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Dr. Gururaj. G.p

MBBS, MD - Psychiatry

Psychiatrist, Bangalore

17 Years Experience
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Dr. Gururaj. G.p is an experienced Psychiatrist in Langford Road, Bangalore. He has been a successful Psychiatrist for the last 17 years. He is a qualified MBBS, MD - Psychiatry . He is currently practising at Sita Bhateja Speciality Hospital in Langford Road, Bangalore. You can book an instant appointment online with Dr. Gururaj. G.p on Lybrate.com.

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MBBS - Kempegowda Institute of Medical Sciences (KIMS), Bangalore, - 2000
MD - Psychiatry - NIMHANS bangalore, - 2007
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Indian Psychiatric Society
Indian Association of Private Psychiatry

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By sleeping our concentration power increase or it is just myth By sleeping mind cool down but studying 14 hrs is necessary what should be your consult.

MBBS, MD Psychiatry, DPM Psychological Medicine
Psychiatrist, Kolkata
By sleeping our concentration power increase or it is just myth
By sleeping mind cool down but studying 14 hrs is nec...
Hi lybrate-user, sleeping helps to consolidate our memory, hence indirectly it helps our concentration. For a healthy adult a 7 to 8 hrs sound sleep is adequate. But over sleeping is not good for health. In infant and children sleep helps in their overall growth. You can of course study 14 hrs/day during your exam, but at the same time you need a good sleep also to memorise properly what you gave studied, thanks.
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Sometimes I have a problem of anxiety I am deciding to take exiten tablet Its right decision.

MBBS
General Physician, Mumbai
Sometimes I have a problem of anxiety
I am deciding to take exiten tablet
Its right decision.
Before using medicines for anxiety, you should also do transcendental meditation. How meditation affects health? it has been scientifically proved that meditation not only helps the mind but also body because controlled mind and purification of consciousness leads to better lifestyle and improved habits of food, sleep etc which in turn leads to better overall health. Most diseases have their roots in uncontrolled mind and impure consciousness. So do transcendental meditation by finding and reading iskcon books, either from internet and/or from your nearest iskcon center. Hope this helps,
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Sir, I am adict of smoking and taking two packets of cigrettes daily at the age of 70 yrs. Now wants to leave this bad habit. Pl advise what medicine I take to leave this, Thanks

MD - Psychiatry, MBBS
Psychiatrist, Indore
Hello Bupropion is a good medicine to help you quit smoking. However I will be needing a few more details before we can plan out your therapy. Regards Dr. Srikanth
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I am 30 years old . My self sumit from Ludhiana . So many times my head ache in forehead and in side area of head . And so many times my headache cause of a lot of thought. But I am trying do thing less . But I am not success in this activities. I am taking clonazepam 2 to 3 tablets in week . But I don't have got any relief from this dies. Some times my blood pressure is 90/138.

Masters in Clinical Psychology & Certified Cognitive Behaviour Therapy Practioner, Certified Neuro linguistic programming Practioner, Masters in Clinical Psychology, Post Graduate Diploma in Child and ADolescent Counselling
Psychologist, Pune
I am 30 years old . My self sumit from Ludhiana . So many times my head ache in forehead and in side area of head . A...
In order to prevent tension headaches, you need to reduce your anxiety. The first thing you need to do is make sure that you understand your headaches are a result of anxiety. For those with severe anxiety, or that suffer from panic attacks, it's not uncommon to get a rush of anxiety when you suffer from a headache, or any kind of weird sensation in your head. For example, a quick, sharp, shooting pain in the head that happens in a moment and leaves quickly can easily be caused by anxiety, but has a tendency to trigger anxiety attacks in those with panic disorder. You need to take time to convince yourself of this thought, because one of the main issues with tension headaches is that the fear it's something worse leads to further stress and further tension. In addition, you need to follow it up with anxiety reduction strategies: •Make sure that you're exercising, eating healthy, and drinking plenty of water. Poor eating habits and inactivity genuinely lead to more anxiety, and this may easily be contributing to your anxiety and headaches. •Learn anxiety reduction strategies for before your anxiety is out of control. Tension headaches can be stopped if they're stopped when the headaches are mild. As soon as you start feeling stressed, start deep breathing or progressive muscle relaxation to gain more control over the amount of stress you experience. •Always try to get enough sleep. Sleep is one of life's main coping strategies, and a lack of sleep contributes to further stress, and further eye strain (both of which lead to more tension headaches. Finally, you'll need to figure out how your anxiety is affecting you and what steps can be taken to cure it completely. If you have any further query feel free to contact. Regards, Sukanya Biswas.
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I am a student when I am continuous reading my body doing pain so I am very trouble and my study are poor.

