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Mr. Mahesh Natarajan

Psychologist, Bangalore

Mr. Mahesh Natarajan Psychologist, Bangalore
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Mr. Mahesh Natarajan is a renowned Psychologist in GM Palya, Bangalore. He is currently associated with InnerSight Counselling & Training Centre LLP in GM Palya, Bangalore. Book an appointment online with Mr. Mahesh Natarajan and consult privately on Lybrate.com.

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I am 18 years old. I have been suffer for depression what can I do?

PhD (Psychology), MSc Psychology, MS
Psychologist,
I am 18 years old. I have been suffer for depression what can I do?
Dear , you should be able to distinguish between disappointment and depression. Disappointment also brings on symptoms identical to depression but they are short lived. Were you disappointed in the near past? I will help you. Take care.
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Sir, Mare ander nervousness aa jati ha mere hath me kampen aa jati ha kabi kabi. Aisa daily nai kabi kabi hota jab me kisi senior say baat krta hu ja phir koi serious baat ho. Ja phr koi pressure aa jae kaam ka or ma usko karu. Eska kya reason ha or ma kaise esko thk karu.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
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Mare ander nervousness aa jati ha mere hath me kampen aa jati ha kabi kabi. Aisa daily nai kabi kabi hota jab me...
Dear lybrate user. Nervousness is anxiety. Anxiety disorders are a category of mental disorders characterized by feelings of anxiety and fear, where anxiety is a worry about future events and fear is a reaction to current events. These feelings may cause physical symptoms, such as a racing heart and shakiness. There are a number of anxiety disorders: including generalized anxiety disorder, a specific phobia, social anxiety disorder, separation anxiety disorder, agoraphobia, and panic disorder among others. While each has its own characteristics and symptoms, they all include symptoms of anxiety. I need to know more about your anxiety so that I will be able to diagnose it properly and provide you tips to overcome and manage your anxiety.. Take care.
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Hello! I'm a 20yo guy. I'm having some serious memory problems. I just can't remember a thing. This is affecting my studies very badly. Please help me. Also I lack concentration.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear lybrate user. I can understand. At your age, memory problems like amnesia, dementia etc are not possible. Still if you insist on memory problems, we can conduct memory test. Concentration needs interest and dedication. Set a goal, dedicate yourself to the preparation towards that goal. Concentration will come automatically. Take care.
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He is taxi driver in Melbourne. He is nice person. But he doesn't control his anger. If I do any mistake. He loose his temper and goes in aggressive nature. Please help me for anger control or management.

Masters in Clinical Psychology
Psychologist, Lucknow
Hi, The endorphins that come from exercise can help you calm down, and moving your body provides a physical outlet for your rage: in this way, exercise can help in the moment of anger. However, maintaining a regular exercise schedule can also help you regulate your emotions in general. While you exercise, focus on thinking about the exercise and your body, not what has been on your mind lately. Some forms of exercise that might appeal to you and help you control your anger include: Running/Jogging Weight training Cycling Yoga Basketball Breathe deeply. If your heart hammers with rage, slow it down by controlling your breathing. Deep breathing is one of the most important steps in meditation, which can contribute to controlling emotions. Even if you do not fully “meditate,” using deep breathing techniques can offer similar benefits. Count to three as you inhale, hold the breath in your lungs for three more seconds, and count to three again as you exhale. Focus only on the numbers as you do this. Be sure that each breath in fully fills your lungs, causing your chest and belly to expand. Exhale fully each time, and pause between the exhale and the next inhale. Keep breathing until you feel that you have regained control. Give him following tips: Recognize that sometimes anger is justified, and may need to come out. However, realize that there are productive ways to do it instead of lashing out at others. Ask yourself if the future recipient of your furor deserves to be blown up at, or if you are just using them as a punching bag to release steam about another person/issue that bothers you. Find a creative outlet, such as writing, drawing etc. Where you can expend your energy. Hobbies help elevate your mood and allow you to channel energy that you'd usually spent dwelling on issues that you aren't able to resolve. Imagine what you could do with the energy you expend in anger if you channeled it into something else. Think about the stress you put on yourself. Do you enjoy feeling that way? If not change it. Meditation is a useful way to release stress and/or anxiety, the precursors to anger. Avoid all things that were involved in making you angry until you have cooled down. Block out anything or anyone and go into a quiet place and breathe deeply until you are calm enough. Watch what you say when you're angry. You don't always feel the same as when you have calmed down and thought of the situation. Try listening to soothing songs that bring peace to your mind. If you get angry easily and find it hard to control yourself, find a quiet place away from everybody. Scream into a blanket, pillow, or anything to stifle the noise. (If you want to, you can even just yell if nobody is around.) It'll help you let off some steam. Try to stay away from situations or places or anything that make you angry.
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I was a chain smoker for about 1 yr. Every day I smoked 3 to 4 cigarettes .what should I do to detoxify my lungs throughly .plzz suggest me something to detoxify my whole body and stay healthy.

