Have got to know that my wife whose age is 47 had a extramarital affair with a man from an another religion, in my family I got two children and one daughter in law, other son's is in a age to get married, we both are always a in a bad term, even our health conditions are not good to have a good relationship but had happen to hear a voice clip in which my wife talks like a normal girl talking to a boy friend neither scared or afraid of God, nw she came to know that we came to know about the relationship, was saying to the other man that she is not afraid and do not care how her own family thinks about that including us was just worried about that person what would happen to him, now my question is how deeply will it effect our relationship incase we handle this in a tough situation, what is the best way to make things better, as we don't want to lose her or defame our family's name.

Dr. Sushil Kumar S VPsychiatrist13yrs exp

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Good ​Morning, Some of the things that you mention in your problems are interpersonal. They need to be dealt with in therapy session or in counseling with a therapist. A psychiatrist can help you with the sessions and it might take a while for healing and many sessions. I believe that you should consult a psychologist first to make sure you are understood and also make the effort to visit with a psychiatrist. If you believe that you need medications for symptoms regarding your own mental health and are comfortable with online consultation I can certainly help. Look forward to hearing from you. If you need help with booking an appointment online with me on this website either text, audio or video appointment for confidential and private consultation you may do so by contacting the help desk of Lybrate. 

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Dr. Ashwini VivekSexologist27yrs exp

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It is apparent that she is unhappy about some thing in the family and wanted out .or she just wanted to explore .why some one decides to have extra marital affair is very hard to imagine. It is best to let things cool down now. Decide what you want from her and if you do not want to lose her and just keep the home environment normal and calm. Do not show reactions and do not start a blaming game. If she finds home atmosphere welcoming she may want to come back and settle down with her life as usual. 

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Talk directly with your wife is alway better, but before opening a conversation you should be prepared mentally to not be burst out, Coz these topic will have blaming issue s, first of all you can take appointment online with psychiatrist before opening such conversation and your health issues can also be addressed. Private consult are also available on Lybrate. 

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