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Dr. Gauthamadas U. U

MD - Psychiatry, DPM, Diploma in Child Behaviour & Developmemt (DCBD)

Psychiatrist, Chennai

32 Years Experience
Dr. Gauthamadas U. U MD - Psychiatry, DPM, Diploma in Child Behaviour & Develo... Psychiatrist, Chennai
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Hello and thank you for visiting my Lybrate profile! I want to let you know that here at my office my staff and I will do our best to make you comfortable. I strongly believe in ethics; a......more
Hello and thank you for visiting my Lybrate profile! I want to let you know that here at my office my staff and I will do our best to make you comfortable. I strongly believe in ethics; as a health provider being ethical is not just a remembered value, but a strongly observed one.
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Dr. Gauthamadas U. U is a renowned Psychiatrist in Chetpet, Chennai. He has been a successful Psychiatrist for the last 32 years. He is a qualified MD - Psychiatry, DPM, Diploma in Child Behaviour & Developmemt (DCBD) . You can meet Dr. Gauthamadas U. U personally at DR. Gautham's Neuro Center in Chetpet, Chennai. Book an appointment online with Dr. Gauthamadas U. U and consult privately on Lybrate.com.

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MD - Psychiatry - Madras Medical College - 1988
DPM - Madras Medical College - 1985
Diploma in Child Behaviour & Developmemt (DCBD) - Delhi University - 1989
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Hello! I am 22 years old male and my memory is becoming weak. Would plss suggest me the ways so that I can improve my memory power.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
You may be under stress fro some reason and you will need to meet with a counselor to sort that out. Do some of these recommendations very faithfully: Daily exercise of at least half an hour is a must. Even if you go to a gym, ask for aerobic and/or callisthenic exercises with whatever else you are doing. A healthy body harbors a healthy mind. With regard to memory, it is very important that your brain and body is ideally rested to be able to recall whatever is required, rather comfortably. Puzzles pose problems to the brain that help it to use new pathways and neurons, which give the brain considerable exercise. It taxes the left brain to use logic to solve the myriad possibilities which other activities do not stimulate. Crosswords are excellent for vocabulary learning and use. Jigsaws and Rubik cube stimulate different permutations to finally settle on the most likely one. Picture completion and anagrams help approach problem solving from several angles. Do Sudoku, and memory co-relation activities and skills. Have a good night’s sleep, have a good breakfast of more proteins, meditate often, remain free of stress, eat a lot of fiber (whole grains, fruits and vegetables), nuts, avocado, eat dark chocolate, consume less of fat and use olive oil instead, do Yoga meditation exercises, etc. You need to check out if you are stronger visual or auditory. The visual is a better mode than the auditory. However, if you combine the two modes, you will get the best concentration. Have a special place of learning, which should be well lit, with soft painted walls, well-ventilated, with no distractions. When you get bored, study by writing. If you repeat learning at least five to seven times, you will apparently remember for a longer time. Sit comfortably but do not slouch. The reading material should be of a fairly large print. Study at small intervals of about 40 minutes and then take a break or change the subject. Short-term memory is a faculty of the left brain, and long-term memory is a feature of the right brain. When people are stressed, they tend to favor the right brain and abandon the left brain, where short-term memory resides. So, it is really very simple: deal with the stress and activate left brain functions. Here are a few suggestions to activate left brain function: shut your left nostril and breathe, move your eyes from right to left and vice versa for at least half a minute at a time, and do callisthenic exercises with some form of counting, regularly. There is a new exercise called Super Brain Yoga, which is done by holding the right earlobe with your left thumb and index finger, and the left earlobe with your right hand’s thumb and index finger. In this position you must squat down and rise up and do this for five minutes every day. There are some memory enhancing techniques and study methods that your teacher will be able to guide you with. If your home life is full of distractions and stress, it is likely to affect your memory, adversely. In that case, I suggest that the family goes for counseling too. The following foods do help too: Blueberries, walnuts, turmeric, Spinach, tomatoes, broccoli, acorn squash, green tea, oily fish, boiled egg, turkey, apples, oatmeal, leafy greens, lentils, pumpkin seeds, avocado, cinnamon, thyme, sunflower seeds, and red wine. Avoid junk food.
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My name is Sibin, I'm 24 years of age. I have pressure on my forehead and just above the nose and eyebrows feels a tightness when concentrating on something for long period. I have frontal sinusitis. Is it because of it? How it can be treated?