DHMS (Hons.)
Homeopath, Patna
Hello, Smoking is injurious for health, U,should  know ,why? **It ,blocks & damages your air pipe, including lungs. Causing lungs cancer, copd,diminishing its capacity to retain oxygen.  *  It, increases cholesterol level, threatening to heart. Not only that, people around U ,will be sufferer of the same hazards for no fault of their own, U, being the victim of breathing disorder, Asthma,gastric disorder, diseases of eyes, palpitation of heart with anaemia, lack of concentration. Irritation with anguish temperament. Loss of weight, insomnia,will ruin yours as well as your spouse & children's 'future.         •       It's advisable to get rid of this killing agent, as soon as possible for the betterment of d entire family, nears & dears, around U         •       Tk, plenty of water free from contaminants to eliminate toxins &'regulate your metabolism to absorb protein, vitamins, minerals, energy & other important substance essential to upkeep ,repair & energise the body.         •       Don't skip your meal, rather, it should b easily digestible on time.         •       Go for meditation to reduce your stress and to inhale plenty of Oxygen to restore the flexibility of lungs to increase its tidal volume, nourishing the whole body of yours including heart and brain, detoxifying your body.         •       Tk, apples,carrots, cheese,almonds, walnuts,spinach, papaya,banana, milk,fish, chicken soup.        •       Tk homoeo medicine ,gentle. & rapid in action with no adverse effect, thereof. @ Nux vom 30-6 pills, thrice a day. @ Caladeum 20-6 pills, thrice a day.         •       Avoid, caffiene, alcohol,junk-food, alcohol. Stay fit & fine, your family is awaiting your arrival. Your feedback matters to me for your further, follow up, please.
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I have started feeling jealous of my wife please advice how to tackle

Masters in counseling psychology, Counseling psychologist, Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapist
Psychologist,
Does she have something better or more due to which you are feeling jealous. Its not necessary what she has you should have too. You can concentrate on your strengths and positive points. You may be feeling inferior to her in some way. You should try and see positive points in yourself which are better than your wife. Understand this that a couple needs to be compatible, she may have what you don't and you may have what she doesn't. Get this and you will start respecting your wife. Once you start respecting and appreciating her qualities you will feel better and you will have high self esteem. If your wife is doing something wrong and you are feeling jealous you need to have an open conversation with her. Honest Communication helps solve majority of marital problems and conflicts.
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I am very beautiful and 14 years younger than my husband but my husband involve in other girls always he want son I have 3 girls by lscs. What can I do for taking away my husband by other girls help. Me please.

