, headache, depression, stomach aches, hypertension, migraines, ulcers, heart attacks, or colitis. DEPRESSION: Depression can affect almost every aspect of your life. It affects people of all ages, income, race, and cultures. Depression can affect the way you eat and sleep the way you feel about yourself, the way one think about things, and the way you interact with others. While we all feel depression at various appropriate times in our lives, excess or inappropriate depression cannot be easily dismissed or wished away. OTHER REACTIONS: abuse of drugs & alcohol is self-destructive and usually futile attempt at dealing with frustration, as are many eating and weight problems and addictions Whenever the immediate effects of the addictive behaviour wear off, users find themselves back in the same, or even worse, frustrating situation. Learning To Deal With Frustration It is unrealistic to believe you can rid yourself of frustration forever, but you can learn to do things to minimize your frustrations and to make sure you do not engage in unhealthy responses to frustration. You will need to learn to distinguish between what you hope will happen, what will probably happen, and what actually happened. Life inevitably has its ups and downs -- its moments of relaxation and times of tension. When you learn to truly accept this reality, you come one step closer to being able to deal with frustration in a healthy way. There are several types of problems that we encounter in everyday living: those which you know can be solved, those which you are not sure if they can be solved or not, those you know are totally out of your control, and those you are so confused about that you do not even know what the problem is. You need to be able to accurately assess your abilities to alter situations that prevent you from solving your problems and reaching your goal. Then you will be able to assess which of the types of problems you have encountered, and you will then be able to develop a realistic plan. Learning to take things in stride will also help you to be more content and happy which, in turn, will help you to more easily overcome anger and frustration. If you are upset, sad, anxious, or depressed you will have less patience and tolerance for everything and everybody.
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Since from 2004 ending I am chewing tobacco pan daily 2, 3, 5. Not swallowing the juice splitting out, but brushing immediately. Drinking whisky daily 90 ml some times 180 ml since 6 months plus because of some hyper tensions, how to control my bad habits.

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
Since from 2004 ending I am chewing tobacco pan daily 2, 3, 5. Not swallowing the juice splitting out, but brushing i...
Only strong will power, determination, attending AA meetings and diverting mind when tempted will help you stop alcohol or may need professional help from a psychiatrist or de addiction centre. Try to do meditation and yoga. Read good books and listen to music and if you are believer attend Bhajans Alcohol causes 7 types of cancer, including breast, mouth and bowel cancers. When you drink alcohol, cancer-causing chemicals are formed. Alcohol also affects hormone levels and makes cells even more likely to be damaged by smoking. The less alcohol you drink, the lower the risk of cancer. No type of alcohol is better or worse than another, it is the alcohol itself that leads to the damage, regardless of whether it is in wine, beer or spirits. And drinking and smoking together are even worse for you. Not everyone who drinks alcohol will develop cancer. But on the whole, scientists have found that some cancers are more common in people who drink more alcohol than others. Every year, alcohol causes 4% of cancers .Tips to cut down on alcohol. There are lots of simple ways to cut down on the amount of alcohol you drink. It can help to work out if there are particular times or situations when you tend to have a drink, whether that’s a bad day at work or a weekly pub quiz tradition, and plan what you’ll say and do differently next time. Have more alcohol-free days a week. For liver health it’s best to have at least 2 days off alcohol in a row each week. Try agreeing on certain days with your partner or a friend and help each other and stick to it. If you are planning to drink alcohol, decide on a limit in advance and make sure you don’t go over it. Swap every other alcoholic drink for a soft one – starting with your first drink. Try shandy instead of a pint of beer, or swap some wine for soda and have a spritzer. Don’t stock up on beer, wine or spirits at home. Finish one drink before pouring another, because topping up drinks makes it harder to keep track of how much you’ve had and when you planned to stop. Avoid buying drinks in rounds, that way you don’t have to keep pace with anyone. Tell a friend or partner that you’re cutting down on alcohol, they can support you – or even join you. Best age to stop smoking is before 40 ,In fact do not start all Only by using strong will power and avoiding all situations where you feel like smoking, chewing tobacco or drinking or using drugs avoiding friends who smoke and diverting mind by reading or chewing a gum, like NICORETTE and taking a walk when you crave for a smoke can all help. You can chew Nicorette gum which is nicotine replacement. There are medicines available. Which can be prescribed if asked personally Cigarette smoking is a leading preventable cause of mortality. It kills more than 60 lakh people worldwide every year. More than 50% of regular smokers would invariably die from tobacco-related illnesses which includes heart attack, cancer or asthmatic lung diseases. Best age to stop smoking is before 40
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How to concentrate on studies.?

