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Mr. Wilfred Stanley  - Psychologist, Bangalore

Mr. Wilfred Stanley

Psychologist, Bangalore

Mr. Wilfred Stanley Psychologist, Bangalore
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Mr. Wilfred Stanley is one of the best Psychologists in Ragavendra Nagar, Bangalore. You can meet Mr. Wilfred Stanley personally at Rapid Mind Power in Ragavendra Nagar, Bangalore. Book an appointment online with Mr. Wilfred Stanley and consult privately on Lybrate.com.

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4 Uplifting Foods That Fight Depression and Mood Swings

M.Sc - Psychotherapy
Psychologist, Gurgaon
4 Uplifting Foods That Fight Depression and Mood Swings
Foods to fight Depression

Depression has become very common not only in stressed adults or elderly but also in adolescents. It must be addressed at a very nascent stage so that one doesn’t remain low for long. One thing that can help to a great extent is your food habits. There are foods that can certainly help in fighting depression.

1. Fresh fruits and vegetables: Eating folate-rich fruits like blueberries, strawberries, oranges and bananas can combat stress and eating dark green leafy vegetables helps in rejuvenating your mood along with lot of other health benefits too.

2. Omega-3 fats: These Polyunsaturated fats combats depression and is mostly found in fish like salmon & sardines.Flaxseeds and walnuts are also good sources

3.Eat plenty of Protein: Eating protein-rich food like beans and peas, low fat cheese, fish, milk, yogurt, and soy products helps in brain regulation which keeps depression at bay.

4. Dark Chocolate: In spite of having high calories, dark chocolate is considered to be a great stress buster as it uplifts the mood. Pick up a bar of dark chocolate whenever you feel the blues.

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I am 37 year old men I have smoking habit please suggest how to leave it?

PhD (Psychology), MSc Psychology, MS
Psychologist,
Dear , everyone knows smoking is injurious to health and should be avoided at any cost. Will power plays an important part in quitting smoking. There are other methods like nicotine gum and patches. These could be used for management of craving. I suggest you to consult a psychologist. I think one or two telephone counseling sessions with me should provide you with insight to your problem and tips to over come it. Please let me know if you are willing for online counseling session. Take care.
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I have to face public exam and I feels very fear. Also I am in a depression. Please help me.

DHMS (Hons.)
Homeopath, Patna
I have to face public exam and I feels very fear. Also I am in a depression. Please help me.
Hello, you have the power to break d rock in your mind, inculcate it going for meditation to reduce your stress, anxiety and depression. * you cannot change d circumstances, rather you have to adjust with them. * take, homoeo-medicine* @ aconite 30-6 pills, thrice a day =7 days. @ ignatia 30-6 pills, thrice a day. Report wkly. All d best.
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I Am 16 .Sometimes I Stay Depressed For No Reasons . I Also Have Fights . Mostly With My Dad Atleast Once A Week . He Says That I Am Too Anxious (Not Curious) At This Age . . . Also He Says Is That I'm A Mobile Addict . . .And He Has Noticed Some Kind Of Unusual symptoms/Signs/Habits/Activities Due To My Addictedness . And Yes I Have A Habit Of Overthinking Many Times . . This May Be A Reason Of Depression . Still I Doubt Myself . please HeLp me . !

MSW, Certificate in Clinical Psychopharmacology , Certificate in Treatment Planning and Progress Notation, Certificate in Neuro-Linguistic Programming
Psychologist, Jaipur
I Am 16 .Sometimes I Stay Depressed For No Reasons . I Also Have Fights . Mostly With My Dad Atleast Once A Week .  H...
Hello lybrate-user, hope you are doing well. Sorry that you are feeling low, and not getting on well with daddy. Although, I bet that you love your dad. Focusing on how you are feeling, well, is there something that you have going on in your mind or life that is distracting from living a peaceful life. There could be a person, situation or I circumstance that must have affected you in a negative way. As far as being a mobile addict is concerned, I do believe that everything that we do in life, whether it is eating habit or spending time on something for long duration, this can be a cause of distress. Everything used out of proportion can be harmful. However, I do understand that you are young, and you have a vibrant life, to spice up your life, may be you can set an objective to achieve in a day, and be organized with your time and achievements through the day. This will help you to acknowledge your rewards, and it will help you to use your time profitably and productively. Secondly, if there is anything that is bothering you, then you can certainly seek expert advice or help. I am always ready to help. Hope this answer helps. Have a great day. Regards.
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I have anxiety disorder, my body is shivering or shaking when im nervous or angry.

