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Mr. Sam P

MASTERS IN COUNSELLING AND FAMILY THERAPY

Psychologist, Bangalore

6 Years Experience  ·  500 at clinic  ·  ₹50 online
Mr. Sam P MASTERS IN COUNSELLING AND FAMILY THERAPY Psychologist, Bangalore
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Mr. Sam P is a popular Psychologist in JP Nagar, Bangalore. He has been a practicing Psychologist for 6 years. He is a qualified MASTERS IN COUNSELLING AND FAMILY THERAPY . You can meet Mr. Sam P personally at Sam in JP Nagar, Bangalore. Don’t wait in a queue, book an instant appointment online with Mr. Sam P on Lybrate.com.

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Is there any fruit vegetable etc. Available at home which can release exam anxiety.

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
Is there any fruit vegetable etc. Available at home which can release exam anxiety.
There are no such fruits but you can do meditation and yoga to reduce anxiety and have mind control.
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Hi doctors please suggest me how to boost memory again. Previously 5 years ago my grabbing ,memory Nd all things are at peak bt now .I can't understand simple things in one time. Remembering power is too weak I forget many things not only study plus daily routine also. During the years some incident took place bt now I'm all ok bt the the side affects is still there I don't know how my nature is changed .I feel lack of confidence. Nervousness.stress .depress .hair fall. Irrigation behaviour .anger .heartbeats faster .eye problems .talking pimples ie stammering .I don't know y all these things are happing please suggest I think when will concentrate on my studies I will b fit Nd fine like earlier as books r real friends .so please suggest how to boost memory grabbing power concentration .2 for my nervousness & emotional nature .3 hair fall. 4 irritating nature also .bt mainly my memory one please help My age 22 wt 40 .eye power 1.50. Ht 5; 5.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear Lybrate user. I can understand. Memory and mind power depends on three aspects. Understanding, retention and recollection. Recollection is easy if your retention is proper and flawless. Retention is possible when you are able understand what you read or learn. To understand you should have concentration. Concentration comes from effective learning techniques based on creative and active learning. Physical exercise, outdoor games, entertainment, socializing coupled with systematic learning improves your memory and mind power. Vegetables, fruits and nuts are perfect for memory. Brain games like sudoku and jigsaw puzzles helps too. Avocados, Beetroots, Blueberries, Broccoli. Celery, Coconut Oil, Dark Chocolate etc are good for improving concentration and memory. I suggest online education counseling. Take care.
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Ten Ways to Improve Your Sex Life

GAMS-AYURVEDA, MD-TCM
Sexologist, Faridabad
Ten Ways to Improve Your Sex Life

The greater part of us can recollect the hot, zesty minutes when the love life  was new and everything was rosy between you and your partner. However, the flame of a decent love life may fade away. Gradually, you and your partner may have an uninteresting sexual life.

In order to break the deadlock, you must find ways to bring back the old flame. Here are 10 ways, following which you can slowly get back to your glory days:

  1. For men, keeping a healthy heart is a must for long lasting spirit in bed. Your penis chips away with circulatory strain. The mind sends signals to your penis that causes vessels to swell with blood. Your heart is in charge of pumping the blood. When the heart is not functioning at its best, it can bring about issues with the blood stream from the heart to the vessels in your penis. This can make it hard to accomplish a full erection. Ensure your circulatory framework is working at top shape. Essentially, what is useful for your heart is useful for your sexual well-being.
  2. One of the most ideal approaches to enhance your sexual well-being is cardiovascular activity. Sex gets your heart rate up, yet standard activity can help your sexual execution by keeping your heart fit as a fiddle. Sweat breaking activities, such as running and swimming, can do marvels to uplift your charisma.
  3. In case of men, some food items help  in increasing blood flow. This accounts for better erection. Example, banana (rich in potassium), onion, garlic, chilies and pepper. Some of these items reduce hypertension.
  4. There are many people who have certain sexual problems, but keep them to themselves. People tend to hide their problems from their partners because of fear of failure. These problems should be talked about, given attention and be cured in order to restore the normal sexual performance and Erectile Dysfunction is one such problem.
  5. Sex is a two way road. Giving careful consideration to your partner's longing makes sex pleasurable for them and turns you on as well. Discussing this in advance will make it easier for you. 
  6. In case you're not enduring the length you desire in bed, you may require some practice. Masturbation can help you enhance your stamina.
  7. Exposure to sunlight decreases the production of melatonin. Less melatonin increases the potential for sexual urge. Spend some time in the sun.
  8. Reduce much stress possible from your life. Stress boosts blood pressure and heart rate and your sexual performance gets hampered.
  9. Get rid of unhealthy habits, such as smoking and drinking. Such stimulants may lead to impotency, and you must avoid them to maintain sexual health.
  10. Experiment with new and different sexual positions to make it more interesting and fun for your partner.
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When I am thinking of my girlfriend, I am not feeling well, it feels like headache and unconscious .What happened to me ?and what is the solution? I tried yoga and meditation but didn't work at all.