MD - Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Chennai
I am a student when I am continuous reading my body doing pain so I am very trouble and my study are poor.
You have to give a break of 5-10 mins, for an hour of study, by walking and not being in the same position, this will solve your problem.
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My mother aged 41 years is suffering from a mental disorder as she get extremely worried about cleanliness of household she use to do a lot of cleaning and washing floor household things and even her hands feet etc just if she get touched to any untidy things. On asking she replies that she doesn't satisfied with normal cleanliness .please help me whether it is a mental disorder or not and if it is then what is the solution?

DHMS (Hons.)
Homeopath, Patna
My mother aged 41 years is suffering from a mental disorder as she get extremely worried about cleanliness of househo...
Hello, she is schizophrenic, give her homoeo medicines/ @ ignatia 30-6 pills, thrice, orally. @ five phos 6x-4 tabs, thrice, orally. She should tk, plenty of water to eliminate toxins. She should go for meditation to reduce mental blocks and to calm her nerve to relax, mania. Ensure, sound sleep, for 7/8 hrs in d night, at least. Tk care.
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All about Borderline Personality Disorder

DNB (PSYCHIATRY), DPM, MBBS,
Psychiatrist, Gurgaon
All about Borderline Personality Disorder

Personality refers to the enduring and habitual patterns of behaviour, cognition, emotion, motivation and ways of relating to others. In simpler terms, it's the persona we have for the world to see and interact with. If these patterns or ways of relating with others become nonadaptive or pathological, a personality disorder develops.

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is such a disorder of personality that causes mood swings, self-esteem issues, impulsive behavior and recurrent self-harm behaviour. It is very difficult to lead a normal life with these varied psychological issues.

The symptoms begin to appear from early childhood but they take a serious form only when one reaches adulthood. Issues with behavior and emotion are difficult to treat, people suffering from this illness should be willing to spend a lot of time and be dedicated towards his/her recovery. Through treatments and therapies, they do make significant improvements over time.

Causes

The exact cause of borderline personality disorder is not known but various reasons have been hypothesised as possible aetiology. Neuro-chemical disturbance in the brain, genetic vulnerability, some kind of childhood trauma like abandonment, death, neglect and/ or sexual abuse are probable causes of the disease. Prolonged and chronic stress/ anxiety may also lead to triggering of BPD symptomatology in vulnerable individuals later in life.

Symptoms

  • Prolonged dysthymia/ sadness
  • Feeling lonely/ misfit
  • Emotional dysregulation or Frequent mood swings
  • Significant interpersonal issues
  • Self-Injurious behaviour like making cuts in skin, burning, pricking etc

These symptoms are warning signs of borderline personality disorder and should be paid attention to:

  • Abandonment issue - People suffering from BPD have serious abandonment issues. They have an intense fear that they would be left alone and often act out to restrict their love ones from leaving. Sometimes their strategy is to not get too close to protect themselves from being left alone, so they appear aloof.
  • Disturbed self-image - People have self-esteem issues, they sometimes love or hate themselves or see themselves as evil. They have unclear goals, views, beliefs and often end up changing their friends, lovers, jobs, sexual identity frequently.
  • Dysfunctional relationships - It is very difficult to maintain a normal relationship for people with personality disorder. They tend to have quick short-lived relationships and get put off very easily which leads to a lot of heartbreak.

Suicidal tendencies and frequent self-harm behaviour like cutting skin using blades/ sharp objects are common.

Drugs and alcohol abuse, eating disorders and sexual promiscuity are other forms of self-destructive behaviour commonly encountered in this population. Extreme aggression, delusions, transitional Psychotic states are other possible symptoms of BPD.

