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Hi. Im ameer. My problem is. On doing sex with my girl friend. Im loosing my sperm with in 3 or 4 minutes. Its embracing to me. Its go to depression. How can increase my time. Please solve the problem. Give me use ful. Succession.
Hello Doctor, I am 50 years old For the last few months say about an year I feel very low sex drive and does not even feel to have sex with my wife and if at all I attempt having sex, it does not give satisfaction to my wife as I lose interest midway and simultaneously the erection also gets disturbed and my wife then ask me to stop doing it. It feels very awkward. Although I tried to tell her also to take lead sometimes, but she refused for that. I am also psychologically disturbed for past few months due to various reasons and I am now worried about my sex life. I need your advice Doctor. Please guide me what action should I take.
Hiii am chandrashekar age 27 my question is I have my tissues up and down and am getting sperm like water from my penis please help me what to do am gng to do marriage please help me whether I become father or not.
I have an problem while doing sex My penis not get so hard while doing sex and at the second shot it's never get little hard it's remain small but the mood of sex is still on top Kindly suggest what medicine Shud I take.
I'm a 25 yr old male. I'm diabetes patient. Recently married can I participate in sex. What I should do any precautions should I take.
Sir I have a masturbation addiction I do it once daily please help me to get rid of it. And does masturbation affects height of a person?
I am 22 years old. I am doing masturbate 2 years. Now I did not do that. But I did not control myself. If any problems comes after marriage? Please tell me doctor shall I continue or not.
Good day, I met with accident so head injury happened. I taking last 3 year eption tablet still now. My question is my penis not errected, can you please answer me.Why?
Dear sir, Iam 35 years old, my problem is related to my sex life, after marriage 1-2 years I don't have interest in sex why I don't know,
I'm not sure whether is this a problem or normal. During intercourse I do not go over more than a minute but even after discharge (under condom) I keep continue and 80% times I again get erection and I could able to satisfy my partner. Kindly suggest if there is a treatment possible for long lasting in bed?
For most people, a prolonged sexual act is one of the most pleasurable acts. However, though not might admit it, there could be multiple reasons due to which this might not be possible. In males especially, premature ejaculation is very common, which does not allow for a prolonged sexual experience. There are multiple causes for this, some physiological and some psychological.
Given the private nature of the topic, many would not admit to the issue in the first place. Even with the couple, many would be reluctant to discuss it. For many men, close friends might often be the only one who knows about it. Someone else who has had similar problems might suggest a solution. The Internet, given the privacy it offers, could be another forum for discussion and seeking solutions. So what happens is they end up trying solutions from either of these two sources. However, what is important to understand is that each person’s body is built and wired very differently. What worked for a friend or for another person in some other part of the world might not work for you too.
The first point of coping begins with acknowledging the problem. When the ejaculation happens soon after the penetration, well before the partner is satisfied, it is known as premature ejaculation. In some cases, there might not even be adequate stimulation. While it is a matter of self-esteem for the male, for the female it is often an unsatisfactory experience. Knowing some of the possible causes helps understand the problem and then work towards a solution. Some of the most common physiologic and psychologic causes are listed below.
• Performance anxiety: In many cases, especially when with a new partner, premature ejaculation is very common. However, gradually, with familiarity, this improves.
• The prolonged duration between sex episodes: If the person has not engaged in sex for quite a while, there are chances of premature ejaculation.
• Guilt: Past sexual experiences could lead to guilt, which also can cause premature ejaculation.
• Hormonal: Hormonal imbalances also can lead to an inability to sustain and/or maintain an erection.
Most men experience some degree of PE in their early years when they start off their sex lives, but this gradually improves with age, as they learn to control.
Coping with it begins with one round of diagnosis. If there is no serious underlying cause, then simple measures like relaxation techniques and quitting smoking can be used to control ejaculation.
Talking to the partner and easing out stress during the act also can go a long way.
If these do not help, seek counselling or behavioural therapy. You can definitely manage better performance with support of the partner and the counsellor. If you wish to discuss about any specific problem, you can consult a sexologist and ask a free question.
Before 10 days I had did masturbation 3 times in one night .us din k baad erection nhi ho rha pennis na sex krne ki feelings are h.sperm bnne me time b lgta h kya n kitne. I am very tensed about this prblm.
Hi Doctor, I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend on 29th of april. Her period cycle is from 10th to 10th of every month. However she took an iPill within 8 hours. We both are afraid she might get pregnant. Can you please help us?
Emotional Health, Counselling and Fertility Treatment
Few couples are prepared for the diagnosis of infertility, and for most, this will be one of the greatest challenges they face together. Fertility treatment can affect a couples work, family, relationship, social life and self-esteem.
Although everyone is different, there are some common questions that come up for many couples. Have you wondered about any of the following:
- How to deal with your friends who are getting pregnant and having babies?
- Who to tell and what to tell?
- How to fend off unwanted questions and/or comments?
- How to relieve tension?
- How to keep your relationship strong?
- How to deal with the workplace and frequent absences?
- How to find strength and strategies to keep going cycle after cycle?
It is strongly recommended that anyone undergoing fertility treatment attend at least one counselling session at the start of treatment. At our Centre, you have the opportunity to use a complimentary counselling session once during every stimulated cycle. You will find out more about the emotional processes involved in fertility treatment, realistic expectations of outcomes, both physical and emotional, and how to prepare for and manage the rollercoaster of emotions.
It is very common to fear that getting counselling means that there is something wrong with you or that it confirms a weakness and inability to handle treatment. But this is not the real scenario infertility helps you manage emotions, cope better with day to day stresses, whether these are related to treatment or not, and ultimately prevent long-term problems, such as depression or anxiety.
Overall, our goal is to help you gain a greater sense of control and reclaim life amidst treatment. It is therefore our role as Counsellors to help you identify which strategies would suit you the best. We become support person, educator, counsellor, therapist, mediator, and life coach.