MBBS, Accupunture, Hypnosis, Visceral manipulation, Craniosacral Balancing, Quantum Touch, I don't practise accupunture,reiki,hypnosis because i didn't get good results.
Pain Management Specialist, Panchkula
When I am thinking of my girlfriend, I am not feeling well, it feels like headache and unconscious .What happened to ...
As you know Headache is usually due to some kind of stress and worry. At no meditation clinic mind management is available which is simple easy less time taking & not available anywhere it can help you definitely in any field of life (family, professional, parenting etc.) Mind comes to know in 1st meeting that yes the above facts are true & possible & we can be super performer in any aspect of life, can lead no stress, no disease, no aging life rather not managing stress, managing disease, managing aging. Rather happiness goes on increasing. Time for all aspects of life - 5-7 hrs. For any one 2-3 hrs
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Is magnesium citrate is good for memory anxiety depression calmness and positive energy. I had tired eyes and fatigue. After taking magnesium citrate 200 mg I feel great with lot of positive energy amd vitality. Shall I continue taking magnesium citrate I capsule daily.

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
Is magnesium citrate is good for memory anxiety depression calmness and positive energy. I had tired eyes and fatigue...
This product is used to clean stool from the intestines before surgery or certain bowel procedures (e. G. Colonoscopy, radiography), usually with other products. It may also be used for relief of constipation. However, milder products (e. G. Stool softeners, bulk-forming laxatives) should be used whenever possible for constipation. Magnesium citrate is a saline laxative that is thought to work by increasing fluid in the small intestine. It usually results in a bowel movement within 30 minutes to 3 hours.
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I am 16 year old male and I find problem in speaking, I don't speak words incorrect but I stop in between I slutterWhat to do for this?

MBBS, cc USG
General Physician, Gurgaon
Hello, This problem can be solved by Collection of Exercises, Speech therapy, treatment and home cure 1.Exercises are effective in treatment of physiological causes of stammering. In general, exercises are meant to provide strength to the organs associated with speech including tongue, lips, jaw, trachea and lungs. Kindly consult to good speech therapy clinic 2.Deep breathing exercise are very effective 3.chewing Indian gooseberry, Almonds, Black pepper, Cinnamon and dried dates are known to clear speech congestion 4.This problem can be solved by Meditation i can give you address of rajyoga meditation center near your house (this is free of cost)
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Dr. Below is my case I am 29 years old frm Mumbai working in an MNC I have been very active sexually in my life. Last year on 1st October 2015 I had a brief unprotected sex with a CSW I got scared and I started googling as a result I tested myself many times from Metropolis for HIV 4th Generation Duo test after the below following weeks 7,12,23,25,28,31,36,40. All came negative my worry and question is 1) I was confident after my seven weeks only but I had google so much online dat I got obese and went on testing myself. How do I get rid of this obsession? 2) Many forums say different things which confuses me please help me with % reliability of 4th generation tests 4 Weeks, 6 weeks, 9 weeks, 12 Weeks. 3) I am suffering from OCD or psychological problem? 4) My last test was after 40 weeks of risky exposure with CSW and after six weeks of unprotected sex with my Fiancee (I am sude she is -ve) am I 100% HIV negative? What should I do get off this thought I am fed up with these thoughts feel lke killing myself Please help with your insights?