M.S. Counselling and Psychotherapy
Psychologist, Bangalore
I have anxiety disorder, my body is shivering or shaking when im nervous or angry.
Dear Lybrate User, Please consult a Counsellor. The Counsellor will help you what is causing this anxiety. There are certain techniques that can be used to help you get rid of your anxiety. The process will help you to understand your anger also. Please seek Counsellor's help. Take care.
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I am a 27 years old person and have so much depression, what should I do?

PhD (Psychology), MSc Psychology, MS
Psychologist,
I am a 27 years old person and have so much depression, what should I do?
Dear , you should be able to distinguish between disappointment and depression. Disappointment also brings on symptoms identical to depression but they are short lived. Were you disappointed in the near past? I will help you. Clinical depression is usually treated with a combination of psychiatric medicines, psychotherapy, life style changes, meditation and exercise. I hope you are undergoing psychiatric treatment, otherwise, please approach a psychiatrist. For other four treatment methods, I will help you.
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Sir from past 4 years I feel like I drunk and i am not alive. I don't no what happened to me. And I took treatment of psychiatric they prescribed me serta 50mg and I get little bit rid but not completely I went so many doctors but i am not getting proper treatment so please help me. I frustrated from life.

MD - Psychiatry, MBBS
Psychiatrist, Patna
Sir from past 4 years I feel like I drunk and i am not alive. I don't no what happened to me. And I took treatment of...
The medicine you were prescribed is for depression. Can you tell about other symptoms. Do you have other features of depression, like:- 1. Do you enjoy the pleasurable things like watching favourite tv serial or music as you used to enjoy earlier? 2. Do you like talking to others or you prefer to be alone now a days? 3. Do you feel sad most of the time and think negative about future? 4. Do you have enough sound sleep, do you feel fresh at morning? 5. Do you ever think yourself guilty of whatever wrong happened to you? 6. Do you feel yourself devoid of energy always? 7. Do you have lost concentration in job/ confidence in self? if more than 03 of the above answer are in yes in your case then you appears to be stressed and depressed. Adopt a healthy lifestyle with good diet, enough rest and recreation, adequate socialization and sleep. If still have the same feeling then you should get your mri brain, thyroid profile, sugar profile etc done. You may need few medicines to be prescribed by a psychiatrist.
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I had a gf. We had break up few month back. Our memories always disturb me a lot. I do feel mentally week. Even I am unable to put concentration on my work. Can anyone please suggest me how to get relief from this situation?

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
Relationships will come and go many times in one? s life. You cannot take it too seriously unless you were thinking of marrying this girl. In fact, this is a common problem with a lot of guys, where you look at the first relationship that comes along as serious enough for matrimony. These are important associations to learn how the opposite sex functions and what happens to you around them, and to make the necessary corrections to become a suitable partner. You have put in a lot into this relationship and it has not worked. Leave it but please learn something from the experience. Besides, you don? t want to be in a relationship where the other person is not interested in you. Quickly get rid of all reminders of this girl, and do not visit the old haunts that you and this girl used to frequent. For some time avoid people, places, and situations that you two enjoyed. In the meantime, please talk extensively to a confidante or counselor about your feelings and thoughts to externalize it out of your system. Do not bad mouth the girl for any reason but go about your life as quickly and normally as possible. Don? t get into another relationship until you have dealt with this loss completely. Keep these three values in mind: be responsible, be respectful, and be functional, always.
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I am 29 years male, how to remove negative thoughts & improve presentation & communication skills.