BHMS
Homeopath, Chennai
My name is Sibin, I'm 24 years of age. I have pressure on my forehead and just above the nose and eyebrows feels a ti...
Sinusitis is an inflammation, or swelling, of the tissue lining the sinuses. Normally, sinuses are filled with air. But when they become blocked and filled with fluid, germs (bacteria, viruses, and fungi) can grow and cause an infection. Conditions that can cause sinus blockage include the common cold, allergic rhinitis (swelling of the lining of the nose), nasal polyps (small growths in that lining), or a deviated septum (a shift in the nasal cavity). Homoeopathic constitutional treatment will give you permanent cure , without any side effects.
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Im drinking alcohol. I got stones in kidney. How to remove the kidney stones. And how to reduce the alcohol consumption. And how to loose weight. What are the medicines have to use to stop alcohol consumption. How to remove kidney stones totally. Please say.

Masters in Clinical Psychology
Psychologist, Lucknow
Im drinking alcohol. I got stones in kidney. How to remove the kidney stones. And how to reduce the alcohol consumpti...
Hi, individual treatment for kidney stones depends on the type of kidney stones that are formed. Firstly, staying well hydrated by drinking enough water is one of the best measures you can take to avoid kidney stones. To lessen your risk of forming a new stone, it is very important that you drink at least three quarts (12 cups) of fluid throughout the day. In hotter weather, you may need to drink more to make up for fluid loss from sweating. This will help keep your urine less concentrated. Less concentrated urine reduces the risk of stone formation. Most of the fluid you drink should be water. Try to drink a glass of water before bed and if you wake during the night to use the bathroom, drink another glass before going back to bed. There are two kinds of stone oxalate stone and calcium stone and treatment is different based on that. Other than this the combination of lemon juice and olive oil is traditionally used as a home remedy to expel gallbladder stones but it can also be used to treat kidney stones. The citric acid present in lemons helps break down calcium-based kidney stones and stops further growth. Take four tablespoons or a quarter cup of fresh lemon juice. Add an equal amount of olive oil. Drink this mixture followed by plenty of water. Do this two to three times a day, up to three days. You need not continue this remedy if you pass the stones in a single dose. Warning: this remedy may not be suitable for passing large kidney stones. Make sure you consult a doctor before taking this remedy. The combination of lemon juice and olive oil is traditionally used as a home remedy to expel gallbladder stones but it can also be used to treat kidney stones. The citric acid present in lemons helps break down calcium-based kidney stones and stops further growth. Take four tablespoons or a quarter cup of fresh lemon juice. Add an equal amount of olive oil. Drink this mixture followed by plenty of water. Do this two to three times a day, up to three days. You need not continue this remedy if you pass the stones in a single dose. Warning: this remedy may not be suitable for passing large kidney stones. Make sure you consult a doctor before taking this remedy. You should look for varieties that are low in sugar, or make your own. Lemons, limes, and cranberries are very high in citric acid, which helps prevent crystals from increasing in size and becoming new kidney stones. Avoid dark beers. These contain oxalates, which can contribute to future kidney stones. Take medication if suggested by doctor and follow the above along with that. For medication for alcohol consult a psychiatrist and get proper treatment done. All the best.
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My son is 6. 8 yes old he is hyperactive. His main problem is not copying any two from the board in the school. He is in std 1st. This is first yr where he has to write full sentences which he is not pls advice also he is moving when expected in class jumpn unnecessary from walls very interupptive forgets what has learnt need s daily revesion till exams avoids writing school chores comes home very shabbily complaints abt too much noise in school daily lose pencils erasers pls advice. Many more things.

