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Im 22 years old female im suffering from mental abuse from my own family due to which i m loosing interest in everything that me doing and also me crying at any hr of the day I feel lonely at some point of time and I feel I shud end my life I need help for some medication.

psychologist
Psychologist, Delhi
Im 22 years old female im suffering from mental abuse from my own family due to which i m loosing interest in everyth...
Dear Lybrate user lybrate-userwhen we feel any problem mentally then its really very painful because other than the one who is facing the problem no one can even feel even the 1% of the trauma through which one is suffering. Every single second is painful, In physical sufferings there are many peoples to look after and care but in any type of mental problem only the sufferer has to face every situation. But the end of the life is not any solution ,we get only one life after that we don't know what will happen, what we can do is to live every second of life ,enjoy every moment of life. Lets come to your problem why do you want to end your life? Because some one is abusing you mentally think about it is it really right that some one is not behaving good to you so you want to end your life, tell me one thing if someone is not behaving good to you then what is the fault of your life ,why do you want to end your life. You need medicines along with counselling ,if you need my help you can contact me online I will be glad to help you. This is the time that you should start thinking about yourself, only about yourself ,what do you want to be, what do you want to eat, to do, your career, your friends, your likings etc. Develop some hobby, make some good friends, make yourself busy, if possible you can go to someother place for few days, and with the help of any common relative or any one if possible try to talk to your family and know the problem why they are behaving like this, don't think on this topic ,as much you will think you will get frustrate and will gain nothing, once you become normal then you can analyse the situation and will find the solution But presently you need a break from this situation forget everything for few days and live only for yourself, and this can be possible when you will involve yourself in some other things first start from joining any hobby class and make any good friend with whom you can share everything. Good luck.
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Hi. My self Anil age 25. I regard to ask the question that when I speak my voice will hear like child and in the phone will here like transgender. Because of that I teased by my friends and relatives so any treatment is there to hear my voice as an men.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear Lybrate user. I can understand. Ask a voice coach for breathing and vocal exercises to make your voice more resonant and relaxed. See a speech pathologist or physician for persistent problems such as vocal fatigue or hoarseness. Learn to warm up and rest your voice before and after intense use, such as teaching or coaching. Take care.
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Today been diagnosed with bipolar and now have to stop taking cit and start on new meds so the journey begins all over again and still off work so all in all the mountain summit is getting further away.

C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician,
Bipolar disorder, also known as manic-depressive illness, is a brain disorder that causes unusual shifts in mood, energy, activity levels, and the ability to carry out day-to-day tasks. There are four basic types of bipolar disorder; all of them involve clear changes in mood, energy, and activity levels. These moods range from periods of extremely “up,” elated, and energized behavior (known as manic episodes) to very sad, “down,” or hopeless periods (known as depressive episodes). Less severe manic periods are known as hypomanic episodes.
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I am a 39 year old woman with a 4 years old son. I am a single mother, working as a Director with one of the automotive groups. Normally I am a very happy and easy going but lately I have started loosing my patience on small little things and anger is always sitting on my head. Whenever things around me are not very positive and any of my work keeps pending for long, I completely lose it and feel heavily depressed. Kindly suggest some remedy for keeping my cool and accept negativity with a cheerful zeal.

MBBS, MD (AIIMS, Gold Medalist), Diploma in CBT (UWS, Glasgow)
Psychiatrist, Delhi
I am a 39 year old woman with a 4 years old son. I am a single mother, working as a Director with one of the automoti...
First of all, let me congratulate you on all your achievements and for your courage and strength. Single mother with four year old child and director says volumes about the strength and resilience of your personality. Your current problems most likely represent an impending depressive episode. Please make sure your thyroid levels are normal. Also make sure hemoglobin is normal. In any case you will probably need safe antidepressants like escitalopram or sertraline under medical supervision. Few more details that I will need are whether you have any other medical or psychological problems, and whether you have family history of bipolar disorder? Remember, DEPRESSION IS NOT A SIGN OF WEAKNESS, IT IS A SIGN OF HAVING TRIED TO REMAIN STRONG FOR TOO LONG! Take care!
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I'm jawaid 25 years of age, sir please tell me how to make my mind sharp and concentrating. Please prescribe me something. Thanks.

