Foreplay - Are You Doing It Right!

Engaging in conversation and 'dirty' talk often improve communication between you and your partner, leading to reduced stress levels, and thus more pleasurable sex. Taking your time during foreplay is also advisable, as it will increase levels of arousal for both parties, thus allowing you to have a better time.

Research has suggested that while engaging in sexual activity, men get erections within the first few minutes itself, whereas women usually tend to require a greater amount of time to get sexually aroused. Hence, it is essential to engage in foreplay. This allows for proper lubrication that is required to engage in pleasurable pain-free sex for both partners. However, it is advisable not to stretch foreplay out for too long, as it may get monotonous and have an opposing effect. Identifying an optimum is crucial in this regard.

It is crucial for you to spend as much time as you can in the stimulation of almost each and every erogenous zone present in the your partner's body, including the neck, penis and scrotum (for men), breasts and clitoris (for women) etc. This can often turn out to be very beneficial in the sexual arousal of your partner, thus increasing the odds of achieving orgasm.

Foreplay can start much before actually getting together with your partner in bed. This may include deeply looking into your partner's eyes, whispering something into each other's ears or just an intimate skin-to-skin contact. This will lead to the strengthening of the relationship between you and your partner and allow you to engage in more pleasurable sex.