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Parent Child Relationship: How To Deal With Children?

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Dr. Vinesh ChandramaniyaPsychiatrist • 19 Years Exp.MD - Psychiatry, Diploma in Psychological Medicine-DPM, MBBS Bachelor of Medicine and Bachelor of Surgery, Post Graduate Diploma in Sexology, Certificate Course in Sex Therapy and Counselling
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Being a mental health professional it hurts when we can't prevent suicide. Today's world is a virtual world. Rather than real one we all live in virtual world and virtual relationships are getting stronger day by day rather than real face to face relations. In today's so called world of technology. We forget to obey certain basic rules. We are present with our family/child physically but not mentally. We don't give them a quality time it's not quantity but quality that matters.

We have become insensitive to basic trivial issues of them because we don't listen to them. We take all things for granted we just want to give orders, and want our child to perform always well. We expect all good from our child and when he/she undermine our demands we treat them like anything we compare them with others and by doing dat we force them to do something which is out of there reach and we fail to unreveal there potentials and ability friends we hv to understand dat each human being is a special.

We can not blame schools they will follow what syllabus is telling them government should relook in to d syllabus and make it more acceptable for children's. We can't eliminate stress as it is inevitable...but we can make our child more receptive and resilient to situations and for which spiritual inclination is must:
1) give them Unconditional love and positive regard 
2) make them realize about yr availability and presence( sense of security )
3) do listen to them, be more receptive.
4) try to solve there problems
5) empathize with them
6) appreciate them
7) learn to tolerate 
8) nurture your child
9) be sensitive to there issues..
10) make them realize that you are always der with him/her
11) understand them
12) take a break (outing/holiday/leisure)

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