BHMS
Homeopath, Faridabad
Hello, take Bacopa monnn.1x, 2 tabs twice daily. Do meditation for half an hour in the morning daily. revert me after 1 month.Thanks.
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I am suffering from anxiety disorder/panic attack, and it is 8 months now I am taking medicines, I just wanted to know is there any permanent cure for anxiety/panic attack?

Hypnotherapist, DCS, BSIC, Advanced Trainee of Transactional Analysis, Advanced Skills in Counselling
Psychologist,
I am suffering from anxiety disorder/panic attack, and it is 8 months now I am taking medicines, I just wanted to kno...
Along with your medication, you will need to develop an ability to manage stress without feeling too anxious or panic. Thus you can learn through counselling where you will find new ways of thinking which will leave you feeling more confident and in control of yourself and your situation. Thinking positively and realistically is very important. If you don't know any skill for eg. You work in an english speaking organisation and you are not fluent in the language then learning to speak and write in english will help you feel powerful, in control and confident. Exercise everyday for 45 min to increase your confidence levels. Natural neurotransmitters are released which make people happy and confident about themselves. Avoid junk food and have healthy well balanced meals which are good for body and mind. Include lean protiens, eggs, fish, fruits, vegetables and walnuts in your daily diet. Take care.
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I can not control my anger. Even in case of small small things I got angry and want to die. I got totally mad if things can not go smoothly. I think what I want I should get and if this will not happen I can not control my anger.

BHMS
Homeopath, Faridabad
Hello, take Nux vomica 1M , 5 drops , single dose and Chamomilla 200 Ch , 5 drops , once daily. Take Kali phos 6x , 5 tabs twice daily. Revert me after 10 days.
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I am 77 years old. I have led a healthy life. I was smoker but quit smoking 25 years back. I am a severe case of COPD For last 5 years. I am taking one puffs daily twice a day of Salmeterol.

PGFCP, PGDEMS, Bachelor Of Ayurvedic Medicine And Surgery
Ayurveda, Satara
I am 77 years old. I have led a healthy life. I was smoker but quit smoking 25 years back. I am a severe case of COPD...
Hi if you can follow few basic things then you will get better results in short period of time, 1) drink only 100-150 ml of lukewarm water during meals, 2) don’t drink water one hour before meals and one hour after meals, l 3) avoid oily, fermented and stale foods, 4) drink lukewarm water regularly as possible, 5) sleep upto 10.30 pm, 6) do anuloma viloma pranayam regularly early in the morning, 7) avoid cold things, intermittent eating, heavy foods, contact with dust and pollen grains, day time sleeping, A) TAKE 20 ml of ginger juice with 1 tsf of jiggery before meals, B) take 2 tablets of SWAS-KASA-CHINTAMANI RASA, early in the morning on empty stomach along with 1 tsf of honey and ginger juice, C) take ½ tsf of lavanbhaskar churna after meals, Do all these things for 30 days, gives you good result. THANKS.
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I am facing lots of problems for imaginary and thinking so much due to I am not Concentrate at book.

MBA (HR), D.Sc, MS - Counselling and Psychotherapy, M.Sc - Psychotherapy
Psychologist, Pune
This is anxiety problem. Whatever you think, take each thought separately and see the value of it. If useful, go more in detail. Otherwise leave that thought. I recommend you meditation.
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Sir, How to cure the depression? Will we be able to avoid medicine after cure? Is there any place to consult in Palakkad, Kerala?

