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G spot in women

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Dr. Nitin SangamnerkarGynaecologist • 33 Years Exp.MBBS, MD - Obstetrics & Gynaecology
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You should know that orgasms can help you to reduce stress, make you feel great, well and feel and it can also help you to improve your skin. But, the majority of the women consider the orgasm which is achieved because of the penetration which is as equally elusive as that of the mysterious G spot in the women. 

It is very uncommon for a woman to get the orgasm only through the intercourse itself, only the minor 18% of the women are said to be achieving this feat of orgasm only through penetration which suggests that there is no application of hands, toys or mouth. Most of the time, you will benefit from this orgasm at the time of sex only if the clitoris of the woman is stimulated properly.

When you have not experienced this orgasm it does not mean that you are never going to experience this. Some of the women believe that this G spot is the key for achieving this orgasm at the time of penetration but it is a proven fact that vaginal orgasm does not even exist and it becomes really hard for normal people to differentiate between the fact and the fiction.

What do you understand by the term G spot?

You must have heard about the G spot and how women think that this is the key for them to achieve a very intensified and body shaking orgasm but to think that this even exists is debatable and really complicated. The G spot which is also known as the Grafenberg spot was introduced to the world by a doctor named Dr. Beverly Whipple and she was able to discover this by using a motion which was said to be 'come along' in her words and this motion was done along the inside of the vagina which then led to the production of a physical response in the body of a woman. 

After she discovered this she began to think that this might be the key for a woman to be achieving the orgasm during the time of sex. You should be aware of the fact and know this clearly that the G spot is not a distinct and individual part of the anatomy of a woman as there have been so many attempts made to find and locate this but all these trials resulted in empty trials only.

In spite of getting its own separate identity or location in the area of your vagina, the G spot is actually a part of your clitoral network and in the actual practice whenever you are trying to stimulate your G spot you are actually stimulating various parts of your clitoris which is so much bigger than we are told to believe. 

In order to understand you should know that the pea sized nub where your inner labia is meeting is only the tip of your clitoris which further divides into two distinct roots that are about 4 inches long in length. Along with this the region that you are considering is said to be varying a lot from one woman to another so, it becomes really difficult for anyone to locate this and when you are able to get this G spot stimulated you can feel the female ejaculation coming out and this will lead you to feel the orgasm as well.

Finding the location of the G spot?

This is a very tough and difficult task for a person to find and locate the G spot and the job becomes tougher when the spot is not available or marked on the map of the human body. The job is tough but it does not mean that it is totally impossible and finding the location of this g spot becomes much more easier for a woman, when she is going for self exploration rather than trying to locate the spot at the time or partnered sexual activity. 

When you are trying to locate this G spot you should first relax yourself and your body and as you start to explore the body of yours, you need to try those things that you feel is best for you. Whenever you feel that you are ready, you should start massaging the opening of your vagina before you try to insert either your fingers or any kind of sex toy. 

As soon as you put in your finger or the sex toy, you should be lifting them towards your belly button and you have to do this in the come hither motion and you should also remember the fact that you are not trying to get to a specific button instead you are trying to find out what is best for you in that general area or region of the vagina. 

You need to repeat the motion as you start to feel that the sensation has started to build and as it grows you need not focus on the in and out movement instead you are advised to completely focus and be attentive to that area. 

There are several erogenous zones in a woman and the preference of a woman regarding the erogenous zone can differ a lot from person to person and as far as this orgasm is considered you should know that there is no right or wrong way to orgasm and it follows the same not one size fits all trend. 

You should also consider the fact that not all the women are going to get satisfied with the stimulation of their G spot and this is said to be completely normal and when you are masturbating you should know it is totally normal and can be considered as a healthy part of any kind of relationship. This is said to be a way of self exploration and when you are doing this you can know about your preferences and when you know about yourself you can instruct your partner about the same and can enjoy doing sex by getting what you enjoy the most.

The best sex positions for the stimulation of the G spot: 

When you are thinking of getting your G spot stimulated at the time of intercourse you should know that you can try certain sex positions that can help you to achieve it very easily and can work out best for you. You are suggested to try those sex positions that will allow you to control the movements at the time of intercourse and will help you to figure out what kind of stimulation you are going to enjoy the most.

There are so many sex positions available that you can try to experience the best stimulation of your G spot but given below are the best sex positions that will help you to stimulate the G spot the most:

  • Cowgirl
  • Doggy style
  • Closed missionary position 
In case you have a concern or query you can always consult a specialist & get answers to your questions!
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