B.H.M.S., Senior Homeopath Consultant
Homeopath, Delhi
This is a psychological disorder seen in children. This is known as attention deficit hyperactive disorder. If not managed & treated well at this age turns to be conduct disorder in future. Homeopathy has best medicines for it. Take hyoscyamus 30/ 1 week. 3 times a day. It is curable through homeopathy. I am consulting homeopath & psychologist specialised to deal with adhd students.
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I am 38 years old female with two kids. Just giving in to wine and smoke due to stress related issues, being a single mother. Just got my routine blood tests done. Cholesterol is borderline high. Kindly suggest a good diet to lower the cholesterol and help me lead a stress free life.

Fellowship in Cardiology, MD, MBBS
General Physician, Delhi
I am 38 years old female with two kids. Just giving in to wine and smoke due to stress related issues, being a single...
Just do regular pranayam. Eat whatever you think is good for your kids. There is never a special diet. Dont get stressed if you cant give up your habits. One day you will.
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I am twenty six year boy and my body is very weak when I talk to anyone but there is a strong personality in my mind but when I talk to others I am very bad situation faces my head getting very pain and the legs are vibrating my hands are shivering can you suggest the right reason ?

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
I am twenty six year boy and my body is very weak when I talk to anyone but there is a strong personality in my mind ...
You are probably making an unfair comparison with other people when you meet them. If you truly have faith in the strength of your personality, why do you abandon it when you meet other people? So there could be low self-esteem, poor self-image, and low self-confidence. May be you have incorporated these from somewhere in your childhood, inadvertently. I suspect this is so because in your true mind you believe otherwise but you can see that what is embedded in your unconscious mind is more powerful and you may have incorporated something contraindicative to your true self. Your reactions are really gross as a result. You could use affirmations quite effectively but I advise you to work with a counselor and identify that input from childhood and sort that out. Your emotions would play a very significant role too and it would help to go through some emotional therapy too. We are what we think we are, and since you have a huge difference when compared to others (mostly in the mind) your whole world changes. True faith in yourself must go deep down and cannot be easily shaken, which I think is lacking. In the bible there is a fabulous and true statement, ?Where there is true love, there is no fear.? And likewise I can confidently say, where there is true and complete faith, there is no fear.? Build your faith in yourself, and nothing can stop you.
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My daughter had stress related depression. Now after her first delivery which was cesserrian he again got depression. Will it happen. If so how long will it take to become normal

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear, stress is simply a reaction to a stimulus that disturbs our physical or mental equilibrium. In other words, it's an omnipresent part of life. A stressful event can trigger the? fight-or-flight? response, causing hormones such as adrenaline and cortisol to surge through the body. A little bit of stress, known as? acute stress? can be exciting? it keeps us active and alert. But long-term, or? chronic stress? can have detrimental effects on health. You may not be able to control the stressors in your world, but you can alter your reaction to them. I need to know, what are the causes with which you are stressed? once you know the reason, you will be able to adjust with it with some tips and tricks. Please let me know the details. Take care.
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Hi I'm 25years old. Please tell me how to get rid of social phobia. I can't speak and I can't face people who raising their voice for simple things also. Kindly tell me the way.

M.D,Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Amritsar
Social phobia is a psychiatric disorder. Start tab sertraline 50mg daily after breakfast. Continue and report after2 weeks.
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My mother had SDH - Craniotomy operation 1.5 month ago. Now she cant speak still she try to speak but cant speak clear to understand sometime she speaks 1-2 word clearly. What should do?

MPT
Physiotherapist, Cuttack
You could consult a speech therapist or make her read things like we use to do when we were kids. One alphabet at a time, then very small words, then small words and progress gradually. Don't stop talking to her as this will motivate her to speak. Thank you.
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I have a chain smoker & a very bad habit. please suggest me some good medicine for this bad habit.?