Masters in Clinical Psychology
Psychologist, Lucknow
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How to cure the depression? Will we be able to avoid medicine after cure?
Is there any place to consult in Palak...
Hi, Feeling down or blue is a natural part of life. People let us down, things go wrong, we lose people we love or the dreams we've valued. When feeling down stretches over weeks or months, is occurring frequently and interfering with your ability to interact with people and enjoy your life, it is likely that you're experiencing some form of depression. Provided that you're able to access information and have a good doctor and support network around you, even severe depression is a highly treatable condition. Along with medication psychotherapy from psychologist is a important adjunct. Firstly, you will have to make few lifestyle changes: Sleep well. Sleep is essential to a healthy, balanced body. Lack of sleep can aggravate negative thinking and easily becomes a vicious cycle whereby your negative thoughts keep you awake and disable your ability to get enough sleep. Waking unrefreshed and feeling tired is a common complaint during depression, and even too much sleep can leave depressed persons feeling tired. Breaking this cycle requires enforcing a strict sleep routine of the same bedtime and waking time every day, avoiding caffeine and alcohol, not exercising three hours prior to bed, removing anything distracting from your bedroom, and keeping your room at a suitable temperature. Exercise releases a natural anti-depressant chemical in your brain and gets you into doing something active. Start small with a simple walk to the local store or around the block, or to your garden gate might be the way to begin. Gradually work up to a routine that fits with your needs and enjoyment. Look for friends or group exercise sessions since having a partner will keep you more motivated. You can also look for activities that will allow you to release some of the pent-up emotions that may be built up, such as kickboxing. Playing sports is a great way to get regular exercise, stay occupied, focus on self-improvement and meet new people. Some studies have found that people who participate in sports have somewhat fewer symptoms of depression. Choose a sport that is exhausting to quiet the chatter in your mind and leave you feeling wrung out—just don't overdo it. Join a team or class in your area and commit to showing up to as many of these meetings as possible, even if you may not feel like going some days. Eat healthy. Reduce your intake of sugar, high fructose corn syrup, fast foods, and processed foods. Eat more fruits, vegetables and whole foods. Drink plenty of water and do some research on foods that are said to improve your state of mind and well-being. Improving your diet can be a positive project to keep you constructively occupied and focused when you're working through your depression. Plus, many healthy foods are effective at improving mood Talk with friends, family and colleagues who make you feel good and who are good to be around. Spend time with people who see the world in a positive way and ask them to share their visions, ideas, and approaches to life with you. Most positive people will be more than happy to reveal the things that help them keep upbeat and happy about their lives. Learn from them. Remember that misery loves company. It can be incredibly hard to keep away from negative people as down and out as you're feeling, but do your best to avoid them. You won't be doing either of you a favor by confirming each other's fears that the rest of the world is terrible. Keep occupied. Being busy is a way to prevent negative thoughts from going around your head repeatedly. For depressed persons, the first step is often the hardest, so making yourself do things can be a huge difference in your day and getting you started Start a journal of your journey through your depression. Document your feelings somewhere personal and completely private. This will be the place where you let out your darkest thoughts — no holds barred — because you don't need to worry that anyone will judge you for them. A diary can become your collaborator in the struggle against your depression because it eventually provides you with great evidence of what improves your mood as well as what brings it down. Try to write in it daily if possible. Change your thinking. As part of progressing, recognizing and defeating negative thinking patterns is a very important aspect to concentrate on. Cognitive behavioral therapy, psychotherapy, or other forms of psychological therapy are helpful when you're unlearning negative thinking and establishing patterns of thinking that support your self-esteem and increase your self confidence. While it is best to read up in this area and speak with someone qualified to help guide you through the ways to change your thinking, there are some important things to keep in mind. Acknowledge the feeling will pass. This can be a very difficult step, but it's vital because it helps you to start banishing thoughts of hopelessness. List all of your good points. When you're depressed, it's easy to understate the positive things about yourself. Turn this around by listing everything that is good about you. Include achievements from the past and hopes for the future, however few or random they may seem. If you can't write this list, have a trusted friend or family member start one for you. This is a list to keep building upon as you work through your depression. Self-acceptance is a vital part of recovering from depression because you acknowledge that there are good things about yourself, but also that you have challenges to overcome. This will help you stop judging yourself more harshly than anyone else. Make decisions, however small, and act on them. Again, while this is very difficult to do during depression, it is a vital element in facing the sense of helplessness that tends to overwhelm depressed persons. Small decisions like getting out of bed, calling friends, or cleaning up the kitchen all add up. Once you act on them, they become achievements. Learn how to replace faulty or negative thinking by focusing on it. Ask questions such as: Am I assuming the worst? Am I condemning myself because something bad has happened? Am I focused on my weaknesses rather than my strengths? It is helpful to arrange the negative thought in one column and a rationalization in another column, so that you can confront and undo the negative thinking. In one column you may write the thought" I'm a failure, and in the other you challenge that thought with" I made a mistake. I've made mistakes in the past and things have turned out okay. I've also had many triumphs. Learn assertiveness techniques once you've challenged the harder aspects of your negative thinking processes. Assertive techniques will allow you to find a pathway to standing up for yourself without giving in to feelings of anger, fear, or powerlessness. Knowing how to assert yourself is an important part of not falling back into depressive patterns in the future. Remember, Always keep yourself busy, or doing something positive. Sitting alone, or thinking about all the bad events in your life without expressing them to someone is going to make your depression worsen. Also pratice yoga or meditation. All the best. Consult psychologist for psychotherapy. It can be cured if you finish the full course of medication and do the above continue to do the above to avoid relapse. There must be a place to consult in your city.
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My father is drinking alcohol continuously and takes gutkha. Also gets tensioned and anger. He's takes sugar and pressure tablets regularly. How to cure my father? Please give any solution.