Masters in Clinical Psychology
Psychologist, Lucknow
Dr. Below is my case
 I am 29 years old frm Mumbai working in an MNC I have been very active sexually in my life.
Las...
Hi lybrate-user, you sure are not Hiv positive, yes you have developed obsessive thoughts and you can get rid of this through cognitive behavioral therapy for which you will have to consult a psychologist. On screening if there is a need you will be directed for medication too. To begin with practice mindfulness breathing - The primary goal of mindful breathing is simply a calm, nonjudging awareness, allowing thoughts and feelings to come and go without getting caught up in them. Sit comfortably, with your eyes closed and your spine reasonably straight. Bring your attention to your breathing. Imagine that you have a balloon in your tummy. Every time you breathe in, the balloon inflates. Each time you breathe out, the balloon deflates. Notice the sensations in your abdomen as the balloon inflates and deflates. Your abdomen rising with the in-breath, and falling with the out-breath. Thoughts will come into your mind, and that’s okay, because that’s just what the human mind does. Simply notice those thoughts, then bring your attention back to your breathing. Likewise, you can notice sounds, physical feelings, and emotions, and again, just bring your attention back to your breathing. You don’t have to follow those thoughts or feelings, don’t judge yourself for having them, or analyse them in any way. It’s okay for the thoughts to be there. Just notice those thoughts, and let them drift on by, bringing your attention back to your breathing. Whenever you notice that your attention has drifted off and is becoming caught up in thoughts or feelings, simply note that the attention has drifted, and then gently bring the attention back to your breathing. It's okay and natural for thoughts to enter into your awareness, and for your attention to follow them. No matter how many times this happens, just keep bringing your attention back to your breathing. Do it wheneve you get these negative thoughts. You can consult with me for psychotherapy CBT. All the best. RELAX.
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I breakup with my girlfriend since then I am very depressed and not getting good vibes around me. What should I do to feel normal?

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
I breakup with my girlfriend since then I am very depressed and not getting good vibes around me. What should I do to...
It looks like you are pining for her after the break up. Have you analyzed why you two had this fallout? If it your fault, then apologize and see if she is amenable. If not you may have done something quite unforgiveable. But you say you cry every night, and you have lost so much of weight and friends that it seems you have discovered that a heterosexual relationship is very different from normal relations. It is very intense, and the very thing that makes it attractive (the opposite sex and all its nuances), can also be its nemesis. You must learn what that difference was about your past relations and this particular one and find out how to live with a love relationship. There must be love, respect, commitment, honesty, trust, and freedom in the romantic scene. If however, this is final, then remove all associations of hers: gifts, notes, letters, cards, emails, and any reminders to get her out of your system, not just the mind. Keep the good memories but don’t indulge in them. Get back to your old pals and revive those contacts. Normally when we get a girl friend, we drop all our friends and live exclusively with her. This is not a good thing to do, generally. So do get back to them and get into good social circles. They will help you get over her. Do not talk ill or malign your ex to your friends, whatever was the reason. That is unfortunately a very bad habit many of us have – we must still respect her reputation and treat her with dignity. Since this break up is so serious for you, do meet up with a counselor and talk about your feelings, openly. This is not the end of the world and she is not the only girl in life. You will find another but learn not to repeat the mistakes that led to the breakup. This time choose wisely and behave like a true gentleman.
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Sir I'm depressed thinking about life that it is point less and If we have to die then why we are doing everything. And and couldn't find a way to come out if this situation please help me.

MD - Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Chennai
Sir I'm depressed thinking about life that it is point less and If we have to die then why we are doing everything. A...
You need to consult a psychiatrist and get you depression evaluated the word depressed is a common everyday word. People might say" i'm depressed" when in fact they mean" i'm fed up because i've had a row, or failed an exam, or lost my job" etc. These ups and downs of life are common and normal. Most people recover quite quickly. With true depression, you have a low mood and other symptoms each day for at least two weeks you seem to have severe depression since you describe no point in living, consult a psychiatrist and get evaluated.
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My son aged 27 years had a serious accident 10 years ago. He suffered from head injury and was operated upon. Though he is alright now, he gets angry very soon. Sometimes he reacts to things in a very inappropriate manner. Is there any link between the head injury and the anger etc.

