Ways To Deal With A Passive Aggressive Person!

Passive aggressive behavior is when a person has a history of underlying anger and frustration but is not able to express the same. They are not able to be honest, and so turn up with passive aggression. This can manifest as behavior where the person consciously avoids doing some activities, acts hostile, is critical and stubborn, and does not comply with others demands by procrastination. For confirming if a person has passive-aggressive behavior, there is often a history of physical and/or social abuse.

There is no single answer as to what causes passive-aggressive behavior. Most cases have the cause deeprooted in their childhood, which could include neglect, abuse, aggressive family, harsh punishments, etc. There could also be a history of substance abuse which can later be manifested as passive-aggressive behavior. Passive aggressive personality is not very straightforward to diagnose and treat. However, deep-diving into the person's history can often provide insight.

Most cases of passive-aggressive behavior have their reason originating in their childhood days. This could include a variety of reasons including abusive childhood, unhealthy family dynamics, sexual abuse in childhood, punishing parents, etc. These get suppressed and later manifest as aggression which is passive. The person does not come across as an aggressive person but manifests the aggression by constantly refusing to do things, turning hostile randomly, etc. Symptoms of passive-aggressive behavior can mimic many other psychiatric issues including attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and bipolar disorder.

The answer is more 'no' and less of a 'yes'. While definitely medical help is required to confirm the diagnosis and get to the root of the issue, often social support is what ensures treatment is effective. The person needs to get rid of the issue that led to the controlled aggression, and once that is done, it would be easy to let go and come to terms with reality. Encouraging the person to be honest and if required being assertive is the key to managing passively aggressive people.