MBBS, MD - Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Mumbai
Alcohol dependence is associated with significant physical, mental and social problems. Physically, there can be liver failure, jaundice, vomiting of blood, passing blood in stools, stomach ulcers, damage to nerves of the body, swelling of legs, fluid collection in abdomen, and many more. Mentally, there is irreversible brain damage, worsening of anxiety or depression, triggering of psychosis and mood disorders, dementia, etc. From a social point of view, there may be isolation from neighbors or family, increased abusive behavior to children or spouses, legal problems, accidents, etc. Anti craving medications are available which will help to reduce the craving. Consult a psychiatrist with experience in deaddiction. Also focus on his blood pressure and sugar. Ensure all medication is taken as prescribed.
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I am having anxiety problem for last few days. I feel like suffocated and sometimes have problem in breathing. Also I feel like blood flow in legs has stopped and a different kind of feeling (anxiety) is developed due to that and which. Please help me with this problem as I am not able to do any work.

MBBS, MD - Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Mumbai
I am having anxiety problem for last few days. I feel like suffocated and sometimes have problem in breathing. Also I...
Tremors, feeling anxious or nervous, sense of panic, sweating, increased heartbeat, feeling of impending doom, stomach discomfort, dizziness etc are signs of anxiety. These can be debilitating. If the anxiety us overwhelming, consult a psychiatrist at the earliest. With the right medication and counseling, it is likely your symptoms will improve. Other than that, try yoga, deep breathing, meditation, moderate exercise, progressive muscular relaxation and guided meditation.
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My father facing a breathing problem for past 3 years. He used to smoke from his child hood, hope for 20 years he is smoking. Now he stopped it. Since a chain smoker can't leave it he is taking half citrate per day. I need to know is there any diet regarding respiratory problem He is taking daily montelukast sodium and levocetirizine hydrochloride tablet. Company Montek Lc. Kindly suggest what could be done.

PDDM, MHA, MBBS
General Physician, Nashik
Please try to avoid exposure to smoke, dusts and air pollution as much as possible. A nutritive diet rich in vitamins & minerals including anti-oxidants is very important to support immune system. I would also suggest you regular breathing exercises which help you in a long run.
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I am 25 years old and feel totally detached from everything primarily because of a change in my lifestyle 3 years back where I have seen people very different than me. Since then I want to be like them. Rich, smart, confident, etc. But because of this I am losing my focus, interest, have become indecisive, have lost confidence even more. In a way, I have taken life for granted and I do not care about anything. My love life sucks, so does my work life.