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
There are medicines to help in the initial stages and you meet with a doctor for the prescription. You must quit your smoking completely and you must do it now, seriously. The tobacco tar in cigarette smoke lines your lung with huge patches that make that portion dysfunctional. Your oxygen carrying capacity is jeopardized, and breathing is impinged. But don’t be discouraged because it is not too late even now to reverse all the ill-effects of smoking. I don’t know what other organs could be damaged but do go for a thorough medical check up to assess the effects of your abuse. Regarding improving your lungs, do a lot of aerobic exercise breathing through your nostrils only. Then there are a lot of deep breathing exercises in Yoga which you can learn too. Deep breathing cleanses your system and lungs and restores it to good health. Deep breathing uses the 80% of the lungs which are not normally used in normal breathing and even when exerting yourself. The greatest effect is in the lungs because this substance is processed through the respiratory system directly through the lung surface. You should start vigorous exercises, gradually increasing it over a period of time. Do deep breathing exercises every time you feel like smoking (try Yoga), and replace the oral urge with some healthy food substitute to satiate the need. You may also take hard candy or chewing gum. If the urge is too strong, then use nicotine gums and nicotine patches, for a little while until the smoking drive reduces, substantially. You may also join Smokers Anonymous in your city where the support is really extraordinary for like-minded people who are also in the same situation. Keep yourself occupied or engaged with interesting activities during the times when it is most tempting. Keep the company of non-smokers for some time i.e. at least for the first 21 days. Above all announce it to everyone that you have quit smoking. Here’s a piece of very good advice: even if you accidentally/willfully take a cigarette, it is not the end of the world – you can start the cessation all over again. You must persevere with the best support until you defeat this addiction. Counseling is very useful in the initial stages and when temptations are at their highest. But don’t fool yourself any smoking is harmful, and you need to seriously get on with quitting it completely and immediately.
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I am 44 years old lady I feel depressed always I don't wish to mingle with any one if I try so I easily get bored with them in a day or two. Family history is granny committed suicide and mother tried twice is it related to me in anyway if yes please suggest good action.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
I am 44 years old lady I feel depressed always I don't wish to mingle with any one if I try so I easily get bored wit...
Yes, sometimes suicide runs in families. If there is depression, then there could be suicide drives not too far behind. You must take double precautions knowing the history of the family.The genetic factor is pretty strong in you. But not everything is lost, if you cooperate, with both counseling and medication. If you went for counseling too a lot can be done and resolved. So apart from the medication you need the help of a counselor who will equip you with coping skills and techniques to handle the daily pressures in life, including meeting and socializing with people. You can also speak about the recent developments and find a way of sorting those out too, everyday. Relying only on the chemical intervention is grossly insufficient. By just popping in pills how do you hope to develop skills and tools to manage life?! You can follow these simple rules too: Have a good night’s sleep, have a good breakfast of more proteins, meditate often, remain free of stress, eat a lot of fiber, nuts, avocado, exercise regularly, eat dark chocolate, do Yoga meditation exercises, etc. I suggest you do the opposite of what this depression makes you feel like doing (actually, not doing): you will need to fight this condition. You must become active; stay upright during the daylight time; meet people; never sleep during the day, wake up by 6 am every day, play some active games, especially contact games, do physical exercises, talk to people and join some social clubs, attend Yoga classes etc. Watch sitcoms on TV or comedies and cheer yourself up. Go for excursions in groups, for outings, camps, conferences, and religious conventions. Get a pet dog and spend time training it, exercising it and relating to it. Expose yourself to some sunlight every day, at least 30 minutes but not in the scotching heat. Whatever happens, please incorporate these three important adaptations in your life: always be responsible, be respectful, and be functional. If you did these three, lots of things will go well in life. Please pray and have faith in God to alleviate your sufferings. Don’t wait for others to help. Use your own motivation, which might be at its lowest, but persevere and win this battle. Above all to be really happy, you need to live in love and for love: find someone to love and to love you back. A counselor is there only to facilitate you, all the hard word must come from you, and your cooperation with that person is very critical for your success. Be positive everyday and learn to be contended with what you have. Do some left brain exercises: it is the happy brain. Here are a few suggestions: shut your left nostril and breathe, move your eyes from right to left and vice versa for at least half a minute at a time, and do callisthenic exercises with some form of counting, regularly.
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Few weeks ago I had a bad hit on my right side ribs while playing football. The pain was very severe. It happened to reduce later on but I have noticed that it still persists during some particular muscle movement related to right side of my chest. This is as severe that I had to stop breathing for a moment. Is the pain related to my lungs or muscle? How can I get over it?

