Researches and studies have indicated the one and only gospel truth that you just need a good sexual drive to be good in bed. All other factors are actually irrelevant. Sex is about your potential to carry on under the sheets. Now many are conscious that they are overweight or obese and won t have a good time in the bed. But they are massively wrong as obese people do have sex and they maintain a healthy sex life. Share your insecurities with your partner so that the entire process is smooth and pleasurable.
What are the factors that determine the body weight?
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Your weight is not the testament of the fats accumulated in your body. It is not always about obesity. You maybe working hard and lifting in the gym but your body weight remain the same. This is because your body carries the weight of your muscles and bones and your organs. The more you workout the more your muscles are going to be heavy. So it is a fact that greater body weight does not mean that you are obese. Check your Body Mass to be sure of the fat in your body.
Weight does not matter as weight fluctuates.
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The weight of a person is not a constant quality. It changes from time to time. The fluctuation of weight is so common that basing your sexual life on that factor is really preposterous. You will find no strong relationship based on superficial pillars like weight. Moreover, there is a high probability that the partner you are with right now will gain weigh in the future. So, does this mean you stop caring for that person? This is why weight doesn t and should not matter in bed. Love the person for their qualities and not because they are thin or muscular.
Your weight always reflects your health.
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Well it may be true for some cases, but it is not true at all times. An ideal weight on the scale may not be an ideal reflection of that person s health. There is many a case where a person heavier than their normal range has proved to be much healthier than the one within the range. So, going on a crash diet and heavy gym for looking good in bed may not be a preferred case as it may make you unhealthy. Keep your health under constant check up.
Intimacy is more important than weight.
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Intimacy promotes the sexual drive. So if you are in a sexual relationship with someone you aren t intimate or acquainted enough with, then that is obviously going to impact your performance in bed. So, don t blame your weight for that. Many overweight people are rejected mainly for having no intimate factor in sex. Choose your sexual partner carefully.