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Mr. Rajendran

Psychologist, Chennai

300 at clinic
Mr. Rajendran Psychologist, Chennai
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Mr. Rajendran is an experienced Psychologist in sholinganallur, Chennai. He is currently practising at Kritik Psychological Counseling in sholinganallur, Chennai. Don’t wait in a queue, book an instant appointment online with Mr. Rajendran on Lybrate.com.

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I am of 26 years old and I found myself upset and in anger, please suggest me some solution for this ?

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear, anger and aggression are emotions. Anger comes when you become irritated. Irritation happens when you don't like something, or when something is repeated. As anger is an emotion, it should be vent out. You should be able to throw anger out instead of controlling it. But more perfect will be, know the frustrating situations and stop being emotional. If practiced properly, you will not get irritated at those circumstances at all. Those techniques are much easier to understand. Take care.
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My wife is very upset. She is too much sensitive. We had our marriage against our parents wish. Nothing is working for us. We got married in Jan, 2012 and have a kid (3.5 yrs). I am also getting very upset and getting difficulties to cop up with the fast life in metro city and to make my family happy. She is too much under pressure and its very difficult to convince her for anything for what she's not ready.Please tell.

M.D. - Ayurveda, B.A.M.S (Bachelor of Ayurvedic Medicine& Surgery), N.D.D.Y(Diploma in Naturopathy,Diploma in Yoga)
Ayurveda, Pune
My wife is very upset. She is too much sensitive. We had our marriage against our parents wish. Nothing is working fo...
Such problems are very common in marriage. First of all, stop stressing upon the fact that nothing is working out. The more you stress on this, the more stress you will feel. Be loving and gentle, despite your circumstances. Make your wife feel that you understand her and expect the same from her. Listen to her more than giving solutions to problems. The more she feels you understand her, more she will be willing to listen to you. Talk to her about her worries and fears and tell her that you both are together in good or bad and she is not alone. Try these things. Still if you feel its not working, you can take help of marriage counsellors. Good luck.
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Hello Dr. I am 30 years old, m suffering from depression, sadness, even at this time m crying while typing. Have taken clonazepam and escitalopram for more than 1 year. I have a type relation with someone which is not fulfilling my demands and m not satisfied, we are very good friends, all the time I think about her, want her as if we had not a talk for few hours problem in breathing starts, I feel heavy weight on chest, I masturbate 3 times a day thinking of her, but from last three days I dint, nd feeling very low. Please help me. At this time I am wanting to be admitted in some hospital and give me some injections to sleep for few days continuous. My morning starts with checking her messages. All the day I wait for her calls and msgs. Please help.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
Hello Dr. I am 30 years old, m suffering from depression, sadness, even at this time m crying while typing. Have take...
I think that you have become addicted to her. This is not good for any relationship not for your mental wellbeing. Am I to assume that the depression is a result of the poor relationship or is it due to some other factors? If this is a one-sided relationship that too is not healthy and can never materialize. Ideally you should get out of this relationship and I see many of your problems resolved to your advantage. Meet a counselor soon and get that person’s guidance to get out of this relationship soon. For the depression please do the following: Have a good night’s sleep, have a good breakfast of more proteins, meditate often, remain free of stress, eat a lot of fiber, nuts, avocado, exercise regularly, eat dark chocolate, do Yoga meditation exercises, etc. I suggest you do the opposite of what this depression makes you feel like doing (actually, not doing): you will need to fight this condition. You must become active; stay upright during the daylight time; meet people; never sleep during the day, wake up by 6 am every day, play some active games, especially contact games, do physical exercises, talk to people and join some social clubs, attend Yoga classes etc. Watch sitcoms on TV or comedies and cheer yourself up. Go for excursions in groups, for outings, camps, conferences, and religious conventions. Get a pet dog and spend time training it, exercising it and relating to it. Expose yourself to some sunlight every day, at least 30 minutes but not in the scotching heat. Whatever happens, please incorporate these three important adaptations in your life: always be responsible, be respectful, and be functional. If you did these three, lots of things will go well in life. Please pray and have faith in God to alleviate your sufferings. Don’t wait for others to help. Use your own motivation, which might be at its lowest, but persevere and win this battle. Above all to be really happy, you need to live in love and for love: find someone else to love and to love you back. A counselor is there only to facilitate you, all the hard word must come from you, and your cooperation with that person is very critical for your success. Be positive everyday and learn to be contended with what you have. Do some left brain exercises: it is the happy brain. Here are a few suggestions: shut your left nostril and breathe, move your eyes from right to left and vice versa for at least half a minute at a time, and do callisthenic exercises with some form of counting, regularly.
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How to reduce smoking. please suggest me any way to control it?

