Why Boredom Occurs In Relationship?

Need to remember that the things that attract you today about your partner are the same things that you will hate about them in 3 years’ time. What used to a sweet voice becomes a noise. What use to be a spontaneous romantic behaviours becomes irritation. After a serious relationship of two or three years, the romance is bound to reduce. My nature we always look for new or changes or difference in things around us and absence of such in relationship will cause boredom.

So how to overcome such boredom?

Try to make small changes or difference in your lifestyle and behaviours to revive the relationship regularly.

Keep an element of surprise alive. Surprise your partner from time to time in a variety of way gifts, vacation, treats, favourite stuffs etc

Share each other’s joy. Your spouse should be the first person you want to share good news with.

Verbalize your loving feelings. Change the words or text or nick name after certain periods

Step out of your comfort zone together. Try something new and accept success and failure together.

Go back to basics and start something from scratch to get a new experience from old things.

Frequently change the place of togetherness like restaurants, resorts, outdoors place etc.

Give equal importance to sexual wellness and intimacy to keep the relationship healthy.

Non sexual touch is important. Hug, holding hands, massage- these small actions can boost relationship.

Spend time with friends or couple who are successful in relationship. Don’t ever ask ideas from someone who is already suffering from relationship issues.

Work on your yourself first before fixing partner- relationship satisfaction is tied to personal satisfaction first. Start loving yourself first.

Discuss and plan your dreams and goals together. Keep an open and fair communication channel.

Don’t hesitate to ask for external help. Talk to friends or take marriage counselling when you can’t fix the relationship.