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Dr. Gulam

Sexologist, Chennai

Dr. Gulam Sexologist, Chennai
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Dr. Gulam is a trusted Sexologist in Triplicane, Chennai. Doctor is currently associated with CURA CLINIC in Triplicane, Chennai. You can book an instant appointment online with Dr. Gulam on Lybrate.com.

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Plz help me! I am getting water like substance from my penis when I am exciting or watching a short kissing scene .I m very disappointing with all that ,plz doctor tell my what's that or if it danger for me.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Plz help me!
I am getting water like substance from my penis when I am exciting or watching a short kissing scene .I ...
Dear Lybrate user. The transparent clear liquid which comes out of your penis while having foreplay, speaking to a girl, watching porn etc is called pre-cum. This is a natural procedure and you don't have to stop it. Pre-cum is used as a lubricant on the penis glans, when the penis enters the vagina. Please understand. This is never a health problem. Don't worry. Take care.
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I used contraceptive pills too many time its just like hell I used that 10 to 14 time and now I suffer from stomachs in every morning till last year and I got period only one day in a month tell me what can I do.

Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surgery (BAMS)
Ayurveda, Mumbai
I used contraceptive pills too many time its just like hell I used that 10 to 14 time and now I suffer from stomachs ...
visit GYNECOLOGIST check ur CBC have KUMARIASAV 10 ml+ LOHASAV 10ml+ water 20ml after lunch & dinner
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During sex from vagina there is itching and a curd thing is coming and having smell and other times there is itching. Why it's happening? Any solutions.

MD - Obstetrtics & Gynaecology
Gynaecologist, Mumbai
U r suffering from fungal infection inside the vagina and around. You can apply candid-b cream at the opening and use clingen vaginal pessary vaginally for 3 days.
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I want detail about phimosis and how to cure it? Any urologist here? About tight foreskin.

MBBS
General Physician, Jalgaon
I want detail about phimosis and how to cure it? Any urologist here? About tight foreskin.
Please Put some coconut oil drops below penile skin and do forward and backward movements of penile skin slowly avoiding masturbation Do it for 3 months It will be free Otherwise Consult nearby surgeon in person and go for circumcision.
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Sometime breast me pain hota hai then gala sukhne lagta hai aise kyu hota hai can you tell me.

BHMS
Homeopath, Raebareli
Sometime breast me pain hota hai then gala sukhne lagta hai aise kyu hota hai can you tell me.
Breast pain can be due to man-handling ,wearing tight garments, injury, cyst, tumour etc If this is at the time of menstruation it is due to hormonal changes in your body. For breast pain take belladonna 30 - one dose when required. For dryness of throat it could be due to gas - focus on clearance of bowels daily.
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I use to masturbate daily. Is it dangerous or not. But I am not able to control it when I go for bath. That's y my hand automatically goes to penis and I shake it. What can I do. Will my sperm be over by the time I marry. I am 20 now. 5 more years to marry.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
I use to masturbate daily. Is it dangerous or not. But I am not able to control it when I go for bath. That's y my ha...
Dear Lybrate user. I can understand. Masturbation is normal, natural and never unhealthy. Even animals do masturbate. As a human being, you are also an animal. Every animal has sexual instinct because they are designed to reproduce. Human being also has sexual instinct and therefore he needs to satisfy sexual instinct. Therefore, to satisfy sexual instinct, a man or woman, masturbates. In any case, masturbation is never unhealthy or will never affect your physical or sexual health or it cannot affect your future sex life and the ability to have children. Masturbation cannot affect your growth or cause pimples or cause hair fall or cause shrinkage of penis or loss of vital nutrients etc. You should try to reduce the masturbation frequency to thrice a week and continue masturbation. You can be sure; there are no side effects to masturbation if you are able to restrict it to thrice a week. Jogging and physical exercise are always good to keep you fit and stop worrying about sex and allied thinking. I suggest online sex counseling and therapy. Sex thoughts, Sex addiction, masturbation addiction, porn films addiction etc comes under behavior addiction. Behavioral addiction is a form of addiction that involves a compulsion to engage in a rewarding non-drug-related behavior – sometimes called a natural reward – despite any negative consequences to the person's physical, mental, social or financial well-being. Behavior addiction needs to be curbed or controlled using your own self will power. Diverting your mind and body away from the circumstances which compels you for the addictive habit, with the help of physical exercises, games, entertainment etc can help you. Never sleep alone. Be always with your family even at night etc are some other tips. Willpower is the key always. Behavioral therapy also works well. Take care.
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I had an exposure, then I have tested HIV after 50 days at ictc clinic and reports negative. After 55 days I have tested HIV P24 antigen test and reports negative. After 120 days I have further tested HIV and reports negative. Any chances of HIV?