M.Sc - Applied Psychology, P.G.Dip.in Guidance &Counselling, B.A., Psychology, Dip.in Pharmacy
Psychologist, Madurai
I am very beautiful and 14 years younger than my husband but my husband involve in other girls always he want son I h...
I can feel how stressed you are. I think, it is better for you to distract yourself by focussing your mind on your children and learning new skills to earn money in your home itself. A time will come for your husband realise his mistakes. And, in course of time the emotional bond between children and your husband will increase. At least, if you think you have lost your husband, your children have their father. Let s hope for the best" it is not what you have lost but what you have left that counts"
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I like a girl working at my workplace. But I came to know that she has already a boyfriend. But still I can't change my feelings. I try everything to make her happy. But she wants me to stay away from her. Once I left talking to her or looking towards her. But it was hard time for me yet I was doing it for her sake. And now she came again to me asking an another help in her personal life. I did what I could and was happy again. But after her problem got over. She again started ignoring me. Whenever I swear not to think about her. She presents to me with a new problem seeking for help. When I help her, it gives me an incredible pleasure but when she ignores me. I be depressed. Is there something wrong with me? Should I have any clinical cure? Please help me.

Masters in Clinical Psychology
Psychologist, Lucknow
I like a girl working at my workplace. But I came to know that she has already a boyfriend. But still I can't change ...
Hi lybrate-user, sure she is using you and has no real feeling for you. Sometimes people take advantage of our kindness. Don't think about her in terms of potential partner take her as a colleague that's it. Don't fulfill her demands or favors that she seeks from you, otherwise it will lead to you emotional exploitation. Why go after someone who is already committed when there are so many single girls out there. Consult for therapy, you need some guidance with this issue. All the best.
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I am staying alone since 5 years & I am an IT engineer and aged 26 years. I am the responsible person to my home. Now I am deeply depressed Due to some family issues. Now a day I a feeling very loneliness since last 8 months. I am trying to avoid the lonely with watching porns & masturbate to self satisfaction. I have more sex feelings. I always think to have sex with someone but I did not due to heavy family responsibilities. Now a days I am not controlling that's feelings because of lonely. I am not concentrate in preparation or my development. So that I use to masturbate to self satisfaction. I will do HP at least 4 times in a day while I am on leave or alone. I am not participated in sex still. But I am thinking about sex to do with someone.

MD - Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Chennai
I am staying alone since 5 years & I am an IT engineer and aged 26 years.
I am the responsible person to my home. Now...
The word depressed is a common everyday word. People might say" i'm depressed" when in fact they mean" i'm fed up because i've had a row, or failed an exam, or lost my job" etc. These ups and downs of life are common and normal. Most people recover quite quickly. With true depression, you have a low mood and other symptoms each day for at least two weeks consult a psychiatrist and get evaluated. Masturbation is a very healthy form of sexual outlet, do not feel guilty about it. Nearly 99% of men and more than 60% of women masturbate. It starts from adolescence and goes on in some people even till death. The pleasure (orgasm) from masturbation is said to be unique from sexual intercourse. In men, most of the liquid contains only water and some fructose and hormones. Hence it does not drain your energy. Many equate masturbation/ seminal fluid loss to lack of energy, impotency and so on. Many quacks, religious heads and pseudo healers also propagate the idea that masturbation is a disorder/ and wrongful behavior and instil fear on the mind of innocent men and women (we can see posters in train and bus stand, offering help for this behavior). Consult a psychiatrist, if you have excessive masturbation guilt or compulsive masturbation. Compulsive masturbation is when a person continues with frequent masturbation neglecting his/ her other work like education, job or social obligations. In fact masturbation reduces the sexual tension and helps focus on task at hand better.
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Today was my practicals. It was very tough and I couldn't do it as I wished. I feel bad and today is not my day.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Today was my practicals. It was very tough and I couldn't do it as I wished. I feel bad and today is not my day.
Dear. You did not do the practicals as best as you thought. But it was ok. You did your best. Stop worrying. Now worrying is of no use. What happened is happened. Just rejoice. Take care.
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I am 23 years old. Now I am in study's. I have not concentrate on my studies because of my sex emotion's. please tell me how can I control my feelings and focused on my higher studies.

