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My friend nikita. She's 28 and has a male best friend since 6 years. They knew each other since childhood, became friends through Facebook, exchanged their numbers and they both became good friends. They started talking everyday and also had long conversations at night. Then one day, when they were having their usual talks at night, her friend said something to her that only people in relationship say or do. Nikita thought that he's kidding and didn't respond and the guy slept. Next day again they spoke as usual and the guy gave this reason that he slept unknowingly last night. And he behaved like he don't know what happened yesterday. Nikita thought he might be sleepy and have said that, so she did not say anything to him. But this continued. Nikita already had a crush on him since childhood. So now when he said the same thing to her she couldn't stop herself and started responding. Nikita was in a dilemma that may be he likes her. But they never used to talk the same way during day time. So this went on for 6-7 months. Then one day the guy said to her that he likes a girl and he started describing that girl. Nikita thought that he's talking about her but unfortunately she was not that girl. Nikita has till now never asked him why he said her all those things and why did he said those 3 words to her when he did not mean anything. And the guy behaves the same like he used to during the day times (as if nothing had happened last night). Finally now the guy is with some other girl and my friend still thinks that he has a habit of talking in sleep. She is still thinking why did this happen. She keeps on asking this question to herself that was she in a relationship with someone and they broke up or someone (her best friend) made fool of her. And is it possible that someone can say the same type of things in sleep everyday till 6-7 months. They are still friends. He moved on in his life but my friend is not happy. She can't sleep at night, doesn't like to talk to anyone, doesn't like to eat, cries often, doesn't like to go out anywhere. Also she was a case of scoliosis and now she has operated. Due to post operation she can't be busy in other activities. Also she has suffered a lot from scoliosis. Please suggest what should she do now. Thank you.


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