MBBS, MD - Psychiatry, MBA (Healthcare)
Psychiatrist, Davanagere
I had an exposure, then I have tested HIV after 50 days at ictc clinic and reports negative. After 55 days I have tes...
Good Afternoon ~ There is no chance of your having HIV infection after 120 days i.e. 3 months after exposure. However I advice you to refrain from HIGH RISK sexual behavior. I hope this works out for you and if you have any further questions I welcome them.
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She is not able to bear pain and take part in sex with me. She isn't getting feelings. She is feeling it very painful. Actually we both are new to this. She is feeling hell every time I try doing it and stop me. Please say me some tips or medications for her.

Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surgery (BAMS), L.C.P.S, PhD,D.P.S.M
Sexologist, Ahmednagar
Do the foreplay properly and then do the sex. Give some tranquiliser to her. Remove the fear about the sex from her mind and then try to do the sex.
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Common Causes of Impotency

MD - General Medicine
Sexologist, Nashik
Common Causes of Impotency

With the fast changing scenario and advancement of research, the definition of ailments are also becoming precise. Earlier, one term 'Impotency' was used in wider sense to define all sexology related problems, such as erectile dysfunction, low libido, low sperm count, infertility, and the inability to produce a child in both males and females. However today, with the advancement of research each problem has its own definition.  Impotency is the condition where you suffer from a sexual dysfunction. It can cause stress and might undermine your confidence when you and your partner have a sexual encounter. It might also cause uneasiness between the two of you or embarrassment for having a dysfunction. In men, impotency is mostly in the form of erectile dysfunction whereas in women it is the inability to get pregnant. It may be due to a physical condition or an emotional trauma that you might be facing.

Here are the two broad divisions of the causes of impotency:

  1. Psychological Causes: Depression, anxiety or stress might be the major psychological causes for impotency. Also various mental disorders might take a toll on potency and your sexual libido. A sexual dysfunction might just start very suddenly after suffering from any psychological trauma. A very common psychological problem which men face at least once in their lifetime is a condition called performance anxiety. You become extremely conscious about whether you will be able perform well as the society expects men to take an upper hand while having sex. This burdens you and you get anxious about your performance in bed, causing you to suffer from a dysfunction. In cases of a marital dispute or lack of communication with your partner might also be a reason of an occasional dysfunction. 
  2. Physical Causes in women: The physical causes may or may not be curable naturally. Sometimes surgeries are required to cure these causes. Some medicines have certain side effects which can cause a dysfunction to form. Often times not enough blood flows to the reproductive organs which results in impotency. Certain nervous and hormonal disorders also affect your potency. Disorders like Polycystic Ovary Syndrome, Pelvic Inflammatory Disease, blocked fallopian tubes, hormonal imbalances causing irregular periods, or improper egg implantation can cause impotency. In these cases it is extremely difficult for the women to become pregnant, i.e., you will not be able to conceive. 
  3. Physical Causes in men: Having a low sperm count is the most common factor which results in impotency. Hormonal disorder like hypogonadism which results in a low sperm count is also a contributing factor. If you have a blockage in the testicles, it will again affect the sperm count negatively. Improper ejaculation is another common cause of impotency.

Although impotency may be extremely disheartening, you can be treated for it and have your own family eventually.

