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Last Updated: Jan 10, 2023

How to deal with Break Ups?

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Dr. Vikas KhannaPsychologist • 24 Years Exp.BDS, Certification In Hypnotherapy, Certification In N.L.P, Certification In Gene & Behavior, Psychology At Work, MA ( clinical psychology)

Hello, I am Dr Vikas Khanna and today I will be talking about Breakups and how to move on from Breakups.

This has been surveyed that people who find difficult to move on from breakups are those who have typical memories call bias. They just recall all the good memories of their past relationship. They get stuck in that happiness and that is why it gets difficult for them to move on.

Relationships and breakups are equally common. You move in a relationship and you move out of a relationship.

Today, I will be telling you a simple NLP exercise through which you can move on very quickly, very easily within few days.

Every breakup has a reason, has an issue due to which you and your partner move out of a relationship. But the memory we call bias prevents you from moving on as your subconscious mind is fed with only positive memories and it is considered as something valuable, something missing.

I will tell you a simple exercise. Just recall all the bad memories including the reason for the breakup that could be a verbal abuse, a partner cheating on you and so many other arguments as well. Just compile them in a sequence. Close your eyes and play a movie in the sequence in your mind, one after the other. Just feel the emotions that you had at the time of an argument, at the time your partner cheated. Just visualise that, play it like a movie. The time it is done, just freeze the last scene and paint it white. You should remember that you should be focusing on all the bad memories you had in your past relationship. After you are done, just repeat it 3 times with a complete feeling of emotions which you had, you have "enough is enough" kind of feeling and your subconscious is trained to move on to happiness elsewhere which you did not get in your past relationship.

I wish you a good luck.

If you want to contact me, you can do so through Lybrate, you can even call me or send me a mail.

Thank you,


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