Love and support from family and friends are crucial for patients suffering from this disease. Prolonged counseling sessions, therapies and the effort to break away from the chronic gloomy thoughts will definitely lead one to a better life.

Related Tip: Signs and symptoms of Borderline personality disorder?

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Ladki ya aunty ko dekh kar sex karne ka man krta hai or fir bathroom me hand use krta hun is lat ko chodne ka upaye.Please tell.

MD - Psychiatry, MBBS
Psychiatrist, Patan
Ladki ya aunty ko dekh kar sex karne ka man krta hai or fir bathroom me hand use krta hun is lat ko chodne ka upaye.P...
Dear lybrate user, thanks for writing to us. I understand your concern about masturbation (hand shaking). It is normal to sexual arousal in these situations at your age. This is because of raising hormone levels in your body. Masturbation in private or with a partner is a normal and healthy part of sexual enjoyment. It is just like sexual intercourse (in fantasy) with the partner you really love. It works as a safety valve which lets you release the sexual tension and urges. Sexual intercourse is not bad habit, so also the masturbation. I recommend psychological counseling with sex therapist or psychiatrist. Wish you health sex life ahead.
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I smoke 2 to 4 times a day. By that can my health may be affected? And how to quit cigarettes? Or is one or two cigarettes are also going to be treble for me?

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
Even one will affect health. Only by using strong will power and avoiding all situations where you feel like smoking, chewing tobacco or drinking or using drugs/ weed, avoiding friends who smoke and diverting mind by reading or chewing a gum, like NICORETTE and taking a walk when you crave for a smoke can all help. You can chew Nicorette gum which is nicotine replacement. There are medicines available. Which can be prescribed if asked personally Cigarette smoking is a leading preventable cause of mortality. It kills more than 60 lakh people worldwide every year. More than 50% of regular smokers would invariably die from tobacco-related illnesses which includes heart attack, cancer or asthmatic lung diseases. Best age to stop smoking is before 40 31st May is “World No Tobacco Day” Quitting smoking before the age of 40 is associated with larger decline in premature death than stopping it at a later date. Best age therefore to stop smoking is before 40. However, stopping smoking even after the age of 50 is still associated with lower risk of death as compared to those who continue to smoke. Even in smokers aged 80 years or more, quitting smoking appears to reduce some mortality.
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Hi Doctor My brother is a mental retired, he is having just angriness, he talk properly & do his other things properly but in the childish way so we used to give him respond 2 mg tablets past 8 yrs. Now he is having muscle rigidity. The tablet is prescribed by Nimhans doctor. Now we are giving him Parking tablets, it is controlling the muscle rigitdy but not anger & he is not sleeping well & losing his weight also. We are not satisfied with his condition so please prescribed any medicine.

Post Graduate Diploma in Counselling, MA In Clinical Psychology
Psychologist, Pune
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My brother is a mental retired, he is having just angriness, he talk properly & do his other things properl...
Hii, I know that your brother is on medication. I think currently he has lots of problems so you need to consult with his previous psychiatrist for new symptoms he has. You can give him reward if he behave properly. Thank you, best luck. Have a nice day.
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I am new mom. Motherhood is a very exciting journey for every mom. I am enjoying my motherhood but the problem is that I am suffering in a severe depression after child birth please give me tips about this matter.

M.Sc- psychology, Masters in Clinical Psychology, M.Sc Counselling Psychology
Psychologist, Delhi
I am new mom. Motherhood is a very exciting journey for every mom. I am enjoying my motherhood but the problem is tha...
Hi lybrate-user, Welcome to Motherhood! It indeed is an exciting journey. What you're describing is post partum depression. Being a mother is a blessing but your body changes and the shifts in your physician and emotional self can have a lot of effects. The hormone changes can result in feelings of depression. Firstly, start by enrolling into an exercise regime, whatever you would like, this will balance your hormones and other chemicals in the brain. Also, try to practice deep breathing to release all the feelings associated with your depression- whether you're not feeling beautiful, attractive, feeling unworthy, not feeling supported etc (whatever you are specifically feeling), dark chocolate helps too. Eat well, nourish your body and take out time for you as wel, do things you enjoy. If you still feel that you need support, You can reach me here if you would like to book a session. Feel better soon. Good luck!
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I am 25 yr old male. I am in 1 sided love. When I am with her, I feel like i'm wasting my time but when because with me I fell restless all the time. So in these days my mental condition very bad. Please help me what should I do?

