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Honeymoon Impotence - Best Treatment to Manage It?

Written and reviewed by
Dr.Malhotra Ayurveda (Clinic) 91% (19553ratings)
Vaidya Visharad
Sexologist,  •  58years experience
Honeymoon Impotence - Best Treatment to Manage It?

Honeymoon impotence is quite common in orthodox societies where pre-marriage sex is considered more or less a taboo. It is a common scene in such areas where newlyweds arrive at a sexologist’s cabin, complaining about their inability to perform sexual intercourse on their first night. The idea of First-time sex itself gives goosebumps to most men and women. All the anxieties and worries can lead to either male’s erection droop or a female’s vaginal contraction.

Cause of Honeymoon Impotence

In most of the cases, Honeymoon Impotence occurs ignorance and lack of awareness form the basic reason behind honeymoon erectile dysfunction. Especially in societies where sex education is not that common, it is likely that men and women are even unaware of common sexual positions.

Family pressure, fear of displeasing the newlywed partner may get so overpowering that it may lead to erectile droop among men. Failure in the first instance may also create psychological pressure on the couple and as a result, may lead to a series of honeymoon impotence problem.

The more the man is frantic to perform, the more are the chances that his erection shrivels. Similarly, the woman can also suffer from vaginismus. This is a condition in which out of anxiety and fear, the vagina of a female contract so much that the penis can’t penetrate. All such scenes must be handled with patience and by consulting a sexologist before things start getting worse.

Honeymoon Impotence Treatment

For the management of honeymoon impotence, a person needs to understand these 3 things, sex education, mutual understanding between partners and control negative thoughts.

  1. Education is bliss: The first and the foremost remedy is educating oneself about male and female genital parts, normal sex positions which are easy to carry out, etc. A brief illustration with the help of any video before performing actual sex may prove quite fruitful.
  2. Mutual Stimulation: It is not advisable to get obsessed only at penetrating the penis inside women’s vagina. The newlywed should first prefer to get comfortable with each other while making love. Try to find pleasure in the sexual act rather than ruining things by getting anxious at the inability to penetrate at the first instant. The couple can also try masturbating each other. The male can make the female genital parts familiar to his penis by bringing it near to the vagina. Some sexologists even advise making use of sex toys like vibrators so that female vagina can get used to infusing the penis in it. Even some prescribed erection-enhancing medicines can solve your case.
  3. Master your Brain: In most of the cases, it is the brain that plays the trick. So it is better not to hesitate. Share all your anxieties and worries with your partner. Get comfortable with each other and do not let the psychological factors to control your sexual act.

Patience is definitely a deciding factor. Give time and open up with your partner and this will help in abating all your fears.


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