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Dr. Jayasudha Kamara is a popular Psychologist in Vanagaram, Chennai. You can visit her at Serene Life Hospital in Vanagaram, Chennai. You can book an instant appointment online with Dr. Jayasudha Kamara on Lybrate.com.

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Hi sir, I am 24 years old, my mind is not under a constant thinking ,it will be stressed by other things, I am an IT employee, I know it is a psychological problem, no medicine for it, but I need your valuable suggestion, can you suggest me what should I do?

M.S. Counselling and Psychotherapy
Psychologist, Bangalore
Hi sir, I am 24 years old, my mind is not under a constant thinking ,it will be stressed by other things, I am an IT ...
Dear lybrate user, you appear as normal as any other person. I do not think you have any psychological problem. But you appear to be under lot of stress. May be your it profession is the culprit or there may be any other personal reasons. If you continue like this, it will harm your health and your career. I suggest, take an appointment with a counsellor who will help you to manage your stress using" life skills" techniques. Take care.
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I am smoking a lot how can I get the nicotine out or what should I use to remove the nicotine form my body.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
Just stop smoking and nicotine will gradually leave your system. There are some people who are on a reactive mode and will quit only after they have got a disease or reach the worst condition in their abuse. In addiction parlance this is called ‘Hitting Rock Bottom’, that is, you will cease the abuse only when you have suffered the worst affect of the substance. Sometimes that stage may be a terminal stage and there is no turning back: it has become too late. You must live by the adage that ‘Prevention is better than cure’. To quit do the following: When quitting, you must take one day at a time. If you look too far ahead you will get discouraged and will give up. If you sit and count the number of days you have given up, that will also focus too much on achievement. You must focus on the here and now, on that day to be precise. After all quitting is not that easy due to many factors. So even if you fail one day, you must try and try again. Very few people succeed in their first attempt. Your persistence will eventually pay off. The urge to discontinue is hampered by many factors but the worst of them is the conditioning. In fact these conditions can exist all through the day unlike other addictions. But your desire to want to stop is the most important factor. It is important to find out about the ill-effects of smoking to have a reason that alarms you about continuing in the habit. The information is really scary but true and you must remind yourself about this every day. The nicotine in tobacco smoke stimulates the heart beat to raise the blood pressure in no time at all. So you must avoid it like the plague: it is just very bad medicine for you. In fact it is highly toxic too. You will need to stop smoking or consuming any tobacco related items with immediate effect. You should start vigorous exercises, gradually increasing it over a period of time. Do deep breathing exercises every time you feel like smoking (try Yoga), and replace the oral urge with some healthy food substitute to satiate the need. You may also take hard candy or chewing gum. If the urge is too strong, then use nicotine chewing gum or nicotine patches, for a little while until the smoking drive reduces, substantially. You may also join Smokers Anonymous in your city where the support is really extraordinary for like-minded people who are also in the same situation. Keep yourself occupied or engaged with interesting activities during the times when it is most tempting. Keep the company of non-smokers for some time i.e. at least for the first 21 days. Above all announce it to everyone that you have quit smoking. Here’s a piece of very good advice: even if you accidentally/willfully take a cigarette, it is not the end of the world – you can start the cessation all over again. You must persevere with the best support until you defeat this addiction. Counseling is very useful in the initial stages and when temptations are at their highest.
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Hi ,day by day my nature & feelings are being changed .I always feel nervousness little afraid although I am brave but I don't k ow what's happening to me I got affected by a simple things also and I need a good time to become normal that's cause hamper to my studies .I feel very restless I CNT sit nor walk its very unusual feeling difficult to describes. And ya my heart it have also some affects I can't describe it ya sometime its beat fast and some other affects also But how can I describes my self its very difficult to write .In simple I always feel very nervous and due to this I can't gain weight at the age of 21 my wt is just 41. Ht 5: 5. Hope that you understand my problems. And ya whenever I feel this type of feeling I can't eat not a single piece of anything except liquid .my friends told me you thinks too much that's y this things are happening ya true I think too much but I can't control my mind .and thinking too much give me little peace I know its not peace but I feel good please suggest me doctors what I will do hope that you will understand what I'm telling to say .

