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Sexual Life For Better Relationship!

Dr. Dhananjaya BhupathiAcupressurist • 56 Years Exp.BSc.,(public health) , M.D. (Alternative Medicine)
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Many couples all over the globe have been suffering for want of children/male or female baby of choice. Here is a time tested remedy.

HOW TO BEGET A MALE/female CHILD PER YOUR CHOICE? HOW TO FIX INFERTILITY?
Out of 50 cases, who tried the following techniques, had 38 children of their choice, including 5 recent couples from the US, had 5 male babies, as desired.

1. Refrain from having sex during the 4-5 days before ovulation because this will help to build up your partner’s sperm count. Have sex as close to the ovulation as possible, preferably on the day of evaluation because it is the time the woman is most fertile. When Y sperm is released just prior ovulation, they are quicker and will reach and fertilize an egg sooner than their X counterparts are able.
2. The alkalinity of the “egg white” cervical mucus available before ovulation is the best vaginal environment for Y sperm to survive. Having sex as close to ovulation as possible is advisable because Y sperms are less able to thrive in more acidic conditions.
3. Because during the female orgasm alkalinity is increased, Dr. Shettles advises having an orgasm before or at the same time as your partner if you want to have a boy. Also, the female reproductive system shrinks during and after orgasm, which helps the way of the Y sperm to the egg.
4. When the sex position is concerned, Dr. Shettles recommends doggy style or other position that allows deep penetration. This places the sperm deeper in the vagina and nearer the cervix, in an alkaline environment and where the Y sperm has less distance to travel.
How to conceive a girl:
This is what Dr. Shettles recommends:
1. Unlike the previous tips, if you want to conceive a girl, have sex as much as possible on the days before ovulation but the refrain for 2-3 days before and on the day of ovulation. Sperm can thrive for up to 6 days in the female reproductive system and by the beginning of ovulation, the tougher X sperm will remain to fertilize the egg.
2. Have sex in a position for shallow penetration, like the missionary because it pushes sperm lower in the reproductive system where the environment is less alkaline. This environment is unkind to the Y sperm and gives the X sperm a further path to travel.
3. If you are trying to conceive a girl, women should abstain during the fertile period because the female orgasm increases the alkalinity of the vaginal environment, making it more kind to Y sperm.
Many people don’t believe this theory because there is no concrete evidence that proves it.
Additionally, if you try Dr. Shettles timing method and haven’t conceived after a couple of months try having as much sex around ovulation as possible.
However, if you prefer a gender, try Dr. Shettles’ timing method which is not too problematic if you already know your fertility signals and know your ovulation period.
 

HOW TO GIVE BIRTH TO A HEALTHY CHILD? NO SEX AFTER 3rd MONTH PREGNANT MOTHER.
I’ve seen more than a hundred cases of Muscular Dystrophy, Autism, Down Syndrome, delayed milestones and several other brains + spinal cord affected children.  The common cause being all these pregnant-mothers had to enjoy free sex within wedlock even after 3rd-month pregnancy. When a fetus takes full shape by the 3rd month, Coitus, after 3rd-month pregnant mom, creates severe vibrations within the mother’s womb affecting brain & spinal cord of the most vulnerable and growing fetus. However, fingering is permissible with ’no vibrations in pregnant mom’s uterus. 

WHY SHOULD A GIRL GET MARRIED BEFORE 28 YEARS?
 So that pregnancy is a smooth process. 1st Pregnancy must be before 30 years. Lest the muscles in the pelvic region get solidified and may result in abortions restricting the FREE mobility of fetus in the offing.

IMPORTANT TIPS FOR A HAPPY MARRIED LIFE, 
“Marriages are made in heaven”-William Shakespeare. 
Physical beauty, bad shape, color, creed/caste/religion/race lean/fatty/stuffy bodies are irrelevant. Chemistry, mutual love & affection, emotional balancing/understanding are prime requirements for a happy, married life. 
Husband & wife relationship ‘not only physical beauty’, which gets wane away by the aging process. The couple must recreate & procreate. It is a pious relationship. Artha Nari Eshwer!!! 
I saw a couple at Nellore [AP-India]; need not to be in every case, who was the most handsome & pretty. For want of emotional balance, ultimately, they committed suicide.
In inter-caste/religious/racial/lingual marriages, remarrying divorcees/widows/widowers---If the couples live in tandem with each other peacefully, they can as well produce genius mindsets to rule the world. Why, because, their rare genetic codes shall be marvelous. Such marriages are worth trying, subject to one’s own wisdom. If the couple fights regularly, in the presence of children, the growing children may develop split personality + perverted mindsets to turn into hardened/incorrigible criminals.
If you love each other, no issues crop-up. Both of you must note each other’s merits & defaults. Try to rectify or learn the art of bearing, if you love to bear with it or not. 
No ego clash. If the husband has one default & he is incorrigible, the wife must absorb/accept as inevitable. Vice-versa. If the wife is an egoist, all decisions must be left to her only. He must bear with her ego, as a way of life, vice-versa. If hubby is a chatterbox, the wife must be a good listener and vice versa.

In one town, one couple was selected as the best couple in the town. 
Journalists inquired. 

1. Sir, who selects her saris/dresses. Ans. She selects her own dresses. Why should I interfere with her own taste?
2. Sir, who selects your dresses?  Ans. My wife selects all my dresses. I believe in old maxim ‘EAT TO SATISFY THYSELF & DRESS TO SATISFY OTHERS’. I leave the decision to her on such silly issues.
3. Sir, on what issues you have a choice? Ans. I take my own decisions on casting my vote in electing President/PM/MP/MLA/Municipal Chairman. Poor chap, unknowingly, he surrendered all his rights + privileges; but enjoyed a very happy, peaceful & decent marvelous life. The more intelligent person shall adjust more to the life partner.
4. INFERENCE: All decisions are taken by his egoist, intelligent, shrewd & sharp wife. When he accepts, willfully & happily whatever she proposes, ‘NO ISSUES’-“ADJUDGED THE BEST COUPLE.” 
5. LIKE THIS YOU MUST ADJUST TO EACH OTHER, TO LEAD A HAPPY, HEALTHY & MARVELOUS MARRIED LIFE. 
6. IF BOTH LEAD IN UNISON WITH EACH OTHER, THE GROWTH OF OFFSPRING SHALL BE ZINGALALA!!! THE OFFSPRING SHALL BE WELL-POISED, PEACEFUL GENIUSES. 
7. When humans are skin hungry, couples must touch each other’s body parts, whenever/wherever feasible.
8. If the wife is more qualified/ earning more salary; the husband must justify his dominance on the bed.
9.  Sex is a Sacrament. It is the communion of the highest kind. It is communion with life at its virile best. But above all, it is communion with the Lord who created human bodies for other purposes than the reproduction of the species alone.
Sex is tapping the deep flowing rhythms of the universe. It is uniting with the same power which turns the earth in its orbit, pumps sap to the top of the tree, sets the stars at night, moves water down the river, brings two hearts to stand one day and read life's meaning in each other's eyes. In this phase of marriage, you are actually tuning in to the creative processes which are far greater than ever man might have done on his own.

In case you have a concern or query you can always consult a specialist & get answers to your questions!
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