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Dr. Sunil Kumar

Psychologist, Chennai

Dr. Sunil Kumar Psychologist, Chennai
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Dr. Sunil Kumar is a trusted Psychologist in Vanagaram, Chennai. He is currently associated with Serene Life Hospital in Vanagaram, Chennai. You can book an instant appointment online with Dr. Sunil Kumar on Lybrate.com.

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My mood swings too fast At same time m depressed and at the next time I am happy and vice versa. what should i do ?

Masters in Clinical Psychology
Psychologist, Lucknow
My mood swings too fast At same time m depressed and at the next time I am happy and vice versa. what should i do ?
Hi, Mood swings, or rapid changes in one's emotional state, may occur as a reaction to circumstances or environment, as a result of a physical or mental health condition, or for no apparent reason. Mood swings can sometimes be managed with the following strategies: Tracking moods can help facilitate a greater understanding of shifts and changes in emotions. Keeping written track of and journaling about moods may help some individuals notice patterns in mood shifts as well as potential triggers that might affect mood. Exercise produces endorphins, which are hormones that help control stress and improve mood. Even moderate exercise can help relieve frequent or abrupt changes in mood. Maintaining a schedule can be helpful. Doing things at the same time every day can help regulate emotional highs and lows. Sleep can help improve mood. Sleep deprivation, which can affect appetite and energy level, can also contribute to sadness, irritability, and general lowness of mood. Nutrition is considered to be a vital component to mood management. Getting enough nutrients and avoiding the consumption of large amounts of sugar, alcohol, and caffeine may help reduce the frequency of mood swings. Because mood swings may have a significant impact on health and well-being, especially when the cause goes untreated, the support of a mental health professional may be recommended. Get yourself screened by a psychologist. Consult with me for same. All the best.
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I am seriously obsessed to love. I loved a girl sincere without any bad intentions. But now she's gone due to her situations. So to forget and move on with life. What should I do?

MA In Clinical Psychology
Psychologist, Pune
Hii lybrate-user I think try to busy yourself in some fruitful activity. Once days pass everything will get in normal level.
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My father has been drinking alcohol since 20 year daily. And he crossed 51 Age. He drinks daily in less amount. Is it life threatening? please tell me what should I do.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
My father has been drinking alcohol since 20 year daily. And he crossed 51 Age. He drinks daily in less amount. Is it...
Dear lybrate-user. Though the quantity of liquor intake is less, the liver could have been damaged upto an extent, but it may not be life threatening. Please go for a liver function test. Take care.
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Actually I think a lot about everything happens with me in detail . Sometimes I feel too much cry . And feel a lot depressed . please help me to come out of it.

M.S. Counselling and Psychotherapy
Psychologist, Bangalore
Actually I think a lot about everything happens with me in detail . Sometimes I feel too much cry . And feel a lot de...
Dear lybrate user, thinking about your life situations is good. But too much of anything is harmful. What is important is, how you look at all situations. If you are thinking only about what is happening and why and how it is happening, then probably you will feel stuck after some time. You may start thinking like - ok, now this has happened, what can I do now to get out this situation? and start working on that, only then you will be able to move forward in life. Everyone has ups and downs in life. Look around, you will find there are so many people who are in worst condition, compared to yours. So count your blessings. Look at others' lives who are doing better than you, find out how they achieved this, take inspiration from them. More importantly, cry when you feel like crying. Crying is not a sign of weakness, it relieves you of your sad feelings. Talk to someone who you have faith in. Share your burden of sad things with your friends/parents etc. Learn to let go of certain things. Keep moving ahead in life, acquire new skills, gain knowledge, take charge of your life. All the best.
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Hi previously I have bf and we are having physical contact after that we broke up because of his sadist behavior in my engg my frd propose to me I accepted him but I didn't told my past bcz of feared I thought he also leave me alone after he knows my past through my ex bf he takes time after that he told he want to live with me and also he said that please tell to your parents also abt our love I trust him and I said to my parents they accepted after that he moved to us for m.s in month he said no I don't want you and my parents won't accept our love and whenever I remember abt your past I'll kill you so stop here he said like this and he avoid my calls and msgs but I am still waiting for him 1y 6m recently he came to India he want physical contact frm me we went to room he said I won't Marry you but ill be there like frd for life long I cried like a kid and my marriage was fixed by parents he said do mrrg and be happy and sorry for everything he talk with me every day like frd after cl end I cried.

