What are some common causes for lack of enthusiasm for sex in a couple?
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Those who got into a relationship thinking it is all about having someone to have sex readily would usually be in for a big surprise after a while. The daily routine takes priority and the person who seemed exciting is no longer the same. These usually put sex on the backbench, and it often becomes a chore than something that was fun and exciting. Keeping sex life alive takes some conscious effort from both partners, but is easy and very much essential for the health of the relationship.
What are some tips to excite the man during sex?
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There are many ways to excite your man in bed. One way is to dress up differently, either change your entire costume or hair-do or accessorize. Even a different scent could do the trick. Try something that you have not done before, like dirty talking to get you both in the mood. Try different touches and explore each other s body before acting jumping to the act. Sex is not just about the main sex organs; it could be a lot more exciting and fun provided both are game for it.
What are some routines to keep the sexual excitement alive?
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While sex is often thought of as something that begins and ends in the bedroom, it need not be the case. Doing things like dressing up differently, watching an adult movie together, and having sex in a different set up like a massage parlor can add to the spark. This ensures the ambience is different and so is the mood. Both the excitement and fun can change. While one person could be more open to trying different things, getting the other person comfortable is equally important.
Sexual excitement only comes from sexual organs
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As they say, it is all in the mind. There are various things that can seem totally asexual which can add spunk to the sex life. Touching areas like the front of the neck or the lower lip in a man may never be thought of as provoking, but they are extremely exciting spots. They are equally exciting and arouse as much as the foreskin. Different things work for different men, so find out what works for your guy.
Sex need not always begin and end in the bedroom
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Get the house for yourself once in a while. Walk around in the house freely and you can turn it into a place for sex. This can be exciting and will not make it boring and mundane as it always is. You could spice up the place with aroma oils to add to the mood. Dancing or even cooking together can add to the excitement. And, it need not be limited to the house, a garden or open area can be equally exciting too!!
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