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7 Tips to Avoid Sexually Transmitted Diseases

BHMS, MD - Acupuncture
Sexologist, Faridabad
7 Tips to Avoid Sexually Transmitted Diseases

Certain diseases are a major cause of concern as often these diseases can cause severe health complications. Various campaigns and awareness have been spread both by the government and NGOs for practicing safe sex to fight against these sexually transmitted diseases.

Here are a few tips on how to avoid contracting sexually transmitted diseases:

  1. Selective Abstinence: Selective abstinence is when people indulge in certain sexual activities, but limit in what they do to avoid the chances of contracting sexually transmitted diseases. People who do practice selective abstinence run a lower risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases, which is also dependent on the type of sexual activity they indulge in as certain sexual acts have a higher chance of spreading STDs than others.
  2. Using condoms: Using latex condoms decreases the chances of contracting sexually transmitted diseases. If you use lubricants, make sure that they are water based. Condoms are however not 100% effective at preventing sexually transmitted diseases, but reduce the chance of infection to a great extent. It is highly advised to learn how to properly use condoms.
  3. Mutual monogamy: Another way to avoid getting infected by STDs is to practice mutual monogamy. If you and your partner do not have sex with anyone else, then it greatly reduces the chances of getting infected with sexually transmitted diseases.
  4. Getting tested: Getting tested for sexually transmitted diseases as well as asking your partner to do so decreases the chances of transmitting sexually transmitted diseases. Refrain from having sex if either of you test positive.
  5. Avoid alcohol and recreational drugs: Avoiding the usage of recreational drugs and alcohol reduces the chances of contracting STDs. Indulging in sexual activities while being highly intoxicated can both cause you to forget practicing safe sex.
  6. Practicing healthy habits: Practicing certain healthy habits also reduces the chances of contracting sexually transmitted diseases. These include avoiding sharing towels and undergarments, washing before and after sexual intercourse and getting a vaccination for hepatitis B.
  7. Low risk and high risk activities: Certain sexual activities such as open mouth kissing and hand to genital contact have a lower risk of infection. Other activities such as oral sex, vaginal intercourse, and genital to genital contact have a higher chance of infection. Understanding the risks better would allow you to avoid contacting diseases easily.
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We are trying for child from past 3-4 months, but during relationships face below difficulty: 1) Penis shrink after entering vagina. 2) vagina of wife is too tight to enter. 3) have observed sperms spill out after ejaculation. Please advice.

MBBS (Gold Medalist, Hons), MS (Obst and Gynae- Gold Medalist), DNB (Obst and Gynae), Fellow- Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility (ACOG, USA), FIAOG
Gynaecologist, Kolkata
We are trying for child from past 3-4 months, but during relationships face below difficulty:
1) Penis shrink after e...
Most of these problems are encountered by newly married couple. 1. Penis shrinks- probably you are having erectile dysfunction. We need to diagnose the cause and treat that cause. It's curable. Don't worry. 2. Vagina tight- try using lubrication. If not cured, then consult doctor. It takes some time to lose it/. 3. Some sperms will spill out. It's normal.
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HI I am 24year. I planned to have unprotected sex yesterday when I kept penis in virginia I felt pains then removed my pennis any chance of present and date of period is 4/04/2016 and date of sex is 21/04/2016. When I kept pennis with condom easily going inside when I kept without protection paining y?

MBBS
General Physician, Chennai
HI I am 24year. I planned to have unprotected sex yesterday when I kept penis in virginia I felt pains then removed m...
The pain is due to dryness and no secretions the condome is lubricated so there was no pain, it falls on the 17 day the chances are bleak, any way take a I pill for safety today.
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I have lost sex interest please suggest how to improve sexual interest am 28 years old male .not erected properly.

