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5 of your biggest sex problems tackled

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Dr. RahmanSexologist • 32 Years Exp.Bachelor of Unani Medicine and Surgery (B.U.M.S)
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5 of your biggest sex problems tackled

We have been bombarded with dozens of mails from our readers wanting to know more about different aspects of sex and other sexual acts. While it is impossible to answer them all, we will tackle the most commonly asked ones.

Here are 5 top sex questions you guys asked.

How do I last longer in bed?

A whole lot of mails have come from men who will like to last longer and maintain their erections in the bedroom. While we have published a lot of articles on the subject, you should also keep in mind that certain factors might cause you to have issues staying hard;

Too much alcohol before sex.

Regular smoking habit.

The age factor (the older you get, the more likely you will find it hard to keep from cumming too early).

Psychological issues (you can lose your erection if you are unattracted to your partner, stressed out, etc).

Why does sex hurt?

A lot of women have emailed us, wanting to know why they have painful sex and what they can do about it. Not enough foreplay, vaginal diseases, wrong position (where the penis hits your cervix) and birth control pills could be the culprit

Why is she not freaky enough?

Some men would love to be with a woman who is willing to let go in the bedroom. They want someone who is freakier in the sheets and can pleasure them. The easiest way to get her to be this way is to make sure she is comfortable with you.


Always compliment her body and let her know how sexy you find her. Tell her you to love her just the way she is and all you want to do is to be pleased with her. Do not outrightly criticize her because this will cause her to retreat into her shell. If she does something you find hot, no matter how little, let her know you noticed and you thoroughly enjoyed it. This should encourage her to keep trying

Why can't I orgasm?

They wonder why they cannot seem to get there. The one tip we share with them - and you women out there should take note too - is to know your body. You cannot cum if you do not know what makes you cum. Men can tell you what position or move makes them cum. You should be able to say the same too.

How do you do this? masturbate. Take a few minutes to know what feels good without any pressure to perform. Masturbation is all about you so take your time, touch yourself and have a blast learning about your body.

Why doesn't oral feel good?

So your man has tried time and time again to eat you out but you are not feeling it? well, this is very likely because he is not that good. A good oral will make your toes curl, no matter what. So, it's time to have a good talk with your man. Make sure he avoids most oral sex mistakes (like using teeth, ignoring the clitoris or being too rough) and take things slow. The vagina is extremely sensitive, do not let him attack it like a dog in heat. He should start slow and gently increase pressure as you prefer. Give him feedback when he is doing it right so he knows what to focus on

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