Honeymoon Guide For An Arranged Marriage!

With marriage out of the way, the next big thing that comes a couple’s way is the honeymoon. A lot of planning goes behind it, right from the destination to the budgeting to the shopping. But a lot goes unsaid about the most important aspect of the honeymoon – the intimate and private time spent by the couple.

Honeymoon in an Arranged Marriage
The pressure of marriage is immense. You must look best, be your best self, appease one and all and pull off a great extended show in front of anyone and everyone you knew, know and will know. The honeymoon is a much welcome respite after such a tiring and demanding itinerary. With the hullabaloo dying down with the sound of the aeroplane engine as you leave for your honeymoon, here are a few tips that would help you cuddle in a bit more with that unexplored special someone.

1. Set the mood on honeymoon! – It might just get awkward at the beginning. Face it. Take it slowly. Choose a nice view of the sea if you are a beach person or a valley if you swear by the chills of the mountains for your honeymoon. A little soft music that does not interfere with your flow of thoughts, scented candles that flicker and emanates a soft and warm light, and a slightly tipsy mind does the trick like nothing else. Small talk about how you felt when you first saw your partner and slowly surrender to your senses.
2. Dressed right for the night – Watching her getting dressed? Don’t just sit there, help her. She shall feel good about the one who helps her dress up and when the time comes, let him undress her too. This could get you lucky that night.
3. Love Chocolates – Order for a chocolate dessert after a romantic dinner. Chocolate, apart from adding an amazing flavour to a number of sweet dishes, is also an aphrodisiac. It helps in increasing libido and sexual desires. Avocados, oysters and honey also produce similar effects in the body and could be a part of your date dinner.
4. Talk ahead – Unlike traditional arranged marriages these days couples do talk and have the opportunity to interact in advance. After having spent a considerable amount of time together, discuss the topic of physical intimacy, preferences, inhibitions and others so that you can scoot in comfortably into each other’s comfort zone with more ease in your honeymoon.