MBBS
General Physician, Delhi
Few weeks ago I had a bad hit on my right side ribs while playing football. The pain was very severe. It happened to ...
It looks like a muscular pain which got steched while playing football. Take some musle relaxant and pain killer if hurting you more or some physiotherapy exercise will help you better.
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I smoke be regular I cannot stop what happens I smoke regular please help for this thanks!

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear, Tobacco is addictive. Cigarette also contains 4000+ carcinogenic chemicals other than nicotine. Smoking can affect your mouth, throat, lungs, heart, stomach and brain in many ways. Cancer is one among the potential diseases smoking can cause. The best method is to leave it and continue with your will power. There are other methods like Nicotine Replacement therapy and pharmacotherapy combined. Nicotine chewing gums too help as an alternative for cigarettes. But still you will need will power. You may consult a physician or deaddiction therapist or a rehabilitation facility for further advice. You can also opt for online deaddiction therapy. Take care.
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Dear doctor I am depressed due to heavy loss in my business. I have to pay money back to suppliers. I always think about it and their comes in my mind to suicide. What should I do?

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
Suicide is a cowardly way out. Your life is very precious, and all this debt has caused you so much anguish that the shortage of money has made you contemplate death, to escape the stress. Is life so cheap? analyze what went wrong with the business: was it miscalculation, or too much splurging and living beyond your means, or was it business forces far beyond your knowledge and control etc? then make a strategy to rework the plan and approach it to suit the current situation. Debtors will be satisfied if you at least repay in small amounts. If you have borrowed from private parties, whose rate of interest is illegally high, then you are under the threat of loan sharks, and must act accordingly to fight this menace. You can lodge a complaint and take legal recourse to bring justice to the plight you are in. Be a man and at least fight for justice. If you have to die in that fight, you have fought a good fight. You may also meet with a business consultant to get some professional guidance about the running of your enterprise. If worse comes to worst, sell the business and recover some of the losses. Have faith in god and pray regularly too, for some divine intervention. If all this does not work and you want to get financial freedom, contact me and I can propose a very lucrative business, if you have some seed capital for initial investment.
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One of my male friend is always interested to particular guy who is my other friend .whenever he is near he just rub thighs and do all kind of indirect physical sex activities like touching his body , rubbing thighs . One time he has given alchcol to that guy and he just enjoyed him for a night by rubbing that guy thighs and seeing his private parts. But he is not like that to other guys .he is very shy to ask so he told me to ask for it . His question is he a gay or bisexual. Is there is any problem to him in future. But both are the best friends.Please tell.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
One of my male friend is always interested to particular guy who is my other friend .whenever he is near he just rub ...
If he is interested in females sexually also then he is bisexual. Otherwise, he is gay. Now that these leanings are acceptable he can find a partner among his own sex and see if that is what he wants in life. However, it is advisable for him to seek counselling and determine that this is really what he wants and that he is not influenced by other factors.
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How to get rid of tobacco and alcohol I am hate it both of them but after some time I failed.