MBBS, MD (AIIMS, Gold Medalist), Diploma in CBT (UWS, Glasgow)
Psychiatrist, Delhi
Hi, Thanks for writing in; welcome to the forum. Yes, it would certainly seem that there is a link. Many possibilities exist as to the exact nature of the problem that has resulted in inappropriate behavior and anger. The first thing that any expert would consider is an organic personality change or a frontal lobe syndrome that characteristically presents with the exact symptoms that you have mentioned. Other causes include anxiety, depressive and psychotic changes due to head injury. The exact diagnosis can be made based on a review of all records and an interview with the patient. The organic personality change can be improved to an extent with treatment. The other causes that I mentioned also can get better and have higher chances of getting better than the organic personality. Please consult an expert in person for exact diagnosis and management. Take care!
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I want to get rid off my porn addiction. It's killing me. My self esteem. I am not able to do my business correctly.

Masters in Clinical Psychology
Psychologist, Lucknow
I want to get rid off my porn addiction. It's killing me. My self esteem. I am not able to do my business correctly.
Hi lybrate-user. I can understand your state of mind, but there is solution for everything, you will get over it with medication and therapy. Compulsive use of the internet for porn can interfere with daily life and your relationships, leaving you feel ashamed. If you notice porn having a negative impact on your life but find yourself having difficulty cutting it out, you may need to go to greater lengths to get your problem under control. By replacing your negative behavior with positive ones, you can beat this habit. Consult with me for counseling and therapy. All the best.
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I can't control my anger. Some times my behavior is too dangerous. I'm a too much doubt able person. How to keep calm.get angry in small things. My behavior like. I want it now. I want to do it now.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
At your age this is not surprising. One is that your hormones are playing havoc, and two there may be some childhood issues that were not resolved and are coming up now seeking a resolution! for the latter, you need to check with your parents about that, and for the former you will need to tide this period over because it lasts for exactly two years. If you are blessed with a good value system, you will be able to come out of this unscathed. Even so, you can reach out to a counselor and sort out both possibilities and come good. I would also like you to be honest with yourself and see if you are getting angry because you are actually scared. Anger can easily cover fear and nobody will be any the wiser. But the sad part is that the fear does not get dealt with and people and you will be focused on the wrong feeling. Look at that too in your therapy. If you exercise vigorously, a lot of your anger will be dissipated. At this age you do not want things right now, you want them yesterday!
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Hi ,day by day my nature & feelings are being changed .I always feel nervousness little afraid although I am brave but I don't k ow what's happening to me I got affected by a simple things also and I need a good time to become normal that's cause hamper to my studies .I feel very restless I CNT sit nor walk its very unusual feeling difficult to describes. And ya my heart it have also some affects I can't describe it ya sometime its beat fast and some other affects also But how can I describes my self its very difficult to write .In simple I always feel very nervous and due to this I can't gain weight at the age of 21 my wt is just 41. Ht 5: 5. Hope that you understand my problems. And ya whenever I feel this type of feeling I can't eat not a single piece of anything except liquid .my friends told me you thinks too much that's y this things are happening ya true I think too much but I can't control my mind .and thinking too much give me little peace I know its not peace but I feel good please suggest me doctors what I will do hope that you will understand what I'm telling to say .

M.S. Counselling and Psychotherapy
Psychologist, Bangalore
Hi  ,day by day my nature & feelings are being changed .I always feel nervousness little afraid although I am brave b...
Dear lybrate user, I think you feel chocked. There are lot many things going on in your mind but you are unable to express it. You might be scared and probably feeling shameful about something in life. You might be angry with someone or something. You need to express your feelings which will relieve your anxiety and stress. Once you are relieved of your troublesome thoughts and feelings, you will start feeling lighter. You will start taking interest in life and may have more appetite and eventually put on more weight. If there are any problems at home, try to discuss with concerned people and try to resolve them. You may talk to your school or college counsellor. The counsellor will help you. Take care.
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Am 28 n my hubby 33. Arranged marriage 1 1/2 years passed. Used to have quarrel b4 engagement n past 3 to 4 months only in peace n that too coz am nt asking him anything n adjust n changed myself a lot. But he is as same as b4 n he s thing I only have to change. Is this good? why I shouldn't want him to change and why he can not? He is telling am changing nu. Bt I didn see any difference. Any psychologist tell me at this site what I should do?