PhD (Psychology), MSc Psychology, MS
Psychologist,
Dear, quitting smoking is tricky but is very easy task. There are several methods in psychotherapy to quit smoking. Initially you need to show will power which we will impart through motivation therapy and mind power building therapy. Then slowly you learn to adjust yourself with the non-smoking regime. It will take time, but will be a success. Consult me for more online therapy and counseling. Take care.
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I am 22 year old. I am doing masterbetting from 4 yrs. Once in a fortnight But right now I am very depress because of study. I am doing it nw twice in a day I know it not good for health. But can not control. In night time my hand goes automatically towards penis. And in day time if I see some sexy or beautiful girl penis size enlarges. But I do not why this is happening. I am not thinking that lets have sex with her. Why this is happening with me Pls help me.

MBBS
General Physician, Cuttack
I am 22 year old. I am doing masterbetting from 4 yrs. Once in a fortnight
But right now I am very depress because of...
1. Stay busy and focused by engaging in activities like playing games/sports, learning music/painting etc. 2. Find new hobby like cooking, gardening, writing, public speaking 3. Eat healthy diet 4. Volunteer your time by doing social work like tutoring needy children/ working at shelter home and rendering free service, raising money for a good cause 5. Avoid loneliness, socialise with friends/relatives 6. Stop watching porn in computer/moble 7. Develop will power, determination to stop practicing 8. Don't have guilty consciousness since it is normal and a healthy way of relieving sexual tension if done in moderation (1-2 times/week) 9. Get adequate sleep (7-8 hours daily) 10. Take plenty of green leafy vegetables, fruits and have balanced diet. Avoid oily/spicy/fried/junk food. Try to have vegetarian food. Observe fasting for 1-2 days in a week 11. Avoid alcohol/smoking 12. Drink plenty of water (8-10 glass daily) 11. Go for regular aerobic exercise for one hour daily like brisk walking/jogging/running/cycling/swiing 12. Do yoga, pranayam, meditation to calm your mind, control your emotion and relieve stress 13. Consult a sex therapist/ counselor for further advice.
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Reasons Pre-marital Counselling is Crucial for Indian Couples

Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists (MRCOG), MS, MBBS
Gynaecologist, Ghaziabad
Reasons Pre-marital Counselling is Crucial for Indian Couples

6 Reasons Pre-marital Counselling is Crucial for Indian Couples

A study published in the Journal of Family Psychology reveals that couples who opt for pre-marital counselling experience higher levels of conjugal satisfaction than couples who don’t go for it. Moreover, these couples, the study says, experience a 30% drop in the possibility of divorce over a 5-year period.

Pre-marital counselling is a wise choice as it can help you and your partner to better understand the dynamics of your relationship and build the foundation of a happy future together.

A pre-marital counselling helps you with the following factors-

1. Hygiene

Apart from stressing on the importance of personal health and hygiene, you would also hear a gynaecologist emphasising on the significance of sexual hygiene for a problem-free married life. While preventing infections that may affect your reproductive system, maintaining sexual hygiene can also significantly elevate the overall hygiene levels of your entire body.

2. Sex

Pre-marital sex counselling is essential as it helps to fill in the gaps in your knowledge of sex. During your consultation with a gynaecologist, you can expect to receive information about the male and female anatomy as well as about the actual act. Even thoughts like “sex can be painful” get addressed during the counselling.

3. Contraceptives

Counselling sessions with a gynaecologist can also help you in getting your facts right about pregnancy. He or she could guide you on how to work out safe and unsafe days to have sex; talk to you about contraceptive methods; and best family planning practices.

4. Folic acid for pregnancy

During a counselling session, you can expect to be encouraged by a gynaecologist to have Vitamin B (folic acid) before and during your pregnancy to avert birth defects in the brain and spinal cord of your potential offspring.  