MS - Counselling and Psychotherapy, Master of Arts in Clinical Psychology, Bachelor of Arts - Psychology and English Literature
Psychologist, Coimbatore
Hi previously I have bf and we are having physical contact after that we broke up because of his sadist behavior in m...
Hi lybrate-user! It happens 4G generation following such steps to have two wife's or two males in their life irrespective of what others say, they try to maintain the secret. To tell you frankly you or nor your lover is at fault. He may have been serious to you, dreamt of marrying you, but after knowing your past he feels you not loyal for having hidden the past and his parents must have been strict to him and all these reasons made him to not get married. But as you are sincere, his love towards you is true but not sincere enough to marry you, because he wants, but cannot keep you with him always so before he gets married he wants you and also before your marriage. No use of crying. Actually speaking it would be better for you to get married to someone whom your parents would choose or you shld just walk to his parents if you have the boldness enough to face and convince the situation. If you want to know more you can definitely contact me through online consultation to overcome this problem, or if painful, or if you are in confusion still. Take care. With regards
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Sometimes I think I can do anything but I sometimes I can't do any thing how to control my self confidence to achieve my goals.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Sometimes I think I can do anything but I sometimes I can't do any thing how to control my self confidence to achieve...
Dear lybrate-user. You are right. In some situation you will be able to do anything and in some nothing. Self confidence solely depend on experience. The more experience you have, the more you are confident. Take care.
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My son age is 37 years he is addicted for alcohol what should i do to get rid his habit ?

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
My son age is 37 years he is addicted for alcohol what should i do to get rid his habit ?
Dear Lybrate user, Welcome to Lybrate. Alcohol addiction also comes under abuse and addiction. The best method is always using your will power to quit substance abuse. If you’re ready to stop the substance and willing to get the support you need, you can recover from addiction and abuse —no matter how bad the addiction or how powerless you feel. The first step in treating addiction is accepting that you have a problem. Confronting an addiction and accepting responsibility for your actions isn’t easy. But it’s a necessary step on the road to treatment and recovery. You should then consult a psychiatrist / psychologist who fill follow this treatment. 1. Detoxification using medicines. 2. Behavior modification with the help of therapies. 3. Counseling. 4. Medication to sustain and 5. Long term support. These given steps are essential for any addict to get effectively rid of addiction. Therefore, you need to stick to the treatment plan. Take care.
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Dear doctors please help me to get out of my problems. please suggest me sleeping pills so that I can sleep for forever. I am just fed up with my life I cannot handle it. I love my parents alot I don't want to see them hurted only because of me. They want me to forget the man whom I love and marry some other boy. I explain them I love them a lot I cannot leave anyone neither my parents nor my love. Its been 6 months they still want me to forget him. I can't leave without my parents and my love. please suggest me sleeping pills so that this matter will become closed with me. I can't see both of them tensed because of me. I am dying daily to see my mother praying to God that I marry the boy whom they chose. I cannot leave anyone . So I have decided to leave this world. My parents think that I don't care about their feelings but they don't know how much I love them I daily think about what they want ,cry feeling helpless as my heart do not give permission me to do this. I do not have any option . I always keep praying that god please give me natural death . While walking on roads I wish some vehicle hit me to death. No one can explain my parents that what I am feeling. They are thinking about caste and their proud that what people will say if I marry my love.Please tell.

Masters in Clinical Psychology
Psychologist, Lucknow
Dear doctors please help me to get out of my problems. please suggest me sleeping pills so that I can sleep for forev...
Listen lybrate-user, people do face such tough situation in life and at times person needs to be practical more than emotional. You sure love your parents and can sacrifice the guy for him. Or move on with the guy and leave your parents i. E what they will say slowly and gradually they will adjust. Either ways things will be fine. Its your call ending life is not an option. God has given you life you should be thankful and make the most of it. Learnt o deal with pressure and stress take out the positives. Consult with me for coounseling.
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Hi, I'm 26 year old male. I'm facing a terrible problem with decision making since I'm only doing what I think it's good for everybody and leaving my personal interests at bay. Like I'm tangled between two parties. Can't keep the both happy. And I dint like awkwardness around me and I do budge myself to eradicate that. Which eventually in the process in not doing the right thing which is priorities the needs and face the consequences of the choice. Need some overdue approach to handle these.

BHMS, MD - Alternate Medicine
Homeopath, Nagpur
Hi,
I'm 26 year old male. I'm facing a terrible problem with decision making  since I'm only doing what I think it's ...
The eternal truth of life is don't try to please everybody because everybody cannot be pleased so please try to do whatever you like to do in your life and don't blame yourself for whatever you decide to do. First settle down emotionally and then take charge of your life.
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I lost somebody close last year and since then feel very depressed and prefer keeping to my self all the time. Please help me.

