Actually you r supposed to clean your penis properly during bath daily after removing skin from the glance of the penis. Normally a secretion which keeps the glance of penis lubricated, gets dry n you after removing it at bed time cleans it so you feel some relief. It is unhygienic way of cleaning. Keep it clean as told above, you may feel relief.
There might be multiple reasons why she is not interested in sex. Consulting a clinical psychologist will definitely help since it will involve multiple sessions of therapy to understand the situation to give proper guidance and help.
Every person is different from other in terms of physical appearance, physical needs and satisfaction. Happiness and Orgasms are feeling i.e same level will be perceived as overwhelming by one, satisfactory or low by other. So don't bind your feelings to comparision with others. Talk to your partner regarding what you want bcoz you never know this may be in his mind also. Take out every pre notions from your mind and go with the flow you will defintly enjoy.
A standard medication for PGAD doesn't exist. The condition is treated with everything from anti-neuralgic medicine usually prescribed for Parkinson's disease, to, in some cases, Botox injections. The symptoms can be calmed, but not cured, and the permanent frustration can have severe effects on mental health.
MD-Ayurveda, Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine & Surgery (BAMS)
You may be suffering from Urinary tract infection due to sex. It can be treated effectively with herbal supplementation. Tee tree oil and Aloe Vera are helpful for infections and is known for its healing effects. It can be applied topically to relieve itching or taken internally or used in a douche. Barberry has potent infection-fighting properties.