M.S. Counselling and Psychotherapy
Psychologist, Bangalore
Hi  ,day by day my nature & feelings are being changed .I always feel nervousness little afraid although I am brave b...
Dear lybrate user, I think you feel chocked. There are lot many things going on in your mind but you are unable to express it. You might be scared and probably feeling shameful about something in life. You might be angry with someone or something. You need to express your feelings which will relieve your anxiety and stress. Once you are relieved of your troublesome thoughts and feelings, you will start feeling lighter. You will start taking interest in life and may have more appetite and eventually put on more weight. If there are any problems at home, try to discuss with concerned people and try to resolve them. You may talk to your school or college counsellor. The counsellor will help you. Take care.
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Sir I have a bad habit to eat (gutkha) tobacco. I want to quit it but I unable to do it. Please tell me what to do?

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
If it is Hans and gutkha products, they are both very dangerous. I am so glad that your intention is to quit this habit. There are no guarantees about stopping one’s addiction. But that does not mean we should not keep at it, over and over again until we succeed. It is a tobacco product and will therefore have addictive components to it. It may feel like you can’t stop but that it really not true. If you do not try, then it will never happen. You must try and try again until you succeed. The problem with addiction is that you have this product which is conditioned to various events in your daily life and as such it will make it difficult but not impossible. You could work with an addiction counselor to help you process the rehabilitation. It is important to first find out about the ill-effects of tobacco use to have a reason that alarms you about continuing in the habit. The information is really scary and true. The nicotine in tobacco stimulates the heart beat to raise the blood pressure in no time at all. So you must avoid it like the plague: it is just very bad medicine for you. In fact it is highly toxic too. You will need to stop consuming any tobacco related items with immediate effect. Nicotine also reduces the erectile capacity of your penis to hamper satisfying sex. You should start vigorous exercises, gradually increasing it over a period of time. You need to replace the oral urge with some healthy food substitute to satiate the need. You may also take hard candy or chewing gum. If the urge is too strong, then use nicotine chewing gum or nicotine patches, for a little while until the tobacco drive reduces, substantially. Both will help but I am inclined to favor the gum because it is an oral habit and it will occupy the mouth just as though you were still chewing tobacco. When you want it will be easier to give up the gum. Keep yourself occupied or engaged with interesting activities during the times when it is most tempting. Keep the company of non-users for some time i.e. at least for the first 21 days. Above all announce it to everyone that you have quit consuming it. You must persevere with the best support until you defeat this addiction. Counseling is very useful in the initial stages and when temptations are at their highest.
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I want to tell you that I got married 1 year ago. My wife didn't show any desire to get physical. Whenever I ask her or try to convince her she always try to change the topic. We are in relation for 4 year before marriage. Before marriage she was also not interested in doing these things so I didn't force her not even a single time. Please tell me what to do now. I want to become father. Is there any solution.

Master of Clinical Psychology, Post Graduate Diploma in Psychological Counselling
Psychologist, Pune
Work on maintaining emotional bonds between both of you. Spend more time with her and try to know her feelings. If she doesn't feel your love, care and support, try to make changes in expressing your love, care and support. Once you get emotionally closed, she will feel to get physically close,
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My grandson, aged 24 years, is diagnosed adult attention deficit disorder. He normally returns home very very late in the night, say about 2.00 am or 4.00 a. M. How to stop him from doing this and what medicines will help him to avoid this sleeplessness.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear, your grandson is suffeting from add. There are many symptoms, but almost all are curable with the help of medicines. Hope your grandson is taking medicines as prescribed by psychiatrist. In the present case, I think, your grandson is taking anti-advantage of the favorable situation. You should not interfere in this, but you may consult apsychologist for psychotherapy and counseling. You may contact me in case you want further clarification. Take care.
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I panic and worry over small situation that leads to instead sweating, headache and constipation. Any solution?

