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I'm in relationship for last 7 years my gf who now always busy with work have no time to communicate me her entire focus on job only whenever we met only topic of her office there is no intimacy she is not even bothered how am I and no interest in my life it really kills me whenever I try to convey my concern she got agitated. I discovered whatever we communicate it's me who called. I used to pick up from office if she got late she not even bothered to text me for late knowing I am waiting for downside if I asked she fumes very busy not able to text later we have little time 10mn for coffee and meanwhile we only topic of her office work. I felt very neglected lost my self esteem I want to save relationship as I invest lot. Whenever I want to talk about us intimacy love we have fight as she not even wanted to listen I even waited I given her space everything I I did but futile I thought after passing time things going worse. Pl help me what should I do.
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I think she seems to be uninterested in you. It would be a better idea to distance yourself from her for minimum 1 month and gave her time and also to yourself to reevaluate years relationship. You can't force someone to have relationship with you against their will. I hope you understand. After one month you may try speaking with her directly whether she is interested in you or not.
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