B.Sc(Hons) Mumbai Univ., ND, MD - Alternate Medicine, Aroma Therap., Bach Flower Rem, Mental Health Cert.
Alternative Medicine Specialist, Mumbai
Am 28 n my hubby 33. Arranged marriage 1 1/2 years passed. Used to have quarrel b4 engagement n past 3 to 4 months on...
Hi life is an adjustment you have to adjust if your husband does not listen to you. Give some time and everything will be allright.
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How to focus on studies I usually get distracted when I start studying. While studying I usually start thinking blah blah. And waste my time Wt to do?

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear, You must be able to understand Concentration, attention span, recollection and distraction. If you are able to watch a movie for two hours continuously, if you are able to play a game for an hour, then you do not have any concentration problems. You can't be attentive towards your studies because you are not interested in it. You are able to watch movie and play game because you are interested in it. Human cannot be attentive towards anything for more than 10 minutes. Then you should study in such a way that your attention is continued and make the subjects are interesting to you. Effective learning techniques should help you. Recollection depends on anxiety, stress and other physical and circumstantial factors. Distractions while studying are plentiful. You should be able to overcome distractions or avoid distractions. Please understand the above. Change your study style and attitude accordingly. Please post a private question to me and I will help you with "effective learning" techniques. Avocados, Beetroots, Blueberries, Broccoli. Celery, Coconut Oil, Dark Chocolate etc are good for improving concentration. Take care.
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SEEING PHYSICAL ABUSE? TALKING IS THE BEST FORM OF THERAPY.

MD - Psychiatry, MBBS
Psychiatrist, Hyderabad
SEEING PHYSICAL ABUSE? TALKING IS THE BEST FORM OF THERAPY.
When Swapna had come to the office, she had bruises over her neck and hands. Her friend immediately realised that it was physical abuse probably by her husband. But, she kept quiet as she thought questions about the bruises can embarrass Swapna, and she will again relive the pain which would cause her more anxiety. The whole day, though Swapna was sitting near her desk she never mentioned about her bruises.

It happens with most of us, especially when we come across victims of physical abuse wherein the injuries are evident but we hesitate to question them. The reasons could be:

People think that the person can get embarrassed.
People do not know how to start the conversation.
People think that it is their personal life and so they should not intervene.
All of us should help our friends and family, at least those who are victims of physical abuse. But how to help?

Before that we need to first know whether the person is a victim of physical abuse/ domestic violence. One need not be an expert to talk to one suffering from physical abuse. These are some tips –

Ask the person privately.
Victim of abuse can feel embarrassed when things about the abuse are asked in a group of people.
Accept the fact that a victim of physical abuse would probably try to hide the abuse.
The reasons for hiding could be embarrassment, being blamed, not being believed etc.
Show concern while starting the conversation.
In the above case, Swapna’s friend could start the conversation in private by saying “I noticed these bruises on your hand Swapna. I am really concerned about you. Can I help you in any way?”
Or she could also say “I think you are stressed out today, you can talk to me now or another time about it, I will keep it confidential”
A victim will always remember that you offered help though they might not open up immediately.
The first time you offered help and if the person has not told you anything, it is okay. They will definitely remember that you offered help and whenever the stress becomes too much you might be the person they will remember and share their worries with.
Do not feel that by asking your friend might think that it is not your business or she won’t need help.
You lose very little if your friend says that it is not your business but chances are very little that she would say that.
Do not hesitate to show concern and ask for help.
Reinforce to the friend that it is not their fault and at the same time do not overtly scold or bad mouth the partner in front your friend.
Listen patiently without judging and respond supportively like supporting their decisions and trying to tell them that the feelings of anger or guilt, they are experiencing, are normal in their situations.
Believe the person and do not belittle their traumatic experience.
If the person is telling that her husband beats her up quite often, DO NOT SAY “I know your husband, he is not like that, you are mistaken”
People who abuse partners behave differently when in public and when in private, with partners.
Take them seriously if they are fearful about their safety.
At least tell them that “What you said seems definitely dangerous and I am really concerned about you”
You can discuss a safety plan with her in case of an emergency.
Try to offer help appropriately.
Help could be also giving her information regarding social services, legal help, if needed.
If your friend asks you to do something you can do, do it.
If you can’t do or don’t want to, say that to your friend and try to identify other ways where she can seek for help. Later you can see the other ways in which you can help.
For a person being abused, just the fact that someone cares enough to at least ask her about her physical abuse can make her feel wanted and will be supportive. Talking is the best form of therapy.
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I wanna a psychiatrist consultation I am depressed in love matter I wanna forget my guy and come out of it.