D.P.M, MBBS
Psychiatrist,
Enjoy the learning, don't worry about results, concentrate on task in your hand, exam is a part of life, it is not everything,
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I am 30 year old male, suffering from depression for a long time? I have tried medications twice before but did not get the positive results, now I have again started medication from last month, still not feeling up to the mark. Can anyone suggest me what else can I do for depression.

MD - Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Chennai
I am 30 year old male, suffering from depression for a long time? I have tried medications twice before but did not g...
Then the diagnosis may not be depression, since the results with antidepressants are excellent, rarely we see resistant depression. Get a 2nd opinion from another psychiatrist, and get evaluated in detail.
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I have pain in chest and i'm smoking also. I want leave my smoking. So please tell me what will I do.

BHARAT JYOTI, MRACGP, INCEPTOR, MD-PhD, MD - Psychiatry, FIPS, Fellow of Academy of General Education (FAGE), DPM, MBBS
Psychiatrist, Bangalore
Get a cardiologist opinion. You can try medicines once you are clear of opinion on your cardiac condition.
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I am 17 year old I can not remember my lesson when I read then my head very pain I can not remember my lesson until 1 day. Doctor please tell me what should I do. 15 February my exam start. Or my head pain around when I read. What medicine eat this problem.

MBBS
General Physician, Hyderabad
I am 17 year old I can not remember my lesson when I read then my head very pain I can not remember my lesson until 1...
Hi! First of all don't get panicky Keep yourself really cool Tension causes headache then you will not be able to concentrate hence u won't remember anything. Don't study late nights it will worsen your problem further more. Take a fresh bath sit in a quite place take a slow and deep breath for few min and study Write down everything that way u remember better. If you have a good friend you can do combined studies this way u will be benefitted more. Eat well, drink milk and soaked almonds and fresh fruits Drink more water per day it will kill your stress Please think big this is not the end of the day. You are just 17 you have to go long way so kindly keep yourself kool. If your problem is so severe please consult a psychologist. Thank u
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I am a boy. My age is 20 years and my problem is that whenever I go outside, after sometime or on when I returned to home my head start paining and it is a problem of almost everyday. So please suggest me what to do and how to overcome this problem in such a studying age.

Master Of Science In Counseling & Psychotherapy
Psychologist, Bangalore
I am a boy. My age is 20 years and my problem is that whenever I go outside, after sometime or on when I returned to ...
Hi lybrate-user, I can understand how you may be feeling due to head ache. I would suggest to have an online session so that we can discuss better and analyse the reason. It might help you to share your thoughts and as a counselor I can help you better. Take care.
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I don't know that I suffering depression but I feel laziness and disorder mentality. I have lost my self confidence in any work and not remember study material.

