Thank you doctor. But how can we overcome this feeling regarding watching romantic videos like that. Can you please explain to me. Actually I am good sensitive person, help to all. But this is only my weak point. I am more worry about this. please help to come out this feeling. I am not happy for this feeling.

Dr. Mahesh DocherlaGeneral Physician16yrs exp

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Why are you worrying? It is completely normal. Why do you want to overcome it? Everyone has sexual feelings and almost every male watches porn. They just do not say it out loud because it is considered a sin in all religions in our country and they feel women will think bad of them. Then you start feeling guilty and then you start having emotional problems and psychiatric disorders. It is not a sin to fantasise. If you think, a normal healthy human being has control over his thoughts, you are mistaken. He has only control over his actions. Why do you think movies have item songs? Aren't they erotic or romantic? Aren't a majority of women and men watching them? Even women watch porn nowadays. The problem here is with your beliefs are unrealistic and that is what is causing you emotional anxiety. If you are not doing anything wrong or harming anyone, then why do you want to feel guilty about or stop it.  

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