My wife is not happy because she think that I do not understand her but from my side I am trying my best. Acc to my duty schedule I stay with her 35 days in 2 month. Acc to her she need emotional support from me but I do not knew how should I do. Becoz as I start trying something she says that it will not work even before I started. Me myself got demotivated. When we stay together we always fight but when I went on duty she need me there. When I stay with her she says that I am with her But I am Not with her. She thinks that I need only sex from her. Yes I need sex but not only sex I need need her love n I want to give her love but my 100%(according to me) is 10% of what she need. She says that she need only emotional support and love and she should feel that I am loving her But I do not know how to do it. This is the root cause of our problem that when we stay together we fight and when we stay away we need each other. Pls guide us so that we can live happy married life.
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Hello lybrate-user, It is very clear that you care for your wife and wish to improve your relationship with her. You mentioned that you spent 35 days with her but how did you spend that time. Did you care to share your time to do things together that could make her happy. Women like small things. Just a simple compliment, a flower, an outing with her can make her appreciate your actions. Your sex life too will get better by pleasing her in small ways and she will make you very very happy. Be kind to one another and the quality of your relationship will definitely get better.
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The question you asked is pretty difficult to solve by texting. Basically there is absolute lack of bonding between you and your wife and that has lead to misunderstanding. Proper communication is the key to quality solutions. Make an effort to have quality one to one talk with her in an atmosphere of peace and joy. If you can not handle all this then avoid feeling frustrated and connect me directly via this platform either in person or online/Skype. A relationship coach, marriage mentor and expert sexologist needed for both of you because here both of you are right as well as wrong. That's how the relationships are. Move on connect me if you really looking for great marital and sexual relationship chemistry.
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