MBBS, MD - Psychiatry, MBA (Healthcare)
Psychiatrist, Davanagere
I panic and worry over small situation that leads to instead sweating, headache and constipation. Any solution?
Good Morning ~ Worrying about small situations and unusually being worried in situations that others would usually not worry about or being worried about being worried are all signs of treatable anxiety. If that is the case then it can manifest in physical symptoms as well and this may lead to headache and constipation. Medications are useful and you will benefit from visiting with a psychiatrist as soon as possible.
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I am 40 years of age male I have developed a strong habit of alcohol. Can you suggest to de-addiction of the same habit.

BHMS
Homeopath, Faridabad
Hello, take acid phos q, 10 drops twice daily with water and quercus 1x, 2 tabs thrice daily. Revert me after 3 weeks.
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8 Tips To Rev Up Your Relationship With Your Partner

MSc Psychotherapy -King's College- London, Pg diploma in counselling
Psychologist, Gurgaon
8 Tips To Rev Up Your Relationship With Your Partner

For years I have been practicing as a psychotherapist in different parts of the world and what I have noticed is that no matter what kind of relationship or marriage a couple are in, when they end up in my office it's always for the same reason: they want to be happier, healthier and more-connected even though the issues can vary - money, sex, infidelity, in-laws, children etc.

Despite this each relationship is completely subjective and no clear cut rules can be executed on it, yet following certain guidelines may help proceeding happily in a relationship.

If you are struggling in your relationship (and if you are reading this article there is a big chance you are unless you are one of my friends..or both) you might find it helpful to follow some of these ideas:

1. Love yourself - You must love yourself before you can love another. By accepting yourself and fully being what you are, your simple presence can make others happy. Accepting yourself fully as you are and showing yourself this same unconditional love will provide protection, healing, and confidence to work on your shortcomings.

2. Adopt a positive lifestyle - There are many different ways in which you can embrace a more positive lifestyle - practice affirmations, express gratitude, meditation, exercise... just find something that helps you unwind and enjoy life. And most importantly - keep doing these things repeatedly.

3. Empathize with your partner - The ability to empathize is what inhibits us from just going through life doing whatever we want, without any regard for others. It is what makes compromise in a relationship possible. If I realize that something I've done has hurt you (because I can empathize with your pain or unhappiness) I will hesitate to do that again.

4. Take responsibility: Don't try to figure out who's right - When couples come for therapy, one or both tend to think that the primary problem is their partner. Both people co-create the climate of the relationship. And both need to do some things differently to create the marriage or relationship they both really want. If your intention is to create a more positive world for yourself and those around you, it's up to you to have the thoughts, moods, and actions that will create that world.

5. Stay connected - When there is distress in the marriage or relationship, one or both usually feel some emotional disconnection. Frequently, sexual passion diminishes as well. (However, sometimes one partner will try to increase frequency of sex in an effort to feel connected.). And often, people will busy themselves with work or kids instead, or do other things to either try to feel connected or to avoid being alone with the person with whom they feel the pain of disconnection

6. Express thoughts, feelings, and wishes - Resentment can build when couples sweep things under the rug, so be vulnerable and don't bury negative feelings, but try to express them in a respectful way.

Opening up to your partner can make you feel vulnerable and exposed, but it is the most important part of an intimate relationship. In Daring Greatly, Dr. Brene Brown defines vulnerability as uncertainty, risk, and emotional exposure. Given this definition, the act of loving someone and allowing them to love you may be the ultimate risk. Love is uncertain. It's risky because there are no guarantees and your partner could stop loving you. Exposing your true feelings may mean that you are at a greater risk for being hurt or criticized.