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
I lost somebody close last year and since then feel very depressed and prefer keeping to my self all the time. Please...
yOU can practise mind control by meditaion , yoga and reading books and may even take antidepressants
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I have been diagnosed with schizophrenia. Is being addicted to tobacco a reason for it? Can I live alone for job at a place away from family?

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
Tobacco is no contributor to schizophrenia. This disease can be a very debilitating if you do not follow the prescription meticulously. Living alone can be a problem because that will give you opportunity to withdraw, which is ill-advised for this disease. The more you socialize the better but it should be within known circles as far as possible. While social pressures can be stressful, your resolution lies in working in that context to rehabilitee yourself: but familiar people will lessen the pressure a whole lot. If you want to live alone because of your job, you must be in a more functional state psychologically and even then you will need to make friends with a select few soon enough to feel comfortable and have healthy camaraderie in a new setting. Of course you will need to find a suitable counselor and doctor in your that location for professional support.
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My worries started from my 10th standard after my mom passaway after surviving one month in the hospital and I am the young son in the family but I take care of everything due to my father got paralysis ago my studies also not good at all due to financial problems and after 3 years suddenly my dad also died due to heart attack from that time onwards I started thinking negatively and I started avoiding friends and going out playing basketball etc and then my family members started saying I am dumb I even can't do anything they always uses me like they servant they never take care of me then I started fear of future in past I attempted suicide but I failed due to lack of knowledge then I spended more two years thinking about my worst future now I became so disappointed even thoughts makes me unable think positive not able to concentrate not able to drive bike due to I can't control even I get confused left or right side and day by day passes my life ruining but one thing is sure that one day am going to commit suicide successfully now I wrote note because I want to aware you guys not to ruin your life like I ruined my life believing people around me.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
You have indeed gone through hell already by 23 years. I do not envy your position nor the situation you are in vis-à-vis your extended family not willing to see your problems and not being of support. But you must remember that this is your life. When you think of ending it, it means only one thing that you are treating yourself like the other people: that is you are hurting yourself and wanting to end your life!!! So in essence you are living or not living your life but what other people expect of you, which is to ruin it. You are in charge of your life and what you make of it. You are not accountable to anybody but to god and yourself. Please listen to me: go meet a counselor and talk these matters over. Do not do anything foolish about your life but make a good plan to both work and study. Start in a small way and step by step grow up in life and the society you live in. Do not bother what other people say unless it is true. It is possible to regain all your family lost glory and come back to life with a vengeance. See if you can connect with a relative who has some sympathy or better still if they have empathy towards your cause and together with that support act on your plans. You have to convince them of your determination and genuineness. Do not let ego or pride come in the way of your reaching out to others. Also meet with your doctor because one of the side-effects of your medicine is to have suicidal tendencies. I love that you want others to learn but not through your death. In fact, they will see that it is because of these problems that you took control of your life and made it: that sure will be a good example and role model for others to learn from you. Let me proud of you too, okay? I have helped a person aged 35 years without education, suffering from TB and drug addiction and having a very serious criminal past come out of his mess: he got married to a doctor!, and currently he is the director of an institute!!! I remember that his first investment was something he was very passionate about: a walkman set!!!
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You Need to Read This To Stay Away From Depression!

Hypnotherapist, DCS, BSIC, Advanced Trainee of Transactional Analysis, Advanced Skills in Counselling
Psychologist,
You Need to Read This To Stay Away From Depression!
You Need to Read This To Stay Away From Depression!

Depression robs people of their energy, ability to focus and pleasure. It makes them lose the joy of doing anything. In advanced cases, people may also lose their will to live. Depression is caused by factors that are mostly psychological, although a few can be physical. Certain habits and ways of living also lead to depression.

Here are few habits you must avoid.

1) Lack of Exercise: Being inactive affects your state of mind and can lead to a feeling of being depressed. If you are inactive, you also become lazy or tend to eat more, due to lack of anything better to do. This may be even more depressing.

SOLUTION: Exercise ensures your physical and mental well-being. Whenever you feel depressed, remember to exercise. Even a 20 minute brisk walking makes your brain produce the 'feel-good' chemicals, which keeps you active and in high spirits. If this not possible then just use the stairs instead of the lift, or take a few rounds of your block at whatever pace you can do. Remember to be regular in your efforts.

2) Improper Diet: Eating foods regularly which are loaded with hydrogenated fats, refined sugars and processed foods increase blood sugar levels suddenly and then dip suddenly. Our bodies and minds become lethargic with such foods. These chemicals affect the limbic brain( emotional centre) directly, making us feel blue, irritated and fatigued.