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
In a situational depression like this you need to achieve more mind control. Yoga and meditation are good. Also read or listen to music if you like it. And divert your mind by talking to good friend or relatives. Is your sleep deprived? you need constant support. Ask privately with all your details. Have you tested thyroid any time? ask privately.
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Sir mai tabbco khana kaise chodu. Kayi bar try kiya par nahi ho raha. Sir help me and suggest me for any medicine which help me.

MSC Human Development , Hypnotherapy , Special Educator , ms- counselling and physiotherapy, Applied psychology Hons
Psychologist, Faridabad
Sir mai tabbco khana kaise chodu. Kayi bar try kiya par nahi ho raha. Sir help me and suggest me for any medicine whi...
Medicine are only then effective when your will power iwill be strong. Go for counselling and rehabilitation. It will work only if you want it.
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I feel depressed all time. Want to stay alone. and my mind never stops thinking. I want to get rid of my own thoughts. I need help. Please.

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
I feel depressed all time. Want to  stay alone. and my mind never stops thinking. I want to get rid of my own thought...
At your age this claim is serious. If you have depression then there are some major ramifications to take into account. I believe there may be some genetic predisposition or there has been some childhood issue that needs urgent attention. You must go and meet with a counselor immediately and if that person advises that you meet with a doctor you must do so and cooperate to your utmost. Please visit these professionals along with your parents. In the meantime please do the following sincerely because you could resolve the problem better with good cooperation: Have a good night’s sleep, have a good breakfast of more proteins, meditate often, remain free of stress, eat a lot of fiber, nuts, avocado, exercise regularly, eat dark chocolate, do Yoga meditation exercises, etc. I suggest you do the opposite of what this depression makes you feel like doing (actually, not doing): you will need to fight this condition. You must become active; stay upright during the daylight time; meet people; never sleep during the day, wake up by 6 am every day, play some active games, especially contact games, do physical exercises, talk to people and join some social clubs, attend Yoga classes etc. Watch sitcoms on TV or comedies and cheer yourself up. Go for excursions in groups, for outings, camps, conferences, and religious conventions. Get a pet dog and spend time training it, exercising it and relating to it. Expose yourself to some sunlight every day, at least 30 minutes but not in the scotching heat. Whatever happens, please incorporate these three important adaptations in your life: always be responsible, be respectful, and be functional. If you did these three, lots of things will go well in life. Please pray and have faith in God to alleviate your sufferings. Don’t wait for others to help. Use your own motivation, which might be at its lowest, but persevere and win this battle. Above all to be really happy, you need to live in love and for love. Learn all about emotions and how to handle them and that will get you out of the depression rather easily and quickly. A counselor is there only to facilitate you, all the hard word must come from you, and your cooperation with that person is very critical for your success. Be positive everyday and learn to be contended with what you have. Do some left brain exercises: it is the happy brain. Here are a few suggestions: shut your left nostril and breathe, move your eyes from right to left and vice versa for at least half a minute at a time, and do callisthenic exercises with some form of counting, regularly. Whatever happens please cooperate with the therapy and do not discontinue until the condition is completely resolved.
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I have three brothers in which one of my brother is suffering from disability and at present I am studying but I always depressed that if I couldn't be a good man than what will happen?

BHMS
Homeopath, Faridabad
I have three brothers in which one of my brother is suffering from disability and at present I am studying but I alwa...
Hello , don't get depress with the situation and concentrate on your future . Do meditation daily for half an hour and take Kali phos 6x , 5 tabs twice daily for 10 days then revert.
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Ways to Study Smarter Not Harder!

MPhil Clinical Psychology, Masters in Psychology
Psychologist, Gurgaon
Ways to Study Smarter   Not Harder!

There are few things I hear over and over again from students:

  1. How they are studying for so many in a day
  2. How they do not have even time for anything else in their life due to study pressure
  3. How they are sleep deprived
  4. How much they are stressed
  5. And finally, afterall the sacrifices and hard work, their exam performance is not what they expect.