7. Try new things together - Boredom can be a major obstacle to lasting romantic or companionate love.

Psychological research has suggested that couples who experience the most intense love are the ones who enjoy participating in new or challenging 'self-expanding' activities together.

8. Preserve your independence - Dr Perel, in her popular TED talk explains that neediness and caretaking in long-term partnerships - which can easily result from looking to the partnership for safety, security and stability - damper the erotic spark. But if couples can maintain independence and witness each other participating in individual activities at which they're skilled, they can continue to see their partner in an ever-new light.

If after trying the above you are still struggling with your relationship, make sure you go and see a couple therapist.

Two couples talking in one couple's living room...

One says to the other, 'The work being done on your marriage.. are you having it done or are you doing it yourselves?'

'Consult'.

Related Tip: Is Shahrukh correct when he says 'Love can happen only once'?

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I'm too depressed with my life. I have financial problem. I have 10months old baby. I had an operation to deliver him. So i have health issues as well. I also working due to financial prob. But my mother in law is not helping me. She always care about my husband alone. She dont even care abt me. I will be having work from 6am till 10pm without any rest. But she will not help or do any work. My mother oly is taking care of my baby. My husband is also not supporting me in any ways. Also dont care abt me always care about his mother comfort. All put together i am having lots of pain physically and mentally. So far my husband was so supportive for me but now it has gone. He changed a lot. That's the biggest disappointment for me cant take it. I feel like i lost everything. I feel like committing suicide for past three days. Dont know what to do, my baby in stopping me to do this.

BHARAT JYOTI, MRACGP, INCEPTOR, MD-PhD, MD - Psychiatry, FIPS, Fellow of Academy of General Education (FAGE), DPM, MBBS
Psychiatrist, Bangalore
You need to be patient with the current situation as you are still in Postpartum situation and is physically and mentally strained. You need to cope up with the situation with patience. Since your husband and in laws are not co-operating with you, you need to speak to them about your illness and condition and speak out with a counsellor and let them be informed of your situation. But make it sure you need time to nurture the baby and as you are not well you need to rest and take good nutrition and rest. You have to improve your Self esteem and be assertive about your needs and not aggressive. If you still find worse contact your own doctor as to what to do.
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I am 25 year young start working in a bank. presently I am facing a problem of short memory. I forget things very soon. Because of that I have to put so much pressure on my mind and feeling meantly tiered after that. I am feeling difficulty to remember very basic things. In one rime I can't learn one thing like my other friends of same age-group. After going through same thing 2 or 3 times then it enters in my mind. So please sugest it is a problem or common. Please suggest any remedy.

DHMS (Diploma in Homeopathic Medicine and Surgery)
Homeopath, Ludhiana
Actually what I gues regarding your problem I that you do not enjoy your work and take it as a burden you try to do many thing in one go or many things are continuously engulfing your mind at the same time and you get blank so try to make a fixed routine in your life in which proper sleep play an important part-try to take 8-9 hrs of proper sleep and tart taking below given homoeopathic medicines for 1 month--we will consult after 1 month of taking this medicine homoeopathic medicine bacoppa monneri (wilmar schwabe india) chew 2 tab twice daily bramhari pranayam daily for 15 minutes report after 30 days-----------------
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I write this for my daughter. She is 23 years old and studying m. Tech staying in a hostel. Her problem is anxiety and fear. Exam, interview or any project matters comes up, her hearts start beating, no sleep, anxiety what not all. However, she is good in studies. In one of the interviews, she performed well in aptitude test but on face to face interview, she could'not utter a single word because no sound was coming out, whole body and hands were shivering etc. Other problem is she wants perfectness in all matters. When she hears about project work, her hearts starts beating till the work is over. Any medicine to overcome this unwanted fear and face the interviews etc. Like other students. Please assist.