Ph. D - Psychology, Professional Certified Coach
Psychologist, Ahmedabad
I don't know that I suffering depression but I feel laziness and disorder mentality. I have lost my self confidence i...
Lybrate-user ups and down are many times part of normal life. As a human being we do feel demotivated and lack of self confidance and self esteem as a result of certain life incidents and situations. If that is the case then accepting whatever you are feeling is the first step. There is no value judgement for either yourself or others in this acceptance. Second step then is to do something small yet significant on a daily basis which could help you bring back the interest and engagement. Gradually adding more things on a daily basis which you engage in, to increase positivity and interest. If you are feeling this kind of low feeling for more than 6 months now then I would strongly recommend you to contact clinical psychologist for a consultation and further assessment of the situation. Hope this helps wishing you very best.
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I have dark eye circle for past 5 years, I used to smoke before, cab you suggest me.

MBBS
General Physician, Mumbai
I have dark eye circle for past 5 years, I used to smoke before, cab you suggest me.
Hopefully with stopping of smoking, the dark circles problem should improve. In addition, you can apply aloe vera cream or orange peels or cut-cucumber slices on the area of dark eye.
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I am 35 years old and I have gastric problem and get early tired and low stamina and forget things. Please help.

B.A. Psychology, M.A. Psychology, Ph. D - Psychology
Psychologist, Delhi
I am 35 years old and I have gastric problem and get early tired and low stamina and forget things. Please help.
Please look into your daily routine- are you eating at the right time? hope you're not keeping hungry for long and then eating a lot? exercise helps to keep a check on your digestion and metabolism- so exercise regularly. Have lots of water and avoid having tea and/ or coffe on empty stomach. When you don't have time for proper meals, avoid snacking on junk food, have friuts instead. For forgetfulness- maintain a list of things you have to do - that will help you be more organizped.
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I have stopped smoking cigarette approximately 4 months back . I had smoked almost for 2 years and then I have stopped . Now on weekend I feel like smoking cigarette . And once a month I will go and smoke . Can anybody tell me how to maintain abstinence from smoking cigarette.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
Congratulations for having quit but now you are folli9ng around an addictive habit which is sometimes considered worse than cocaine addiction. Your success will be compromised by having a regular consumption, even if it is spread far and wide. In time, you will revert back to more smoking and become a full-fledged smoker one fine day. When quitting, you must take one day at a time; though you must give up all smoking at once, and promptly. If you look too far ahead you will get discouraged and will give up. If you sit and count the number of days you have given up, that will also focus too much on achievement. You must focus on the here and now, on that day to be precise. After all quitting is not that easy due to many factors. So even if you fail one day, you must try and try again. Very few people succeed in their first attempt. Your persistence will eventually pay off. The urge to discontinue is hampered by many factors but the worst of them is the conditioning. In fact, these conditions can exist all through the day, unlike other addictions. But your desire to want to stop is the most important factor. It is important to find out about the ill-effects of smoking to have a reason that alarms you about continuing the habit. The information is really scary but true and you must remind yourself about this every day. The nicotine in tobacco smoke stimulates the heartbeat to raise the blood pressure in no time at all. So you must avoid it like the plague: it is just very bad medicine for you. In fact, it is highly toxic too. You will need to stop smoking or consuming any tobacco related items with immediate effect. You should start vigorous exercises, gradually increasing it over a period of time. Do deep breathing exercises every time you feel like smoking (try Yoga), and replace the oral urge with some healthy food substitute to satiate the need. You may also take hard candy or chew gum. If the urge is too strong, then use nicotine gums and nicotine patches, for a little while until the smoking drive reduces, substantially. You may also join Smokers Anonymous in your city where the support is really extraordinary for like-minded people who are also in the same situation. Keep yourself occupied or engaged with interesting activities during the times when it is most tempting. Keep the company of non-smokers for some time i.e. at least for the first 21 days. Above all announce it to everyone that you have quit smoking. Here’s a piece of very good advice: even if you accidentally/willfully take a cigarette, it is not the end of the world – you can start the cessation all over again. You must persevere with the best support until you defeat this addiction. Counseling is very useful in the initial stages and when temptations are at their highest. You could also join twitter2quit program and enjoy its success to give up smoking.
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I am going into depression mode for every small thing which makes me feel that I can not do anything in life. I need a solution for this.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
I am going into depression mode for every small thing which makes me feel that I can not do anything in life. I need ...
You are probably going through a depression. When you have the desire to be happy, you must cling on to that thought because the brain will produce neurotransmitters to promote that feeling. I know it is difficult to hold on to that thought but it is cardinal to your well being. Without concentration the mind goes here, there and everywhere, jumping like a monkey from branch to branch, idea to idea. When there is a natural concentration, we can control our mind and there is peace. This one-pointed concentration on a thought, holding it for as long as we like, gradually collects strength in the mind and in the self. A strong mind is a mind that is peaceful, stable, satisfied and can remain in the deeper meaning of a thought. There is no waste caused by over-thinking, or the high speed of thought: These are the two greatest diseases of the mind these days, which is why there is so much stress and mental breakdown. You can follow these simple rules: Have a good night’s sleep, have a good breakfast of more proteins, meditate often, remain free of stress, eat a lot of fiber, nuts, avocado, exercise regularly, eat dark chocolate, do Yoga meditation exercises, etc. I suggest you do the opposite of what this depression makes you feel like doing (actually, not doing): you will need to fight this condition. You must become active; stay upright during the daylight time; meet people; never sleep during the day, wake up by 6 am every day, play some active games, especially contact games, do physical exercises, talk to people and join some social clubs, eat more of proteins, nuts, fruits, and vegetables, attend Yoga classes etc. Watch sitcoms on TV or comedies and cheer yourself up. Go for excursions in groups, for outings, camps, conferences, and religious conventions. Get a pet dog and spend time training it, exercising it and relating to it. Expose yourself to some sunlight every day, at least 30 minutes but not in the scotching heat. Whatever happens, please incorporate these three important adaptations in your life: always be responsible, be respectful, and be functional. If you did these three, lots of things will go well in life. Please pray and have faith in God to alleviate your sufferings. Don’t wait for others to help. Use your own motivation, which might be at its lowest, but persevere and win this battle. Above all to be really happy, you need to live in love and for love: find someone to love and to love you back. A counselor is there only to facilitate you (if you need one, that is), all the hard word must come from you, and your cooperation with that person is very critical for your success. Be positive everyday and learn to be contended with what you have. Do some left brain exercises: it is the happy brain. Here are a few suggestions: shut your left nostril and breathe, move your eyes from right to left and vice versa for at least half a minute at a time, and do callisthenic exercises with some form of counting, regularly.
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I am suffering from the most serious disease that is trauma of my mothers death and I think my father will also die in nark os what should I do.