M.B.B.S., F.I.C.A. (USA), P.G.D.I.H, F.C.G.P., D.C.A.H
Psychiatrist, Vadodara
This is all stress and worries of life. May be issues of married life/future marriage, you may be having insecurities and fear. Just relax. Ask yourself what bothers you? have a positive self-talk, and learn what are those things you don't like. You need to accept your self and move on. You need to take care of your lifestyle and learn to be happy. If you cant do it yourself, meet a life coach/ stress management super-specialist like me. Once you open your heart out, you will feel free and begin to fly in life.
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Hi Sir I'm suffering from stress with mentally if going for any work I just loss my confidence some time I'm feeling as like know one come to fight with me. What is tha problem.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Hi Sir I'm suffering from stress with mentally if going for any work I just loss my confidence some time I'm feeling ...
Dear user. Anxiety disorders are a category of mental disorders characterized by feelings of anxiety and fear, where anxiety is a worry about future events and fear is a reaction to current events. These feelings may cause physical symptoms, such as a racing heart and shakiness. There are a number of anxiety disorders: including generalized anxiety disorder, a specific phobia, social anxiety disorder, separation anxiety disorder, agoraphobia, and panic disorder among others. While each has its own characteristics and symptoms, they all include symptoms of anxiety. I need to know more about your anxiety so that I will be able to diagnose it properly and provide you tips to overcome and manage your anxiety. Take care.
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How to stop habit of eating raw rice, Am not able to stop eating it, I have this habit nearly 6 yrs. Is there any tablet to forget this habit? please tell me how to get rid of it?

Master in clinical psychology
Psychologist, Delhi
How to stop habit of eating raw rice, Am not able to stop eating it, I have this habit nearly 6 yrs. Is there any tab...
hi shilpa, just start diverting your mind when you want to eat raw rice. just go for a walk or talk to some good friends, or else when you want to have urge of eating raw rice just at sauf in substitute of it
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My name is manpreet I have a non concentration problem. Whatever I read I can not make concentration.

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
CONCENTRATION TIPS Here’s some tips to get into a state of deep concentration where work / or studies flow easily so that you can do well in examinations/ and or do your work well. 1) Cut Off the Noise Getting into a state of concentration can take at least fifteen minutes. If you are getting distracted every five, you can’t possibly focus entirely on your work. Request that people don’t interrupt you when working on a big project. If you are required to answer phones and drop-in’s immediately, schedule work when the office is less busy. 2) Structure Your Environment The place you work can have an impact on your ability to focus. Try to locate yourself so you are facing potential distractions such as doors, phones or windows. This way you can take a glance to assess sounds that would otherwise break your focus. 3) Clarify Objectives Know what your goal is clearly before you start. If you aren’t sure what the end result is, the confusion will make it impossible to focus. 4) Divide Blobs . If you have a large project that needs work, clearly identify a path that you will use to get started working on it. If the sequence of actions isn’t obvious, it will be difficult to concentrate. Taking a few minutes to plan not only your end result, but the order you will complete any steps, can save hours in wasted thinking. 5) Know the Rules Get clear on what the guidelines are for the task ahead. What level of quality do you need? What standards do you need to follow? What constraints are there? If the rules aren’t clear from the outset, you will slip out of concentration as you ponder them later. 6) Set a Deadline Deadlines have both advantages and disadvantages when trying to force concentration. A deadline can make it easier to forget the non-essential and speed up your working time. If you give yourself only an hour to design a logo, you will keep it simple and avoid fiddling with extravagant designs. Time limits have disadvantages when they cause you to worry about the time you have left instead of the task itself. 7) Break down Roadblocks Roadblocks occur whenever you hit a tricky problem in your work. This can happen when you run out of ideas or your focus wavers. Break down roadblocks by brainstorming or planning on a piece of paper. Writing out your thought processes can keep you focused even if you might become frustrated. 8) Isolate Yourself Become a hermit and stay away from other people if you want to get work done. Unless your work is based on other people they will only break your focus. Create a private space and refuse to talk to anyone until your work is finished. Put a sign on your door to steer away drop-ins and don’t answer your phone. 9) Healthy Body, Sharper Mind What you put into your body affects the way you concentrate. Nobody would expect peak performance if they showed up drunk to work. But if you allow yourself to get chronic sleep deprivation, overuse stimulants like caffeine or eat dense, fatty foods your concentration will suffer. Try to cut out one of your unhealthy habits for just thirty days to see if there is a difference in your energy levels. I’ve found even small steps can create dramatic changes in my ability to focus. 10) Be Patient Before I write an article, I often sit at my desk for a fifteen or twenty minutes before I put finger on the keyboard. During this time I feel a strong urge to leave or do something else. But I know that if I am patient, I’ll stumble upon an idea to write about and enter a state of flow. Without a little patience, you can’t take advantage of flow when it rushed through you. If you need strong concentration I recommend periods of 90-120 minutes. Any less than that and you will waste too much time getting started before the flow can continue. More than this is possible to sustain focus, but you will probably benefit from a quick break. These are the general guidelines for concentration, studying well or doing your job. Regards.
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I've been diagnosed by a psychiatrist for depression and bi polar disorder. I want to understand what the disorder means for me and those around me as a lifestyle, what all will it involve. I'm on flunil 10mg and lenapoz 0.25 mg or smthng. What are the side effects of this medication. Will it ever be cured or do I have to take this medication lifelong to keep myself stable? I just need more clarity on the disease and its treatment.