M.B.B.S., F.I.C.A. (USA), P.G.D.I.H, F.C.G.P., D.C.A.H
Psychiatrist, Vadodara
I write this for my daughter. She is 23 years old and studying m. Tech staying in a hostel. Her problem is anxiety an...
This is all stress and worries of life. She is having insecurities and fear. Just relax. Ask her to read this. Ask yourself what bothers you? have a positive self-talk, and learn what are those things you don't like. You need to accept your self and move on. You need to take care of your lifestyle and learn to be happy. If you cant do it yourself, meet a life coach/ stress management super-specialist like me. Once you open your heart out, you will feel free and begin to fly in life. I assure you that I can manage this and help u. You may consult me.
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Wt should I do when I feel depressed. because the there as on that my friends discouraging me.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Wt should I do when I feel depressed.
because the there as on that my friends discouraging me.
Dear lybrate user. You have to first understand that you are you. You have your own set of skills and capabilities, good points and bad points, good attitude and negative attitude. You are made by your own thinking and actions, never by others. Therefore, ignore what others say and be self respecting. Take care.
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Actually doctor I am 23 year old boy. I have no girlfriend ever. Sometimes I feel lonely of being a single. Always thinking if someone loves me. So please tell a have any physiological problem.

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
Actually doctor I am 23 year old boy.
I have no girlfriend ever. Sometimes I feel lonely of being a single.
Always th...
There is no problem and having a girl will happen when it is time for you to . FOr feeling loneliness you do meditation and yoga
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Hi, I am 21 years old I have a problem of memory loss. Actully my memory is going too weak day by day. I am an student and I m suffering from this diseas. Please help please give me some solution so that I can improve my memory

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
This is not a disease. It is just a lapse in concentration caused at your age by adolescence and hormonal imbalances. These normally last for two years and then settle down, on its own. But you could develop bad habits in this time and get into insecurity and depression for the rest of your life. It is therefore very important to learn how to deal with this situation and come out with flying colors. If you are under some stress, there will be difficulty remembering. So if you handled stress better, you will certainly improve. With regard to memory, it is very important that your brain and body is rested well to be able to recall whatever is required, rather comfortably. So, catch a good 8 hours of sleep every day. Puzzles pose problems to the brain that help it to use new pathways and neurons, which give the brain considerable exercise. It taxes the left brain to use logic to solve the myriad possibilities which other activities do not stimulate. Crosswords are excellent for vocabulary learning and use. Jigsaws and rubik cube stimulate different permutations to finally settle on the most likely one. Picture completion and anagrams help approach problem solving from several angles. Do sudoku, and memory co-relation activities and skills. Have a good breakfast of more proteins, meditate often, remain free of stress, eat a lot of fiber (whole grains, fruits and vegetables), nuts, avocado, eat dark chocolate, do yoga meditation exercises, etc. You need to check out, if you are stronger visual or auditory. The visual is a better mode than the auditory. However, if you combine the two modes, you will get the best concentration. Have a special place of learning, which should be well lit, with soft painted walls, well-ventilated, with no distractions. When you get bored, study by writing. If you repeat learning at least five to seven times, you will apparently remember for a longer time. Sit comfortably but do not slouch. The reading material should be of a fairly large print. Study at small intervals of about 40 minutes and then take a break or change the subject. Short-term memory is a faculty of the left brain, and long-term memory is a feature of the right brain. When people are stressed, they tend to favor the right brain and abandon the left brain, where short-term memory resides. So, it is really very simple: deal with the stress and activate left brain functions. Here are a few suggestions to activate left brain function: shut your left nostril and breathe, move your eyes from right to left and vice versa for at least half a minute at a time, and do callisthenic exercises with some form of counting, regularly. There are some memory enhancing techniques and study methods that your teacher will be able to guide you with. You may also meet with a counselor to take care of the stress related emotions, and then you will fare better too.
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I want to know if I'm suffering from depression. I'm in a relationship. Everyone around me thinks my boyfriend loves me very much. I too sometimes feel the same. But not always. I expect him to care for me more, but he doesn't have time for me. I need him, but he is not always there for me. I'm very short tempered, and I think he thinks I'm a burden to him. I don't feel like eating. I don't socialize much. Can't share my feelings with anyone. I love him so much. I'm suffering like anything. I need some help.