MD - Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Jalandhar
It can b left with strong will power under guidance of a deaddiction expert which is a psychiatrist.
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I am In deep depression and fear it is a terrifying feeling to do my routine acts I can't even understand that what is happening to me I have suicidal thoughts also give me good suggestion I am really fearing I think my problems were cleared when something very bad happens to me.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
You have an anger related depression and need immediate help. Fear and depression tend to go together but with some help, you should well out of the problem. You have not mentioned your age so it is difficult to guide you completely well. If you have depression then there are some major ramifications to take into account. I believe there may be some genetic predisposition or there has been some childhood issue, related to anger, that needs urgent attention. You must go and meet with a counselor immediately and if that person advises that you meet with a doctor you must do so and cooperate to your utmost. Please visit these professionals along with your parents. In the meantime please do the following sincerely because you could resolve the problem better with good cooperation: Have a good night’s sleep, have a good breakfast of more proteins, meditate often, remain free of stress, eat a lot of fiber, nuts, avocado, exercise regularly, eat dark chocolate, do Yoga meditation exercises, etc. I suggest you do the opposite of what this depression makes you feel like doing (actually, not doing): you will need to fight this condition. You must become active; stay upright during the daylight time; meet people; never sleep during the day, wake up by 6 am every day, play some active games, especially contact games, do physical exercises, talk to people and join some social clubs, attend Yoga classes etc. Watch sitcoms on TV or comedies and cheer yourself up. Go for excursions in groups, for outings, camps, conferences, and religious conventions. Get a pet dog and spend time training it, exercising it and relating to it. Expose yourself to some sunlight every day, at least, 30 minutes but not in the scorching heat. Whatever happens, please incorporate these three important adaptations in your life: always be responsible, be respectful, and be functional. If you did these three, lots of things will go well in life. Please pray and have faith in God to alleviate your sufferings. Don’t wait for others to help. Use your own motivation, which might be at its lowest, but persevere and win this battle. Above all to be really happy, you need to live in love and for love. Learn all about emotions and how to handle them and that will get you out of the depression rather easily and quickly. A counselor is there only to facilitate you, all the hard word must come from you, and your cooperation with that person is very critical for your success. Be positive every day and learn to be contented with what you have. Do some left brain exercises: it is the happy brain. Here are a few suggestions: shut your left nostril and breathe, move your eyes from right to left and vice versa for at least half a minute at a time, and do callisthenic exercises with some form of counting, regularly. Whatever happens please cooperate with the therapy and do not discontinue until the condition is completely resolved. Life is extremely precious and the depression​ can make you feel like quitting but you must never give up.
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Hiee . I'm 16 And I'm In XIIth Std. Appearing For My Boards . . So Its Like I Think As If I'm Shy, Timid, And Nervous From Inside . But The Real Thing Is That No One Knows That How Actually I Am From Inside ! I Want To Be Like Real Bold . .And Strong . . So That It Gives A Manliness Type Of Personality . .I Wear Glasses So Sometimes Ppl Think That I May Be An Idiot Type Of Person . . . But I Am Not Actually That What Others Think. Last Year In 11th Std. . . I Fell In Love With A Girl But I Never Talked To Her . . . .She Was Like . . I Cannot Define It In Words . . One Of My Friend Went And Said Her Everything . . We Had A Lot Of Eye Contacts Last Year . .Even Now Also That Happens Atleast Once In A Day . . I Totally Get Nervous And Feel Very Shy . .And Inconfident In Front Of Her . .Or Whenever She Appears In Front Of Me . . I Want To Be Like Real Bold . .And Strong As I Said It A While Ago . . What Should I Do So That I Don't Get Nervous Or Coward Type Of Something In Front Of Her . . Even When I'm Around Girls Or Women I Become Very Nervous . .I'm Like A Nuisance Or Irritation To Her . . What Should Do To Be A Bold And Strong Guy ? please Tell Me .

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
Hiee . I'm 16
And I'm In XIIth Std. Appearing For My Boards . . So Its Like I Think As If I'm Shy, Timid, And Nervous...
You have a social development problem or the lack of it. Also, you cannot be too worried about what other people think of you to this extent. If they cannot see the inside of you, that is to your advantage. About meeting with this girl, nothing will happen if you do not approach her or at least talk to her. This is because of a fear of rejection: what if she says'no' to you! to develop a strong inside you must go and meet other people and deal with the emotion of fear about it. Attend a personality development course, conversation course, public speaking course, work out in a gym, and handling emotions with a counselor. You don't have to be strong really; you just have to be confident to some extent. Most boys have a problem talking to girls and you may not notice it just how others cannot notice your inner self. If you don't take the chance, you will never know if she cares for you and worse still, someone else may beat you to the game and she will be gone forever. The world will not end and you will not die, take the chance and if it does not work, you at least know and can move on.
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My grandson is two years old yet he is not speaking. We are doing speech therapy, can we consult a children phycotist?

MD - Paediatrics, FIAP (Neonatology)
Pediatrician, Chandigarh
Does he makes sounds? babbles speaks monosyllables like mama papa dada? if yes then there is mild delay in speech. If not get his hearing assessment done.
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