MD - Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Chennai
I wanna a psychiatrist consultation I am depressed in love matter I wanna forget my guy and come out of it.
The word depressed is a common everyday word. People might say" i'm depressed" when in fact they mean" i'm fed up because i've had a row, or failed an exam, or lost my job" etc. These ups and downs of life are common and normal. Most people recover quite quickly. With true depression, you have a low mood and other symptoms each day for at least two weeks The common symptoms are (few might be present in a person with depression) Feelings of sadness, tearfulness, emptiness or hopelessness Angry outbursts, irritability or frustration, even over small matters Loss of interest or pleasure in most or all normal activities, such as sex, hobbies or sports Sleep disturbances, including insomnia or sleeping too much Tiredness and lack of energy, so even small tasks take extra effort Changes in appetite — often reduced appetite and weight loss, but increased cravings for food and weight gain in some people Anxiety, agitation or restlessness Slowed thinking, speaking or body movements Feelings of worthlessness or guilt, fixating on past failures or blaming yourself for things that aren't your responsibility Trouble thinking, concentrating, making decisions and remembering things Frequent or recurrent thoughts of death, suicidal thoughts, suicide attempts or suicide Unexplained physical problems, such as back pain or headaches General medical conditions and substances causing depression also needs to be ruled out. Consult a psychiatrist and get evaluated.
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Hi im 21 years old boy medical student I really need help this depression and tension is killing me mentally and physically i am not fit now a days coz of my long distance girlfriend behaviour It has been 1 years we are dating to each other 6 months was good but after that when I got to know they are some friends of her who flirt and she also do sometimes all friends are from facebook I have scolded her many times please respect me coz I never flirt with any girl also should not do she said i am sorry I will not do it again but after few month there is always a guy in her life used come and flirt with her which I found irritated all the time those are their friends from facebook who is very far from her hometown when I scold her she used to say do not need to interfere in my friend zone I know how to handel it you only say i am in long distance if her any friends flirt with her do you think I feel good no right when I try to stop that guy or block she is against me coz she tells friends are more important then you coz they came before now a days she never value my words no respect I can surely say she gets attracts easily coz she is just 17 years old girl of class 10 I feel insecure all they what she is doing with whom she talking how she is replying coz there no such guys male friends who flirt and she also react she can not say no coz she do not want to hurt them feelings and do not want to lose them I do not have value at all her behaviour hurts me alot she told me I changed her now a days im fed up by your listing your words I need a break or leave she used to say im so genuine to her and she is always against me she makes me down all the time what to do this comes to depression and tension all the always fight is there coz of their fb friends help me suggest me what to do distraction is going on my head can not study well and her tension makes me more insecure help me please.

BHMS
Homeopath, Navi Mumbai
Hi im 21 years old boy medical student I really need help this depression and tension is killing me mentally and phys...
When you see that she doesn't care for you then it's high time that you move on. She is behaving improperly but you need to take note of the same that due to your girlfriend you are also not sincere with your studies. When something doesn't give you peace and happiness then don't get into it.
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I am 48 years old from chennai, taking medication for Rapid Cycling Bipolar Disorder for more than 18 years. As per the medicines (drugs) which is being given for sleep is having side effects. Nothing to hide I fell you will be one who work for a humanitarian wellness. Now I am forced to pass urine every 15 minutes. When it was in the elation status 18 months before I could not travel in a public transport where I cannot stop the vehicle for my need. I believe you will speak true that how much damage it will do to my kidney because of this medicines. If you don't want to answer pass on to other who speak the truth. Thank you.

M. S. in Psychotherapy and Counselling
Psychologist, Jaipur
I am   48 years old from chennai, taking medication for Rapid Cycling Bipolar Disorder for more than 18 years. As per...
hi, I can empathize and understand your situation . The problem is surely due to the side effects of the drug. You plz ask your psychiatrist to prescribe some medicine to reduce this problem. As far as the damage to the kidney problem I would suggest you to get the renal function test (RFT) done. It will show you the correct status of your kidneys. Along with this I would advise you to drink a lot of water in day time and reduce the quantity of water intake after 6:00 pm so that your sleep won't get disturbed. Also go for a brisk walk daily for at least half an hour. Regards Sunita
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