Here are few tips to study smart, improve your grades and yet have a life!
We all know that 2 hours of focused study will be much more productive than 4 hours of distracted study. And, the good news is that concentration is a mental skill that you can develop and improve. There are two ways to improve your concentration:

  1. First, work on raising your brain's natural ability to concentrate or in other words, learn to increase your attention span.
  2. Second, adjust the environment around you to make concentrating easier.

Improving your concentration takes a little time and effort, but it is worth it. In my personal experience with students, I have seen noticeable improvement in relatively short time.

A. Ideas for daily concentration boosting habits include

  1. Mindfulness meditation: Many studies confirm that 20 minutes of meditation or more per day improves concentration and attention span. Mindfulness meditation, where one focuses on one's breathing,  is one of the simplest way of meditation. Start with ten minutes in the morning and ten minutes before bed. To begin with you may try a guided meditation. One can easily find audios for guided meditation online.
  2. Proper sleep: I am sorry to say this. Pulling all nighters will not help with your grade. Unless you are getting sufficient restful sleep, you are not going to be as mentally focused as you could be to study as well as answer questions in exams.
  3. Food for your Brain: The more you use certain skills, the more they are reinforced in the brain. So it makes sense that playing concentration games and games that require you to focus will improve your concentration ability. You need to be consistent in this. Play for about 10 to 20 minutes each day. Have fun, and get the benefits but remember not to spend more than 20 minutes a day. Your goal is to improve your concentration and not just keep scoring higher in the game! Try Lumosity and use only free version this will help you restrict your daily play time to 20 minutes and have maximum benefit.
  4. Eat healthier: Your brain needs the proper nutrients to allow you to focus. Eat more vegetables and fruits and avoid consumption of junk food as much as possible. Instead, you could keep some nuts such as walnuts, almond or peanuts as in between munches. Lot of research has now proven that sugar is very harmful for our health. Reduce sugar and refined white flour in your diet as much as you could.  
  5. Exercise: It is helpful in both reducing stress and increasing energy and focus. At least 20 minutes a day would go a long way. Going for a short jog of 20 minutes will make next 4 to 5 hours of study very efficient.

B. Optimize your mental state & environment

In addition to building the habits described above into your daily routine; also adjust your environment and your current mental state to improve your concentration when studying.

  1. Create a study space: Your brain loves routine. Create a place where all you do is study. An obvious choice is a secluded desk of some kind, but the trick is to make sure you only study in that spot. Studying in bed is a bad habit, for example, because your body is trained to want to sleep once you get into bed.
  2. Remove distractions: Turn off the ringer on your phone and take other steps to prevent interruptions. Don't study with the television on or with radio playing. Some studies have shown that soft instrumental music (no vocals) can help improve your concentration.
  3. Reduce background noises: If you have to study or work in an environment where it is too loud (classroom or open space) or too quiet (such as at home or at a library) you can get easily distracted by outside influences. With the right amount of background noise you can actually block out distractions and enhance your creative thinking.
  4. Use timer: Set a time limit when you need to study new material. For example, let's say you want to read one chapter in a book (and remember it). Decide in advance that you can have 45 minutes to read the chapter, and 15 minutes to review it. Set a timer to keep yourself honest, then pace yourself to keep within the allotted time.
  5. Stay motivated: If you see studying as burden, it's hard to concentrate. One way to stay motivated is to set up a reward system. Tell yourself you have to earn that hour of watching your favorite show later in the evening by first completing 2-3 hours of intense studying. That way, even if the material is dry, you have the reward to look forward to.
  6. Take breaks: Take a break every two hours. Your mental energy will begin to decline after a long period of study. So every two hours or so, take a ten-minutes break. Walk around, eat a light snack, or just stare at the wall to relax your mind.

Concentrating is the first step to learning anything new. It only makes sense that if you improve your concentration, your memory will improve also.

How an expert can help?
If you want to get individualized expert opinion about how you are studying currently and what ways you can improve; you can always consult the expert. Once he/she knows what your current study methods are, they will be able to give you specific tips to improve upon. Most likely once you incorporate those tips you will be spending less time studying and your grades will improve. That's what is studying smarter and not harder means!! If you wish to discuss about any specific problem, you can consult a Psychologist.

