Hi. I want to know that sometimes I feel very isolated and alone and feels like nobody wants to talk to me and be with me. Further, I am afraid of loosing people whether friends /loved ones so I always feel scared and always my dear ones go away from me left me alone ,same is the case in my love life. As I am very shy and reserve kind of person people used to maintain distance from me after sometime. I wanted to know what is the problem in me that people left me and maintain distance from me after some time. Why only I feel scared of loosing my loved ones and why not anyone feels scared of losing me. I am upset with all these questions and do not know what to do. please help and guide me what is the problem in me.

Dr. Bevin SPsychiatrist11yrs exp

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You have described your nature as a person to be shy and introvert towards others. A person who is usually shy and fearful to get into relationships can have these symptoms like interpersonal issues and low in confidence towards relationships. Well trying to be outspoken, sharing and understanding mutual problems may be the way forward for any successful relationship. Kindly consult a psychiatrist or a clinical psychologist who can definitely guide you through. Be relaxed stay healthy. 

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Ms. Juhi ParasharPsychologist4yrs exp

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Hi lybrate-user, there may or may not be a problem with you, I can not judge you by few lines that you have written. It could be that you are shy and introvert but you need affection also, so what happens you expect other people to be around and give you attention which you enjoy but may be in return you are not able to give them that much, so your efforts are not very evident and it may give impression to others that you are not trying or not interested but you are its just your personality is introverted im sure the right people stay in your life. Consult with me for counseling and therapy. 

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