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Mr. Wilfred Stanley is one of the best Psychologists in Ragavendra Nagar, Bangalore. You can meet Mr. Wilfred Stanley personally at Rapid Mind Power in Ragavendra Nagar, Bangalore. Book an appointment online with Mr. Wilfred Stanley and consult privately on Lybrate.com.

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Hi sir. This is satya last two or three years I am suffering from depression for some reasons. I don't know how to come out from that.

BAMS
Ayurveda, Ambala
Hi sir. This is satya last two or three years I am suffering from depression for some reasons. I don't know how to co...
Dear you should follow my these instructions seriously to make life free of depression -. * on getting up every morning, just stand in front of mirror and say you are happy and you can do anything. By saying these words, you get positive energy about yourself and that makes you feel better. * in morning and evening, take a little time for meditation. You just have to sit in a peaceful place, close your eyes and take long breaths in and out. While breathing just concentrate on breathing only and do it for atleast 10-15 minutes daily. * when ever anything make you feel stressed, do not try to hide it. Just go to your parents or the nearest person you trust most and talk to him/her about the problem and discuss it very clearly. It will solve the problem and make you feel that you are not alone in the world. *join the charity functions and help those persons which are so poor and can not afford their meal and other daily routine things. Helping other make you feel inspired and boost your confidence level. * go to the temple or any nearest religious place who you believe daily. Going to that place daily give you positive energy and bless your life by the grace of god. Apply these things in your life and I assure you that you feel that your life have changed completelyy and you live your life with full confidence.
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I am smoking for 3 years now I am suffering from diseases. What I have to do to quit it?

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear, Tobacco is addictive. Cigarette also contains 4000+ carcinogenic chemicals other than nicotine. Smoking can affect your mouth, throat, lungs, heart, stomach and brain in many ways. Cancer is one among the potential diseases smoking can cause. The best method is to leave it and continue with your will power. There are other methods like Nicotine Replacement therapy and pharmacotherapy combined. Nicotine chewing gums too help as an alternative for cigarettes. But still you will need will power. You may consult a physician or deaddiction therapist or a rehabilitation facility for further advice. You can also opt for online deaddiction therapy. Take care.
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Hi doctors. I have one problem. That whenever I will heard about some incident or shock news my heart beat fast. And I feel anxiety and weakness could you please suggest me. How to make my heart strong.

MBBS
General Physician, Mumbai
Hi doctors. I have one problem. That whenever I will heard about some incident or shock news my heart beat fast. And ...
Dear Lybrateuser, -To relieve your anxiety & fears do regular exercise like walking, jogging for 20-30 min, also do yoga, meditation & deep breathing as they have a positive & calming effect on the mind & help you become physically & mentally stronger to face various situations in life, also your heart beat will not rise as it does now -have a well balanced, nutritious diet with more of fruits & vegetables & consume 7-8 glasses of water per day for good digestion -sleep well for 7-8 hrs at night as it greatly helps in reducing anxiety & stress, keep your sleep & wake up time fixed. -engage yourself in work, other activities like reading, music, playing games these help build confidence & keep the mind stable.
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I think im obsessing over a tune and it has caused me to actually hear it all the time. please help me I have exams in few week final year mbbs and im not able to study.

BSc
Ayurveda, Ujjain
I think im obsessing over a tune and it has caused me to actually hear it all the time. please help me I have exams i...
You stop to think that obessing start to think that I am reducing will help you are ordering to your brain this effacts on our health. Stand up in fornt of mirror end think I am reducing day by day speack 10 times in a day. Avoid carbohydrates, rich proteins, eggs, nonveg, too oily end ghee prepretions. Take 6 to 8 hours sleep. Take simpal veg food with salad both times, avoid over eating, take less as you fill hungery.
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Hi, I am 29 yrs old married woman. By nature m very quite, calm n reserve kind of bt nw days i get angry v soon, stay frustrated, n have become stubborn. Even loosing weight too. Don feel like to plan a baby. There r few family issues that disturb me. As we all deal with some kind of. Bt my nature has become weird. No one to talk, to share anything. Don know what should i do.