BDS, Certification in hypnotherapy, Certification in N.L.P, Certification in Gene and behavior, Psychology at Work
Psychologist, Gurgaon
I am 25 years old and feel totally detached from everything primarily because of a change in my lifestyle 3 years bac...
Goal is misery. Psychological goals split you into two, what you are and what you want to be. There is great amount of unrest in this. If you wish to be rich, draw a line and work for it single pointedly and you will get there. The problem is so many desires at a time. Love life also may suck as there has to be what should be in the relationship. Remember life is always in present, not in future. So what you are is imp. Not what you ought to be. Take care.
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I feel really depressed when I loose something and my head started paining and water started coming from my eyes.

MBBS, MD - Psychiatry
Sexologist, Mumbai
I feel really depressed when I loose something and my head started paining and water started coming from my eyes.
Dear lybrate user. Here I need clarification that whether you have been like this by personality or you have become quiet sensitive since some days or months. If I consider you to be like this since childhood than there is nothing to worry. Every person when looses something close and dear to him feels terrible, its just the expression or external behavior which is different. Every person on this earth is different and we all fall on a range of personality traits say for example from extroversion to introversion. This range for a person is predecided by the genes he is having and getting expressed, while exactly where a person will fall is decided by his upbringing that is the environmental factors. So everyone is born with a rubber band personality traits which has a range to which it can be stretched but the exact stretch is decided by his upbringing for the initial 18 years. There is nothing wrong to be sensitive or anxious when there is a significant event like a loss of something close to you. You rather accept it as these are normal human emotions. But if I consider that this is something new happening to you since a while say few months, than for sure you have some underlying depressive illness which needs to be evaluated. For further queries get in touch. Take care
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How to reduce negativity and imbibe positive thinking

MD - Psychiatry, MBBS
Psychiatrist, Hyderabad
How to reduce negativity and imbibe positive thinking
How to reduce negativity and imbibe positive thinking

These are some basic steps that many of us know but forget to think when in emotional distress sometimes. I am collating that for a quick recap.

Thoughts constitute an important part of one’s life. Those thoughts can be favourable or unfavourable. For a few people, those thoughts are unfavourable most of the times. They often keep thinking about the negative outcomes of a work. Their friends and people around them who keep hearing the same will also start wondering if that work can ever be successful. To come out of such situations, it is better to follow a few basic steps.

1. Do not speculate that that something might happen and start looking at the facts. Never come to a conclusion without any proof.

2. If an untoward incident happened in the past, don’t think that it will repeat itself again. For example if you have failed in an exam, it doesn’t mean that you will fail in every aspect of life.

3. Stop worrying about what is not happening and start focussing about what is happening. Many of us have faults in our thought process. Because of that, we tend to forget about the favourable incidents happening and only worry about those that didn’t happen.

4. Don’t spiral any incident out of control. For instance, if you call a friend and if she didn’t answer it, it doesn’t mean for sure that she is not interested in talking to you. If you are thinking like that, it means that you are also worried about petty issues. Inculcate patience. Just leave a message to your friend and forget that incident and start looking at what other better activities to do.

5. Lot of people keep saying that they are not intelligent and that they are not fit for anything. If you think like that, your results will also become the same. So, stop thinking like that and perhaps start thinking that you have some weaknesses and you have other strengths that will make you fit for several other activities. There are no 100% bad or 100% good people in the world. Don’t speculate forever about what your weaknesses are and talk to people around you to understand what they think about you.

6. Emotional thinking in negative circumstances can lead to lowering your self confidence. Instead of generalising that you are unfit, it is perhaps that you are unfit for a certain task or at a certain time only.