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How to quite smoking and recover the damage cause by the smoking, sir I want to recover my body and wanna fit?

Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd
Psychologist, Bangalore
When quitting, you must take one day at a time. If you look too far ahead you will get discouraged and will give up. If you sit and count the number of days you have given up, that will also focus too much on achievement. You must focus on the here and now, on that day to be precise. After all quitting is not that easy due to many factors. So even if you fail one day, you must try and try again. Very few people succeed in their first attempt. Your persistence will eventually pay off. The urge to discontinue is hampered by many factors but the worst of them is the conditioning. In fact these conditions can exist all through the day unlike other addictions. But your desire to want to stop is the most important factor. It is important to find out about the ill-effects of smoking to have a reason that alarms you about continuing in the habit. The information is really scary but true and you must remind yourself about this every day. The nicotine in tobacco smoke stimulates the heart beat to raise the blood pressure in no time at all. So you must avoid it like the plague: it is just very bad medicine for you. In fact it is highly toxic too. You will need to stop smoking or consuming any tobacco related items with immediate effect. You should start vigorous exercises, gradually increasing it over a period of time. Do deep breathing exercises every time you feel like smoking (try Yoga), and replace the oral urge with some healthy food substitute to satiate the need. You may also take hard candy or chewing gum. If the urge is too strong, then use nicotine chewing gum or nicotine patches, for a little while until the smoking drive reduces, substantially. You may also join Smokers Anonymous in your city where the support is really extraordinary for like-minded people who are also in the same situation. Keep yourself occupied or engaged with interesting activities during the times when it is most tempting. Keep the company of non-smokers for some time i.e. at least for the first 21 days. Above all announce it to everyone that you have quit smoking. Here’s a piece of very good advice: even if you accidentally/willfully take a cigarette, it is not the end of the world – you can start the cessation all over again. You must persevere with the best support until you defeat this addiction. Counseling is very useful in the initial stages and when temptations are at their highest.
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Hello Doctor, I am married for past 11 yrs, we had love marriage though my husbands parents were not happy with and trouble some but my husband and wife were happy but from past 3 to 4 years our relationship is ruining My husband lost all his financial gains and got cheated in business so I work in a pvt firm due to this he has started drinking heavily and abuses me speaks slang language to me and my kids, He was a very responsible and hardworking person earlier but now he has no interest to go for job nor has interest in family he has only interest in drinking and quarreling with me and he also simply suspects me on my character I am sure he is depressed due to his business loss but I have tried a lot to understand him and helped him to come out of that but he does not listen to me or anybody who tells him good Please guide me what to do with him and get him back out of this because he was a very wonderful human being loving an caring husband son and father, Please advise.

L L. B..,, M.Sc psychy,, N L P, P.G.D.G.C, M.S psychotherapy,, M.A child care, M A, clinical psy, M.A,social psychiatry,, M.Phil., psychology., Ph.D .,psychology
Psychologist, Vijayawada
Hello Doctor, I am married for past 11 yrs, we had love marriage though my husbands parents were not happy with and t...
He lost in financial status for that reason he become hopeless and escapist. Better to take the help of your elders. Or his friends. Understand the situation properly. If not possible. It is better to take him psychiatrist. Along with psychiatric medicine it is better to consult psychologist for psychological counselling. You know he is very good person. Because of his mental condition. He disturbed and suspect to you. In this stage you do not develop negative thoughts. Understand his mental status is not good. If he reject the medicine then consult psychologist. It is not done only by you. Better to take his or your elders help. It is always best. Or request him or talk like a friend when he is good mood. If he scolds you do not bother wait for right time. You have chance to win one day. Upto that wait. God will helps to you. Do not develop depression status. Remaining time you better to develop a very good friendly relations in office environment. Ok all the best.
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Mai kisi chij ko jyada sochane lagta hu, Dimag me 3 din tak wahi bat chalta hai aur pareshan ho jata hu, kya karna chahiye?

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
Mai kisi chij ko jyada sochane lagta hu, Dimag me 3 din tak wahi bat chalta hai aur pareshan ho jata hu, kya karna ch...
You have to develop positive thinking and for mind control you can do meditation and yoga which will help
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