M.Sc - Applied Psychology
Psychologist, Gurgaon
Dear, Every problem has a solution, and similarly every cause has a reason. Your behavior change is combination of many things, You can be surely be helped, I would need more detail on your problems . Kindly consult me privately and we can discuss in detail to give you your solution and make you happy again.
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Respected sir, i'm 21 year old now but i'm such like a very emaciated person. I walk daily on foot & exercise also but I found no changes. So please sir suggest me is there any advice for me.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
Respected sir, i'm 21 year old now but i'm such like a very emaciated person. I walk daily on foot & exercise also bu...
You will rue the day you become obese and have difficulty knocking down your weight. The whole world is fighting an almost losing battle with the bulge. As long as you are active and fit, do not worry about your emaciated looks. If you seriously want to put on weight, you can put on muscle mass. This can be achieved by going to a gym and the instructor or coach will help you in this regard: as a general rule, if you do brisk exercise you will develop muscle and if you do slow stretching exercises you will tone your body. Weight bearing exercise, even though it is on the slow side will generally, add much desirable weight. Food wise any increase in carbohydrates will tend to add to your bulk. By nature, if your basic metabolic rate is high, whatever you eat will easily get metabolized and will spare nothing to add to your weight. You could learn meditation and yoga to slow down your metabolism and that will also make you a calm person. Whatever happens, do not neglect your physical fitness with sufficient exercise, eat well, sleep well, be stress-free as much as possible, and have a good collection of friends.
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What happens when we smoke. Why it becomes a habit. Why do youngsters attract to smoking.

BHMS
Homeopath, Gurgaon
Tobacco smoking contains lots of health hazardous substance, it contains nicotine also which is highly addictive. So when any body starts smoking he or she become habituated of it.
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I am 62 years of age suffering from type 2 Diabetes since last 7-8 yrs, taking Amryl 1M ; also suffering from endogenous depression since 1994, taking allopathic medicine for that. Since last five years I have developed Erectile Dysfunction, suggest some cure / medicine for this.

MBBS, DPM
Psychiatrist, Bangalore
I am 62 years of age suffering from type 2 Diabetes since last 7-8 yrs, taking Amryl 1M ; also suffering from endogen...
Dear lybrate-user, Both diabetes and depression cause erectile dysfunction. Some antidepressant tablets also cause erectile dysfunction. Your partner's reaction to your diabetes and depression also might have caused ED. Please come online or consult your psychiatrist along with your partner, with your diabetes test reports, your antidepressant drugs and dose and duration of treatment. You can correct the causes, one by one to have good sexual life.
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How much alcohol can someone over 50 safely drink, and does our tolerance change with aging?

MSC Human Development , Hypnotherapy , Special Educator , ms- counselling and physiotherapy, Applied psychology Hons
Psychologist, Faridabad
According to your question there is no safe limit of alcohol and the first thing that alcohol tolerance decreased with ageing because when ageing is increase your body organs became weak. According to american studies 21unit per week is quite safer in man. Above it alcohol leads to liver disease.
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I have a anxiety problem in past 6 months and doctors prescribed me mdma medicine which causes side effects on me please help.

MBBS, MD - Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Ahmedabad
I have a anxiety problem in past 6 months and doctors prescribed me mdma medicine which causes side effects on me ple...
Dear lybrate-user, As you have mentioned that you anxiety problem since last few months. Anxiety is part of life and every one has passed through it on one or other occasion. When it goes beyond certain limits and causing disturbance in your Social or occupational life then it must be attended and needs to take action to curb it. Anxiety can be control by Medicinal and non medicinal measures as well. There are many different medicines to take care anxiety ,if you have side effect with one kind of medicines you can be prescribed with another medicines which may not cause side effect in you. Hope this answer satisfy you. Regards.
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I have not at all self-confidence, I feel very fear to keep my view to in front of my boss. I am very nervous. please help me.

