7 Sex Mistakes Men Make

"Women think and feel differently about sex. You need to know a little more about your woman to make sex enjoyable for both.

Men, you must avoid these 7 blunders-

1) Sex begins in the bed: For most men, sex is plug and play. Women are not cut that way, arousal for women is not so quick. Do some fun activities together, and show you appreciate her. It is important to build on closeness by hugging, kissing, and holding hands. A long hug can does much more than you can think. Hugging for 30 seconds stimulates oxytocin, the hormone in women that makes them feel secure. Feeling secure in the relationship is important for a woman to feel up for sex.

2) You can plan it well: Do not assume that if your plan worked the first couple of times or more, it will work the next time as well. What turns your woman on varies with her mood, and how she is placed with her monthly cycle. Her body can be more sensitive at certain times more than the other. Try different things and when you find something that works, linger on it. Women often complain that men move on to the next thing just as they really start to enjoy an activity.

3) You know it all: It is common for women to fake an orgasm to make it feel better. So, if she's not enjoying herself, you might not be aware. Do the talk and ask her how she feels. Let her guide you to a beautiful experience for both.

4) It is all about physical stimulation: You must go beyond your idea of foreplay, it is not just physical stimulation. You must not ignore mental stimulation. While physical stimulation is enough for men to get turned on, it is not the same for women. Women feel and fantasize a lot. Appeal to their fantasy or share a sexy memory.

5) Assume that intercourse gives her an orgasm: Majority of women do not get an orgasm via intercourse alone. Reson being most sex positions don’t directly stimulate the clitoris. Figure out ways that work for her. To help her hit the high note when you do have sex, a good foreplay is important. The closer women are as you begin the intercourse, the more likely they are to have an orgasm.

6) Seduction is not required: All women like to be seduced. Seduction is where is all begins and a deciding factor. You must know the trick, for it is different for different women. The idea is to convey to her that she is desirable.

7) Focus on going inside: Most women need clitoral stimulation to get an orgasm, but it's not as simple. More so because of its anatomy. Its nerve endings spread throughout the vulva and inside the vagina. All make for potential pleasure points which are worth exploring.

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