5. Vaccines

Opting for a counselling session before marriage can help you to learn about vaccines that will protect you against cervical cancer (cancer of the cervix caused mainly by HPV- a virus) and rubella (a disease caused by the rubella virus, which can cause miscarriage, birth defects and stillbirth).

6. Medical investigations

You should also expect investigations based on the following tests-

a. Complete blood count test: The aim of this test is to assess your overall health and identify a range of disorders such as anaemia, leukaemia, and infection to name a few.

b. Fasting/blood sugar test: The test is performed to diagnose diabetes.  A fasting blood glucose level of less than 100mg/dl is considered normal.

c. Thyroid stimulating hormone test: This test is taken to check for problems in the thyroid gland.

d. Rubella test: It is used to identify antibodies that are formed in the blood, as a result of immunisation or the rubella infection.

e. HPLC (high performance liquid chromatography): The test is performed to determine Thalassemia.

f. Urine microscopy: The test helps in determining the condition of your urinary tract and kidney. It identifies injury, presence of disease or inflammation of these areas.

 

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I am 21 year old guy and suffering from social anxiety. I do not know how to overcome this.

MBBS, MD - Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Delhi
I am 21 year old guy and suffering from social anxiety. I do not know how to overcome this.
Social Anxiety can be overcome by behavioral therapy. You can do I yourself at home. Flooding, a form of behavioral therapy, is particularly helpful for people with social anxiety. To practice flooding, simply expose yourself to as many social situations as possible, and feel the anxiety. Gradually, your anxiety related to social events will diminish and disappear.
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Hello, I am getting heart pain (according to rhythm) whenever I am stressed or get angry on someone. I smoke 5 cigrates ina day and stopped for last two days. Now it's little better. It's getting even better if I jog in the morning. Felt the difference. What is causing this? What should I do to fix it permanently. I smoke for last ten years and get angry frequently many times in the past and never had this problem. Pls advise?

Diploma in Obstetrics & Gynaecology, MBBS
General Physician, Delhi
Hello,
I am getting heart pain (according to rhythm) whenever I am stressed or get angry on someone. I smoke 5 cigrat...
Stop smoking, stop taking stress of getting angry and do not take everything to heart. Eat a healthy food with less oils, more seasonal fruits and vegetables and be your own doctor to reduce stress.
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I am 57 years old male with normal health suffering with mild depression, like feeling of unsecured, no sound sleep, mental fatigue, fear, no concentration, drowsiness, no desire to work, irritation, short tampered, at times low BP, extremely sentimental, highly emotional, desire to remain on bed. Taking Daxid50 for last 6 years (1 tab in 2 or 3 days). Life is very dull with no joy. Please help. Middle class family with no tension in family and everything is normal. Walk 5 kms a day in early morning also. Doing job well.

MD - Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Chennai
I am 57 years old male with normal health suffering with mild depression, like feeling of unsecured, no sound sleep, ...
The word depressed is a common everyday word. People might say" i'm depressed" when in fact they mean" i'm fed up because i've had a row, or failed an exam, or lost my job" etc. These ups and downs of life are common and normal. Most people recover quite quickly. With true depression, you have a low mood and other symptoms each day for at least two weeks consult a psychiatrist and get evaluated. Your depression needs to be evaluated, if mild option is cbt, cognitive behavior therapy alone or along with medicines, if moderate both, if severe, medication s mainly and later cbt.
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I had good friend, but he died in few days before. Now I fell very depressed please tell me how I can move from this depression?