BHMS, DEMS
Homeopath, Pune
I have lost sex interest please suggest how to improve sexual interest am 28 years old male .not erected properly.
These kinds of issues can happen at any time and to any man. Causes mainly include: fatigue stress relationship issues performance anxiety alcohol consumption. 1. Do daily exercise 45 min. 2. A diet rich in fruit, veggies, whole grains, and fish, and with fewer servings of red meat and refined grains, decreases the risk for ed. 3. Take 8 hrs sleep, poor sleep patterns can be a contributing factor for erectile dysfunction4. Quit smoking. 5. Limit your alcohol. Constitutional homeopathic medicine will give you best result to gain sexual energy and treat ed. Without any side effect.
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What must be the size of a penis to give my partner pleasure she needs? And within what time does a women reaches the orgasm while penetrating the vagina?

BHMS
Homeopath, Sindhudurg
What must be the size of a penis to give my partner pleasure she needs?
And within what time does a women reaches the...
1. In homoeopathy, there are many fruitful remedies to keep penis long and strong. The average size of penis is 5.54 inches (14.07 cm) length and 3.11 inches (7.9 cm) girth are enough to perform a successful sexual intercourse. 2. Approx 20 mins.
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My wife's left breast removed & 6 chemotherapy and 25 radiations given in cmc vellore (Tamilnadu). Now OK and taking Nolvadex 20 mg daily. Please tell whether intercourse can be done now and what will be the consequences thereof . If yes then how many times in a week. Please tell.

Diploma in Family Medicine, M.Sc - Psychotherapy
Sexologist, Pune
If you can get her in the mood for sex, and both of you are comfortable and happy, you can have as much sex as much you want.
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I am 27 and I am suffering from premature ejaculation kindly Suggest me any tablet to have before intercourse for longer erection?

MS sexuality, M.Phil Clinical Psychology, PhD (behaviour modification), Certified in Treatment of Resistant Depression
Sexologist, Hyderabad
I am 27 and I am suffering from premature ejaculation kindly Suggest me any tablet to have before intercourse for lon...
You need to consult a qualified doctor in person for a prescription. As mci doesn't allow us to give medication online. Best of luck to you.
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Hi I'm 25-year-old man, having 12 cm ponies when it erect with 3 cm width, I'm worrying about size as because my parents are forcing me to get marry, i'm not in position to say anything to them, please suggest me is it okay to get marry.

BHMS
Homeopath, Raebareli
Hi I'm 25-year-old man, having 12 cm ponies when it erect with 3 cm width, I'm worrying about size as because my pare...
Please note -- for adults, the average penis size is about 14-16 cm (5.5-6.3 inches) when erect. The average girth for an erect penis is 12-13 cm (4.7-5.1 inches). A penis would only be considered unusually small if it was less than 3 inches (7.6 cm) long when erect. Some reasons are responsible for this problem such hormone, masturbation habit from childhood, infection in the prostate gland etc are very common reasons. Homeopathic remedies are very helpful to overcome this problem and make it strong. You should marry.
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My husband penis is so black. Does it is because of gems. Can we do oral sex. And he can not pull the foreskin back. please give is some tips for sex education. Website. counselling etc.

MBBS, MCCEE, Fellowship in Sexual Medicine
Sexologist, Jaipur
My husband penis is so black. Does it is because of gems. Can we do oral sex. And he can not pull the foreskin back. ...
Color of penis could be black. It is not due to germs but due to heat most likely. You could do oral sex but remember papilloma virus infection is known identity in the throat infection and ususally due to oral sex. Choice is yours. If his fore skin does not go back easily or is too tight, then get its surgery done. It is called circumcision.
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My sperm count is only 22 millions and motility is active cell 20% and salgiss 40% and dead 40% morfology is 40% normal and 60% abnormal I m vegetarian and non drinker and smoker Please tell me homeopathic treatment and tell can I able to became father.

BHMS
Homeopath, Faridabad
My sperm count is only 22 millions and motility is active cell 20% and salgiss 40% and dead 40% morfology is 40% norm...
Hello, Take homoeopathic medicine - Schwabe's Damiaplant/ thrice daily for 4 weeks. Management: Regular exercising keeps you fit and healthy, so don't forget to do it. Practice pranayam regularly for half an hour preferably in a garden early in the morning. Not to do these exercises within 4 hours after meals. One can have meals not within 15 minutes after finishing these exercises. These exercises are good for gaining and maintaining good health.
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