7. When problems occur in one’s family, you may think that you are the reason. Instead of blaming yourself, look for a solution and solve the problem. With the outcome, you will feel better.

8. When you hear remarks from someone, do not treat it as untoward attitude towards you. Everyone makes mistakes and you have committed a mistake which is not an anomaly. All that you have to do is to learn from the mistakes and try to not repeat such mistakes in future. It will not help to reminisce about the mistake forever.

It is highly important to realise negativity. Immediately after, think comprehensively about the issue analysing the facts and try to mitigate your negative thoughts. Try to talk to a friend or a family member or a counsellor to help you reduce such ill thoughts.
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I am not being able to focus properly. please help how to become focused in a noisy place.

BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear, You must be able to understand Concentration, attention span, recollection and distraction. If you are able to watch a movie for two hours continuously, if you are able to play a game for an hour, then you do not have any concentration problems. You can't be attentive towards your studies because you are not interested in it. You are able to watch movie and play game because you are interested in it. Human cannot be attentive towards anything for more than 10 minutes. Then you should study in such a way that your attention is continued and make the subjects are interesting to you. Effective learning techniques should help you. Recollection depends on anxiety, stress and other physical and circumstantial factors. Distractions while studying are plentiful. You should be able to overcome distractions or avoid distractions. Please understand the above. Change your study style and attitude accordingly. Please post a private question to me and I will help you with "effective learning" techniques. Avocados, Beetroots, Blueberries, Broccoli. Celery, Coconut Oil, Dark Chocolate etc are good for improving concentration. Take care.
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Doctor what should I do to quit smoking, I am very much addicted to smoking my condition is too bad now as I cannot move a day without smoking a cigarette. Please help me doctor.

Masters in Clinical Psychology
Psychologist, Lucknow
You have to build a quit smoking plan. Learn some techniques and tips. The right food and activities you need to inculcate in your routine. Avoid smoking triggers. Triggers are the people, places, things, and situations that trigger your urge to smoke. On your quit day, it's best to avoid them all together. Here are a few tips to help you outsmart some common smoking triggers: throw away your cigarettes, lighters, and ash trays if you haven't already avoid caffeine, which can make you feel jittery; try drinking water instead hang out with non-smokers; most people don't smoke, so you should have options go to a place where smoking isn't allowed; unless you want to break the law, you won't light up get plenty of rest and eat healthy; lack of sleep and too much sugar can trigger you to smoke. Do not worry, where there will there is way! for any queries or detailed plans consult me. All the best:)
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I slept fir 3 hours in 2 days and now I am feeling tired and my body is paining and still I am unable to sleep.

MD - Psychiatry
Psychiatrist, Chennai
I slept fir 3 hours in 2 days and now I am feeling tired and my body is paining and still I am unable to sleep.
Your sleep disturbance needs to be evaluated, you need to be taught sleep hygiene, if no results you may need not sleeping pills, but some pills which promote sleep naturally increasing sleep neurotransmitters, like melatonin. One needs to sleep between 6 and 10 hours average is 8 hours, surely you are way down, get checked
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Sir what is happening with me I can not understand if I talk with any person I get fear and my conscious say he is judging what he will be thinking about me in my mind it starts point of view of others please suggest me something.

B.A. Psychology, M.A. Psychology, Ph. D - Psychology
Psychologist, Delhi
Sir what is happening with me I can not understand if I talk with any person I get fear and my conscious say he is ju...
Dear Ranjit The fear that people are judging me generally occurs when we have very low self confidence. You will have to practice some relaxation exercises , breathing exercises and have to monitor your self talk. We are all the time talking to ourselves. Most of the self talk is telling us 'how we are incapable' 'what people are thinking about me' etc. Question yourself - how many times you think about what people do ? No one has the time to think about what others are doing . If someone comments on you all the time, such people should anyways be avoided- because well meaning people appreciate also . Indulge in positive thinking and surround yourself with people who are positive and encouraging.
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