SOLUTION: Eating healthy is not only good for your body but also your brain. Food stuffs that contain omega-3 fats are referred to as brain foods and lack of such foods makes you vulnerable to depression. Eat crap and you feel like crap! Since our bodies cannot manufacture omega-3 fats, it has to be sourced from foods such as coldwater fish and seafood. Eating whole grains, fibre, vegetables, fruits rich in carbs and plenty of water Eat healthy for a healthy mind.

3) Poor Sleeping Habits and Stress: If you constantly deprive yourself of sleep or oversleep, you create a situation that risks depression. Not getting the recommended 7-9 hours of sleep leaves you irritable, agitated or hyper vigilant. A person who hasn't slept enough cannot perform daily functions properly and may feel frustrated or begin to feel trapped. A sense of loss of control makes one feel depressed. Most people don't understand that just getting enough sleep can help in keeping depression at bay.

SOLUTION: Sleeping well has a restorative and rejuvenative action on the body and mind. The body repairs itself while sleeping, dreams are a way of expelling unwanted thoughts and emotions, people develop higher immunity when they sleep well, you have better cognitive functions. You will make sound decisions with fewer errors, concentrating and focussing will be easier. Tasks will seem easier and effortless. A good sleep leaves people feeling energised, happier and alert.

4) Isolation: the experience of being separated from others - may result from being physically removed from others, as when a person lives in a remote area, or it can result from the perception of being removed from a community, such as when a person feels socially or emotionally isolated from others. Social isolation is distinct from the experience of solitude, which is simply the state of being alone, usually by choice. Taking time to be alone can be a healthy, rejuvenating experience that allows us to reconnect with our own needs, goals, beliefs, values, and feelings. But when a person experiences too much solitude or feels socially isolated from others, he or she may develop feelings of loneliness, social anxiety, helplessness, or depression, among others.

SOLUTION: Having an active social life with real and genuine people whom you gel with and have common interests is like an elixir of life. It infuses a person with a sense of wellbeing, safety, security and belonging, which is necessary for us humans. It forms social support not only in good times but also in tough times when we need help, support, suggestions and encouragement. A shared smile, a nod, a wink, laughter or story can go on a long way to make you feel uplifted.

5) Ruminating Constantly: Dwelling on negative thoughts each day, sets you up for depression. Constantly thinking of failure, loss, rejection or past events is harmful. Ruminating about something you cannot change not only makes you depressed but also drives you insane. It fosters feelings of helplessness, worthlessness and hopelessness, which are so common in depression.

SOLUTION:There are practical ways of fighting this problem, like keeping yourself busy and distracted, or just using an outlet to channel the feelings out of your system. Have a satisfying hobby to fill up your free time. Taking care of a pet, social work also helps people feel good about themselves. Use logic and rational reasoning to combat negative thinking patterns. Seeing meaning in a loss is very helpful too. Look at the positive and brighter side of each situation. Using humour to lighten some tough situations help keep the mental and emotional balance from tipping.

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I am 54 years old. My son is married but I am feeling loneliness not interested in anything. what should i do?

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
I am 54 years old. My son is married but I am feeling loneliness  not interested in anything. what should i do?
This is age related and due to separation from son. You understand that this is normal part of life in all persons and you spend time by reading, books and music, meditaion and yoga. Your menopause also may add to depression. Move with your age group people around your area and find time for some social work. Be positive in life. You can discuss itha gynecologist if you need hormone replacement for depression from menopause.
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My husband is 32 year. Now facing mood swing problem in working time like dream, old memories, flash back. And we have done mri. Some minor thickness on rt. Brain side but dr, said that its not a big issue it is a migraine aura and give medicine. But what is the treatment of mood swing? neurologist said its not a psychological problem.

D.P.M, MBBS
Psychiatrist, Nagpur
Its is psychological problem, symptoms you mentioned are present in stress related conditions, depression, and anxiety disorders please contact psychiatrist for detailed evaluation mri finding are normal.
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I had a head internal bleeding 2 weeks ago. I don't know the details but some blood and fluids entered my brain. My question is will be back to my normal life after getting cured like bike riding, theatre, headphones, walking in the daytime, swimming. I am depressed, help me. Can I lead a normal life. I am depressed.