MBBS, MD - Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Faridabad
I have not at all self-confidence, I feel very fear to keep my view to in front of my boss. I am very nervous. please...
Dear lybrate-user, since when are you facing this problem? It might be a part of anxiety disorder. Good medicine are available for making person comfortable during such situation. Psychological therapy also effective in your condition. Choice of treatment is determined by patient severity of symptoms. You can start physical and breathing exercise for improvement. I am sure you will get satisfactory response on medication and psychological therapy. All d best.
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I read somewhere that anger anxiety stress can darken facial complexion. Before one month someone very close cheated me so badly I was totally disturbed And I was having a mixed feeling anger anxiety but now I realize that I should not waste my precious life for that person. So I want my confidence and Old myself back. I was not dark in complexion but from last One month my face looks so dark and dull I have dark circle also. If it is due to stress or anger than is there anything that could bring me my fare and bright skin back. I don't want any side effects of medicine so I would prefer some homeopathic treatment. please help it is very important for me to GEt my confidence back:)

MBBS, DNB (General Surgery), MNAMS (Membership of the National Academy) (General Surgery) , Fellowship in Minimal Access Surgery, Fellow of Indian association og gastro intestinal endo surgeons
General Surgeon, Ghaziabad
I read somewhere that anger anxiety stress can darken facial complexion. Before one month someone very close cheated ...
Medicines can not bring you confidence back nor can they improve complexion. For you to be happy and fairer you need to make new friends, or meet your old ones again. Talk to your brother or sister about your feelings. Attend some parties. All anger and anxiety will vanish.
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My son is 12 year old and his abnormal behaviour and too much anger, hitting objects and person without reason.

MBBS, DPM (PSYCHIATRY), MD - Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Indore
My son is 12 year old and his abnormal behaviour and too much anger, hitting objects and person without reason.
Needs to be assessed. Behaviour changes are common at the age of puberty but it needs to be assessed whether your son is having any features of oppositional defiant disorder/ conduct disorder. In that case he and family members will require to undergo psychological intervention and some add on medication for him that may help in anger management.
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I m ly 19 years old but I think I m losing my memory power I easily forget things which. I read I couldn't remember names dates facts it's is a big hectic to me wht are it causes and how can I overcome it.

BHMS
Homeopath, Lucknow
do meditation. yoga, morning. avoid watching TV for long hours take ur sleep properly. take Kali phos 6x / qid daily for 1months
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Mam I feel laziness all time at this time. I don't concentrate on study. To give suggest me what can I do.

MBBS
General Physician, Mumbai
I will suggest you to take injection vitcofol 2 cc intramuscularly every alternate days for five pricks over the buttocks through a health professional and I will suggest you to do suryanamaskar daily as per your capacity for a minimum of six months.
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My husband has ROCD. Is there any therapy to cure it? Also please tell me how I can be supportive.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
Yes, he can be given cognitive behavioral treatments. A thorough history would include the presenting problems, background of the problems, and personal history with specific emphasis on relational history and family history and environment. It is of outmost importance to gain a clear understanding of the nature, pattern, and duration of your husband’s symptoms within the relationship context and in previous relationships. Therapists should collect detailed information about triggers of obsessions, their frequency and duration, the expected feared outcome or worry about the obsessions, and the responses to these intrusions. Responses include emotions (e.g., anxiety, guilt), overt compulsions (e.g., checking, comparing, reassurance seeking), covert compulsions (e.g., thought suppression, monitoring of internal states, self-reassurance), and avoidance or safety behaviors. ROCD symptoms have been linked with significant personal difficulties (e.g., mood, anxiety, and other OCD symptoms) and couple difficulties (e.g., relationship and sexual dissatisfaction). The counselor will help him and you in the treatment process. There will be a lot of contaminated thinking and decontamination is a good therapy to use in this context. He may develop an obsession of a particular trait from any old association as desirable not because he really likes it but because he has got familiar to that feature, perhaps from a movie, and just has an affinity to it. He may however imagine it to be the ultimate among all traits and stay fixated to it. He needs a lot of love but not to be overdone. His fears may be discussed and your discernment is very important. You will need to very intelligently show him the reality from fiction. His family background and childhood may help to determine how to counter their influences. It is a long process and tedious too. If there are other OCD characteristics, then you will need to get treatment for them too. Remember that there is a lot of fear and confusion, and decision making will be near impossible. You could be of tremendous help to make decisions and remove that burden. This can only happen if you prove your intelligence and decision making art.
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Hi, I want to stop smoking but I cannot stop it, please suggest me what can I do?