MD - Psychiatry, MBBS
Psychiatrist, Patna
Hi , welcome to lybrate. Thanks for asking your query here. At 23 years of young age due to plenty of sex hormones in body it is quite natural to have high sexual drive. Within a limit it is not harmful. But if you feel that you remain pre-occupied with sexual thoughts most of the time then it is not good. I can imagine the agony you are experiencing. It can get you diverted from your goal. I suggest you to follow a healthy lifestyle in the form of getting up from bed before sunrise, going for a walk/jog, doing meditation/yoga/ relaxation exercise for some time, having balanced healthy diet, having some time for recreation and socialization, listening to soothing music at evening and getting enough rest and sleep. You should actively engage in other pleasurable activities like games and sport, watching favourite tv serial, listening to your favourite music whenever you feel urge to. You may sacrifice your privacy and should study in group/at least one of your colleague to avoid/reduce sexual thoughts. Even after following the above mentioned measures for few weeks if you do not get desired results, then you need to be prescribed some psychotropic medicines and/or psychotherapy to control your urge.
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Doctor. I am sinking into depression last 2 months. Reason my wife's unmaturness and Childishness. She is not the courtesy to respect the elders. A week after the wedding began his childish behavior. Like on a small thing to go up on the roof and threatened to jump and sit on hunger-strike. She does not even realize that the drama of my parents and husband's parents affects dignity. When I talk to her parents . Refuse saying he let his baby brain. Unfortunately My wife was pregnant . Which I was not happy . Because I was not happy with my married life. We wanted to bring together discus abortion the child. But the whole family was not possible because of spreading the news. I thought the mother might let him be understood . But it can not. Four of last year , I 'm Sufferness her childish antics. Last year, his one act completely broke me . Which I am unable to forget. My wife's jija have a younger brother. Both runs were jokes among themselves and also used to dance together on the occasion of happiness. I was not married then . It saw her sister 's wedding video. Now m come to the point what happened. 18-Nov-15 to her jija's sister was getting married. The bride and groom at the table eating, eat . She sat at the table with him that were feeding each other food. Seeing this, I got up from there and went to the washroom and from there they watched. They were even feeding each other. Seeing this, I'm very angry. But I remained calm and want to discuss at home after marriage. They joke that the whole wedding was fellow and I continued to suffer. When I spoke on this issue in the morning at home with my wife , she avoided telling a little joke and when her parents spoke on the issue , they also touted his child 's mind by telling. But doctor I was very hurt. Even so , some have not realized her mistake . She says that is not my fault . Their thinking is wrong. She did not say sorry . And not to admit their mistake and used the old weapon and sat on hunger strike. In the last I had to finish the matter even after not my fault. The effect of all this was my job . My job did not mind . I stayed quite unhappy angry. Due to the pressure of work in the job I quit. Now I am jobless from 8 months. After leaving , I wanted to own a small business . Due to lack of money to him , but he refused the demands of our gold jewelery and the broken dreams of my own business. I have not had many interviews but no response . When steam is probably the recruiter for the pain of my face. Now I am completely frustrated, Depressed and feel helpless. I hate my wife too much. I do not like to be with her at all I have the solution for divorce from her mother -in-law also said . Then comes the reply Son, divorce cannot be possible You can get rid of her death. doctor. Please help me, what I do. I become victim of these disease insomnia, Depressed, loss interest in job, feel lonely and helpless, loss interest in sex with her, sometime comes thought commit suicide. I am consulting a doctor and taking sometime sleeping pill and alcohol for telex. Please please please tell a solution.

MD - Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Chennai
This is reactive depression due to marital disharmony. Both of you go to a psychiatrist and get evaluated. He may refer you to a clinical psychologist for assessment and therapy. You need to take antidepressants, not sleeping pill and alcohol, since they will worsen depression. Anti-depressants will improve your mood, and reduce and remit your other symptoms of depression, and help you face the situation better.
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I am very depressed, my ass have many problems, they have problems in day, some infection in their, give me, gud idea pls.

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
I am very depressed, my ass have many problems, they have problems in day, some infection in their, give me, gud idea...
Infections can be treated with antibiotics and depression if cannot be managed by mind control you may need antidepressants.
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Iam a 19, year old boy iam very shy now iam gloomy don't interested to anything I enjoyed before. Can't face people feeling very sad very low self esteem can't face people or talk them.