M.Phil - Psychology, M.A - Clinical Psychology
Psychologist, Delhi
I want to know if I'm suffering from depression. I'm in a relationship. Everyone around me thinks my boyfriend loves ...
Hi lybrate-user, It does not sound like you are suffering from depression. However, it is important that you realize the root cause of why you are feeling so low. You are looking at yourself from the eyes of your boyfriend, others. Your life is not just about being someone's girlfriend. There is a whole new person existing inside you apart from your relationship which you need to discover. I suggest you go for regular Counseling to share your life freely and learn to develop your confidence and strengths. Take care.
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I have pain and stiffness around neck, chest n shoulders for about 5 years . I heard from people that this is called cervical . The pain n stiffness increasing day by day. I'm so anxious, please suggest me a solution.

FRHS, Ph.D Neuro , MPT - Neurology Physiotherapy, D.Sp.Med, DPHM (Health Management ), BPTh/BPT
Physiotherapist, Chennai
I have pain and stiffness around neck, chest n shoulders for about 5 years . I heard from people that this is called ...
Do take an physiotherapist intervention for rehabilitation exercises and electro therapeutic modalities to relieve the pain management do revert for further assistance best wishes.
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M 29 years old male. M suffering from general anxiety disorder since 5 to 6 years. Everyday I have to take medicines to control it. Is there any permanent cure for this problem even before sleeping I have to take medicines. Please advise I want to get out of this problem permanently.

MD - Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Chennai
M 29 years old male. M suffering from general anxiety disorder since 5 to 6 years. Everyday I have to take medicines ...
Unfortunately for GAD, you need to take long time or maybe even lifetime treatment. Make up your mind, so that the expectation of stopping medicine does not arise. All the best.
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Dear sir/ma'am, I am 29 years male wt 78 kgs from the last few months approx 10, I have got shivering in my hand while I am getting angry, even I feel change in my voice and complete shivering in my whole body. Please suggest.

Hypnotherapist, DCS, BSIC, Advanced Trainee of Transactional Analysis, Advanced Skills in Counselling
Psychologist,
The reason you shiver when you are angry is because your anger is intense and your nerves are giving way to the emotional outburst. It looks like that your nervous system is weakening under the emotional pressures that you are going through. You could take counselling sessions where you can learn and become self aware about your anger and find positive ways to express your anger and still get your point across. 1. Anger is a normal emotion like joy and happiness and you need not be embarrassed if you get angry. However, if expressed too often and in an unappropriate manner, it not only will harm your health and mental balance, but also impact your work and relationships. 2. Befriend your anger. Don't embrace anger wholly, but keep it at a distance and analyse it by seeing how it looks and feels like to be angry. Where do you feel in in your body and what color and shape is it. The more you understand your anger, it will lose its grip on you and you will be free from that emotion. Thus you have let go of your anger. 3. Use I statements: when arguing and fighting, we blame each other for what went wrong. This makes the fight very ugly and both parties get angry and agitated. Adding instances from the past is like adding fuel to fire. So learning from here, stay with the present issue and refrain from digging up the past. Don't use blaming tone and words. It hurts the other person. Instead, say" when you said/did. I felt very angry that time because I expected you to. Here you are taking responsibility for your anger. Remember no one can make you angry. You are yourself responsible for your emotional state. 4. Be less critical: everyone makes mistakes and nobody is perfect including you. So it's ok if someone has made a small mistake. Can you overlook it and say. Next time please make sure that this doesn't happen again? also, what you may expect may never actually happen because the other person has a different view point. Learn to see different perspectives and try to strike a balance. There is fun in variety. If everyone thinks alike then life will be very boring and repetitive. Forgiveness is a large part of anger management. If you have any queries, please contact me on private chat.
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