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear, as you are already aware smoking is dangerous. Apart from the nicotine related addiction and health hazards, you inhale more than 4000 carcinogenic chemicals when you smoke. There is also a high risk of developing these problems to other people near you through passive smoking. Awareness is the basic for quitting smoking. Awareness provides will power. Know more about tobacco smoking health effects. For craving or withdrawal symptoms you can use nicotine chewing gums or nicotine patches. There are other way by gradual reducing and keeping some promises. Promise yourself, that you will not smoke in office, at home, in front of family members and dear friends etc. Never buy cigerettes in packets. Whenever you feel like smoking, go to the shop and buy one. Keep these promises strictly and you will see the quantity reduces drastically. Then you can stop it gradually. Take care.
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Sometimes I tried to remember but I can't remember properly while I am putting concentrate on subject it just wipe away soon.

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
Research-based strategies to boost your memory and keep it strong 7 Strategies for Remembering 1. Become interested in what you're learning. We're all better remembering what interests us. Few people, for example, have a difficult time remembering the names of people they find attractive. If you're not intrinsically interested in what you're learning or trying to remember, you must find a way to become so. 2. Find a way to leverage your visual memory. You'll be surprised by how much more this will enable you to remember. For example, imagine you're at a party and are introduced to five people in quick succession. How can you quickly memorize their names? Pick out a single defining visual characteristic of each person and connect it to a visual representation of their name, preferably through an action of some kind. Remember: Memory is predominantly visual. 3. Create a mental memory tree. If you're trying to memorize a large number of facts, find a way to relate them in your mind visually with a memory tree. Construct big branches first, then leaves. Branches and leaves should carry labels that are personally meaningful to you in some way, and the organization of the facts ("leaves") should be logical.. 4. Associate what you're trying to learn with what you already know. It seems the more mental connections we have to a piece of information, the more successful we'll be in remembering it. This is why using mnemonics. Write out the items to be memorized over and over and over. 5. When reading for retention, summarize each paragraph in the margin. This requires you to think about what you're reading, recycle it, and teach it to yourself again. Even take the concepts you're learning and reason forward with them; apply them to imagined novel situations, which creates more neural connections to reinforce the memory. 6. Do most of your studying in the afternoon. Though you may identify yourself as a "morning person" or "evening person" at least one Study. suggests your ability to memorize isn't influenced as much by what time of day you perceive yourself to be most alert but by the time of day you actually study—afternoon appearing to be the best. 7. Get adequate sleep to consolidate and retain memories. Not just at night after you've studied but the day, you study as well. Far better to do this than to stay up cramming all night for an exam.
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I am addicted to weed! I want to get out of it. Whenever I stay alone I feel like getting high! Weed has affected all my work and my personal life! Is there anything that will help me come out of it.

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
I am addicted to weed! I want to get out of it. Whenever I stay alone I feel like getting high! Weed has affected all...
Only by using strong will power and avoiding all situations where you feel like smoking, chewing tobacco or drinking or using drugs/ weed, avoiding friends who smoke and diverting mind by reading or chewing a gum, like NICORETTE and taking a walk when you crave for a smoke can all help. You can chew Nicorette gum which is nicotine replacement. There are medicines available. Which can be prescribed if asked personally Cigarette smoking is a leading preventable cause of mortality. It kills more than 60 lakh people worldwide every year. More than 50% of regular smokers would invariably die from tobacco-related illnesses which includes heart attack, cancer or asthmatic lung diseases. Best age to stop smoking is before 40 31st May is “World No Tobacco Day” Quitting smoking before the age of 40 is associated with larger decline in premature death than stopping it at a later date. Best age therefore to stop smoking is before 40. However, stopping smoking even after the age of 50 is still associated with lower risk of death as compared to those who continue to smoke. Even in smokers aged 80 years or more, quitting smoking appears to reduce some mortality.
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