M.S. Counselling and Psychotherapy
Psychologist, Bangalore
I am suffering from the most serious disease that is trauma of my mothers death and I think my father will also die i...
Your mother's death must have been a very devastating experience for you. Mother's love and support is indespensible and losing your mother must have created a void in your life. Like you have mentioned, it is huge trauma for you and your father and truma has almost life long impact on the lives of the survivors. It is important to know how you reacted after her death if you have not cried or not shared/expressed you sad feelings then, it might create problems in future for you. Please allow yourself to feel all the pain and express your feelings. Trauma creates an" emotional wound" which has to be treated like a" physical wound" when someone is physically injured and has a deep wound, the doctor needs to apply medicines, and clean the wound periodically. This experience is very very painful for the patient, but if the patient does not do this, then it can create further complications. Emotional wounds are also like this. People many times prefer not to talk about it, suppress it, deny the pain. But this does not help. Like the physical wound, emotional wound needs dressing - which is understanding and talking about the pain. By expressing (by talking or crying) you will relieve your pain. Kindly do that. You can support your father and seek emotional support from him. You both need some more time to come out of it. If possible talk to a counsellor, who will help you understand death and the process of grief. Cherish the good times and memories you shared with your mother. While keeping her memories close to your heart, try to move on with life. Try to accomplish your mother's dreams for you. All the best and take care.
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