MBBS, MD Psychiatry, DNB Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Nagpur
I had a head internal bleeding 2 weeks ago. I don't know the details but some blood and fluids entered my brain. My q...
It is too early to comment on all these things unless we track the improvements in your status. If the bleed in the brain is resolving without any irreversible damage then you will certainly be able to get back to your routines soon.
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Please suggest me that how to concentrate on my studies and to remember those which I have read.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear, You must be able to understand Concentration, attention span, recollection and distraction. If you are able to watch a movie for two hours continuously, if you are able to play a game for an hour, then you do not have any concentration problems. You can't be attentive towards your studies because you are not interested in it. You are able to watch movie and play game because you are interested in it. Human cannot be attentive towards anything for more than 10 minutes. Then you should study in such a way that your attention is continued and make the subjects are interesting to you. Effective learning techniques should help you. Recollection depends on anxiety, stress and other physical and circumstantial factors. Distractions while studying are plentiful. You should be able to overcome distractions or avoid distractions. Please understand the above. Change your study style and attitude accordingly. Please post a private question to me and I will help you with "effective learning" techniques. Avocados, Beetroots, Blueberries, Broccoli. Celery, Coconut Oil, Dark Chocolate etc are good for improving concentration. Take care.
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I have pain at right bottom of my head above right ear. I regularly smoke one or two times a day. But I try to stop smoking. Whenever I got pain usually I get relief by smoke. If I avoiding smoke it get start pain. Pls help me. It is brain problem or simple pain or major issue.

Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surgery (BAMS)
ENT Specialist, Solapur
Hello, You get relief after smoking that is the temporary effect of tobacco on your body which indirectly acts as an analgesic and the pain subsides for some hours. As per symptoms you will need an otoscopic examination of the ear which is possible only if you visit an ENT specialist. Rest I can advise you is try to quit smoking because it is harmful for your lungs and body and it will also subside body signals such as pain and other symptoms which are seen in some diseases. For detailed history taking and treatment you can take my online consultation here: www.Lybrate.com/dr-prashantpawar Thank you.
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Dear sir or madam, I am diagnosed for social phobia. Kindly suggest me very inspirational and helpful books for self healing. I am 23 years old computer engineer. Indian authors are preferable.

PDDM, MHA, MBBS
General Physician, Nashik
Dear sir or madam,
I am diagnosed for social phobia. Kindly suggest me very inspirational and helpful books for self ...
From what you have mentioned, you are definitely manifesting symptoms of social phobia. You difficulty in communicating and avoiding people are due to the same. You should consult a psychiatrist for initiating treatment for the same. Medications like sertraline and paoxetine will help in treating social phobia. In addition, you can also opt for behavior therapy sessions which will help you relax and overcome your anxiety in facing the situations. I do hope that I was able to help with your query. Best wishes,
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Me and my guy. Actually when I met him I even never knew that I will ever love him. He became my friend and than we intimately came close. And it became strong. It's almost 6 six year of a relationship. The things which bother me sometime of marriage I mean he is always afraid to talk about marriage. I don't maybe it's because he has very orthodox family and inter caste marriage are not allowed. He clearly says I love you but we don't have a future and I expect the same thing from you. Earlier these things bother me. Like I was always worried that what about our future. It's almost 6 years it constantly make me worry that we are intimately close we love each other we are so possessive we have sex and we care like husband wife. He is amazing. But I'm afraid. That if gonna talk to him about the future or wedding he ll get annoyed. Because this thing is not acceptable to him or I'm going according to him. This is an issue. I mean last we had a fight. I cannot tell you the whole thing. But yeah he became extremely furious. And said. I think you are taking sex too seriously. We should not be having sex or I think I should separate I do not want any hard feelings. Cause girls these days torchure boys. So I don't any problems for my future of my family. After hearing word separate! I cried like I cannot mention my feelings. And that to save that. I started saying his word (pls even I do not think of future. As you already told me that we won't have and do not worry I will never trouble you. Or something pls do not spoil. And more I said that night I won't be able to describe the whole) after seeing this you might think he is a bad Guy. But trust me. I see this when he is extremely angry. But I ve seen his love too. But I want commitment and a future together marriage I expect this from him. I don't have to discuss this with him. Because I'm too weak in front of him. I don't want to lose him. If it's the thing of parent I think we can convince them. He never talk to about it. I hope you can get my point. Pls suggest.

Masters in Clinical Psychology
Psychologist, Lucknow
Hi, I do not know how good or bad he is, never heard his side of story or know him. All I can say is one sided expectations can kill you. You want to marry him and he does not want to talk about it. Its a tough situation, if you can be without any commitment go ahead, if you seriously can not think of it any more, you have to take a stand and be strong once and for all, stop talking and sternly ask him about future of you both. That's the only thing rational right now. Being aggressive defensive avoiding the topic will not help, unless he has already and always made clear that he will not marry than its your fault to have agreed and gone too far with him, in this case you will have to take back step to avoid future emotional harm. Consult with me for counseling.
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