Ph. D - Psychology
Psychologist, Margao
I had good friend, but he died in few days before. Now I fell very depressed please tell me how I can move from this ...
Losing a loved one can be a highly charged and very traumatic time. Thoughcoping with loss can be a deeply personal experience, there are a few basic and universal steps to the bereavement and grief process. Knowing these steps can help you to work through your grief over the loss of a loved one. Step 1: Allow the feelings Coping with the loss of a loved one brings up almost every emotion imaginable. There are times when more than one emotion seems to take hold at once, and you may feel as if you're “going crazy.” It's natural to feel this way, as it's normal to experience a number of different feelings. Gently remind yourself in your time of bereavement and grief that your feelings are yours, and they are well within the norm. It's important to your process to understand that there is no" right" or" wrong" when it comes to your feelings about losing a loved one. Step 2: Gather support While there may be times as you are coping with loss when you'll wish to be alone, it's important to gather a support group around you for those times when you might need them. Friends, family, a Minister or Rabbi and perhaps even a therapist are all people who can and should be accessed during your grief process. These individuals can be accessed for emotional support as well as physical needs, if required. The death of a loved one often leaves a large hole in the life of the survivor that can be, at least temporarily, occupied by a support team.
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From past of 5 years I had bad habits of masturbation and finally I quit this giant habit, that's why I lost my memory power, thinking ability What should I do for recover Brain power again. Professionally I am mechanical engineer.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
From past of 5 years I had bad habits of masturbation and finally I quit this giant habit, that's why I lost my memor...
Masturbation has nothing to do with brain power or memory. The guilt around it may have caused enough stress to cause a lot of distraction and therefore there might have been some memory loss.You may be under this stress, and I do not know if you are aware of it. Find out if there is any other disturbance and as you address it, memory and concentration will happily return to favor you. Do meet with a counselor, if your stress is too much. In the meantime please follow the suggested guidelines: Daily exercise of at least half an hour is a must. Even if you go to a gym, ask for aerobic and/or calisthenics exercises with whatever else you are doing. A healthy body harbors a healthy mind. With regard to memory, it is very important that your brain and body is ideally rested to be able to recall whatever is required, rather comfortably. Puzzles pose problems to the brain that help it to use new pathways and neurons, which give the brain considerable exercise. It taxes the left brain to use logic to solve the myriad possibilities which other activities do not stimulate. Crosswords are excellent for vocabulary learning and use. Jigsaws and Rubik cube stimulate different permutations to finally settle on the most likely one. Picture completion and anagrams help approach problem solving from several angles. Do Sudoku, and memory co-relation activities and skills. Have a good night?s sleep, have a good breakfast of more proteins, meditate often, remain free of stress, eat a lot of fiber (whole grains, fruits and vegetables), nuts, avocado, eat dark chocolate, consume less of fat and use olive oil or coconut oil instead, do Yoga meditation exercises, etc. You need to check out if you are stronger visual or auditory. The visual is a better mode than the auditory. However, if you combine the two modes, you will get the best concentration. Short-term memory is a faculty of the left brain, and long-term memory is a feature of the right brain. But you must have short term memory to convert it into long-term memory. So the emphasis must be in activating good short term memory, ideally and always. When people are stressed, they tend to favor the right brain and abandon the left brain, where short-term memory resides. So, it is really very simple: deal with the stress and activate left brain functions. Here are a few suggestions to activate left brain function: shut your left nostril and breathe, move your eyes from right to left and vice versa for at least half a minute at a time, and do callisthenic exercises with some form of counting, regularly. If your home life is full of distractions and stress, it is likely to affect your memory, adversely. In that case, I suggest that you and the family go for counseling too.
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I am a boy of age 22, from 2 days I am having a burning feeling in my stomach n it is uncomfortable. I have had medicine bought from farmacy but still the burn is there abit bit. Wat might be the problem please help. My exams are goin on.

Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surgery (BAMS), MD - Ayurveda
Sexologist, Haldwani
I am a boy of age 22, from 2 days I am having a burning feeling in my stomach n it is uncomfortable. I have had medic...
Hello- burning in the stomach is the symptom of hyper acidity. It can occur due to following reasons- >excessive consumption of spicy food. >excessive intake of coffee/tea. >late night activites (going to bed late) >intake of green leafy vegetables some times cause hyper acidity too. Try these house hold tips to get relief- 1. Drink cold milk. 2. Take 1 green cardomom with 1 clove bud and swallow it with water without chewing. 3. You can also chew some mint leaves for quick results.
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Respected doctor. I just changed the brand of paroxetine CR tablets because old brand was not available. Is it harmful? Thanks.