MSC Human Development , Hypnotherapy , Special Educator , ms- counselling and physiotherapy, Applied psychology Hons
Psychologist, Faridabad
I've been diagnosed by a psychiatrist for depression and bi polar disorder. I want to understand what the disorder me...
Dear lybrate-user don't feel sad and dipressed. If you cooperate and work hard with your psychologist you can improve you condition. This is all in your hands. Your psychologist only help you to show the best way to deal with problem this is up to you that how much efforts has given by you. Try to be positive and if you want any help from us you can contact us. You can also ask for psychotherapies from your psychologist. These therapies will help you to recover soon. May god bless you.
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My mouth does not open because I am smoking a cigarette. Please advise.

PhD (Psychology), MSc Psychology, MS
Psychologist,
My mouth does not open because I am smoking a cigarette. Please advise.
Dear, Tobacco is addictive. Cigarette also contains 4000+ carcinogenic chemicals other than nicotine. The best method is to leave it and continue with your will power. There are other methods like Nicotine Replacement therapy and pharmacotherapy combined. If you?re ready to stop smoking and willing to get the support you need, you can recover from nicotine addiction and abuse abuse?no matter how bad the addiction or how powerless you feel. The first step in treating nicotine addiction is accepting that you have a problem. Confronting an addiction and accepting responsibility for your actions isn't easy. But it?s a necessary step on the road to treatment and recovery. You should be under supervision of a psychiatrist / psychologist who may follow this treatment. 1. Detoxification using medicines. 2. Behavior modification with the help of therapies. 3. Counseling. 4. Medication to sustain and 5. Long term support. These given steps are essential for any addict to get effectively rid of smoking. Therefore, you need to stick to the treatment plan and cooperate with your psychiatrist / psychologist. Take care.
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I am 28 years old, weight 90 kg, height 5.9 inches. I have lot of sweating and extra fats on both eye covers corner, some belly fat also, low concentration laziness filling sleepy and little bit depression also.

M.Sc - Dietitics / Nutrition, Diabetic Educator
Dietitian/Nutritionist, Yamunanagar
I am 28 years old, weight 90 kg, height 5.9 inches. I have lot of sweating and extra fats on both eye covers corner, ...
Start drinking lot of water in a day start exercising too start with walking. Start from 30 mins and continue till 60 mins start your day with lukewarm honey and lemon water follow a reducing diet consume salad before lunch consult privately with me for reducing diet chart.
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I am married male 42 years old with 2 kids don't have a job from last 10 months financially very burdened feeling like ending life very much depressed please help.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
I am married male 42 years old with 2 kids don't have a job from last 10 months financially very burdened feeling lik...
These things happen in life and you must face them with determination. Initially, many difficulties in life look impossible to resolve and the future can appear very bleak. But nothing lasts forever, and in a few months you may get a job and feel that all these pressures were transient, and that it what problems are really: none of them last forever, thankfully. Life is a gift and as such we must behave and treat it with love. Many who are not spiritually sound feel empty and lonely and want to get rid of their life at any whim and fancy. Take it seriously to respect it but live life with gusto even when it is difficult. In other words be positive every time. Please reach out to a counselor or confidant and share your burdens to feel relief. Cut some corners to affect a little saving for the time being.
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What is the right path to be tension free life Even work or house or self problem?

