Hi doctor, I am confused with my sexuality. What is the best way to understand one's sexuality? If I am bisexual or straight. I like boys muscular body. Even once I experienced oral sex. After that I felt guilty and didn't go for anal. But again after few days wanted someone to cuddle n have foreplay with me. How can I get rid of this problem since it is hampering me and my sexuality. I do not want to turn gay or bisexual. Please help me with the remedies. Help with some great recommendations and if possible am ready to visit doctor near to my place. Please inform me the best Doctor.

Mrs. Upasana Chaddha VijPsychologist7yrs exp

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Dear lybrate-user, Understanding one?s sexual orientation many times is not that simple and clear cut. Labelling yourself as gay, bisexual or straight should not be your top priority. Unfortunately in our society, things are very clear cut gender specific. From the time the child is born, his or her color of clothes, range of toys and household chores are caregorizd according to their gender. So is our sexual orientation. It is forced upon us. You may like girls as well as boys. That would come naturally to you. What you need to know is that no matter who you like, its okay. Accept it as your natural instinct before you want to change anything about it. Also remember that sexuality is fluid and can change anytime. So do not be overwhelmd with your current thoughts. You need to know and explore yourself better in order to understand and accept your sexuality. Like you mentioned in your question, its not a problem. It is a situation that you need to understand and relate to in a better manner. Take care.  

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