MBBS, MD - Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Faridabad
Respected doctor. I just changed the brand of paroxetine CR tablets because old brand was not available. Is it harmfu...
Dear lybrate-user, it is not harmful as long as you keep salt and preparation same as before. All d best.
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I am 44 yrs old having wife and 2 kids age 10 & 6. I am working in merchant navy. Due to my job I am out of my family about 7 to 8 months. I had love marriage I am hindu and she is catholic and there is lot of difference in culture and I cant understand her language and we are staying close to her parents house. She does not allow any my family member to come to my house. Last one year she started mens hostel business and due to this she ask me lot of money and I never ask and she never tell me what she is doing with money. Now a days she leaves house about 9 in the morning and comes back 9 in the night. I need to do all my house work. When ever I ask her to come back early she start shouting on me abuse me and says you dont believe me. And she abuse my parents after that we start verbal fighting and she calls her mother and say everything I cant understand anything. She gets phone call till night 12. 30 and if I ask she says why you want to know. I am getting disturb bcz I have only few months leave after again I will go back to ship. I am feeling very lonely and cant understand whats going on her mind. Sometime feel to suicide and end my life. She start saying that I am mad and need to go to doctor. Doctor pls let me know what should I do.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
Running a hostel can be a 24-hour job. She could be very busy, but when you come she needs to make some arrangement to spend time with you. Where are the kids in all this? how has your sex life been all these years? perhaps she could also be frustrated being without you for such long periods of time. I don? t know for how long she has been running this hostel but she should be earning substantially by now, if it is a profitable business, as I know it to be. Why is she talking to people so late in the night? why does she have to talk to her mother in her language only? there are too many loose ends and some investigation needs to be initiated. You can appoint a reliable detective agency to find out and to keep a tab on her dealings. If it is proved that it was all in vain, then at least you can rest peacefully in your mind. But if there is something going on, it is time to confront the same. You need not be foolish about it all. There has to be some account about the money that is being spent, her time, the children? s upkeep and definitely spending quality time with you when you come down. She seems to brush you off with weak arguments which are not good signs. Now if it is proved that she has been playing up, is she worth dying for? not at all. Nobody is worth dying for, period. Before getting into any speculation, find out and then do what is needful. You have a right to know about your wife, her dealings, her time of 12 hours out, and the wellbeing of your kids. Have a serious talk to her, if possible, after you have some evidence. Unless your parents have interfered or were rude to her, she should not be disrespectful to them. In all inter-caste marriages, the differences pose problems and can lead to a lot of complications, if the couple are not very adjustable people.
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I am 28 years male with personal family problems mentally I was very disturbed, psychologically I am very bad situation. I am married person my marriage life is very bad from the beginning i.e, from 2 years, problem arised from income, nothing but my salary is low they are showing this is big reason and another big reason is to separate family their feeling is I should leave my parents & my family. Please give a best advice to me. Some times I think my life is waste, I studied b-tech, pgdhe & doing m.tech also but I am not well settled. I am questioning what I am, what should I do? what is my life? but no answer I am getting. I am very disappointed, please give your valuable advice to me.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
I am 28 years male with personal family problems mentally I was very disturbed, psychologically I am very bad situati...
Dear, I am sure many of you like youngsters are suffering from such incomplete thoughts. Your development period or age is called young adulthood. During this period many such conflict arise. You will feel your life's worth when you settle your disputes with these conflicts. First thing I would like to suggest you is to be passionate with your job. You should not worry about income now. Be passionate with your job, learn, improve your knowledge and experience and be skilled. Future will be yours.
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She lose her mind control she is doing crazy things like she gets angry very fast she talk alone she didn't listening any family member etc. what should she do ?

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear Lybrate user, Anger and aggression are emotions. Anger comes when you become irritated. Irritation happens when you don't like something, or when something is repeated. As anger is an emotion, it should be vent out. You should be able to throw anger out instead of controlling it. But more perfect will be, know the frustrating situations and stop being emotional. If practiced properly, you will not get irritated at those circumstances at all. Those techniques are much easier to understand. Take care.
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I m 50 years old man. My mouth is not open properly. Chewing tobacco products since many years. What can I do suffering this problem?

BDS
Dentist, Ahmedabad
Due to smoking and tobaco chewing the soft tissues of oral cavity as well as muscles get stiff over the period of time, results in restricted mouth opening. These habits also leads to the disease of gums as well. The first and primary treatment starts with quitting the habit. Execise to be done at home: - take the bundle of wooden ice cream sticks and place it between upper and lower teeth in front region for 10-15 mins. - repeat the exercise 2-3 times a day. - gradually increase the number of sticks every day. - continue with this exercise till desired mouth opening is achieved. - patience is required as this exercise will take several weeks to achieve the desired mouth opening. - this exercise will be helpfull only when patient quits the habit of tobaco chewing or else this exercise will not help at all.
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