Hi I am Hari, I masturbate a lot and for the first time I had sex with my newly wedded wife I came too soon and didn't get a proper erection, is this a problem? If so how should I deal with it?
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This is the initial response to sex, especially if you are sleeping with a woman for the first time. Over some further experiences, you will gradually be able to delay ejaculation. Further, if you do masturbate a lot, you will get very excited with heterosexual contact because that is more wholesome and complete. Sometimes, if you had a second round of sex, within half an hour of the first, you will have a delayed ejaculation and will probably give your wife a more stimulating encounter. The erection problem too is a result of early experiences with a member of the opposite sex as compared to the pleasure from self-stimulation when masturbating. If you worry yourself too much, this can continue to trouble you. Explain all this to your wife and she will be patient until you stabilize.
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