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
What is the right path to be tension free life
Even work or house or self problem?
Dear user. The world renowned path is to be at peace yourself. Understand self and do not wish anything more. Take care.
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Sir I have a memory problem since I have watched. Tv since 4 years what will I do.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
We cannot say what influence you're watching TV in childhood has to do with this memory loss. Your levels of stress could be a problem right now and for that I think you should seek some help from a counselor. In the meantime do some of these recommendations very faithfully: Daily exercise of at least half an hour is a must. Even if you go to a gym, ask for aerobic and/or callisthenic exercises with whatever else you are doing. A healthy body harbors a healthy mind. With regard to memory, it is very important that your brain and body is ideally rested to be able to recall whatever is required, rather comfortably. Puzzles pose problems to the brain that help it to use new pathways and neurons, which give the brain considerable exercise. It taxes the left brain to use logic to solve the myriad possibilities which other activities do not stimulate. Crosswords are excellent for vocabulary learning and use. Jigsaws and Rubik cube stimulate different permutations to finally settle on the most likely one. Picture completion and anagrams help approach problem-solving from several angles. Do Sudoku, and memory co-relation activities and skills. Have a good night’s sleep, have a good breakfast of more proteins, meditate often, remain free of stress, eat a lot of fiber (whole grains, fruits and vegetables), nuts, avocado, eat dark chocolate, consume less of fat and use olive oil instead, do Yoga meditation exercises, etc. You need to check out if you are stronger visual or auditory. The visual is a better mode than the auditory. However, if you combine the two modes, you will get the best concentration. Have a special place of learning, which should be well lit, with soft painted walls, well-ventilated, with no distractions. When you get bored, study by writing. If you repeat learning, at least, five to seven times, you will apparently remember for a longer time. Sit comfortably but do not slouch. The reading material should be of a fairly large print. Study at small intervals of about 40 minutes and then take a break or change the subject. Short-term memory is a faculty of the left brain, and long-term memory is a feature of the right brain. When people are stressed, they tend to favor the right brain and abandon the left brain, where short-term memory resides. So, it is really very simple: deal with the stress and activate left brain functions. Here are a few suggestions to activate left brain function: shut your left nostril and breathe, move your eyes from right to left and vice versa for at least half a minute at a time, and do callisthenic exercises with some form of counting, regularly. There is a new exercise called Super Brain Yoga, which is done by holding the right earlobe with your left thumb and index finger, and the left earlobe with your right hand’s thumb and index finger. In this position, you must squat down and rise up and do this for five minutes every day. There is some memory enhancing techniques and study methods that your teacher will be able to guide you with. If your home life is full of distractions and stress, it is likely to affect your memory, adversely. In that case, I suggest that the family goes for counseling too. The following foods do help too: Blueberries, walnuts, turmeric, Spinach, tomatoes, broccoli, acorn squash, green tea, oily fish, boiled egg, turkey, apples, oatmeal, leafy greens, lentils, pumpkin seeds, avocado, cinnamon, thyme, sunflower seeds, and red wine. Avoid sugar and junk food.
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Hello. I am 38 years male. Weight 73 kgs. I go to gym 3 times a week. But I have a habit of smoking 15 to 20 ciggs and 60ml 4pegs daily. Mentally cant quiet so any alternate to reduce or medicine to quiet smoking and reduce alcohol ?

M.D,Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Amritsar
Take tab topirol 50 mg at night tab ativan 2 mg at night. For smoking take chewable nicotex tab whenever there is craving.
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Hello doctor, I am gourav 25 year old a male. I am suffering for depression since 2009 due to many negative thing In myself. I was very shy in childhood and still I want to get rid from shyness. Lack of confidence my social behavior is not good and I feel social fhobia please help me to get rid of my this weak mental health and guide me to enjoy the life. Due to lack of financial problem I am not able to visit psychological doctor with a heavy fee charge. What should I do? Suggest me any good book.

Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surgery (BAMS)
Ayurveda, Sultanpur
Hello doctor, I am gourav 25 year old a male. I am suffering for depression since 2009 due to many negative thing In ...
dear friend, you have to change your approach. don't depend upon drugs. when you know that negative thoughts are disturbing you try to think another way. or leave the place to change your mood. mixing with children and playing any outdoor game is a helpful. tell more about you and the thought to get appropriate solutions.
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