DHMS (Diploma in Homeopathic Medicine and Surgery), BHMS
Homeopath, Delhi
Iam a 19, year old boy iam very shy now iam gloomy don't interested to anything I enjoyed before. Can't face people f...
You have lack of confidence. So 1st make list of your good habbits &positive points.& tell your self I can do each n everything be positive.& feel I m not lacking any where,
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Am married frm 3 yr. ANd have no baby yet, my husb. Generally don't sex regularly. He does it in 3-4 days sometimes 7-8 days. Whts the reason behind dis. Overall his health is fine nd fit. Nd also he hav lots of anger.

Bachelor of Unani Medicine and Surgery (B.U.M.S)
Unani Specialist, Hyderabad
Am married frm 3 yr.
ANd have  no baby yet, my husb. Generally don't sex regularly.
He does it in 3-4 days sometimes ...
Dear, you have to counsling you, your hasband for alt day intercourse but he is not agree to do, convense for baby this peried intercourse must 11th to 16th day from periods is best time to have sex for concieving.
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I always feel like I'm in anger. But sometime there is no any issues. Please help me in this.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear lybrate user, welcome to lybrate. Anger and aggression are emotions. Anger comes when you become irritated. Irritation happens when you don't like something, or when something is repeated. As anger is an emotion, it should be vent out. You should be able to throw anger out instead of controlling it. But more perfect will be, know the frustrating situations and stop being emotional. If practiced properly, you will not get irritated at those circumstances at all. Those techniques are much easier to understand. I suggest anger management therapy. Anyhow, there is nothing to worry. Most of the psychological problems can be cured with scientific therapy methods. Take care.
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Hello. I have faced speaking problem (fumbel, very fast speaking) from my childhood nd this problem made my lyf worst in many occasions. Nd this problem especially trigger on too much anger, happiness and in my odd situations .plz suggest me what to do? Will I talk fluent, clear like others? Is it treatable or not? Or should I concert which doctor.

PDDM, MHA, MBBS
General Physician, Nashik
Stammering can be made lesser only and only by Speech therapy. So you should take the help of a speech therapist. Also, I'd suggest you to visit a Psychologist as confidence plays a great role in dealing with this problem. I'd suggest you to speak very slowly, word by word. People may make fun of this but believe me, slowly you'll get better at it. Hope your query is answered. Feel free to ask if you have any doubts. Wishing you good health.
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My friend is going to marry in next month, he feels sexual weakness and has time problem, please recommend some drugs that will help in this problem.

L L. B..,, M.Sc psychy,, N L P, P.G.D.G.C, M.S psychotherapy,, M.A child care, M A, clinical psy, M.A,social psychiatry,, M.Phil., psychology., Ph.D .,psychology
Psychologist, Vijayawada
My friend is going to marry in next month, he feels sexual weakness and has time problem, please recommend some drugs...
It is the problem now every youth is facing. They watch pornoraphy in that they compare thier size. When compared to foreigners our size is very small. Based on this youth developed inferiority complex. They have doubt that we perform very well or not. Because of this some youth postponed marriage also. Initial days onwards you go medicine after that it may be addiction. Without medicine you are unable to do that. So power may increase day by day. It may leads some other problem. Suppose you partner and her mothers knows they may be chance to comment on your power. They said this person is has not having sexual problems. Your partner may also complain that please come without medicine. So you may so many problems. Physical as well as psychological problems. So do not depend on medicine. Do as a natural manner. They are not using any medicine why do you prefer medicine. Go with full confidence. You may succeed definitely. So please follow my suggestions. I have seen so many cases related to this problems. For that reason I give this advise. So please follow. Best of luck.
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I have mental sickness and not able to think properly and show laziness. I am 20 years old boy.

M.Phil clinical Psychology, MS Psychotherapy and Counseling, PGDGC, MSc Psychology
Psychologist, Chennai
I have mental sickness and not able to think properly and show laziness. I am 20 years old boy.
Laziness is due to lack of motivation and interest which primarily arise due to lack of specific achievable goals. Set a goal with a time period and start working towards it and you will be out of all your laziness, sickness.
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