why FOREPLAY should be the most important part of your sex life

Why foreplay should be the most important part of your sex life

It is no gainsaying that for most men in this parts, sex involves getting an erection, jumping on the woman. humping about and roll off to sleep, even before the woman is yet to enter second gear.

Most men think about sex and have an erection, but for most women, wanting sex is not enough. For them, foreplay serves a physical and emotional purpose, helping prepare both mind and body for sex.

Many women need to be kissed, hugged, and caressed to create lubrication in the vagina, which is important for comfortable intercourse.

It's particularly important for women to have successful foreplay because it takes a woman a longer time than a man to get up to the level of arousal needed to orgasm.

Foreplay also helps the clitoris fulfil its "O" so important role. It has the same characteristics as the penis.

What is foreplay?

Foreplay is that delicious lovemaking you do before you move on to intercourse itself. It is especially important for women to get their vagina's wet and slippery, and to get them ready for real sex.

Know the hotspots

During foreplay, do not focus on the penis and the vagina only. Every person has different hotspots. And stroking, kissing, nibbling or licking those hotspots feels amazing and is a real turn on.

Try the nipples, the neck, ears, back and buttocks. But everyone is different, so be creative when you explore your partner's body. Maybe your partner likes having the armpits stroked or feet played with, so you can work on these extra-sensitive spots.
And keep exploring – don't rely on the trusted hotspots alone. Surprise your partner by going to unexpected places. Now that's a turn on!

Mix it up

Nothing is more boring than doing the same routine every time. Deep kiss, hand on breast, some stroking of the penis, and that's it. Instead, be creative! Try different things! Tease your partner with your touch, your lips, your mouth. You can even use some props, like feathers or gloves.

Use some lube for new sensation. Keep an eye at your partner's body language to find out if they like what you are doing. If they do: keep going. If they don't: try something different.

The key is not to make it boring and predictable. Keep surprising your partner, that's the key to amazing foreplay and great sex!

Don't think that foreplay only happens in bed

Foreplay doesn't have to begin only once the two of you are horizontal. Foreplay can start much earlier. It can start with a deep, longing look into each other’s eyes, with a not-so-accidental touch or with a demanding kiss.

Even flirting and teasing with words can be part of foreplay. And we don't just mean dirty talk. Letting your wife/husband know you are attracted to them and would like to make love to them can be very sexy and a huge turn on.

But just as with physical foreplay, watch your partner's reactions. If what you are doing and saying makes them uncomfortable, stop! And if they like it, keep going and enjoy the foreplay!